how can u say i love you....

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in a day—

give me a break!!! thats not love... thats LUST.....

This aries is sooo weird we've met twice and hes already said 'I LOVE YOU' like a million times ( OK thats an exaggeration but hes said it loads)

he was telling me yesterday that he cant sleep with a girl unless hes in love with her and has strong feelings for her...yaaaa right.. he can fall in love in a day.....

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I think the sharp distinction between a girl and a woman is that women realistically know when a guy is playing.

than im a woman coz i know all men around me are players...

and brandon when i say there arent trustworthy guys around me i MEAN it... u have to come out here and see for yourself... u will agree with me...



If a guy can ALWAYS keep your attention, he is more than likely just telling you what you want to hear.

i totally agree with you on that.. we are all different people and a guy doesnt have to be entertaining 24/7....there are days when we're all boring 😛.. i am boring i admit it coz there are days when i dont feel like talking and just do my thing 🙂
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Are there actually men who you refuse to go out with?

YES... alcoholics...druggies, self-righteous, downright selfish, flirty, bossy men...


he can only present himself, it is up to you to be attracted to him.

Brandon the sad thing is that real men are often shy and dont ask you out and all the crappy guys are super confident coz they've mastered their skills...


you are too idealistic.

NO im NOT....



I would suggest you get a job, and talk to men there.

good suggestion... see i always said older men are wiser and better then college students and u always disagreed 🙂

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why cant i trust anyone especially men— i guess thats coz i've never seen a good example my whole life.. all men around me are soooo pathetic and shallow...

Same her Eliza 😢 I feel you on all of this -- I had so terrible male influences too. I can't really bring myself to trust a man because I never really saw a decent example of one when I was younger. While Older, I've seen at least two ... but that's it 😢 However, I still have hope that I will find someone I can marry and settle with.

Hahaha, I guess I became more realistic about men as I got older ^_^. AHAHAHAHA!!!! Which was like five months ago!!! Hahahaha, my my how soon we change.

As far as that Aries man is concerned, I wouldn't even give him the time of day anymore. Anytime a man says "I love You" out of nowhere in such a short amount of time just means she is trying to sleep with you -- a very well-known Virgo man told me so 😉

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This thread is interesting. My parents are annoyingly still in love with each other, probably more now that us bratty kids are out of the house. They met, fell in love and decided to get married in about 6 weeks. Growing up in a house like that makes me feel very lucky. (Dad is a scorpio and my mom is a cancer.) However for a long LONG time I didn't believe that anything would happen to me.

However the cheerleader part of my brain still believes in true love. There are two guys who could still interest me and I've dated them both, a capricorn and a pisces. Then there is the guy who asked me out last week. We have to believe that we're going ot be happy and not let all those self doubts and self destructive behavior that comes from insecurity ruin us aqua chicks, yknow? When I read about the male Aqua's being players and all, I have this eery sense of 'I get why he would do that if the girl was too much too soon.' All these things cause me to doubt myself.

If the guy is saying he loves you all jokingly then so what? Don't take it seriously and hit the ball back in a joke. Now if he's serious and using it to get you in bed, then be wary. Otherwise just make sure that you are happy yourself. Besides we aquas like surprising people right? So if he's saying 'I love you' in a joke, step it up a notch in a joking way. Shocking him can be equally fun for you, no?
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"im 100% sure im never gonna get married...."

Eliza, are you familiar with the term 'self fulfilling phophecy'? It's where you believe something so strongly to be true or predict something that you begin to influence it to actually happen.

I'm guilty of this at times...just be cautious with men and pick out the good apples and leave the rotten ones on the ground!
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Saying I love you a thousand times a day turns me off. I'm like "Shut up"
Actually if it was expressed early, I wouldnt doubt him as long as the reactions went right along with it. I wouldnt say I would express it back, I would have to observe him and come to my own conclusion. Not the conclusion of what the conventional world believes I should feel or think. Saying I love you 4 years from now means I could have said it the very first day we met. It was destined to happen anyways. I see it that way.
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So, I know I would rather walk away than admit I am wrong some times. Just to prove a point

How stuborn are you?

Would you walk away in an arguement or would you press the other person till they give?
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Which type of relationships are long term lasting...ones which are heavily influenced by the heart or ones which have a heavy tilt towards the head.

My opinion would be it begins with the heart but long term winner would be the head...

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flex
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What's your weirdest/strangest food combination that you like to eat that others see as odd?

Mine is a sandwich with just mayo...no ham, no cheese, just bread and mayo.
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So my so called aqua girl and I broke up weeks ago.

Ever since then, as some of you know, it's been very confusing trying to know and understand what I needed to do or not do to make things work again.

The last time we talk, I tried to
VirgowithalittleLibra
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Cheack out this little lady:



That's Jo Brand in case you haven't heard of her but what with all your intricate and intensive research I should say you've encou
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I lived w/ an Aries for two years. To make a long story short. Last time we really spoke I packed all my clothes, left all the furniture and moved out. Payed rent until found someone to take my lease. Attempted to remain friends but typical Aries ways
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OK, today my girlfriends and I were discussing the topic of playing hard to get. Do you think people really do this? My thoughts were that if you really liked someone, you wouldn't risk them walking off frustrated cause you played it just a little too h
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I spent the whoooole weekend with mr.aqua man and i noticed (quite often) that he would tell little white lies. They weren't sinister or cruel..just stupid and he kept tripping himself up with them. I told him in a humerous way that he was a liar and he s
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Okay, my friend needs a co-signer in order to get an apartmtent. He doesn't have the best credit but my is clean.

I'm not familiar with the pros and cons when it comes to co-signing for an apartment. No, I won't be living there with him ;) Heaven
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Tell me what word is replaced with the word "love"


Dang this sun
Dang this day
And I?m just trying to stay out of your dang ole? way
The heck with this
The heck with us
Shoot if I ever look back on where I?ve been
Sho
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eliza0012
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The thread that Brandon created ... it's gone! Why :( ——??
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"but is it true that most people have studied it? is it true that most people really understand and have tested it?"

Nope, but I'm sure that if it was proven, there would be many would-be-capitalists making money off of it, by constructing many s
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