Head or Heart ?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by flex on Saturday, September 2, 2006 and has 17 replies.

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20 Years

Which type of relationships are long term lasting...ones which are heavily influenced by the heart or ones which have a heavy tilt towards the head.

My opinion would be it begins with the heart but long term winner would be the head...

what say Aquas?

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I don't think the head and heart are mutually exclusive, but that one influences and impinges on the other. So you might reach a though about someone inspired by the heart or alternatively you might mentally analyse someone and their words, actions and behaviors and then come to feel an uplifting in your heart for them.

So my opinion is that it is 5 of one and half a dozen of the other. In other words, heart and head are both at play in almost everything we do or say and the relationships we engage in. The indicator of whether a relationship will last or not depends more on the sincereity and lack of bullshit with which we base our actions and bahaviors. So in a sense the less negative manipulation by the head will make for better relationships.

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Yeah and then we had it off!! HAAAA joke joke

No since yuo were away giving birth we didn't have an ref to regulate our verbal punch ups so since you're back I s'pose we'll be resuming our series of stete a tetes shortly!

Are you calling him Jaden then? Did he weight much? What do your other kids think of him?

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*** gasps and falls on the floor ***

AHHHH!!!! IT'S GL! Hey Mama Love πŸ˜‰

You came back a week after I did, what's shakin' ? Yeah that's a healthy baby boy, but he's going to reqiure plenty of milk πŸ˜›

Well, there were a few interesting things:

1) Yes, more users trying to get info on Aquas πŸ˜‰

2) Branh created a very sweet thread πŸ™‚

3) US and Prime had a disagreement that resulted in a big mishap -- but I won't go into details because it's complicated girl ..... :-/

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@cappysweetie
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You can't read it GL 😒

It was deleted by DXP because of the disaggreement ......

but if you want, go to the capricorn board and read the thread "Mr.B and Me" -- it's about the day we met πŸ˜› The thread that Brandon created was his outlook on what happened, but you can read my point-of-view if you want πŸ™‚

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@cappysweetie
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Okay GL,

If it were me, I'd prefer to KNOW what's going on, but that's just me. If somethings wrong, I want to know what I can do in order to take care of it alonf with all prevention info needed.

I say the rest of my opinion after you reply to this one ....

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@cappysweetie
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I so understand why you are concerned GL, that sort of thing runs in my family too. So now I started being more cautious of certain things to do and what I take into my body. I would want until you wean the baby before getting checked but I would definitely do it right away.

Prime,

New smilies have been addedβ€”?? COOOOOLLLL!!! πŸ˜› I just need to learn the commands in order to use them.

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hey GL congrats again on giving birth for the third time to a healthy baby and taking it all in your stride which I'm seeing has come to be the hallmark of how you go about everything. Don't worry about the biopsy thing. It could be that you're getting bulges and lumps because of your milk ducts filling up.

So is Jase cooing and bessotted by his new baby sonβ€”