How can you tell if an aqua is interested in you?

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shylibra
@shylibra
19 Years

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1)If they are not really interested (yet), then they will ask you questions and probe your psyche and try to figure you out, yet reveal very little of themselves...nothing of depth anyway. Then they will probably move on..................or marry you.


2) No, actually you can tell, because they will be receptive, they will make time for you, they will joke and tease you, they will do weird things to get your attention, they will smother you with attention...or ignore you...or tackle you.

Okay so you wrote the above: I belive my aqua is doing the question thing, he asks questions yet does not reveal about himself unless I reverse the question on him. I have found that we are similarities.

But then on your second resoponse the does not make time for me as he says he's busy with getting a new job (understandable hes a coach has to plan out thing and practice) but then again he jokes around with me and teases me, (sometimes I feel he's being mean by the things he says, maybe i'm too sensitive) yet I know he's joking, the weird thing you said, so true. At my work one day he went into my deparment after our first date and he practically shouted across the office in spanish "good morning (my first name) and waved, I thought that was wierd. He does not ignore me at work, in fact he looks until I make eye contact with him and then says hi.

So now what?

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feelingfishy
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19 Years

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Until I read this forum I finally understood why it takes an Aqua so long to say anything about actual dating. Since I'm a Pisces, I can practically memorize all the wonderful/'awe' things my Aqua guy does. What do you think?

1. I ignored him, then he started to ask me random questions...
2. We became friends because (LOL) he asked if I wanted my horoscope
3. He started to tease me like coming up behind me to play with my hair, tapping paper on my head, pinching me...
4. I started to notice back... and then he ignored me a bit. (I guess that's Aqua usual)
5. I actually have had a boyfriend that he never knew abot. When he found out he had a load of boyfriend jokes for me, like "You're cold. Where's your BF so he can give you his jacket?"
6. During X-Mas, we had a truth/dare game and he was dared to sing me a song. He sang a song in an all out performance in front of everyone at the party.
7. During a party, he was a bit drunk and sitting next to me on the couch when he placed his arm around me. (I was verrrrry happy, but sadly it didn't last too long)
8. I get tired of his hot/cold and started to ignore him again...
9. But then he starts offering to walk me home and we become closer with more in-depth talks. He started telling me about his family.
10. I get really sick and he shows up to the hospital twice and brings my fav food. After I get out of the hospital, he continues to take care of me.
11. He actually started to seem more interested once he met my mom.
12. He started to buy me dinner on occasions randomly.
13. When we cross the street, he puts his arm around me in a protecting manner. (AWWWW)
14. He remembers some of things we've done in the past that I don't remember. Basically, because I ignored him for 2 months straight.
15. When we are in a room alone, he can't just sit and talk to me. Instead he paces aroudn the room corner to corner.
16. When I start to ignore him, he tries to catch my attention by doing stunts for me.
17. Random office jokes have lead us to become "best hidden relationship" etc - everyone pulls the joke about how much we like each other.
18. He keeps a mix cd I made for him in his car and listens to it a lot. Even though I made is a year ago.
19. When we're alone together, he will randomly start singing to me.
20. We'll brainstorm pranks together or talk in Spanish so only we understand.

So what do you think? Is he into me? Or not? Is there anything I can do to progress it more? I'm pretty patient,