CuoSara
@CuoSara
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How much time does Aquarius need
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Stop pestering him. If you waited more then things could have potentially already been restored. So stop now, give him what he wants, time. Stop all communication. Putting pressure will never make someone want to spend time, time and distance will.
Yeah if you push Aqua like that they won’t respond well. From his point of view his schedule was a mess and he was making time for you as best as he could and you threw a tantrum. So when you walked away he let you because he couldn’t give you what you wanted, but it also put him in s position to look st is it worth the stress. If you demand too much of them or push too much on a decision the will retreat further and further. Everyone deserves what they want find that in someone else. If you still want him I would apologize then give him space. It may be over or maybe he will come back in 6 months. Either way you lot this bridge on fire and danced in the flames sus. But at least you now know you need more from a person and can find what you really want in someone else.
Thank you all, l know that done it wrong way but l want to be with him and try to be patient. He said to me yesterday, l told you, don’t push me.. my last message to him said that if he wants to say anything to me lm here, so l hope l made myself clear that all is not lost .
Posted by CuoSara
Thank you all, l know that done it wrong way but l want to be with him and try to be patient. He said to me yesterday, l told you, don’t push me.. my last message to him said that if he wants to say anything to me lm here, so l hope l made myself clear that all is not lost .
🤗🤗🤗 it can be rough. Hang in there and keen yourself super busy ❤️. He will need time and then a little extra time just out of pure stubbornness, but you won’t be reminding him of the good things about you if you continue to react out. I would say don’t even check on him after that last message. Let him come to you. I get it girl all I attract are major Aqua, Cap or Scorpio placements. Aqua is my 7th house and my north node.
Posted by dillweedPosted by Wildd_FloPosted by dillweedPosted by Wildd_FloPosted by dillweedPosted by Wildd_FloPosted by dillweedPosted by thatlibralifePosted by dillweedPosted by thatlibralife
Sigh...you quit the relationship but didn’t really want to. Why do people do this?
game playing
they think it’ll make the person chase them.
Very bad move with an Aquarius. They will give you what you ask for when cornered like that...
exactly.
my initial response to this was “corner an aqua & you’ll be met with even more resistance”. keep pushing & they’ll just do the exact opposite, out of spite.
people need to understand that aquas come around to things on their own time. they dont do well with time constraints, or expectations. they will do what they want, bc they want to, not bc it’s expected.
“my initial response to this was “corner an aqua & you’ll be met with even more resistance”. keep pushing & they’ll just do the exact opposite, out of spite.”
😂 we really do this... We can be ROOTED and give you a fck you on the way out. People forget we’re the opposite of Leo, which means pride.
i also think a lot of people dont realize aquas really value their time & privacy. & pushing them can be seen as an encroachment on that time.
like OK you wanna push me & not respect the time it takes for me to make a decision— BYYYYEEEE
I’ve done this with no take backs.
Ciao bitch. 😂
lmao same. aqua mars told me to do it 😁
pushiness just makes me super aggravated.
People believe that if they push aqua to change, it’s going to happen and we will bow down in the process...
Yeah total opposite. Just to make matters worst, we will shut down in cold silence and continue living our lives.
tbh ive never seen an aqua bow down to anything lmaoclick to expand
Lmao never
Posted by ladylibra21Posted by CuoSara
Thank you all, l know that done it wrong way but l want to be with him and try to be patient. He said to me yesterday, l told you, don’t push me.. my last message to him said that if he wants to say anything to me lm here, so l hope l made myself clear that all is not lost .
🤗🤗🤗 it can be rough. Hang in there and keen yourself super busy ❤️. He will need time and then a little extra time just out of pure stubbornness, but you won’t be reminding him of the good things about you if you continue to react out. I would say don’t even check on him after that last message. Let him come to you. I get it girl all I attract are major Aqua, Cap or Scorpio placements. Aqua is my 7th house and my north node.click to expand
I am hiding my own phone from myself today.. just been for a massage trying my best to do other things but no it’s not bloody easy. He is on my mind and lm missing him more and more. Keep thinking if l say something that could make this process faster.. typical Capricorn
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by dillweedPosted by thatlibralife
Sigh...you quit the relationship but didn’t really want to. Why do people do this?
game playing
they think it’ll make the person chase them.
I guess l thought that he will see my effort and soften up..
Very bad move with an Aquarius..click to expand
Posted by Wildd_FloPosted by CuoSara
Thank you all, l know that done it wrong way but l want to be with him and try to be patient. He said to me yesterday, l told you, don’t push me.. my last message to him said that if he wants to say anything to me lm here, so l hope l made myself clear that all is not lost .
GIRL
Give the man TIME. ☺️click to expand
I feel like if l give him too much time he may forget about me l know it’s silly to think that
Hm everyone is telling you to wait for him to initiate contact. I think you should have talked things through from the beginning but he said he didn't like your character and broke up with you. I mean that says a lot to me. Tbh I wouldn't expect things to turn out better the second time.
What do you think would be different if you did get back together? Are you going to change and expect not seeing him that often or do you expect him to change? You were both not happy about your situation; you wanting to see each other more and him wanting more space. Obviously one of you have to change and will one of you stay happy doing it?
Relationships are about comprises but sometimes the differences are too big for it to work and if it goes that far as breaking up instead of working things through that's a huge sign of unhealthy relationship. Sorry don't mean to be gloomy about this and crush your hopes. Hope you do find happiness.
What do you think would be different if you did get back together? Are you going to change and expect not seeing him that often or do you expect him to change? You were both not happy about your situation; you wanting to see each other more and him wanting more space. Obviously one of you have to change and will one of you stay happy doing it?
Relationships are about comprises but sometimes the differences are too big for it to work and if it goes that far as breaking up instead of working things through that's a huge sign of unhealthy relationship. Sorry don't mean to be gloomy about this and crush your hopes. Hope you do find happiness.
Posted by Timone
Hm everyone is telling you to wait for him to initiate contact. I think you should have talked things through from the beginning but he said he didn't like your character and broke up with you. I mean that says a lot to me. Tbh I wouldn't expect things to turn out better the second time.
What do you think would be different if you did get back together? Are you going to change and expect not seeing him that often or do you expect him to change? You were both not happy about your situation; you wanting to see each other more and him wanting more space. Obviously one of you have to change and will one of you stay happy doing it?
Relationships are about comprises but sometimes the differences are too big for it to work and if it goes that far as breaking up instead of working things through that's a huge sign of unhealthy relationship. Sorry don't mean to be gloomy about this and crush your hopes. Hope you do find happiness.
I know it has to be me who agrees with it and tbh l be happy, he makes me happy and l spend as much time with him as he wants to give me.
Posted by Bklatt
He doesn't trust you. He tested you and saw your bad side. From here on it usually gets worse, little by little. If you've changed you can prove that to him but if not just see where it takes you, if you have the patience.
BTW I am Aquarius
Yeah he does a lot of testing but yesterday when l said my goodbyes l felt he doesn’t want that so l will give him this time and wait. When you love someone u change so l will try my best if it needs to be.
Posted by BklattPosted by CuoSaraPosted by Bklatt
He doesn't trust you. He tested you and saw your bad side. From here on it usually gets worse, little by little. If you've changed you can prove that to him but if not just see where it takes you, if you have the patience.
BTW I am Aquarius
Yeah he does a lot of testing but yesterday when l said my goodbyes l felt he doesn’t want that so l will give him this time and wait. When you love someone u change so l will try my best if it needs to be.
Yeah. Just be prepared for more testing because Aquarius is surprising specially in relationships.click to expand
😁 l know that. But he wouldn’t test me if he wouldn’t want to be with me l think
Posted by Antiphates
The problem with us Aquas is that we can tend to forget that time is a thing.
Whatever it is he has to solve for himself will be finished once he is done with it.
Maybe let a couple of weeks pass and if you still want to communicate with him after that time you can start an innocent conversation.
Gosh couple of weeks is a bit long.., l am not used to living a day without him ....
Posted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by BklattPosted by CuoSaraPosted by Bklatt
He doesn't trust you. He tested you and saw your bad side. From here on it usually gets worse, little by little. If you've changed you can prove that to him but if not just see where it takes you, if you have the patience.
BTW I am Aquarius
Yeah he does a lot of testing but yesterday when l said my goodbyes l felt he doesn’t want that so l will give him this time and wait. When you love someone u change so l will try my best if it needs to be.
Yeah. Just be prepared for more testing because Aquarius is surprising specially in relationships.
😁 l know that. But he wouldn’t test me if he wouldn’t want to be with me l think
what is the rest of yalls chart?
i dont find caps clingy, like ever.
what is your moon venus & mars?click to expand
I don’t understand hot it works
Posted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by BklattPosted by CuoSaraPosted by Bklatt
He doesn't trust you. He tested you and saw your bad side. From here on it usually gets worse, little by little. If you've changed you can prove that to him but if not just see where it takes you, if you have the patience.
BTW I am Aquarius
Yeah he does a lot of testing but yesterday when l said my goodbyes l felt he doesn’t want that so l will give him this time and wait. When you love someone u change so l will try my best if it needs to be.
Yeah. Just be prepared for more testing because Aquarius is surprising specially in relationships.
😁 l know that. But he wouldn’t test me if he wouldn’t want to be with me l think
what is the rest of yalls chart?
i dont find caps clingy, like ever.
what is your moon venus & mars?
I don’t understand hot it works
lordt
ok
go to https://cafeastrology.com/free-natal-chart-report.html
scroll down & input your info. if you dont know birth time, it wont give you rising, houses, or correct degrees but we can see where your moon, venus, mars etc is.
just post here what your placements are.click to expand
Thanks so lm Sun in Capricorn and he’s Mercury in Aquarius. Is that good or bad 😅
Posted by CuoSaraPosted by Timone
Hm everyone is telling you to wait for him to initiate contact. I think you should have talked things through from the beginning but he said he didn't like your character and broke up with you. I mean that says a lot to me. Tbh I wouldn't expect things to turn out better the second time.
What do you think would be different if you did get back together? Are you going to change and expect not seeing him that often or do you expect him to change? You were both not happy about your situation; you wanting to see each other more and him wanting more space. Obviously one of you have to change and will one of you stay happy doing it?
Relationships are about comprises but sometimes the differences are too big for it to work and if it goes that far as breaking up instead of working things through that's a huge sign of unhealthy relationship. Sorry don't mean to be gloomy about this and crush your hopes. Hope you do find happiness.
I know it has to be me who agrees with it and tbh l be happy, he makes me happy and l spend as much time with him as he wants to give me.click to expand
Just make sure you do it for the right reasons. Changing yourself to gain someone else's love might make you resent him later on.
Posted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by BklattPosted by CuoSaraPosted by Bklatt
He doesn't trust you. He tested you and saw your bad side. From here on it usually gets worse, little by little. If you've changed you can prove that to him but if not just see where it takes you, if you have the patience.
BTW I am Aquarius
Yeah he does a lot of testing but yesterday when l said my goodbyes l felt he doesn’t want that so l will give him this time and wait. When you love someone u change so l will try my best if it needs to be.
Yeah. Just be prepared for more testing because Aquarius is surprising specially in relationships.
😁 l know that. But he wouldn’t test me if he wouldn’t want to be with me l think
what is the rest of yalls chart?
i dont find caps clingy, like ever.
what is your moon venus & mars?
I don’t understand hot it works
lordt
ok
go to https://cafeastrology.com/free-natal-chart-report.html
scroll down & input your info. if you dont know birth time, it wont give you rising, houses, or correct degrees but we can see where your moon, venus, mars etc is.
just post here what your placements are.
Thanks so lm Sun in Capricorn and he’s Mercury in Aquarius. Is that good or bad 😅
please tell us moon venus & mars for both of youclick to expand
What does that mean
A bit lost with that answer but thanks anyway
You got bored and anxious waiting. I completely understand, I do too. I say who one knows the future. I have an Aquarius Venus. I'm pretty forgiving...
I haven’t texted him but he hasn’t said anything either yet.. l posted something on my stories last night and he looked at it straight away, so he cares maybe.. if he wouldn’t want me in his life he would cu5 all communication or say that straight l guess l would. This is what l find mist confusing.
Posted by dillweedPosted by CuoSara
A bit lost with that answer but thanks anyway
idk how you figured out his mercury but you cant find the moon venus or mars? 🥴click to expand
Both of our moons is in Venus.
Posted by aquarius_man_Posted by CuoSara
I haven’t texted him but he hasn’t said anything either yet.. l posted something on my stories last night and he looked at it straight away, so he cares maybe.. if he wouldn’t want me in his life he would cu5 all communication or say that straight l guess l would. This is what l find mist confusing.
You answered this yourself. If he checks your IG stories, he does care.
If he didn't want you in his life, he would deffo cut all communication.
Ignore him for a while, disappear, don't be within reach. Stay busy. Your IG stories should be less frequent, if at all. Let him start wondering what you up to - maybe you forgot him already? Give the man a chance to miss youclick to expand
Thanks l know you are correct and it’s true..
Posted by CuoSaraPosted by dillweedPosted by CuoSara
A bit lost with that answer but thanks anyway
idk how you figured out his mercury but you cant find the moon venus or mars? 🥴
Both of our moons is in Venus.click to expand
A sign cannot be Venus, which is a planet. You could say....both our moons are in Cancer or Scorpio or ....
If it's a chart wheel you are looking at, and don't understand it, find your sun...it should be in Cap. Then find your other planets and figure out which sign they are in.
If you need help, you can PM me the dates of birth and town of birth for both of you.
Or you can write them here, in this thread, if you feel comfortable with. You can ask us not to quote your info (which will copy it) and you can hide it later.
So he texted me asking what am l doing. I replied saying lm driving home from another town, because l went to the seaside just to occupy myself. He said ok have a good weekend then, l asked what’s wrong.
He says”you stayed the night there with someone “: what the hell he’s now jealous..
I said to him that he’s the only one blah blah, and he wants to talk we can talk, again no reply.. what should l do now. He’s wants to talk, but he is jealous..for no apparent reason even.
He says”you stayed the night there with someone “: what the hell he’s now jealous..
I said to him that he’s the only one blah blah, and he wants to talk we can talk, again no reply.. what should l do now. He’s wants to talk, but he is jealous..for no apparent reason even.
what year was you born in?
hmmm
I wonder if you have a fixed moon
I wonder if you have a fixed moon
Posted by ELIGAB
what year was you born in?
1986
Posted by UndinePosted by CuoSaraPosted by dillweedPosted by CuoSara
A bit lost with that answer but thanks anyway
idk how you figured out his mercury but you cant find the moon venus or mars? 🥴
Both of our moons is in Venus.
A sign cannot be Venus, which is a planet. You could say....both our moons are in Cancer or Scorpio or ....
If it's a chart wheel you are looking at, and don't understand it, find your sun...it should be in Cap. Then find your other planets and figure out which sign they are in.
If you need help, you can PM me the dates of birth and town of birth for both of you.
Or you can write them here, in this thread, if you feel comfortable with. You can ask us not to quote your info (which will copy it) and you can hide it later.click to expand
Just messaged you. Thanks
Posted by dillweedPosted by ELIGAB
hmmm
I wonder if you have a fixed moon
i thought pisces or cancer tbh
but maybe leoclick to expand
Correct lol
Pisces moon
If she's born on Jan 15 1986
Posted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGAB
what year was you born in?
1986click to expand
What is his birthday?
Posted by dillweedPosted by ELIGABPosted by dillweedPosted by ELIGAB
hmmm maybe he’s just insecure. I am not clingy just inlove lol. If anything l be the fire, that’s my character in summary 😂
I wonder if you have a fixed moon
i thought pisces or cancer tbh
but maybe leo
Correct lol
Pisces moon
If she's born on Jan 15 1986
there’s a clinginess that doesnt vibe fixed to me... i cant tell if it stems from emotional desperation (water moon) or lack of attention/getting her way (fire moon).
regardless, i would drop a loser who said he didnt like my character then accuse me of sleeping with another man lolclick to expand
Posted by dillweedPosted by ELIGABPosted by dillweedPosted by ELIGAB
hmmm
I wonder if you have a fixed moon
i thought pisces or cancer tbh
but maybe leo
Correct lol
Pisces moon
If she's born on Jan 15 1986
there’s a clinginess that doesnt vibe fixed to me... i cant tell if it stems from emotional desperation (water moon) or lack of attention/getting her way (fire moon).
regardless, i would drop a loser who said he didnt like my character then accuse me of sleeping with another man lolclick to expand
True 😬
That was random af
Maybe he have feelings for her
Posted by ELIGABPosted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGAB
what year was you born in?
1986
What is his birthday?click to expand
20/01/1987
Posted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGABPosted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGABThanks, l think l try and see what happens maybe we had to Ruffin our egged at first. We don’t fight that much
what year was you born in?
1986
What is his birthday?
20/01/1987
well your charts arent compatible. you are smothering him.
you:
cap sun mercury venus
pisces moon
scorpio mars
him:
aqua sun (or cap sun if his birth time is early)
virgo moon
sag venus
aries mars
virgo moon prob found something he didnt like
his aqua sag aries prob feels smothered by all your water. aqua sag virgo & aries are prob the most independant signs of the zodiac.
you lack any placements that would keep you light & playful. your scorpio mars is likely the reason why you are obsessing.
cut your losses. you’ve had issues with this guy since the beginning. back off & move on before he tells you something really really really fucking mean.click to expand
Posted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGABPosted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGAB
what year was you born in?
1986
What is his birthday?
20/01/1987
well your charts arent compatible. you are smothering him.
you:
cap sun mercury venus
pisces moon
scorpio mars
him:
aqua sun (or cap sun if his birth time is early)
virgo moon
sag venus
aries mars
virgo moon prob found something he didnt like
his aqua sag aries prob feels smothered by all your water. aqua sag virgo & aries are prob the most independant signs of the zodiac.
you lack any placements that would keep you light & playful. your scorpio mars is likely the reason why you are obsessing.
cut your losses. you’ve had issues with this guy since the beginning. back off & move on before he tells you something really really really fucking mean.click to expand
Girl
Lmao
Come thru with the truth thou..
Do you think that masculine placements need feminine placements in the long run? Well not need but you know, like not so much ego or the same energy? So there for one would be submissive?
Idk what I just said 😕🤣
No disrespect to any astrological signs, but it all vary from person to person. And no l didn’t post monthly complaints about him it’s just been a rocky start for both of us. Thank you for your opinion and effort guys, it’s been helpful. As l have such an experienced crowd, on a topic of Aquarius men, slightly of topic can you tell me if you think it’s worth being completely open with him about one thing..
and that thing is, my new boss tried to flirt with me and obviously l turned him down, l feel like l don’t want to keep secrets from my boyfriend and l want to tell him but l don’t know if l should. My friend said no, don’t tell him, but l feel like maybe l should be open.
That’s not to mention l would probably say this to him later on the line, not straight after this argument as it defo wouldn’t go down well 😂
But what is your opinions, should l or l should keep this one thing to myself.
and that thing is, my new boss tried to flirt with me and obviously l turned him down, l feel like l don’t want to keep secrets from my boyfriend and l want to tell him but l don’t know if l should. My friend said no, don’t tell him, but l feel like maybe l should be open.
That’s not to mention l would probably say this to him later on the line, not straight after this argument as it defo wouldn’t go down well 😂
But what is your opinions, should l or l should keep this one thing to myself.
Posted by dillweedPosted by ELIGABPosted by dillweedPosted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGABPosted by CuoSaraPosted by ELIGAB
what year was you born in?
1986
What is his birthday?
20/01/1987
well your charts arent compatible. you are smothering him.
you:
cap sun mercury venus
pisces moon
scorpio mars
him:
aqua sun (or cap sun if his birth time is early)
virgo moon
sag venus
aries mars
virgo moon prob found something he didnt like
his aqua sag aries prob feels smothered by all your water. aqua sag virgo & aries are prob the most independant signs of the zodiac.
you lack any placements that would keep you light & playful. your scorpio mars is likely the reason why you are obsessing.
cut your losses. you’ve had issues with this guy since the beginning. back off & move on before he tells you something really really really fucking mean.
Girl
Lmao
Come thru with the truth thou..
Do you think that masculine placements need feminine placements in the long run? Well not need but you know, like not so much ego or the same energy? So there for one would be submissive?
Idk what I just said 😕🤣
ya know, i dont really know.
i often think that masc placements should stick with other masc energy. it’s same energy so it can be more easily navigated/ made sense of. but i also think that as we get older, more mature, responsible etc, that we can work with the opposite energy.
like i generally like conjuncts & trines in my own compatibility with others. but my chart is half masc/half fem & i really dont like overly masc charts.
does that make sense?click to expand
Make alot of sense lol
My chart is halfsie too 🥴
Usually things are on the lighter side when I'm around air/fire placements which is refreshing honestly... can be a bit rough thou lol
Strangely there's some emotional understanding with them too..
My boyfriend is my first masculine moon and you know what, it's not bad.. 😮 lol..
Posted by thatlibralife
I’m not trying to be hard on you. Just trying to shake some sense in you. It’s obvious you really like this guy but most things you have written here just reads games and manipulation. Likely born out of a sense of desperately trying not to lose him.
What do you think will be accomplished by telling him that except trying to make him jealous? You feel you’re losing him so now let’s make him jealous to want you back. He is gonna see through it. You’ll only be further pushing him away. You are very hard headed I’ll say that for you. Bless your heart...
As l typed this l realised that probably best not to. And my reason would be to say this to him because l don’t want to hide anything from him and for him to understand that he can trust me. But yes this could be interested completely wrong way to how l meant it.
“He said he doesn’t like my character”
Ooof why press someone to be with you when they aren’t liking who you are at your core. Plenty of other dick in this world.
Ooof why press someone to be with you when they aren’t liking who you are at your core. Plenty of other dick in this world.
Posted by CuoSara
No disrespect to any astrological signs, but it all vary from person to person. And no l didn’t post monthly complaints about him it’s just been a rocky start for both of us. Thank you for your opinion and effort guys, it’s been helpful. As l have such an experienced crowd, on a topic of Aquarius men, slightly of topic can you tell me if you think it’s worth being completely open with him about one thing..
and that thing is, my new boss tried to flirt with me and obviously l turned him down, l feel like l don’t want to keep secrets from my boyfriend and l want to tell him but l don’t know if l should. My friend said no, don’t tell him, but l feel like maybe l should be open.
That’s not to mention l would probably say this to him later on the line, not straight after this argument as it defo wouldn’t go down well 😂
But what is your opinions, should l or l should keep this one thing to myself.
Why even mention this to him if you turned him down and aren't interested? You just come across as someone trying to make him jealous.
Cap sun
Taurus rising
Pisces Moon
Cap Venus
Cap Mercury
Scorpio Mars
Aqua sun
Virgo-Libra (?) rising
Libra Moon
Sag Venus
Aqua Mercury
Aries Mars
As others have pointed out, you are earth-water (practical-emotional) and he is air-fire (intellectual-action-driven). Not much common ground. Besides, you are bossy, stubborn and emotional when you don’t get your way. He is independent, sociable, indecisive, flirty and ready to throw a budding relationship down the water when pushed by demands. I said "budding" because my father has some of his placements, but he tolerated a lot of abuse once mother "tricked" him into marriage.
His Venus, Mercury and Mars don’t form any major connection to your personal planets, which may add to his disconnect. His moon opposes yours, which is not a bad thing, but squares your Mercury, meaning that your words can easily trigger negative emotions in him.
Your moon feels supported and happy by his sun and Jupiter, but is stressed (squared) by his Uranus, Neptune and Saturn, which may give you the false impression that it’s not him causing your stress, but some external, outer circumstances….
You can google things like Libra moon, Sag Venus, Aqua mercury and Aries mars if you want to understand more things about him, and why your relationship is not working very well.
Taurus rising
Pisces Moon
Cap Venus
Cap Mercury
Scorpio Mars
Aqua sun
Virgo-Libra (?) rising
Libra Moon
Sag Venus
Aqua Mercury
Aries Mars
As others have pointed out, you are earth-water (practical-emotional) and he is air-fire (intellectual-action-driven). Not much common ground. Besides, you are bossy, stubborn and emotional when you don’t get your way. He is independent, sociable, indecisive, flirty and ready to throw a budding relationship down the water when pushed by demands. I said "budding" because my father has some of his placements, but he tolerated a lot of abuse once mother "tricked" him into marriage.
His Venus, Mercury and Mars don’t form any major connection to your personal planets, which may add to his disconnect. His moon opposes yours, which is not a bad thing, but squares your Mercury, meaning that your words can easily trigger negative emotions in him.
Your moon feels supported and happy by his sun and Jupiter, but is stressed (squared) by his Uranus, Neptune and Saturn, which may give you the false impression that it’s not him causing your stress, but some external, outer circumstances….
You can google things like Libra moon, Sag Venus, Aqua mercury and Aries mars if you want to understand more things about him, and why your relationship is not working very well.
Posted by Undine
Cap sun
Taurus rising
Pisces Moon
Cap Venus
Cap Mercury
Scorpio Mars
Aqua sun
Virgo-Libra (?) rising
Libra Moon
Sag Venus
Aqua Mercury
Aries Mars
As others have pointed out, you are earth-water (practical-emotional) and he is air-fire (intellectual-action-driven). Not much common ground. Besides, you are bossy, stubborn and emotional when you don’t get your way. He is independent, sociable, indecisive, flirty and ready to throw a budding relationship down the water when pushed by demands. I said "budding" because my father has some of his placements, but he tolerated a lot of abuse once mother "tricked" him into marriage.
His Venus, Mercury and Mars don’t form any major connection to your personal planets, which may add to his disconnect. His moon opposes yours, which is not a bad thing, but squares your Mercury, meaning that your words can easily trigger negative emotions in him.
Your moon feels supported and happy by his sun and Jupiter, but is stressed (squared) by his Uranus, Neptune and Saturn, which may give you the false impression that it’s not him causing your stress, but some external, outer circumstances….
You can google things like Libra moon, Sag Venus, Aqua mercury and Aries mars if you want to understand more things about him, and why your relationship is not working very well.
Thank you, l now know. Will read about this more online. Maybe opposites attracts, when we are not fighting it’s really wonderful l don’t know..
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what year was you born in?
1986
What is his birthday?
20/01/1987
well your charts arent compatible. you are smothering him.
you:
cap sun mercury venus
pisces moon
scorpio mars
him:
aqua sun (or cap sun if his birth time is early)
virgo moon
sag venus
aries mars
virgo moon prob found something he didnt like
his aqua sag aries prob feels smothered by all your water. aqua sag virgo & aries are prob the most independant signs of the zodiac.
you lack any placements that would keep you light & playful. your scorpio mars is likely the reason why you are obsessing.
cut your losses. you’ve had issues with this guy since the beginning. back off & move on before he tells you something really really really fucking mean.
Girl
Lmao
Come thru with the truth thou..
Do you think that masculine placements need feminine placements in the long run? Well not need but you know, like not so much ego or the same energy? So there for one would be submissive?
Idk what I just said 😕🤣
ya know, i dont really know.
i often think that masc placements should stick with other masc energy. it’s same energy so it can be more easily navigated/ made sense of. but i also think that as we get older, more mature, responsible etc, that we can work with the opposite energy.
like i generally like conjuncts & trines in my own compatibility with others. but my chart is half masc/half fem & i really dont like overly masc charts.
does that make sense?
Make alot of sense lol
My chart is halfsie too 🥴
Usually things are on the lighter side when I'm around air/fire placements which is refreshing honestly... can be a bit rough thou lol
Strangely there's some emotional understanding with them too..
My boyfriend is my first masculine moon and you know what, it's not bad.. 😮 lol..
are you still with the taurus? sag moon? am i remembering right?
the taurus i am dating is a masc moon & i like it. he’s got a halfsie chart too. 2 feminine 2 masculine.
i generally cant stand fire signs. at all.click to expand
Its over
🙃
Why are so many Capricorns into air signs. I just don't see it.
Posted by CuoSara
As l have such an experienced crowd, on a topic of Aquarius men, slightly of topic can you tell me if you think it’s worth being completely open with him about one thing..
and that thing is, my new boss tried to flirt with me and obviously l turned him down, l feel like l don’t want to keep secrets from my boyfriend and l want to tell him but l don’t know if l should. My friend said no, don’t tell him, but l feel like maybe l should be open.
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Are you serious? Why would you tell your man another guy hit on you? Is that rare? Men hit on me all the time but I'd never tell that to my husband because he would think I'm insecure and trying to make him jealous. Keep that stuff to yourself. I'm sure he doesn't tell you about is interactions with other women.
After reading more of your thread I see why you want to tell him about your boss hitting on you. You want to see if he will get jealous because you are already feeling insecure and you want to see if he gets jealous or not. Don't play that game because Aqua's can smell that intention a mile away and will get totally turned off. Plus his Libra moon will turn ice cold on you.
Posted by ClassyAquariusPosted by DonnaLibra
Why are so many Capricorns into air signs. I just don't see it.
Because we may come across as strong but careless, and matrys Capricorn wants to be free
Edit : it's bit like possessing what they don't have naturalyclick to expand
Thanks for explaining this to me. Are you an Aquarius or a Capricorn?
If it makes sense, Air signs produce lots of charm and glow.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Why are so many Capricorns into air signs. I just don't see it.
Posted by CuoSara
So he texted me asking what am l doing. I replied saying lm driving home from another town, because l went to the seaside just to occupy myself. He said ok have a good weekend then, l asked what’s wrong.
He says”you stayed the night there with someone “: what the hell he’s now jealous..
I said to him that he’s the only one blah blah, and he wants to talk we can talk, again no reply.. what should l do now. He’s wants to talk, but he is jealous..for no apparent reason even.
I wouldn’t have validated him by telling him he’s the only one. He broke up with you, remember? I would have found a way not answer because now look, he went silent again.
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capricorn
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Hello,
I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. My fiance, Aquaman, and I have been together for 5 years. We are due to get married January 2021. Recently, we got really drunk and out of nowhere he told me that he doesn't "completely" love me but want
We been together for 5 months now and l am not going to lie it’s been a Rocky relationship but still full of joy and love. I am a very strong minded Capricorn and he’s strong Aqua guy. Only recently we said to one another that we love each other, it took us a while..
He works a lot, silly hours and l have office job that gives me loads more spare time. When l am free l want to see him and spend time together, but he’s always tired and it became more and more difficult since he had been promoted recently.. long story short, we argued about this, l wanted to see him and he was tired, l drove up to him and we argued a lot l ended up giving him his house keys back and we split on the bad terms.
I asked him what does he want to do, he said he wants some time to think, l gave him time, after 4 days of absolute silence from him l tried talking to him but he said he doesn’t like my character he needs more time.
I couldhold any longer and l went to see him yesterday, he didn’t know that l was coming, l asked him what he wants l apologised, but he said he hasn’t had time to think and he wants more time. I pushed and said that he had 4 days etc so he said, ok to make things easier it’s over then.
I left, texted after all the best, he said ok then.. what should l do, do you think we have a chance, does he simply needs to be left alone for now. I still got some stuff at his place, he is replying in very basic texts like yes or no, if l say anything so what next.. l love this man and don’t want to lose him,