@Haruuka
8 Years1,000+ Posts
My best friend’s husband
Threesome.
Threesome.
Oh god, this is really not funny
I don’t do this 😂😅
She is so jealous person, and love him so bad, always talk about him, I hate him so much
Said nothing
Not even hint?
Threesome.
Oh god, this is really not funny
I don’t do this 😂😅
She is so jealous person, and love him so bad, always talk about him, I hate him so much
If she's jealous that's mean it's not the first time he cheat on her
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Yeah, what I felt was, he was kind of men who just wanna any woman, his words was so cheap
Tell her
I found out, my best friend’s husband (don’t know what is his sign) is trying to get into me
He is literally sent me messages from his wife phone 🥶
As Sag with aqua rising, I’m kinda cold, and stop him so fast, and I told him to back off
But I feel sad, I mean, she is my friend since I we were kids, she is beautiful, smart, clean, funny, and have great body, she is gemini with virgo moon
She is the only friend that know everything about me, my best friend
What should I do ? I don’t want her to feel sad, or destroy her marriage, because she have 4 kids
I don’t know what kind of men who try to cheat on his wife with her best friend, with her phone, what the hell !?
What type of messages from HER phone and does she not check her MESSAGES on HER own phone to see that someone “her husband” is TEXTING people?
What type of texts does he send? Does he pretend to be her or himself? How do you know it’s him?
TELL HER IMMEDIATELY IF SHES TRULY YOUR FRIEND, this is HOW AFFAIRS BEGIN, and how they DESTROY A FAMILY.
I would have played dumb and told her :
I think someone is hacking into your phone? *show screenshot of his text messages* that way you don't assume anything and you let her handle it.
But since you already told him to back off you now absolutely have to tell her what he's been doing.
I've experienced something similar to this years ago, my best friend at the time was already very much aware so it wasn't a shock to her.... it's awkward and it's unfair to you( and especially her) but you have to do it & tell her.. especially if she's important to you.
Reply back, keep it short and keep it sweet.
Tell him he has one warning to back off or you’ll tell your best friend. See what happens
Who knows who’s texting on the other side
What would you have her do if it was you in her position?
Of course, I wanna know!
But she is different, I mean she is Gemini, she think in a different way
Said nothing
Not even hint?
how sure are you? what makes you sure?
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The dirty talk, it’s different, she is my childhood friend, I know her since I was 9 years old
She is married for about 10 years, have 4 kids, never ever do something like this, she is so loyal friend, I trust her.
What makes me sure?
Because that day, I picked her in my car, and he was there, in the front door, and looked at me, it was weird, but I just ignored it
I know it’s him!
It looks like you Gem friend sent you a message by mistake...it was meant for her lover 😄
I think you should say nothing, as well.
She’s married with kids and it might not even break up her marriage, she will just be miserable in it, and she will lose you as a friend because she will probably end up being upset with you instead.
You gave him a warning, it was disgusting flirting, but if it happens again, be blunt and tell him that he disgusts you with this behavior.
If he's into you and trying to hide it from her...he ain't gonna text you from her phone. Does he text you from his own phone too? If so, I bet the wife found out and she's testing you to see if you're having an affair with him.
I think you should say nothing, as well.
She’s married with kids and it might not even break up her marriage, she will just be miserable in it, and she will lose you as a friend because she will probably end up being upset with you instead.
You gave him a warning, it was disgusting flirting, but if it happens again, be blunt and tell him that he disgusts you with this behavior.
I'd agree with you if she wasn't her *friend /best friend. So sorry for the kiddos and the 10 year marriage but if my husband plans on making advances to my friends... My best friend on top of things.. I need to know.
@Haruka how much can you tell from a look though?
And did you text him back or did you actually reply to the texts?
Odd.
I think you should say nothing, as well.
She’s married with kids and it might not even break up her marriage, she will just be miserable in it, and she will lose you as a friend because she will probably end up being upset with you instead.
You gave him a warning, it was disgusting flirting, but if it happens again, be blunt and tell him that he disgusts you with this behavior.
I'd agree with you if she wasn't her *friend /best friend. So sorry for the kiddos and the 10 year marriage but if my husband plans on making advances to my friends... My best friend on top of things.. I need to know.
@Haruka how much can you tell from a look though?
And did you text him back or did you actually reply to the texts?
Odd.
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It’s such a hard decision to make.
He went above and beyond to use his wife’s phone.
But he’s probably cheated before, so he will get caught eventually. I wouldn’t want to be the person to ruin a marriage over a flirty text, even though it was inappropriate. But I get your view as well
It will be a small ripple that ruins both relationships forever.
I’d just treat the husband like the trash that he is and not speak to him in public settings and act like he doesn’t even exist.
I would want to know and if my best friend kept this from me, I’d not trust her. Also, he could be having sex with other women and if only for health reasons, she needs to know
(((Harukka))) lovely to see you back, how are you and the girls? ❤️
If he's into you and trying to hide it from her...he ain't gonna text you from her phone. Does he text you from his own phone too? If so, I bet the wife found out and she's testing you to see if you're having an affair with him.
This makes much more sense.
I had a weird situation like this once with a childhood friend’s husband. I was good friends with him as well actually. When he drank he got a little too friendly in general...but one night he tried rubbing my leg under the table when we were out and I just grabbed his hand and leaned over and told him if he ever touched me again I’d break his fucking wrist 🙂🙃
He didn’t apologize or anything but he never tried me again.
I never said anything to my friend cause she’s a Taurus and I learned years before this Taurus women are crazy when it comes to their men and I just didn’t want to cause drama... he was drinking, I handled it, it was dead in my mind.
A few years later she did catch him cheating on her.
Some dudes are just always looking for their opening. You shut that door on him. That’s all that needs to happen right now imo. If he continues, then you can let her know, because likely he will get himself caught anyway
Maybe she has a crush on you.
But I still vote troll post.
I know, right.
I would have played dumb and told her :
I think someone is hacking into your phone? *show screenshot of his text messages* that way you don't assume anything and you let her handle it.
best advice in the thread right here
I would have played dumb and told her :
I think someone is hacking into your phone? *show screenshot of his text messages* that way you don't assume anything and you let her handle it.
best advice in the thread right here
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A little creativity goes a long way 😀
Maybe she has a crush on you.
But I still vote troll post.
Everyone always is in love with Harukka if you ask her.
Of course. I think I remember her now. It’s all coming back to me.
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She's a beautiful woman 😘
What would you have her do if it was you in her position?
Of course, I wanna know!
But she is different, I mean she is Gemini, she think in a different way
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What does being a Gemini have to do with her needing to know her husband is a creep? My mom and husband are Geminis and they would definitely want to know this type of info.
It looks like you Gem friend sent you a message by mistake...it was meant for her lover 😄
🤔🤔🧐🧐
Tell her
Only if she wants to lose her friend
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And how is she a FRIEND keeping a secret from her FRIEND.
Her FRIEND already lost a FRIEND when that FRIEND decided to keep a secret.
It actually might be your friend just testing you. Lol
this would be a reason i cut ties - and idc how long back we go. uh uh.
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Yup! Same! You play fun games, you win fun prizes!
Jerry jerry gif
Maybe she has a crush on you.
But I still vote troll post.
Everyone always is in love with Harukka if you ask her.
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Ha! I thought the same...
Side note... it’s amusing how befitting your name is to the current invisibility of your posts. WB!
What difference would that make?
Oh your friend is a gemini.
yeah she's trolling you, hard.
gotta find entertainment wherever you can in these hard rona times.
It actually might be your friend just testing you. Lol
this would be a reason i cut ties - and idc how long back we go. uh uh.
Yup! Same! You play fun games, you win fun prizes!
teddy bears and chocolate?! 😛
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Yeah, for myself, as I enjoy the walk to the sunset alone! 😆
Tell her.
I think your more worried about your feelings and your possible lose then your actual friends. What he did was the very low and brazen. Your her best friend. If he is making passes on you on her phone, he obviously doesn't care.
He fuck around with the right one, he'll wind up getting blackmailed and no coochie.
I would want to know and if my best friend kept this from me, I’d not trust her. Also, he could be having sex with other women and if only for health reasons, she needs to know
(((Harukka))) lovely to see you back, how are you and the girls? ❤️
Staaar ❤️ I missed you so much
I’m good, And the girls are good too, now have a lot of time to play lol 😆
How are you doing?🌿
I told her 😆
And she just laugh...pretend that she didn’t know what I mean...
I hint, and said: it was weird, don’t let anyone use your phone
I could not say it directly, but she now know, she just smile and laugh, but her eyes were so sad.
What a crazy bastard, I think maybe he did it before, and she just don’t wanna know the details
next time you see him kick him really hard on his balls!!!
if you don't do this you're wack
There's no proof it's really the husband with no phone.
I'm actually trying to wrap my head around the idea that these messages are coming from her friend's husband. Wouldn't the friend be able to look at her phone and see these messages were sent? Wouldn't this invalidate the entire idea that her husband is doing it?
If a man wants to cheat, he'd hide it. But I feel like it's just Harukka's assumption. Maybe she's into the guy, the friend noticed and tested her OR its all in Harukka's head.
No man in his right mind will use his wife's phone to cheat.
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I don’t like married men, not all
And if I was into him, I will definitely know his sign lol
Tell her
Only if she wants to lose her friend
And how is she a FRIEND keeping a secret from her FRIEND.
Her FRIEND already lost a FRIEND when that FRIEND decided to keep a secret.
Because her friend might not believe her and choose the lies of her partner instead.
Happens often enough.
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Good.
Two less low vibrational people to worry about.
He fuck around with the right one, he'll wind up getting blackmailed and no coochie.
He might want his wife to find out. Some people use these tactics to get a separation or divorce
He fuck around with the right one, he'll wind up getting blackmailed and no coochie.
He might want his wife to find out. Some people use these tactics to get a separation or divorce
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I would.
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I found out, my best friend’s husband (don’t know what is his sign) is trying to get into me
He is literally sent me messages from his wife phone 🥶
As Sag with aqua rising, I’m kinda cold, and stop him so fast, and I told him to back off
But I feel sad, I mean, she is my friend since I we were kids, she is beautiful, smart, clean, funny, and have great body, she is gemini with virgo moon
She is the only friend that know everything about me, my best friend
What should I do ? I don’t want her to feel sad, or destroy her marriage, because she have 4 kids
I don’t know what kind of men who try to cheat on his wife with her best friend, with her phone, what the hell !?