How to express yourself to Aquarius man?

So I want to tell my Aquarius guy how I feel. I just don't want to freak him out. I'd eventually like to be with him but I'd like to date exclusively, talk every other day, and go out, travel, etc.

We've messed around for a couple of years on and off cause I couldn't deal with his inconsistency. I've learned to come to terms with some of his ways and he's gotten soooo much better. Though we meet up and have sex, it's so much more than that. We talk for hours when we see each other.

I care about him sooooooo much and I've felt like this for awhile. It's been eating me up cause I've been trying to play it cool. How should I let him know? Would love to hear from an Aquarius.

does he like you too?

are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?

first you must be sure on those.

Posted by aquarius_man
play it cool

take it easy, don't go all over him

he s not waiting for you to make the first step, he likes it as it is for now

the moment you become mutually exclusive should be his decision 😄

So....... don't say anything? Lol

Posted by Senorita_LL
As a Gemini, I have to always play the Tom and Jerry games with the Aquas.

It is hard to know their true feelings and sometimes I wonder, if they even have one, to began with.

Good luck my Gem. May the force be with you!

Giiiiirrrrllllll it's tricky. I want to tell him how I feel but how? While still playing it cool

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does he like you too?

are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?

first you must be sure on those.

Lol!!!!!

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i'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lol

So you want a relationship from your fwb?

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does he like you too?

are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?

first you must be sure on those.

Lol!!!!!

i'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lol

Oh, you mad aqua? Cos' you were being ignored?

Yeah, that's the best way to get an Aqua to keep coming back for more. OP did the right thing. 😆

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i was trying to help. guess i have a troll aura lol

that kind of "to keep coming back for more" only work if we like the person. if not, we just simply ignore back.

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does he like you too?

are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?

first you must be sure on those.

Lol!!!!!

i'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lol

Oh, you mad aqua? Cos' you were being ignored?

Yeah, that's the best way to get an Aqua to keep coming back for more. OP did the right thing. 😆

i was trying to help. guess i have a troll aura lol

that kind of "to keep coming back for more" only work if we like the person. if not, we just simply ignore back.

So, that means.....

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not exactly like that.

but i get your point lol

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does he like you too?

are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?

first you must be sure on those.

Lol!!!!!

i'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lol

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I believe he does a d he said he isn't seeing anyone else

Tell him. If he's stuck around this long and spends hours talking to you... he may really like you too. Now he may have others, but if he's serious he'll let thyme go. Only thing is if an Aqua man wants you.... he'll go after you. It'll take time for him to decide, but once he does he's all yours.

Posted by LadyNeptune
So you want a relationship from your fwb?

Yep pretty much lol

Jajajajaja when you know the answe let me know?

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Posted by Senorita_LL
As a Gemini, I have to always play the Tom and Jerry games with the Aquas.

It is hard to know their true feelings and sometimes I wonder, if they even have one, to began with.

Good luck my Gem. May the force be with you!

Agree. They are very vague. Just shows hints here and there. Best thing to do is keep yourself interesting and busy. Remember Gem, if we think about it a lot, it becomes stressful. Just go with the flow, let him be and if he really truly likes you, he will tell you because he cant hold back anymore. If an aqua falls for you, they fall deeply so you wanna make sure the timing is right for him and you.

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Thanks! Now I'm having second thoughts lol I'm not good at expressing feelings either ( I HATE rejection). How should I deal if we make plans and he doesn't show up? No call no text? He's confusing me because he acts a certain way, says certain things to me ("I'm the type of person that'll love you and you won't even know", he once told me he loves me after I helped him find something "see this is why I love you") but then can be so distant. Why are you guys like this?! Lol

Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...

Yeh it's important that you have a good sense of humour and try not to come across as serious when you say you love an Aquarius, any hint of desperation comes of as drowning clawing cat to me and I avoid people like that as the plague....

Posted by compy
Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...

Lol what makes you think that he already knows?!

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Yeh it's important that you have a good sense of humour and try not to come across as serious when you say you love an Aquarius, any hint of desperation comes of as drowning clawing cat to me and I avoid people like that as the plague....

Thanks for the advice ? I will continue playing it cool. I'll tell him how I feel but I won't freak him out

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Posted by compy
Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...

Lol what makes you think that he already knows?!

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You've been "fooling around" for two years. That's enough of a proof. He wouldn't stay around for so long for nothing. But having it lightly it's convenient for him. Do you know if he is side dating?

Remember it's not what you do but how you do it.

We are very susceptible to naturally charming people who have the gift of the gab and are funny,

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Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...

Lol what makes you think that he already knows?!

You've been "fooling around" for two years. That's enough of a proof. He wouldn't stay around for so long for nothing. But having it lightly it's convenient for him. Do you know if he is side dating?

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He's pretty honest with me. If he's dealing with someone he'll let me know I asked the other day and he said that he was dealing with someone but he's distancing himself and they don't have what we have ?

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Remember it's not what you do but how you do it.

We are very susceptible to naturally charming people who have the gift of the gab and are funny,

Hmmmm, I get you. It's all in the delivery.

Can I just say that I loooooove you guys?! You're so complicated but you're worth the headache.

just don't say it while you're half or full naked 😛

Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.

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Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.

Would it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend

Posted by AerialView
just don't say it while you're half or full naked 😛

I thought this would be one of the best times to do so lol

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just don't say it while you're half or full naked 😛

I thought this would be one of the best times to do so lol

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i knew you would say that lol

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Posted by compy
Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.

Would it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend

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No, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?

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Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.

Would it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend

No, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?

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We both intimate meetings but most of the time I initiate that . I used to communicate with him more than he did with me but that has changed, since I don't reach out as often he'll randomly call or text me to check on me. We sometimes go weeks without seeing each other.

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Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.

Would it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend

No, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?

We both intimate meetings but most of the time I initiate that . I used to communicate with him more than he did with me but that has changed, since I don't reach out as often he'll randomly call or text me to check on me. We sometimes go weeks without seeing each other.

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I should mention that he already said we were dating lol I was like oh, we were? Lol

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Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.

Would it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend

No, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?

We both intimate meetings but most of the time I initiate that . I used to communicate with him more than he did with me but that has changed, since I don't reach out as often he'll randomly call or text me to check on me. We sometimes go weeks without seeing each other.

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I see. How much do you know about him, how open is he in sharing about his daily life? What does he consider you? I am trying to figure out how he sees you now. If you do not want to post it here, you can PM me.

Be authentic. Balls to the wall. Anything else is a lie. You don't need to 'come to terms' with how someone behaves.. They either fit your life and who you are or they don't..they either get you or they don't. Avoiding rejection by compromising yourself and your needs does not a good relationship makethy..— Be yourself. Even if it seems completely inappropriate..he's had enough time to get to know you.

Seize the day. Duck it all.

Go forth and prosper.

Amen

Posted by aquarius_man
play it cool

take it easy, don't go all over him

he s not waiting for you to make the first step, he likes it as it is for now

the moment you become mutually exclusive should be his decision 😄

I partially agree (as an aqua girl) but i must say i know when i "want" someone (even when i am scared of my feelings), i make an effort even i don,t speak my feelings out loud.



if i am not interested and just see this man as friend i don,t show up often, i barely respond, i make no effort, i don,t go on dates with him etc. i only see this man as friend then and make it quite clear when he doesn,t understand.

i don,t know if aqua men and women are so different in that 🙂 — would be interesting haha 🙂

Posted by lightseed
Be authentic. Balls to the wall. Anything else is a lie. You don't need to 'come to terms' with how someone behaves.. They either fit your life and who you are or they don't..they either get you or they don't. Avoiding rejection by compromising yourself and your needs does not a good relationship makethy..— Be yourself. Even if it seems completely inappropriate..he's had enough time to get to know you.

Seize the day. Duck it all.

Go forth and prosper.

Amen

Thanks for this!!!