I am confused and broken by Aquarius ex

My aquarius ex and I started as friends in the office. He is married and but they are separated due to many conflicts with his wife. then they separated and never talked again during our 7 months relationship. we ended our relationship on a mutual decision at first but after awhile i realized i am hurting so bad so i told him that i dont want to end the relationship. Then all of sudden he already fixed his mind that we are gonna end the relationship. so i was mad at him and i started to retreat. by the way I am a sun cancer, moon in scorpio and venus in gemini.

he is Sun in aquarius, Moon in Aries and venus in Pisces.

So its been 1 and 1/2 month that we are separated and i am so confused with how is treating me. because he is saying hurtful things to me. He said he is already back with his wife and they are doing fine, which i doubt they are fine they are not even friends in facebook. and i saw he wife's post the she is single.

during the this separation he keeps on communicating with me even though i already told him hurtful stuffs like " i dont want to talk to you, i dont want any interactions with you" then he responded with his ego words "its just pure work related" but after a week here he comes again, he keeps on buzzing in my skype asking lame request.

other people also manipulating him to do stuffs like, be with your wife and work on it. blah blah blah.

i know that i dont have something to use like a contract (marriage) like her wife has. but i still love him but i am retreating already.

i just dont understand what's going on with his mind.

hoping for your opinions. and please don't judge me.

Thanks!

everytime i open a topic about our relationship, he is saying mean things. its like he is avoiding a topic about us. and he is getting mad easily. he even walked out. but when i told him many times to stay away from me, its like nothing to him. i even told him to respect me as his ex. but no, still popping on my skype.

He has the same placements as me :l

I think you should simply hold a proper conversation and ask what is really going on.

Time to transfer out or start fresh with a new company.

And leave married men alone! Separated is still married.

If finding a new job isn't an option then you have to say it clearly to him that you are deeply hurt and need him to back off with the friendship behavior b/c you don't feel good being friendly and casual right now and if he doesn't respect your boundaries you will block him and contact his wife and human resources as a last resort effort to get him to stop.

Tell him you will contact him when you're ready but from this point going forward do not initiate contact with me unless it's 100% work related.

Make it clear to him and he will leave you alone, he does not want to lose his wife or his job.

He's just greedy, he want to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to keep you around as his fallback girl.

This is one of the cruel ways that an aquarian can treat you. Meaning cake and eat it also.

Take you on an emotional strange rollercoaster with their behavior keep calling you for support etc.

when you want stability and something clear they are ok with the friend situation. but again what kind of friend in your guyses case.. guyses lolo