Is this Cheating?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by pisces on Thursday, June 8, 2006 and has 13 replies.

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@pisces
20 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Hum - ok seeing as you have all left I will write what this is about so you can get some juice lata πŸ™‚

Went out on the weekend for bestest friends bday. We were verrrrry messy by the time one of our girlfriends rocked up with her hubby (she has 2 kidz) - she was shattered and off chops already.
In a moment of "off chopness" she grabbed me & gave me a snogg - Didn't bother me as have known her since we were kids so I knew she was just spastic & would be totally embarrassed in the morning however when she proceeded to grab my very straight friend & fondle her - hummm - not too good. Ha! My friend looked like she was shock frozen & when she motioned for her man to help her out all she got was a two thumbs up from him & a "go for it".
Now, Mr bf was not present when my friend gave me a snogg - I did tell him about it the next day however - I don't think that is classified as cheating

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@tauruschic
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I agree, it's not like it's an affair. Cheating might be seeing them after that, in any case my bf would just looove to see that. Doesn't mind me checking out chics when I'm drunk lol Weirds me out cuz I can't imagine myself with a girl yet I always found myself somewhat attracted to my gf...?

Anywho, if you kissed a guy, then THAT would be cheating since that's an interest and not just a girls gone wild type moment...

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@pisces
20 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Yeah, Thats right! You should go for it tauruschic! Its actually pretty good - been there before! All my gf's minus 1 have kissed me at one stage or another whilst inebriated - Don't know why they go for meβ€”

Does ur man want a 3sum?

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@supramike
20 YearsSagittarius

YEah sounds liek it was jsut a bit of messing aronud.. i would lvoe to see it haha.. infact i used to hang with 2 girls who used to mess aronud liek that al lthe time haha and they knew it drove me crazy LOL..

anyway like tauruschic said if u where to keep seeing her and kissing and going even further LOL then yeah it would be cheating..