leo hopelessly in love with aqua man but confused as dog shit

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by ladyleo3 on Wednesday, November 25, 2015 and has 14 replies.

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@ladyleo3
10 Years

on and off since march. 3 month break in between, now trying things out again, he says i love you to me, then distances, then loves me then distances, and so forth. i dont know whether to wait or give up, i wish hed let me in. But i think im a little scared to let him all the way in too. This has been quite the conundrum. I feel intense feelings for him. how do you handle and aqua man as a leo? funny how opposite signs can be so attracted to one another and have great chemistry, yet we speak different languages. sigh...

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@ladyleo3
10 Years

im 23 he is 28, weve be friends for 6 years and he had recently got out of a 4 year relationship (with another leo i might add) and things got intense fast and i broke it off because i wanted him to be my boyfriend, he wasnt ready. i felt he was playing with my heart. so thats the 3 month break, then we saw each other out and all my feelings immediately came back for him, and i felt it urgent to reach out to him. (had to do with venus in the full moon) and we reconnected. i feel like hes very hot and cold. I just cant figure out whether i should keep trying to pursue him, or what

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by busyeyes88
Ps. Never pursue a man... Another bad habit.of a fire sign... Your masculine energy will not work on an aqua... Let him come to you when he is good and ready... In the meantime find some hobbies or take plenty of cold showers..

OR some batteries! 😉

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Yep, I agree with all of the above, including what busy said about leo and aqua. It can be a good match but you have to give up a lot as the leo and it can drain you over time.

He still isn't ready.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by ladyleo3
on and off since march. 3 month break in between, now trying things out again, he says i love you to me, then distances, then loves me then distances, and so forth. i dont know whether to wait or give up, i wish hed let me in. But i think im a little scared to let him all the way in too. This has been quite the conundrum. I feel intense feelings for him. how do you handle and aqua man as a leo? funny how opposite signs can be so attracted to one another and have great chemistry, yet we speak different languages. sigh...

if you have some aqua you can handle it lady!!

anyway, you are scared, so he probably feels that you're scared and if you're scared, he's scared.

no wonder.

it's like playing tennis. you go! no you go !! no you go!

eeek.

what are your charts—

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@ladyleo3
10 Years

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by ladyleo3
on and off since march. 3 month break in between, now trying things out again, he says i love you to me, then distances, then loves me then distances, and so forth. i dont know whether to wait or give up, i wish hed let me in. But i think im a little scared to let him all the way in too. This has been quite the conundrum. I feel intense feelings for him. how do you handle and aqua man as a leo? funny how opposite signs can be so attracted to one another and have great chemistry, yet we speak different languages. sigh...

if you have some aqua you can handle it lady!!

anyway, you are scared, so he probably feels that you're scared and if you're scared, he's scared.

no wonder.

it's like playing tennis. you go! no you go !! no you go!

eeek.

what are your charts—

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sun- 8 leo 57' 24'
moon- 9 virgo 25' 59'
mercury-12 leo 13'17' R
venus- 22 leo 14'16'
mars- 3 gemini 29'58'
jupiter- 15 virgo 7'48'
saturn- 15 aquarius 37' 5"r
uranus- 15 cap 5'59" r
neptune- 16 cap 5'59" r
pluto- 20 scorpio 8'55"
true node- 0 cap 4'59"
Chiron-12 leo 45' 1"

i was with an aqua man for 4 years, it was a good relationship.. im up the for challenge

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@lisabethur8
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he sounds SLOW...

but you have alot of earth...

so that is weird!!!! how come you're so fast? and impatient??

lol my husband and my ex's are dominant fire, and they are kind of fast, welllll faster than the usual, than if they didnt have any fire ect.

and i'm the one that is slow, like slow the fuck down motherfuckers.

😆

i want to put on that song early in the morning.... Take it easy by Eagles... listen to it, and enjoy yourself. Take. it. easy!!!!

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@ladyleo3
10 Years

Posted by lisabethur8
you do have aqua and you have cap,

what about his placements?

so...WAS, meaning it's past tense.

so you want him back??

he is a new aqua, known eachother for a long time, but i have a history with aquas and i dont know why, theres a powerful attraction between me and new aqua.. but idk how to get on the same page with him, its so.. hot and cold hot and cold. BTW i love the eagles (:

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I really wish some of this "oh he's an aqua, girl you ain't gonna get no lovin from him" bullshit. Because it is pure bullshit, sorry for all the women out there who clearly had bad relationships with a bad man. a bad man period, not astro related, there are bad ones in every sign. Get over your high horse and maybe admit you made a bad choice in life? move on? geez.

If you like him just go for it, this stepsies game is what is making him doubt you. If you're not going to show commitment then our infamous sign for being non-committal won't care much, we'll just view you as a toy/friend until you do let us know "hey there's more here"

And also I always find sayings like "as batshit" or "as dogshit" funny.