let go

Two questions on Aquas:
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a. Are Aquariuns always confused when in love? My Aqua says she loves me very much (as much as she does her mother!!) and then after 3 months she wants only to be friends and we break up. This has been repeated thrice in the past 1.5 years.

b. Related to the above, how easy/difficult is it for an Aquariun with Rising & Moon in Capricorn, to let go someone?

I don't know, but I am Aquarius and my moon is also in Aquarius, at least that is what I have been told, and I can break up with someone, and still miss them, but would never ever go back. Once I make my mind up, that is it. It seems every individual is different.

Dont know about the rising capricorn angle lost in love but as regards are aquarians always confused - for me anyway, the answer is always yes, yes, yes.........

I love being or falling in love but then a certain flat-linish feeling sets in so I manufacture some kind of scenario to probably see if the person really loves me as much as they say......and the horrifying thing is if I find out they really do love me, I run scared......I have told you all this before so I won't parrot-on!!!

However, the fact that she keeps coming back to you is significant....like aquariusannie if I do decide it's really over, I will miss them but I will never return....finito finito.

I think you have got to call Missy's bluff......tell her it's not acceptable her behaviour and you want her out or else she must get her act together!!! (even though you don't want her gone for good!!) , oh she will make a dance and fuss and huff and puff - but if she does love you, she will take a few days to think it through. Aquarians need space and time away from the actual drama incident to think things through for themselves.....only then will she return or perhaps she won't. At least you will know for certain, how you and she are feeling. I wish you the best as always.

A x

WEll I wouldnt say I get confused, but I get bored easily in a relationship, and Like Annie, once I break up I dont look back. I can quickly go from inlove to out of love like it never happened. rarley have I have it affect me emotionally,. its like I can switch my emotions on and off like a light switch, am I the only one like this? but when I am with a man I am loyal and devoted entirely. but dont loose my respect or trust, it over definalty. AN I do have to have my space. As for knowing if my feelings are true, with out a doubt, I can say I was inlove 1 time. I wasnt confused. and if I have doubts, I dont offer the idea that I love them. Care about them, yes.

AK

very hard for me to let go of something that was very special to me.
to this day.. and it's been 27 years!!! I still love my ex Aquarius male. I will never forget the special times we had together, and we were only together for like 5 years.. If I could do it again, I would.

As for my ex husband, I was married to him for 17 years. It was a terrible marriage.. he was mentally abusive [Pisces]. Still it took me 9 years to finally seek another love.. I just didn't want history to repeat it self. 3-5 years to feel like it was totally a waste of my life.. and time to let it go.

I'm not sure what you's mean by 'rising', but my moon is in Aries, venus in in Aries

Aquarius Female

Even tho I finally let my aqua go. I huge part of me wishes he would be the person he was when we first met and come back to me. I know my heart has not let go of "That" part of him. But I have no choice but to let go of the person he has shown me he now. Its like weening off a drug...7 days a week one day at time.

My rising is in Leo, and oh yeah, I get a drive and a kick out of being in love and doing things that excite me. Anything that gives me a rush. But in the same, just like every other Aquarian, if it's not working it just isn't. There's no use in beating the horse when it's already dead, and if I really loved someone, of course I'll miss them, but to keep from sounding like a repeating record, I won't go back. I'm sure everyone has those times when they're just so confused and it's frustrating, but I never usually venture back into anything or any kind of relationship--unless I know that it's worth my time.

I once had this male Aqua pal of mine give me this analogy when I had asked him about an ex that I did not know turned into an ex (I hadn't seen him in awhile and we were catching up) He told me that they were not seeing each other anymore and I asked if he kept in touch with her....He paused, starred at me and said, "let me explain to you my thoughts on this - okay, so you had a car that you drove for about 3 yrs...you enjoyed it, it served you well...you knew when it was time to get a new one so you sold the old one and bought yourself an updated model and now you really enjoy this new car. Would you ever decide to one day locate your past car to drive it again?"

Gotta say he had a point there..he says there is no reason to go back..what is the point? I had to laugh..he is something else!!!! Just another way to perceive.

WB Freebird...we all missed you a lot...!🙂

lol! That was a very interesting persepctive! I couldn't have put in any other terms of explaining it. Your aqua pal must be a real hoot and a holler! 🙂

Freebird that is one cold blooded dude.

a woman is not a car, you have a history with another person, you don't drive someone for three years and not go back . Unless its a bitter brakeup. Its almost like death. I had someone close once that died, and I had a lot of problems with the sitution afterwords, One day I was talking to someone about my sitution , They explaned it to me like this. The person you knew and loved is dead but the relationship you had with them is still there and always will be until the day you die. The same with a lover who you leave or who leaves you they are gone but the relationship will always be a part of you during your life.

JT - I could not agree with you more. Just shows you the difference how one person may view another person as an "object" and yet...another person will view people with compassion and love. All depends how comfortable we are with ourselves and intimacy.

So, long time no talk...how have you been Mister? any trips to St. Louis? I do hope all is well with you...nice to hear from you.

Freebird - still "freeing" it 🙂