Hey everybody :)

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by BeautifulScorpion on Sunday, April 10, 2005 and has 11 replies.

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@BeautifulScorpion
21 Years500+ PostsScorpio

Hey everyone how is everybody doing? How's the weather? It's nice over here in california, very sunny... but not hot, just right! ๐Ÿ˜›

Anyone know of the scorpio and aquarius combination, or has been with an aquarius (scorpios) or aq. been with scorpios?

I know this Aquarius guy that wants me, I like him too alot, he is amazing.

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@callmemsram
21 YearsAries

Hi, the weather is also great in North Carolina!!

What is it that you need to know about aquarius. My ex-hubby is one. If you want to know about them, I could give you the 411. I'll start with, they are really good people. They have their faults just as anyone else....

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hmmm wondered where you had scampered off to. Sounds like you've been busy. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Don't know about the scorp/aquarius pairing, but I have several aquarian male friends and here's what I can tell you:

They're closet detectives. I swear! They will ask questions until you feel like saying "Are you writing a book?" Sometimes they can seem a little cold and insensitive. But they are usually quite talkative, being an air sign, and they are almost always passionate about a hobby or an interest.

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@lost in love
21 YearsScorpio

I am a Scorpio Male age 32 with an Aquarius female age 22. We have been together for 2.5 years and it has been emotional roller coaster. We started off with a bang. First 6 months were great and then started the trouble. I found her quite detached whereas I myself was very open with her.

The lessons learnt if you really want to go throuh with an Aqua.
a. dont be possessive or atleast dont show it!!!
b. give him/her lot of space. I am a "closeness" man though not clingy, still I found this difficult. They need a looooooooooootttttttttt of space and air to breath.
c. do not pressure her. As scorpios we see answers in "yes or no", they see answers with something in between.
d. do not give everything of yourself in one go. let him/her crave for it.
e. when there is a strain in the relationship, do not argue and hit with words which we Scorpios usually do.
f. Aquas cant stand to be ignored. So avoid her once in a while.
g. Even after a fight, show you care :-)
h. Avoid being too emotional

Scorpios need to change a lot for a relationship with an Aqua to last. It is a mental gymnastics with Aquas. The point is do you love him/her so much to have a new identitiy?

I tried, but am failing. All the best.

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@lost in love
21 YearsScorpio

I wrote a lot and then realised that I am on the Scorpio board :-) lol lol

As an Aqua what you wont like of scorpios are

a. jealousy/possesiveness (even though this wont be shown)
b. over emotional
c. we want answers in black and white

Praise a Scorpio, even though he might act modest. Scorpios like closeness.

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@callmemsram
21 YearsAries

ummmmmm the comments about the Aquarius Male, I'll have to disagree with some of ya! Being a Aries and married to one for 7 years it was mostly great. You have to have a very free spirit mind to deal with these guys. He needs a lot of space and will take it if need be. Trying to hold this man down or become clingy is a no no, routine will eventually distroy this union. He wants a strong person to take over. He doesnt deal with the small nuases in life. If his partner is strong enough to carry the burdens, he is a very happy, loving and caring man. His friends, family, work and anything he loves that where there before any of his commitments, shall remain. You have to have these qualities to be able to understand this. They are great fathers and they really have big hearts. They are not insenstive, its just they really don't like to fight over outside activities or if their minds are made up to do something. They will appear to be cold if you go against the grain. When all is said and done! If they have choosen the wrong path with you, they will find major ways to make it up to you. For me, I had to go because he took the wind out of my sails. If you don't be careful, you will be living his life and your personally will no longer exist. Being a Ram, I don't believe anyone should have to go through that. Plus, if it true love, why would anyone in a relationship not be loved for who they are but accepts love because they are just needed. I know he loved me because he needed me and I made life easy for him through all the struggles and challenges. Emotionally, he could'nt handle my force which made me very unhappy. Once a person tells you to do what you want?? That's a no no for me? I'll do just that!!!! and I did.......Aries and Aquarius get along great as best friends. We have been divorce for 2 years and he has become that emotional support that I didnt have in the marriage. As of now. I wouldnt change a thing.....

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@BeautifulScorpion
21 Years500+ PostsScorpio

..hey everybody! thank you for the inputs in all. but the thing about the aqua being attatched he's more emotional and i'm more detached. Me being clingy is a no no... he's more clingy than me. Everything is the exact opposite of what most people said lol it's more like him... strange.

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@callmemsram
21 YearsAries

The best I could respond to what you are saying is this!!! He will appear clingy at first. If he is really interest in you he will do the following: He will call you alot. He will try to see you; He will stare at you; If he knows where he can run into you at, he will be there. This is his approached. He will appear clueless and somewhat shy. If he remains to do the following for a while and you still seems to be detached? There is always someone else that will give him the time of day. You would not be aware of it because you are not in a relationship! what he does, he will not make it your business. He will not try to make you jealous neither. He is adventurer; Your demeanor has no real effect on him because he knows how to travel. If he is really good looking? Then he is always looking until someone strong enough holds his interest. Be careful? You'll wind up stinging yourself in the long run. He is very innocent in his approach. The mistery about this man will leave you baffled. Don't get me wrong? Aquar are very happy go lucky males. They easily get bored with the hum drum. If you get involved with this man, just remember? He doesnt need a lot of closeness or routine. No matter how you may percieve things, you will have thought to long and hard to know what move he will make next. To deal with an Aquar, you must be a very opened minded person in order to win him over.

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Don't you just love Seizetheday? She is hilarious! Definitely a good one...

Cancerlady

Sorry, I don't know much about Aqua men except they are decent in bed...I knew the match wouldn't work, so I never tried.

Good Luck!