help me...how to handle

this is sangicrab again..i think i told u guys about my aqua guy....i ignored him coz his din't respond....i just totally ignored and moved on with my life,creating new friends....decided to quit.

finally he came back to me complaining i left him and went with new friends.i don't think he is goin to give the intimacy and security i need in relationship.

i like him and admire him a lot.

and i heard that aqua moves on with a new relationship when the old is boring so i'am scarrrrred.

can i keep my aqua with me or he's goin to keep running away?

How long did it take him to come back? I guess I'm just looking for hope that mine will.

Now that I think about it...thats my fear too. If he did come back could I trust him to stay? From my experiences with aquas before the "heartbreaker", they do seem to fade in and out according to their own comfort level. I hate that.

My Aqua did finally contact me. He emailed me.I don't really trust him with my feelings or with my heart, but I have missed him so much. after a few emails he did admit that he F'ed Up and he apologized from "the bottom" of his heart. He told me that he missed me and wished he could tell me to my face. I said it was miscommunication and that I F'ed up too in my own way. I told him all was open and forgiven. I left it like that, although I haven't checked my email in few hours.
I'm just not too sure what to do now.

My brother is suffering from deprssion since his cancer girl left him.But our mother didn't take care of him as well as she did,so he could think that he needs her for that.

He's an aqua.Didn't catch that I didn't throw that in there the first time.

The Aqua's I have dealt with always come back then leave then come back then leave. Then when they come back, they act like nothing is wrong. Perhaps you should look for something a little more stable if that's what you seek.

Cancerlady

Thats good cancerlady. I have experienced that to be true as well.

Yeah,he did deserve the breakup though,she got tired of being dumped repeatedly so he could have sexual flinges.

KocoaHauntis

What sign are you?

Cancerlady

Nevermind, I know now...THE BULL

I'll have to agree we Aquarians are very free spirits. They come and go as they please and they value their time to themselves. They don't like clingy relationships. If you're not a Libra, Aquarius, or Sagittarius, it might be best to not try romantic endevours with one. I'm an Aquarius male and have had really badly failed relationships with women Capricorns and Taurans. It's funny 'cause they are the total opposite of me and I want them really bad, but our personalities are completely opposite.

I think it might be possible but later in life when the aquas ready to settle down and gets bored with differant woman all the time and wants stability.And the cancer is older so they aren't as clingy.

hi friends..
sorry for my late response for ur sweet responses.
thankx

ya i agree that aquas come and leave and keep doing like that....
my aqua was very angry with me,almost bursted out to me,making me cry and he next day he talked as nothing happened....
it's really wierd.

we are classmates...same college same class...
at the beginning of the semester we start then before the end of semester we split atleast twice...

even if he is totally with me without leaving i can find a way to adjust and make things better...

now i'm helpless and i have to quit.