Libra man needs help with Aquarius female

I have known this girl for awhile but eventually she left her boyfriend and I asked if she wanted to go have beers Didn't know if I intended it to be a date but she was like I haven't been out on a date in a long time at one point. Chemistry was great and we talked and talked and talked (I am told that is Libra man and Aquarius to a T). The third time we went out she was licking my hand and told me I didn't have to go home but I kissed her on the forehead and left. I got a little too overbearing maybe with asking her to go out together in the coming weeks. She would still respond but would always be busy but still intermittently we would hang out together. She would flirt with me, tell me I looked sexy, ask me how she looked in this dress, call me late at night like 1130 and beg me to stay on the phone and talk to her etc etc. Time passed and I knew because of what I did, I would be friendzoned but everytime I would back off for 4 or 5 days I would get texts of I miss your face or I miss you or calls of wanting to go out together to which nothing would ever happened. Eventually, she went to one of my friends and her friends (we hang out in the same circle) and told them she wasn't interested in anything romantic as the ex boyfriend had passed away (really she wasn't interested in me that way). I made it pretty blatantly obvious in my behavior that I was and things still continued on that way cause I said nothing until I finally texted her and told her that we hadn't been upfront with each other and that I cared about her and liked spending time with her but I wasn't interested in friendship and that I did not feel like playing what seemed like some kind of twisted game anymore. That sent her up the wall (not sure why) and she told me that she was really frustrated and furious. Her friends told my friends that they were picking sides, on her "team", and I was even called names by one of her friends. Immature? I texted her after a month because of the awkwardness it had caused in my circle and wanting harmony so bad (libra much) told her that if it couldn't be ok I understood but I wanted everything to be ok and was trying to forgive her and wanted to make peace and that I was here for her and with her. She told me that she was just thinking about me and that she was just thinking about how much she missed me. and that we should hang out and do something soon. We have texted back and forth a few times trying to work something out but she has traveling for business, been very sick with an infection, and I went on vacation.

I have been pursuing her and the last text I said that I wanted to have some fun together and have a chat sometime soon and I hope we could which she sent me a bunch of blue hearts. I am struggling with whether or not I should continue to pursue? Is it in my court? I also battle with do I just go spend time with her and tell her im here for you whatever way you need or do I once again explain to her that I cannot be friends as I am not interested in friendship? I have been told Aquas need friends first and I have feelings for her. w

I really want there to be peace so that is why I reached back out or else I would have walked away and never looked back. I have never been in a situation like this and been so sure that someone was really into me. Is this typical flighty Aqua behavior?? Help!