
CancerLeoDynamite
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Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Once you have fallen out of love with someone is it possible to get those feelings back?
If so what does it take?
Also how do you act when you have fallen out of love?
If One is still maintaining frequent daily contact, accidentally slipping and using pet names and giving off a definite vibe that feelings are not as detached as one claims, is the "not in love" thing an act to save face and protect that famous aqua ego or a legit state of mind?


Posted by lisabethur8Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Once you have fallen out of love with someone is it possible to get those feelings back?
If so what does it take?
Also how do you act when you have fallen out of love?
If One is still maintaining frequent daily contact, accidentally slipping and using pet names and giving off a definite vibe that feelings are not as detached as one claims, is the "not in love" thing an act to save face and protect that famous aqua ego or a legit state of mind?
CLD, is this about your catfish overweight aqua living in the basement?
you really need to let him go.
it sounds as if he has a STRONG impression on you than your ex scorpio. I never see you going around posting about him as much as you do this phenomena of this chubby superficial aqua who likes skinny women.click to expand

Posted by feby
I had to go back
In your history and see what you've posted about....I realized I was in 2012? Is this the same aqua from 2012?

Posted by maranoid
I also would like to know. My ex is driving me nuts.
I'm actually mostly in a place of "screw u, I'm done" but then I start missing him

Posted by CancerLeoDynamitePosted by lisabethur8Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Once you have fallen out of love with someone is it possible to get those feelings back?
If so what does it take?
Also how do you act when you have fallen out of love?
If One is still maintaining frequent daily contact, accidentally slipping and using pet names and giving off a definite vibe that feelings are not as detached as one claims, is the "not in love" thing an act to save face and protect that famous aqua ego or a legit state of mind?
CLD, is this about your catfish overweight aqua living in the basement?
you really need to let him go.
it sounds as if he has a STRONG impression on you than your ex scorpio. I never see you going around posting about him as much as you do this phenomena of this chubby superficial aqua who likes skinny women.
It was just a general question, I am curious what aquas think about this.
I have my own opinion and thoughts on this and have already made me decisions and seen my results
I am curious what OTHER peoples ideas about this sort of thing are, and whether or not they would match up with my own opinions, and things that have already happened out of curiosity.
I"m not asking advice and didn't phrase it that way at all.
TBH your reply is kind of offensive to me.
As for my aqua, he absolutely has no interest in skinny women and in fact says awful things about them which I'm not even going to repeat because I do not like to perpetuate hate towards womens physical appearance.
Suffice it to say, that you're dead wrong.click to expand


Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
If he's the one initiating the contact I'm pretty sure it's safe to say that he never stopped loving you.

Posted by feby
Ok I was just curious as well...it's your decision yes and your life yes. I just know that some men (and women) string people along. Someone here was just talking about back burner relationships. It's good though..
To answer your question, once I've fallen out of love it's very difficult or even impossible to get it back. I've never tried because tbh the reasons to make me fall out of love have to be huge.





Posted by cultstatus
I didn't really read the whole context of this thread but in answer to your question, I would NEVER EVER EVER fall back in love with someone. Once I've made up my mind (and it takes me ALOT to give up one someone) that I am giving up on the relationship, nothing they could say or do would ever change my mind. When I come to the realisation I instantly detach and am slightly disgusted by the person haha. In terms of wondering why I was even with them etc etc.
Also, I still tell my ex I love him, I never say I'm in love with him, but I feel it would be cruel for me not to say it when he says how much he misses me as he is a great guy (and a Cancer sun!).


Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I'm going to stick my big nose in here.....and I'm not even sure why aside from the fact I remember your catfish story and just noticed you are a cancer woman with a leo moon....like cluelesscancer.
Have you been following along with her posts at all? No disrespect (to her or you) but there are some parallels.
Are you settling? Or trying desperately to do so just so you can get kids and marriage out of the way? I'm not being offensive, I'm just curious....because you seem to be doing yourself a disservice by hanging on to a man who is only halfway vested who started your relationship on a bed of lies and fantasy.
Take a step back and look at this objectively.....move forward pushing him in the slot you want him in and you might be setting yourself up for years of miserly experiences.....all for the sake of being 'taken'.







Posted by cultstatus
Well it sounds like you've resigned yourself to the fact that you'll be staying with him regardless.
Posted by CancerLeoDynamitePosted by TwirlingStrawberry
I'm going to stick my big nose in here.....and I'm not even sure why aside from the fact I remember your catfish story and just noticed you are a cancer woman with a leo moon....like cluelesscancer.
Have you been following along with her posts at all? No disrespect (to her or you) but there are some parallels.
Are you settling? Or trying desperately to do so just so you can get kids and marriage out of the way? I'm not being offensive, I'm just curious....because you seem to be doing yourself a disservice by hanging on to a man who is only halfway vested who started your relationship on a bed of lies and fantasy.
Take a step back and look at this objectively.....move forward pushing him in the slot you want him in and you might be setting yourself up for years of miserly experiences.....all for the sake of being 'taken'.
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Investment is not the issue.
He is more invested than I've been. I am the one asking for breaks, and the one who broke up with him and he was definitely not down with it but he respected my wishes.
The catfish thing was a dick move on his behalf and I know it. I was upset for a long time about it, but the truth is I don't give a fuck if he's fat and doesn't have a lot of money.
My issue was that he lied.
It's a valid issue, and I have struggled to decide if it is forgivable or not.
I can understand being embarrassed about those things. Wanting to make someone like you for YOU and not what you look like or how much money you make.
I get that.
I have decided it is in fact forgivable.
In fact I have already forgiven him, but it took time. And it got brought up during fights in a nasty way multiple times before I did.
No I'm not settling, I adore this guy for who this guy is. For his absolutely brilliant mind. For his patience. For how incredible it feels tucked into the crook of his arm when we sleep.
I'm divorced and already have a child, marriage and kids is not something on my mind, at all. I want a best friend and lover and that's what he is.
I was single for SEVEN years before meeting this guy because I refused to settle. I had many suitors and NONE of them made me feel the way my Aqua does. None of them were compatible emotionally, or in terms of life goals etc, the way me and my

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If so what does it take?
Also how do you act when you have fallen out of love?
If One is still maintaining frequent daily contact, accidentally slipping and using pet names and giving off a definite vibe that feelings are not as detached as one claims, is the "not in love" thing an act to save face and protect that famous aqua ego or a legit state of mind?