My Aqua is really mad at me...right before his birthday!

I messed up I admit, but his words were harsh considering how much I was trying to help him plan a trip. SO instead of me apologizing right away I lashed out at him and he immediately started questioning the relationship, mind you we've only been going together for 3 months now.

After a bit I did apologize but I think the damage might be done because he hasn't answered my messages like at all. I decided I would just give him space and he could take my apology or not but he's probably wondering if he should end it with me at this point lol.

Anyway should I still wish him a happy birthday or be petty and match his silent treatment? I feel like i'm in an evil kermit meme.:/

What's your process Aquas when someone makes you mad?

Posted by Nepturanus
bad idea if you choose not to wish him a happy birthday.

Yeah I figured..he hurt my feelings so I'm feeling petty..but I will wish him a happy bday :/

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https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155410454728/how-do-you-know-when-an-aquarian-is-upset

https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155471489303/why-is-my-aquarian-ignoring-me

Thank you for this..I guess at the end of the day I need to let him be and decide what he wants to do? :/

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https://aquariusinterpreter.tumblr.com/post/155471489303/why-is-my-aquarian-ignoring-me

hey someone made a leo/aquarius thingy. lol

is that you? 😛 😆 😄



I was looking at old films because I wanted to see Robert Downey Jr.'s youthful films, way before he turned so handsome in his middle age. I think middle age men are HOT. lol that's my man too. 😆



anyway, Cybill Shepherd got NAKED!!! in this old film, and she's an Aquarius stellium, like you. lol



she looks so shy and awkward doing it.

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Posted by lisabethur8


hey someone made a leo/aquarius thingy. lol

is that you? 😛 😆 😄

Depends where did you see this thingy— Lmao 😆

I was looking at old films because I wanted to see Robert Downey Jr.'s youthful films, way before he turned so handsome in his middle age. I think middle age men are HOT. lol that's my man too. 😆

Yes, he is extremely handsome now. He looked a bit awkward looking when young. But man do I love Aries men! Michael Fassbender is another VERY good looking man. *sigh* too bad their Aries lol

anyway, Cybill Shepherd got NAKED!!! in this old film, and she's an Aquarius stellium, like you. lol

she looks so shy and awkward doing it.

That would be soo me.

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I don't really like Michael Fassbender though. lol



😛

I know he's all "that" with a lot of women though.

yeah I would also be awkward but I wouldn't go naked, i'd say no thanks. 😆

Posted by youandmeboth
I messed up I admit, but his words were harsh considering how much I was trying to help him plan a trip. SO instead of me apologizing right away I lashed out at him and he immediately started questioning the relationship, mind you we've only been going together for 3 months now.

After a bit I did apologize but I think the damage might be done because he hasn't answered my messages like at all. I decided I would just give him space and he could take my apology or not but he's probably wondering if he should end it with me at this point lol.

Anyway should I still wish him a happy birthday or be petty and match his silent treatment? I feel like i'm in an evil kermit meme.:/

What's your process Aquas when someone makes you mad?

Depends on what you did. Three months is the time in which you are still processing if you even like the person. You failed to explain what caused him to ignore you. If I love you and what you said wasn't that bad I will eventually come around but if I am questioning the relationship I will either slowly distance myself until you get the point or tell you straight up I am no longer interested. Wish him a Happy Bday regardless of how upset you both are right now that's being the bigger person even if he doesn't say Thank you'.

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Posted by youandmeboth
I messed up I admit, but his words were harsh considering how much I was trying to help him plan a trip. SO instead of me apologizing right away I lashed out at him and he immediately started questioning the relationship, mind you we've only been going together for 3 months now.

After a bit I did apologize but I think the damage might be done because he hasn't answered my messages like at all. I decided I would just give him space and he could take my apology or not but he's probably wondering if he should end it with me at this point lol.

Anyway should I still wish him a happy birthday or be petty and match his silent treatment? I feel like i'm in an evil kermit meme.:/

What's your process Aquas when someone makes you mad?

Depends on what you did. Three months is the time in which you are still processing if you even like the person. You failed to explain what caused him to ignore you. If I love you and what you said wasn't that bad I will eventually come around but if I am questioning the relationship I will either slowly distance myself until you get the point or tell you straight up I am no longer interested. Wish him a Happy Bday regardless of how upset you both are right now that's being the bigger person even if he doesn't say Thank you'.

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Well he was planning a trip (9 of us all together), I was doing my best to help him out and find rentals but it was a president's weekend so we really weren't having any luck because they were getting booked. He said we'd wait till the end of Sunday and if we didn't find anything we'd look at another date. Out of the 9 people were two of MY friends, I told my two friends the trip was not going to happen. I really didn't want to keep promising we'd find a place when we weren't having any luck and it seemed he'd stop looking for a place. I talked to him on the phone and he even said "Looks like we'll do it another date because it'll be crowded anyway since it's a holiday weekend."

Anyway he ended up finding a place Sunday night and I told him I already told my friends the trip was off and they already made plans for that weekend so they weren't coming, so it would have to be split between 7 people instead of 9. He then gets mad and said I cost them the trip and now they'd have to be forced to do the trip on a regular weekend where they'd only be able to stay one night most likely.

My thing is I can see where I messed up I shouldn't have jumped the gun, I just wished he would have expressed what he felt but not in a way where it made it seem like I ruined the whole thing for everybody...

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Posted by EveryOunce

Posted by youandmeboth
I messed up I admit, but his words were harsh considering how much I was trying to help him plan a trip. SO instead of me apologizing right away I lashed out at him and he immediately started questioning the relationship, mind you we've only been going together for 3 months now.

After a bit I did apologize but I think the damage might be done because he hasn't answered my messages like at all. I decided I would just give him space and he could take my apology or not but he's probably wondering if he should end it with me at this point lol.

Anyway should I still wish him a happy birthday or be petty and match his silent treatment? I feel like i'm in an evil kermit meme.:/

What's your process Aquas when someone makes you mad?

Depends on what you did. Three months is the time in which you are still processing if you even like the person. You failed to explain what caused him to ignore you. If I love you and what you said wasn't that bad I will eventually come around but if I am questioning the relationship I will either slowly distance myself until you get the point or tell you straight up I am no longer interested. Wish him a Happy Bday regardless of how upset you both are right now that's being the bigger person even if he doesn't say Thank you'.

Well he was planning a trip (9 of us all together), I was doing my best to help him out and find rentals but it was a president's weekend so we really weren't having any luck because they were getting booked. He said we'd wait till the end of Sunday and if we didn't find anything we'd look at another date. Out of the 9 people were two of MY friends, I told my two friends the trip was not going to happen. I really didn't want to keep promising we'd find a place when we weren't having any luck and it seemed he'd stop looking for a place. I talked to him on the phone and he even said "Looks like we'll do it another date because it'll be crowded anyway since it's a holiday weekend."

Anyway he ended up finding a place Sunday night and I told him I already told my friends the trip was off and they already made plans for that weekend so they weren't coming, so it would have to be split between 7 people instead of 9. He then gets mad and said I cost them the trip and now they'd have to be forced to do the trip on a regular weekend where they'd only be able to stay one night most likely.

My thing is I can see where I messed up I shouldn't have jumped the gun, I just wished he would have expressed what he felt but not in a way where it made it seem like I ruined the whole thing for everybody...

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Just miscommunication. I thought it was much deeper than this. I understand his frustration and your decision to tell your friends and yes even though you did jump the gun it wasn't that bad. Hopefully, everything will work itself out.