@Virqua
9 Years
Deciding to call your ex depends on your intentions and her reactions. If you want to reconnect, consider her feelings and whether she seems interested in continuing communication. Reflect on the previous relationship and what you hope to achieve before reaching out again.
Maybe you came on too strong, wait a week or two and then call.
Yes, call her today. I'd say don't wait.. but don't bring up the past.
Posted by tiziani
She gave you her number so yes. I wouldn't mention the past if I were you. Keep it simple.
How long should i wait
2 days?
Posted by virgxxleo
Maybe you came on too strong, wait a week or two and then call.
I just looked at her. While we were both smiling i just let out " i really miss you. Then BOOM the atmosphere changes and she pulls back then takes off.
Posted by Aerazo
Yes, call her today. I'd say don't wait.. but don't bring up the past.
Past was not bad it was actually good we just moved away. I moved back to the U.S and she stayed in London
Posted by tiziani
She gave you her number so yes. I wouldn't mention the past if I were you. Keep it simple.How long should i wait
2 days?
I'd do it as soon as possible, like Aerazo said. It's just being genuine.
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Should i text it?
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Well first and foremost you didn't specify the reason as to why you guys ended things?If you broke her heart or ghosted her then maybe she felt like you had quite the nerve to say you missed her. I know when my Leo told me he missed me and I was the best thing in his life...i literally rolled my eyes in disbelief.
If she's moved on and you said that, it could be she closed that chapter in her life and by you telling her that you missed her...she might have felt like she made a mistake. I know I've done that with my ex Aries. I thought he had finally accepted us not being together and he was truly moving on, when he told me he still felt something...all I could think of was 'Oh God', I thought we were over this.
If I close a chapter in my life and I move on...chances are I don't go back. Especially if it wasn't fairly recent.
But when she smiled at me and looked into my eyes i felt the connection i really missed her. So i let my heart out infront of her.
Posted by tiziani
She gave you her number so yes. I wouldn't mention the past if I were you. Keep it simple.How long should i wait
2 days?
I'd do it as soon as possible, like Aerazo said. It's just being genuine.
Should i text it?
No.
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O.k I'll call i just dont want to get rejected or end up feeling like a fool because i felt butterflies
Posted by Aerazo
Yes, call her today. I'd say don't wait.. but don't bring up the past.Past was not bad it was actually good we just moved away. I moved back to the U.S and she stayed in London
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awww id say it's fate!! ??
Don't go crazy on her, just talk to her first, find out how she's doing if she's with someone or not.. invite her to dinner or coffee.. (in case you guys are close now)
Approach her slowly, mostly if her feelings were hurt during the separation. 🙂
I was visiting London 09 after i lost a job. I worked so much that i thought i would never have and opportunity to travel. When i arrived at london my last week i met her.She was riding a bycicle headed right for me. she darted pass me almost knocking me down by accident. I told her to watch it, And she pointed to a sign above that said "watch out for bikers". She smiled and ask if i was alright. I got up and she said " American?i asked her what gave it away. We talked then i walked her to her grandmothers corner store. We hung out afew times made love and on the last day i asked her to come with me. She looked at me and said she couldn't this was her home and that somthings are not met to be. I told her if by any chance we meet again then we would both know its met to be.
Posted by Virqua
I was visiting London 09 after i lost a job. I worked si much that i thought i would never have and opportunity to travel. When i arrived at london my last week i met her.S he was riding a bycicle headed right for me. she darted pass me almost knocking me down by accident. I told her to watch it, And she pointed to a sign above that said "watch out for bikers". She smiled and ask if i was alright. I got up and she said " American?i asked her what gave it away. We talked then i walked her to her grandmothers corner store. We hung out afew times made love and on the ladt day i asked her to come with me. She looked at me and said she couldn't this was her home and that somthings are not met to be. I told her if by any chance we meet again then we would both know its met to be.so you guys weren't even together.
i smell something funny
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We were together for short period tslked on the phone for hour's after she went cold on me
Be in the present. Don't track mud from the past with exclamations that you miss her. Be in the now. The past is not reality.
Posted by Virqua
I was visiting London 09 after i lost a job. I worked si much that i thought i would never have and opportunity to travel. When i arrived at london my last week i met her.S he was riding a bycicle headed right for me. she darted pass me almost knocking me down by accident. I told her to watch it, And she pointed to a sign above that said "watch out for bikers". She smiled and ask if i was alright. I got up and she said " American?i asked her what gave it away. We talked then i walked her to her grandmothers corner store. We hung out afew times made love and on the ladt day i asked her to come with me. She looked at me and said she couldn't this was her home and that somthings are not met to be. I told her if by any chance we meet again then we would both know its met to be.so you guys weren't even together.
i smell something funny
We were together for short period tslked on the phone for hour's after she went cold on me
a week, she wasn't your GIRLFRIEND...
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lol
love at first sight.
Posted by LillyPetal
Be in the present. Don't track mud from the past with explanations that you miss her. Be in the now.
I feel like i love her.
I called her and she hung up.
Maybe i played into somthing i made up in my mind.
Posted by LillyPetal
Be in the present. Don't track mud from the past with explanations that you miss her. Be in the now.I feel like i love her.
I called her and she hung up.
Maybe i played into somthing i made up in my mind.
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That is very possible. We are all capable of constructing our own truth and then destroying any chance at something honest.
The important thing is to reflect on ourselves.
Posted by LillyPetal
Be in the present. Don't track mud from the past with explanations that you miss her. Be in the now.I feel like i love her.
I called her and she hung up.
Maybe i played into somthing i made up in my mind.
That is very possible. We are all capable of constructing our own truth and then destroying any chance at something honest.
The important thing is to reflect on ourselves.
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But we both constructed it together.
When i held her i felt her exhale like she was searching for me and found me. I felt like we were the only 2 people on the face of this earth for the few momments our bodies joined. She looked at me deep, i could see myself kissing her. And when she left i hated myself for not chasing after her and telling her after all this time and all these years.
Posted by topes
'Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunning She looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms o'I was expecting this to turn into 'out to hug the guy standing right next to me.'
Phew 🙂
Sounds like a lovely story of how u guys met. Why the coincidence tho with the airport thing. What are the chances.
Im glade it happened.
Posted by topes
'Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunning She looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms o'I was expecting this to turn into 'out to hug the guy standing right next to me.'
Phew 🙂
Sounds like a lovely story of how u guys met. Why the coincidence tho with the airport thing. What are the chances.
Im glade it happened.
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well it's good she made you happy for that day.
inspiration is a beautiful thing.
I called her
She said i was delusional.
I told her how i felt and about our love story
She said she remembers a different way.
She said that she was late to work. And like s idiot i wss blocking the bycicle lane. That she hit thr curve and bent her rim. She said we argued were she called me a typical F..kin American. Then apparently i stalked her all the way to work. And the love making part was no love involved. She said she was drunk and high off coke. When bumped into me she thought i was another women because i looked feminine and that she was bisexual. The next day relizing her mistake out of anger we argued and when i asked her to come to U.S she said F..k off
The worst part earlier at the airport she said wasnt excited to see me. She said she was runing to attack me and her goal was to wrap her hands around my neck. But she couldnt so we fought until we reached the coffee shop. And when i told her i missed her she poured hot coffee unto my face and gave me the middle finger as she stormed off.
How can i make her relize she loves me
Posted by Virqua
I called herShe said i was delusional.
I told her how i felt and about our love story
She said she remembers a different way.
She said that she was late to work. And like s idiot i wss blocking the bycicle lane. That she hit thr curve and bent her rim. She said we argued were she called me a typical F..kin American. Then apparently i stalked her all the way to work. And the love making part was no love involved. She said she was drunk and high off coke. When bumped into me she thought i was another women because i looked feminine and that she was bisexual. The next day relizing her mistake out of anger we argued and when i asked her to come to U.S she said F..k off
The worst part earlier at the airport she said wasnt excited to see me. She said she was runing to attack me and her goal was to wrap her hands around my neck. But she couldnt so we fought until we reached the coffee shop. And when i told her i missed her she poured hot coffee unto my face and gave me the middle finger as she stormed off.
you're crazy.
I think you're trolling.
lmao
at least make it believable.
OP, you're never gonna get that novel published.
it wont even go into the trashy paperback novels for 2 bucks. 😆
Posted by CanthalTilt
I remember your troll story though viraqua it wasn't badYou dragged them on for pages
Good troll
I finnally looked up trolling.
And i dnt think im trolling. Trolls are a..h..ls that try to instigate i just write
at least make it believable.
OP, you're never gonna get that novel published.
it wont even go into the trashy paperback novels for 2 bucks. 😆
I couldnt lead you on for the 8th time it wouldnt have been right
Posted by CanthalTilt
He said he was the same guyI don't bother with the lower tiers and take their word for it
6 bed room house 3 cars wife and kids chief of operations 6 figur income
plus i sold thousands of books.
Posted by Virqua
Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunningShe looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?
Yea! Now!
at least make it believable.
OP, you're never gonna get that novel published.
it wont even go into the trashy paperback novels for 2 bucks. 😆
He could try writing on Sumoo's soft porn thread "how do you have sex".. He might find more success....
I knew there was something wrong with the OP. The first problem was he is a Virgo and 2) delusional according to the account from the girl's synopsis of events and 3) he refused to answer vital questions....
Big troll..
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Im just arrogant i dint care little kitty
Lol
Posted by Virqua
Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunningShe looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?
Yea! Now!
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Please read
at least make it believable.
OP, you're never gonna get that novel published.
it wont even go into the trashy paperback novels for 2 bucks. 😆
He could try writing on Sumoo's soft porn thread "how do you have sex".. He might find more success....
I knew there was something wrong with the OP. The first problem was he is a Virgo and 2) delusional according to the account from the girl's synopsis of events and 3) he refused to answer vital questions....
Big troll..
Im just arrogant i don't care little kitty
Lol
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Posted by Virqua
Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunningShe looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?
Yea! Now!
Please read
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Why?
Is this required for an intelligent answer?
Lol
Posted by Virqua
Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunningShe looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?
Yea! Now!
Please read
Why?
Is this required for an intelligent answer?
Lol
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Yes
Posted by Virqua
Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunningShe looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?
Yea! Now!
Please read
Why?
Is this required for an intelligent answer?
Lol
Yes
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Oh! Sorry...I didn't think in THIS forum!
Lol
Going to a free library...after polarizes and yoga...that's what was trying to avoid...Urghhh
Posted by Gemitati
Going to a free library...after polarizes and yoga...that's what was trying to avoid...Urghhhlmao!
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Who are you tiz?
Posted by Gemitati
Going to a free library...after polarizes and yoga...that's what was trying to avoid...Urghhhlmao!
Who are you tiz?
I don't know why but this place wouldn't be the same without you.
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I know!
I've heard that before and every time I left I was surprised they are thriving!!!
Wtf—
You two
get out.
Take that cherping some where else
Take him/her with you
Posted by Gemitati
Going to a free library...after polarizes and yoga...that's what was trying to avoid...Urghhhlmao!
Who are you tiz?
I don't know why but this place wouldn't be the same without you.
I know!
I've heard that before and every time I left I was surprised they are thriving!!!
Wtf—
Thats what my new gem friend with the leo moon said when she left our apartment to live in another one.... But we are thriving very happily without her here and its a lot quieter. We still see her but happy to have her go back to her new lodgings at the end of her visit.... Awww soooo peaceful!! Lol lol lol
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Lol. Party ended...
Posted by Virqua
Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunningShe looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?
Call her call her call her yessssss !!!
Don't live without knowing what could happen if you call.
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I like you
Posted by Virqua
Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunningShe looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?
Call her call her call her yessssss !!!
Don't live without knowing what could happen if you call.
I like you
I'm a hopeless romantic !!! I wish you the best love story ever ❤️
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O m g really this is soo touching me too. Thank you thank YOU
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Today i was runing late for a flight, sitting at the airport i noticed the girl across from me was my ex girlfriend she looked stunning
She looked at me then smiled excited to see me, we both got up walked to meet half way then she streched her arms out to give me hug. We headed to the airport coffee shop then talked for 10 minutes we exchanged numbers. Then i told her i missed her. She looked upset that i said that. Then she ran off with out saying anything after her plane was boarding. She just walked off
Should i call her?