@boxcarmirnta
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Do your feelings come and go?
Posted by Miamia13
Yes absolutely
I wish i could figure out why this happens.. It's not really their fault, things just change...any insight?
Posted by boxcarmirnta
sometimes i'm overjoyed with someone and then later i don't think about them much at all...it's weird..??yup you're just being an aqua there 😄
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Well shit...its like pushing the mute button ...the person is still there, but the feelings are silenced. Hmmm i wanna figure out how to combat this..
Does that mean you don't care about that person anymore or your mind is just somewhere else?
Or does that mean you like them but they aren't the one for you?
Posted by Aries_Luminary
Does that mean you don't care about that person anymore or your mind is just somewhere else?Or does that mean you like them but they aren't the one for you?
not that we don't care.. just that i do tend to get bored.. take time away and then think about them and miss them.. so that's good. always questioning if they are the right one tho....
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Yes. Especially with my Gemini moon.But thing is once my heart loves...it's hard to let go. Eventually my heart strings are being pulled towards whatever or whoever it gravitates too.
Usually my 'feelings' change because of something that happened. Usually someone pissing me off. But after all said and done, my feelings are still there, despite me cursing his name and wishing I never met him. After that anger subsides, I realize I care about that person. If it doesn't then I know I never truly loved that individual.
omg yes...totally.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Not an aqua but i have an aqua moon and other planets, and have always related more to your side of things...sometimes i'm overjoyed with someone and then later i don't think about them much at all...it's weird..??I think it's because we grow bored easily. Not necessarily because we stop loving that individual. Because I guarantee that if we felt like we were losing that person our 'heart' will ignite and go after that individual. But since we're always the ones being chased rather than chase ourselves...we stay in this limbo of lazy comfortability.
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agreed here too!! i get bored so fast! if theyre not exciting and coming up with fun shit to do.. i start looking elsewhere.. and yea absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder.. space really is crucial i think!
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Not an aqua but i have an aqua moon and other planets, and have always related more to your side of things...sometimes i'm overjoyed with someone and then later i don't think about them much at all...it's weird..??I think it's because we grow bored easily. Not necessarily because we stop loving that individual. Because I guarantee that if we felt like we were losing that person our 'heart' will ignite and go after that individual. But since we're always the ones being chased rather than chase ourselves...we stay in this limbo of lazy comfortability.
agreed here too!! i get bored so fast! if theyre not exciting and coming up with fun shit to do.. i start looking elsewhere.. and yea absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder.. space really is crucial i think!
Yes. Especially if they don't have any ill threshing conversations or don't like to go anywhere fun or meaningful...I'm just like *yawn* next! Lol or when they're on your Beck and call...there's hardly any excitement or mystery
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Yessssssss! Im dating an aqua too, i keep wondering if hes getting bored...no sign of it yet...phew
Posted by boxcarmirnta
sometimes i'm overjoyed with someone and then later i don't think about them much at all...it's weird..??yup you're just being an aqua there 😄
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me me me !!
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Not an aqua but i have an aqua moon and other planets, and have always related more to your side of things...sometimes i'm overjoyed with someone and then later i don't think about them much at all...it's weird..??I think it's because we grow bored easily. Not necessarily because we stop loving that individual. Because I guarantee that if we felt like we were losing that person our 'heart' will ignite and go after that individual. But since we're always the ones being chased rather than chase ourselves...we stay in this limbo of lazy comfortability.
agreed here too!! i get bored so fast! if theyre not exciting and coming up with fun shit to do.. i start looking elsewhere.. and yea absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder.. space really is crucial i think!
Yes. Especially if they don't have any ill threshing conversations or don't like to go anywhere fun or meaningful...I'm just like *yawn* next! Lol or when they're on your Beck and call...there's hardly any excitement or mystery
Yessssssss! Im dating an aqua too, i keep wondering if hes getting bored...no sign of it yet...phew
I'm sure you'll do fine! Aquas just get each other and usually end up with one another
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I'm definitely getting that feeling. We are so alike its scary! He also has a lot of pisces in his chart. We mesh very well. 🙂
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Not an aqua but i have an aqua moon and other planets, and have always related more to your side of things...sometimes i'm overjoyed with someone and then later i don't think about them much at all...it's weird..??