Next level friendship

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Chikadee on Saturday, September 12, 2015 and has 12 replies.

How to Deepen a Friendship Respectfully

To deepen your friendship, communicate openly about your feelings, spend quality time together, and build trust gradually. Respect boundaries and ensure both feel comfortable as you develop a stronger connection. Focus on shared interests and genuine support to strengthen your bond naturally.

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@Chikadee
11 Years

Aqua guy and I are friends. I want to take the friendship we have to the next level (comfortably). How should I go about it? We both are with other people, but I want to become best friends with him...

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@Chikadee
11 Years

Man, you guys are a stiff bunch! He's also friends with my boyfriend and I'm friends with his wife. He's an amazing person and I love being around him. I am an adult and know about boundaries and such. I am not attracted to him at all. So, if y'all could work on my question instead of the psychoanalysis of why I would like a friendship with an Aqua - as if it is so uncommon - that would be great. Humph. Loosen up, Aquas!

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@Chikadee
11 Years

I guess a better question should have been, how does one get close to an Aqua? What steps should I take to let him know that I would like to spend more time with him, that he isn't bothering me when he reaches out, etc.

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

You're friends with his wife...idk, ask to go out on double dates mpre often, or dinners at each others' himes?

I don't know how you become "bffs" with someone. Doesn't it just happen organically? Don't you consider your friend and his wife as a unit, and not one where you would do stuff with him and not her?

Something about this question is weird to me.

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@WaterBearerer
11 YearsAquarius

add him on facebook lol or text him play games with him
i make a lot of connections w people on words with friends lmao seriously tho thats the kinda stuff aqua guys like

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@aquasnoz
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I definitely love ikea but you better be ready for things like this:

Don't know hey, just be a friend. There's really no way to go about it I don't particular respond to anyone trying to befriend me or taking that friendship to the next level. It's on my turf or it just doesn't happen. Sharing laughter, tears and what not.