Not sure if I hurt him, he just needs time to come around, or he's just over this....

I was seeing this Aquarius guy and we had a great connection. He told me he hasn't liked someone like this in a long time. He's super affectionate unlike most of the aquas I've read about. I would catch him staring at me all the time. Tons of PDA. Surprised me with gifts for my birthday after only knowing each other for about two months. Tells me he misses me when we're not together. I could just tell we were falling for each other.

Fast forward to about two weeks ago I kind of told off/broke things off with this guy (huge mistake). To be honest it was completely unwarranted. My ex of 6 years contacted me and I just got spooked that day because we had a tiny argument and just thought things wouldn't work out. I sent an apology text a week later. He said it was "all good" but he was still cold, distant, and kind of avoided me. Eventually he stopped talking to me. It's been a week since we've talked, but he keeps watching all of my snaps on Snapchat. Plus, he posted a snap with his arm around this girl's neck with this stupid caption and he doesn't use snapchat but so much but lately he's been snapping it up and a lot and with girls. What the heck?

I'm not sure what's going on. Before I was an idiot the two days before he had said he wanted to take take a mini vaca in October and said he wished he could just hold me. I tried to apologize :/. Any advice or insight would be great.

His placements :

Sun: aqua, Moon: Leo, Venus :Aqua

Posted by tiziani
Well, you made a mistake. Possibly a fatal one in this case. Don't dwell on it or beat yourself up about it. Try and be less lazy in the future. I think you know apologising via text message doesn't go anywhere near to spelling out to the other person that they are a priority in your thinking or a valued person. And if you don't, well try harder next time when it's really important to you. Passivity breeds distance.

I agree. A text isn't sufficient in this case, especially after letting a week go by.

I think he's hurt. His snaps with those other girls seems like he's trying to throw it in your face because he knows that you can see his snaps. Personally, if I'm doing that stooping to that kind of behavior it's because I would want that other person to hurt as well. A person won't do that if they don't care anymore. Plus, feelings just don't go away that quickly.

Either give him more time or SHOW him that you're sorry. A text is pretty meh if you ask me. Glad that you apologized but so what?

If someone broke up with me, took them a week to apologize, even I still wanted to be with them I would let it sit for a while because I would just need time to get over my anger because it's like, now you want me around when just a week ago you didn't want me? Nope. I'll get back to you on my own time.