Not sure what to think about that Aquarius girl

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I have been dating this Aquarius girl for almost two months now and I can honestly say that this is the most interesting girl I have ever met. Everything was going okay, but she said something on our last date that I am still trying to understand without any judgements or anything.

So, it was our seventh date, there was a movie we wanted to see and later we went for some drinks. We were talking and talking about different stuff like always. She even said that she was impressed with the fact that every time we see each other I always managed to exceed her expectations. Another thing, she was also feeling really good with the fact that I have not pushed her and never asked if she liked me, no matter the fact that I have already said to her that I like spending my time with her and I like her.

However, then all of a sudden, she said that there are some things that she share with me. For example, if now we were to see her ex somewhere (he broke up with her 3 years ago) she would leave me and stay with him, because she would not like him to feel bad for seeing her with another man. I haven't reacted at that, said that everyone has a story; I was quite calm and just asked what would that mean, what would be my place in the story. She simply said that that was another story. At that time I haven't started thinking in depth about that; later I walked with her to her home, then she kissed me and shook my hand.

Now I am not sure what exactly to think. haven't heard from her in almost two days, which I wouldn't necessarily considered as a problem, knowing how much she values her independency and everything, but all of the above things got me thinking if something is off here... Does she actually like me, or she is just playing or something...
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Posted by Amethysst
At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


That is some Aqua shit. It's kute until you find out she's a slut

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Stop overusing the word slut. It's not nice to speak of women that way especially when you sleep with these very women you call slut. It's double standard and you're a prick for doing that.

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.



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The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


That is some Aqua shit. It's kute until you find out she's a slut


Stop overusing the word slut. It's not nice to speak of women that way especially when you sleep with these very women you call slut. It's double standard and you're a prick for doing that.


A man is a slut if he immorally sleeps with whoever. It's not about you women, it's about morals. right and wrong. So I stand by my claims. Stop being so sensitive. If you're not one, then don't get mad, baby. it's ok... Hopefully when you get older, you'll learn that my thinking has been right the whole time. Might die still thinking I'm wrong but hey, it's whatever. And we all want things we can't have. I want world peace. You want me to stop overusing the word slut. We all can't get what we want. Deal with it.

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I'm not getting offended for myself. I'm getting offended because you're a delusional manwhore yet you of all people think you have the right to use that word as if you're some saint. You sleep alround all the time.

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


I'm about to fuck the life out this Aquarius girl soon, you know that right?

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More proof that you're a slut yet it's refreshing to see you use that word to describe women. Real fresh, bud!!

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Posted by Amethysst
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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


We lose out on so many great opportunities because of this.. I'm guilty myself. I do think it's amazing how some aquas maneuver that so smoothly.
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I don't know any aquas who can maneuver this, but I guess I can't because friendship is important to me at the beginning. Can't have passion without friendship and if a guy can't wait around to delevop that first with me, then he's not the right guy.

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


I'm about to fuck the life out this Aquarius girl soon, you know that right?


More proof that you're a slut yet it's refreshing to see you use that word to describe women. Real fresh, bud!!


How am I slut when I want to fuck the life out of one girl? If you tell me that you're gonna suck the shit out this nigga dick soon and it's only that nigga, that doesn't make you a slut. Am I buggin like what the heck?
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So how are you calling women slut for sleeping around. How do you know she's not sleeping with one guy at a time?

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.

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So what's that suppose to mean? She likes me, but she is afraid of attachment, seeing her emotions towards me etc? And why protecting if she is aware that I like her?
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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


So what's that suppose to mean? She likes me, but she is afraid of attachment, seeing her emotions towards me etc? And why protecting if she is aware that I like her?
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Attaching to someone wholly is a difficult task for us. It's scary. If she lets go fully with her emotions, which by the way doesn't come easy to us, and then it doesn't work out between you guys or the ex comes back (because it seems like she still has feelings for him), then she's in trouble. We are very guarded individuals. You have to clarify first what she meant by that comment. If she says that she's not over her ex, then protect yourself and distance yourself from her. People who are hung up on someone else should take time to themselves and sort their feelings out before involving themselves with someone else.

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


So what's that suppose to mean? She likes me, but she is afraid of attachment, seeing her emotions towards me etc? And why protecting if she is aware that I like her?
Attaching to someone wholly is a difficult task for us. It's scary. If she lets go fully with her emotions, which by the way doesn't come easy to us, and then it doesn't work out between you guys or the ex comes back (because it seems like she still has feelings for him), then she's in trouble. We are very guarded individuals. You have to clarify first what she meant by that comment. If she says that she's not over her ex, then protect yourself and distance yourself from her. People who are hung up on someone else should take time to themselves and sort their feelings out before involving themselves with someone else.

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Forgot to mention, she also said that she was relieved when I told her that I like her, because it saved her the trouble. Anyway, I was never pushy with her and I am a patient and consistent person, but that last date was feeling off... Yes, I want to know what she meant, I want to know where I stand here, but wanted to take a few days off to think through all that's been said and then contact her, if she hasn't contacted me already.

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


So what's that suppose to mean? She likes me, but she is afraid of attachment, seeing her emotions towards me etc? And why protecting if she is aware that I like her?
Attaching to someone wholly is a difficult task for us. It's scary. If she lets go fully with her emotions, which by the way doesn't come easy to us, and then it doesn't work out between you guys or the ex comes back (because it seems like she still has feelings for him), then she's in trouble. We are very guarded individuals. You have to clarify first what she meant by that comment. If she says that she's not over her ex, then protect yourself and distance yourself from her. People who are hung up on someone else should take time to themselves and sort their feelings out before involving themselves with someone else.


Forgot to mention, she also said that she was relieved when I told her that I like her, because it saved her the trouble. Anyway, I was never pushy with her and I am a patient and consistent person, but that last date was feeling off... Yes, I want to know what she meant, I want to know where I stand here, but wanted to take a few days off to think through all that's been said and then contact her, if she hasn't contacted me already.

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Sounds like a plan.

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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


So what's that suppose to mean? She likes me, but she is afraid of attachment, seeing her emotions towards me etc? And why protecting if she is aware that I like her?
She likes you but she prob doesn't trust you with her feelings yet. Hence the handshake, that's a sign of keeping her distance IF you were to hurt her.. I wonder if her attachment to her ex has anything to do with comfort and letting go..

When an aqua opens up emotionally to someone that's a huge step.. they have found that you are the right person to handle them with care. We are a lot more sensitive than people believe.. we don't just go around spreading our love to everyone. Unless you're aprodite, there's something wrong with that dude, actually he doesn't count haha just ignore his rants.

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The truth is that I don't know many details about him - that was the most direct comment about him. I know that things ended 3 years ago, she was a mess, because she was feeling that her life depended on him. She once told me that she always ended up with wrong men, described them as garbage....
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At least she's being honest.. but I would suggest later on to ask her what she really meant by what she said and if you should continue being involved with each other. If not, it could cause problems later.

I find it so odd that she kissed you than shook your hand? Haha aquas.. we are a weird bunch. Always that lover/friend boundary.
I thought that was so aqua too. Kissing and shaking hands. LOL


Right?! So weird lol that's why we come off bizarre.. like own the kiss and be proud of it.




The shake hands part is the defense mechanism where we are protecting ourselves if we get rejected down the line. We carry people in the friendzone while simultaneously dating them.


We lose out on so many great opportunities because of this.. I'm guilty myself. I do think it's amazing how some aquas maneuver that so smoothly.
I don't know any aquas who can maneuver this, but I guess I can't because friendship is important to me at the beginning. Can't have passion without friendship and if a guy can't wait around to delevop that first with me, then he's not the right guy.

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I wonder whether you female aquas actually believe this whole first friendship thing before getting serious or whether you just like to act like that just because your sign is described as being cautious when it comes to feelings? I mean there a millions and millions of men outthere who end up being friendzoned by women just because they became FRIENDS first and never moved any further because the women lost interest. lol I don't believe aqua females are any different just because they are aquas. I know many aqua males and they are like most men, they don#t care too much about being friends first. The aqua females that I know are no different even though they say they are. ^^
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Allow me to explain why I want friendship first. I can only speak for myself and those aquas who agree can co-sign.

I want friendship first and foremost because I want to know how a person is as a friend. I observe them (their personality, character) closely when I'm friends with them. Those guy friends that appeal to me physically and mentally are gold and I choo-choo choose them. As a friend, a person reveals themselves better than a romantic potential. A guy that can't even be a good, loyal friend isn't going to be a good partner. Having said that, it doesn't apply to every guy we befriend. Sometimes there are guys that we aren't attracted to physically that want to be our friends. Air signs in general are nice people who offer friendship for all with open arms. That's not to say that just because we befriended you, that now we should romantically like you too.
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Allow me to explain why I want friendship first. I can only speak for myself and those aquas who agree can co-sign.

I want friendship first and foremost because I want to know how a person is as a friend. I observe them (their personality, character) closely when I'm friends with them. Those guy friends that appeal to me physically and mentally are gold and I choo-choo choose them. As a friend, a person reveals themselves better than a romantic potential. A guy that can't even be a good, loyal friend isn't going to be a good partner. Having said that, it doesn't apply to every guy we befriend. Sometimes there are guys that we aren't attracted to physically that want to be our friends. Air signs in general are nice people who offer friendship for all with open arms. That's not to say that just because we befriended you, that now we should romantically like you too.
I get that, but I still think in the real world friendship is not the way to get to a woman's heart whether you are an aquarius or not. Developing a real and good friendship takes time but most women that I know don't waste too much time if they like a guy. Actually women tend to move on really fast once a guy makes it clear he likes her.
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Allow me to explain why I want friendship first. I can only speak for myself and those aquas who agree can co-sign.

I want friendship first and foremost because I want to know how a person is as a friend. I observe them (their personality, character) closely when I'm friends with them. Those guy friends that appeal to me physically and mentally are gold and I choo-choo choose them. As a friend, a person reveals themselves better than a romantic potential. A guy that can't even be a good, loyal friend isn't going to be a good partner. Having said that, it doesn't apply to every guy we befriend. Sometimes there are guys that we aren't attracted to physically that want to be our friends. Air signs in general are nice people who offer friendship for all with open arms. That's not to say that just because we befriended you, that now we should romantically like you too.
I get that, but I still think in the real world friendship is not the way to get to a woman's heart whether you are an aquarius or not. Developing a real and good friendship takes time but most women that I know don't waste too much time if they like a guy. Actually women tend to move on really fast once a guy makes it clear he likes her.

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Good, stable, long term relationships have friendship as their foundation. You can't rush something you want it to last forever or even a long time. You get what you invest. Invest time and effort and you get a quality man/woman. Rush things in heat of the moment, you get modern dating and mess we have today.
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Allow me to explain why I want friendship first. I can only speak for myself and those aquas who agree can co-sign.

I want friendship first and foremost because I want to know how a person is as a friend. I observe them (their personality, character) closely when I'm friends with them. Those guy friends that appeal to me physically and mentally are gold and I choo-choo choose them. As a friend, a person reveals themselves better than a romantic potential. A guy that can't even be a good, loyal friend isn't going to be a good partner. Having said that, it doesn't apply to every guy we befriend. Sometimes there are guys that we aren't attracted to physically that want to be our friends. Air signs in general are nice people who offer friendship for all with open arms. That's not to say that just because we befriended you, that now we should romantically like you too.
I get that, but I still think in the real world friendship is not the way to get to a woman's heart whether you are an aquarius or not. Developing a real and good friendship takes time but most women that I know don't waste too much time if they like a guy. Actually women tend to move on really fast once a guy makes it clear he likes her.


Good, stable, long term relationships have friendship as their foundation. You can't rush something you want it to last forever or even a long time. You get what you invest. Invest time and effort and you get a quality man/woman. Rush things in heat of the moment, you get modern dating and mess we have today.

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Sounds good in theory.
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Allow me to explain why I want friendship first. I can only speak for myself and those aquas who agree can co-sign.

I want friendship first and foremost because I want to know how a person is as a friend. I observe them (their personality, character) closely when I'm friends with them. Those guy friends that appeal to me physically and mentally are gold and I choo-choo choose them. As a friend, a person reveals themselves better than a romantic potential. A guy that can't even be a good, loyal friend isn't going to be a good partner. Having said that, it doesn't apply to every guy we befriend. Sometimes there are guys that we aren't attracted to physically that want to be our friends. Air signs in general are nice people who offer friendship for all with open arms. That's not to say that just because we befriended you, that now we should romantically like you too.
I get that, but I still think in the real world friendship is not the way to get to a woman's heart whether you are an aquarius or not. Developing a real and good friendship takes time but most women that I know don't waste too much time if they like a guy. Actually women tend to move on really fast once a guy makes it clear he likes her.


Good, stable, long term relationships have friendship as their foundation. You can't rush something you want it to last forever or even a long time. You get what you invest. Invest time and effort and you get a quality man/woman. Rush things in heat of the moment, you get modern dating and mess we have today.


Sounds good in theory.
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It's rare for sure today because everyone is about instant gratification.