Odd behavior.

the first post and the first reply are both mine. I forgot to add it in the first post.

Here we go again 😉

I will apologize for my "get to the point" response... in advance to you Tisa.

First of all - antibling is right on when he says, "If it really doesn't FEEL right, then cut off contact with him." Honestly, I do not see any point to discussing the issue with him because more than likely he will try to talk you out of what you are feeling (his ego talking). And, the truth of the matter is - IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT HE THINKS! What matters here is what YOU are FEELING and you learning to TRUST YOUR FEELINGS without needing to have them justified.

Tisa, your instincts say - "with all the professions that dont quite hit the sincerity mark. I can just detect the lack of depth behind them." ---- okay, why would you choose to argue with what you KNOW is right for you? are you trying to please him and put his needs before your own?

"Im in love now thanks to all this seducing." ----- really? you really think this is LOVE? if you were "in love" you would not be feeling the way your are feeling.

"Its to the point where he makes me feel uncomfortable now. I cant be myself around him anymore." ------ again, this is not love - when you are in love you will feel very comfortable with anyone you are with. There are WARNING signs flashing everywhere! Pay attention to your feelings - they will NEVER lie to you.

"But I cant detect emotion, just motion. What is going on here?" ---- not sure what is going on here but, it is definately not healthy for you Tisa and I think you already know this. You seem to be a woman who is very intuitive but not sure if she believes what she feels - doubting yourself maybe? I have faith that you will figure out the best thing for you and you will do just that. 😉

Pay attention to his actions....do they match his words? If not, skidamarinkeedoo and say, bye-bye now!

Best wishes to you, Tisa!

And a dash of Tabasco perhaps??

"... why is everyone pushing others to cut it off..."

point taken, Archer 😉

Maybe then....do stay in the relationship and enjoy the ride - make the best of that situation...and if you begin to feel really bad, grab a bottle and begin to shake well and CHUG!

ya know what they say....if ya can't beat 'em, join 'em!

*add some chocolate to that peanut butter - preferably WARM*

I'm with you on that one LK 😉

His actions do match his words. He is just a little crazy and it is intimidating I think. Im a more responsible person than he is. He is all fun and games. I think Im the one thats scared butterbulless.

Oh man, good luck! Yay for a pisces + aqua relationship!

I can't help but picture him just waking up one day and saying to himself "I think I love her, I do love her, oh my fucking gosh I love her, I really love her"

Lol

So, was there an exact moment when you found out he's attracted to you more than just friendship?

Aha! There you are. Ive seen your posts. Great that an Aqua will lend a hand to the clear the mist. Im an extremely curious person so I need to find a method in the madness. What does it all mean aquaaqi? (aqi) you speak spanish? I mean is it insecurity behind the games? Is this Aquas way of insuring himself?? Ive got to know. It try to cut through it all with my intuition and logic. Are you guys hiding because you are really just uncontainable (in every sense of the word including emotionally) and dont like to show it? Waz UP!?

Seriously, I cannot fathom why this seems odd to you .. women, it seems are in constant search for a man who not only loves us, also, verbalizes it.

What's wrong, or so odd about ..

"He constantly tells me he loves me"
"Im in love now thanks to all this seducing"
"He shows so much affection to me."

Tisa, I'm a huge compaigner about self-awareness, practically terrorize these threads with trying to get people to look at themselves .. to tell you the truth, I don't think his behaviour is odd, at all, however, I do think this is odd for a woman who says she's in love ...

"he makes me feel uncomfortable now"
"I cant be myself around him anymore"

Yourself being:

"Ive displayed a very cool and calm demeanor about everything"
"Very little fuss, just logic"
"Im trying to protect my precarius nature"


If I had to put a finger on who exactly is going through the motion without emotion, it wouldn't be him, Tisa. Take no offense to this .. my aim is to just get you to comprehend that he is behaving like a man who is in love, according to what you've posted .. however, it sounds like you are the one giving mixed signals by having an adverse reaction to him after seducing him.

What is it you actually wanted from him?

"He must have listened to everything"
"I honesstly think hes been studying me for that long"
"Its the sex thing. Its incomprehensible"

You didn't want him to fall in love with you? You're a Pisces with tremendous intuition, certainly, you knew you were ensnaring him ..

"I did not believe him"
"He acts like a complete goofball but he has been plotting this for a long time"
"And that is why it is hard to trust. That sort of circumvented control"
"I mean is it insecurity behind the games?"

Plotting?
Trust?
Control?

Not sure I can detect any game on his part .. he's just being a male that has fallen for you and now you no longer trust his anylonger .. I should think that this would make him insecure about himself.

What exactly are you doing?

"He says things like im seducing him"


Then STOP .. it's not fair to play a man and then say his behaviour is odd for it.

Yeah, I'm not sure I get this .. I've re-read it several times, to see if I missed something and still it doesn't make sense.

"His actions do match his words. He is just a little crazy .."

If his actions DO match is words, then how can it be that this love is motion without emotion if he constantly says, "I love you" and is very affectionate?

Crazy?

Oh, I see .. on the relations/astro board .. it's a game, then .. just screwing with him emotionally .. damn

Just want to bitch slap people like that, sometimes .. you have real valuable women in this world who are looking for a true man .. no wonder these men have their guard up.

Ok, that was harsh .. just got upset .. apologies to anyone offended by my last comment.

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http://www.thenoel.org/asianprince/<BR>
me so cute! 😛

check out what it say's when you point the cursor to his picture!!! LOL

also...
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I've found my prince! *swoon*

I'm going to marry that man, he's the one for me! 🙂
*lusts after his make-up*