@little_sparrow
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Aquarians as a whole seem wishy-washy to me. I'll enjoy the FRIENDSHIP with a Aqua lass, but the moment I found out she's Aquarian, I cool any possible romance. They are BIZARRE!
They bore me! They?re the most unscary guys ever..they are so sensitive and wishy washy. I agree that they?re good friends, but no romance thanks!!
"They are BIZARRE!"
True but they still intrigue me.
Leos may play with my heart but Aquas play with my mind. There is always an uneasy, unreal feeling when I am involved with an Aquaman. I don't know if I like it.
Dont worry, we are more powerful with out minds than the Aqua. Its easy, just be the most bl?se person in the world and they will stalk you like its going out of fashion.
p.s, dont them know you?re scared!
explain bizarre.. I have been involved off and on with one for a year. We are off at the moment but friends. I would love to hear about other peoples experiences -it makes it feel like its not just my imagination. This one keeps either running or finding someone new to go out with each time we get close. Im pretty level headed and I like him as a person so the worlds not ending.. whats some stuff you have experienced..
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LS,
You are so sincere. Yes, Aquamen can play with your mind as Aquarians are masters at that. What you have to do is flip the script. Never, never let an Aquarian know they can play with your mind as it will become a wild ride.
Thanks Mystic.
I don't think he is aware of some of the things he says that freak me out. We will see where it goes. I am watching cautiously.
Nope can't do the aquas. Aqua girls are cool friends though.
LS,
I'm going to let you know something. He absolutely knows some of the things he says that will freak you out. Aquarians love to shock people to see their reaction. Nothing is more fun than completely taking someone by surprise. Yeah, I'm guilty of doing this to a few guys. I want to see what they are made of. This Aquaman of yours is seeing how far he can go. Once he sees you are the real thing, he'll be more careful. Whatever you do, do your best to not show how surprised you are by the things he says. Since the relationship is new, he is having fun on you because he knows how to shock you. Do some of the shocking and you'll see how he backs off. He's then met his match, and he'll respect you more for it. Also be his friend first and foremost.
Don't worry. I believe lovahs should be friends. Regardless of what happens, I think we should remain friends.
I am not acting suprised. I don't think. lol!
I'll let you know how it goes Mystic. In someways, he is very open. In others, he is a hard read.
He's hard to read because he wants you to value him. An Aquarian isn't hard to read after they fall for you. It's just in the beginning stages. However, he'll always be like a mystery because he doesn't want you to figure him out. You will be in for a lot of surprises. Just make sure you surprise him once in a while and keep him interested. Never show all your cards. If he ever gets the sense that he's figured you out, then he'll move on because there isn't a challenge anymore.
LS, when it comes to aqua, libra should remember that they are one step advanced than us in terms of brain power. Depending on his friend circle, he can be a total whacko or a genius. Aqua can give the finishing touch to our random vibrant ideas and methods and fill in the missing point what we often miss while trying to see all the sides. They need some respect initially and then its all fine. They can give more than enough information you can digest in one go. There will be a bit of ego clash in the beginning with any libra-aqua, but once we realize that and play along, aqua can become one of the best friends as well as lovers.
little sparrow, you are spot on. They ARE hard to read. And you DO feel this unreal thing around them. They do love to shock---but sometimes it just comes off as bizarre / stupid. That's their sense of humour.
NICE people. Do not seem to have strong will power (for success, goals, that sort of thing). I have never found a single one who has made a commitment in a relationship---they seem to go on to others (can be dis-interested very quickly).
As a FRIEND, he'll be great for you!
Mystical is amazing at advice!! x
Sola,
Thanks so much for the compliment. I am always being honest. Besides, I'm an Aquarian also so it's only fair to be helpful. I do hope everything is going well now with LS with her Aquaman. I can say this much, Aquarians are original and you have to be a strong character to take us on.
I haven't seen him this week. We did talk briefly a few days ago.
The poor guy has a contract and is working 10.5 hours, 7 days a week at the moment. Which amazes me because he is still able to go out once and awhile and shake it up! I actually prefer it be like this anyway. I need the breathing room, plus I am working so much myself at the moment, I feel less guilty.
I do like the sense of freedom. I don't feel trapped at all. It is nice.
AND I hope I am giving him the same sense of come/go do whatever. It is all good.
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