Really, How do you aquas do it? (ignore)

I was just thinking...... How is it so easy for AQUAS to disappear from their loved ones.. whats your thought process? I think it baffles me because I care too much about how others would feel........let me know 🙂

ohhhh hahahah if i told you i would have to keeeel you hahaa ..

hmm its not that we DONT care...we do but you know how that very moment the aqua disappear? its not that sudden it has been contemplated..our decision is how we feel that we will never get what we want..aquas despite their tough exterior ...do a lot for others..when they are upset they dont bring it up because they give others the chance ..by thinking about all the possibilities...what they did wrong and how they can improve..and they expect others to do the same...i always felt if two people can do that..relationships would be easier..but the world doesn't work that way does it? i dropped a group of friends since middle school...but my perceptions of them after 4 years and observations etc....lead me to finally just drop it. but to them it was too sudden. not really i just always adapted to them...

we keep the ones that despite their mistakes are good inside...and throw the ones that LOOK good and PRETEND to be good but have rotten insides..

and maybe thats why not a lot of people understand us...cuz most people take everything face note...we dont. so we come across one way but feel differently.

Posted by firewaterearth
It depends on the situation as to why Aquas disappear. If you are a positive influence in an Aqua's life, but they do not have it together they will leave you so that their BS does not bring harm to your life. Then, they will reappear when they have gotten themselves together more. They are about the big picture. If leaving you now means that they can have a better future with you then, they will do so.

This is exactly why I do it. Thank you for putting it into words.

for me, it's really if i don't like you or am getting too much of you then i need a breather. i like to always be in positive spirits & free of drama. so anyone who's a downer or full of problems and issues gets the ignore button. and then in relationships, b/c im so independent & love freedom, too much time with my partner can get suffocating and i'll literally feel like i can't breath and i need a space. and space is you being ignored for a couple days lol

Posted by ToysintheAttic

Posted by firewaterearth
It depends on the situation as to why Aquas disappear. If you are a positive influence in an Aqua's life, but they do not have it together they will leave you so that their BS does not bring harm to your life. Then, they will reappear when they have gotten themselves together more. They are about the big picture. If leaving you now means that they can have a better future with you then, they will do so.

In the end, we just have to wish people well on their journey...even, if it takes them in a different direction than us. In my opinion, the best way to love someone is to let them go. If it is meant to be, then your paths will cross again. Sometimes, people are meant to be a life lesson and not a life partner.

This.

But I've also disappeared on people because I just simply need time to collect my thoughts for a bit and take a time out. It helps me be a better person to be around. And also, sometimes I just simply don't feel the need to talk to my friends and family for a little bit. Not quite sure what it is (and I don't get into total seclusion either, I kind of rotate who I'm talking to and who I'm not). Now needless to say, my friends know this about me but it's not like I'm super close to very many people and I partially blame my seclusion acts for that.

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Thats seems RIGHT ON. 🙂

I think I'm like an Aquarian. Some uber astrologer told me I'm a 11th house person. I can disappear and cut off people and have totally no connections at all. I need space, and those that are still there after that are like my kindreds.

🙂 I feel like the Bee girl in the Blind Melon video when she "finds her people"

7 years later. Aquas still ignore while technology has advanced a trillion times to reach out to your loved ones....aquas still go on a space ship trip where there is no internet *smh*

Posted by Catgirlpk

7 years later. Aquas still ignore while technology has advanced a trillion times to reach out to your loved ones....aquas still go on a space ship trip where there is no internet *smh*

hahah

yeah

they do.

I love reading the responses. So honest.

It's a protective and healing mechanism really. We don't do it on a whim, we withstand things that bug us or we give and give and then we are sick of it so we peace out. Aquas are a very independent sign hence the air sign quality, we're kinda flowy and all over the place at times like a (wind) breeze lol. We see things people dont really notice, we just dont comment, we let things play out and if we dont like how you are playing out to be, we detach.

Posted by aquatar1

It's a protective and healing mechanism really. We don't do it on a whim, we withstand things that bug us or we give and give and then we are sick of it so we peace out. Aquas are a very independent sign hence the air sign quality, we're kinda flowy and all over the place at times like a (wind) breeze lol. We see things people dont really notice, we just dont comment, we let things play out and if we dont like how you are playing out to be, we detach.

That sounds exactly like me.

It can be a number of things, maybe they need a retreat from the world, maybe they got distracted and ended up on the odd side of town. Mostly, its space. They need space and do not mind whatsoever having alone time.