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Scorpio woman needs help with Aquarius Male
i said i had plans but i could see him later that night. He said thats ok have fun. I said I'll text him saturday.
I ended up texting him that night and he makes a joke about having a threesome with my friend (HE THOUGHT MY FRIEND WAS A GIRL). My friend was a guy but it was completely platonic.
He made a remark like, oh you can f*** just him, guess we kow where you've been.
I ended up texting him that night and he makes a joke about having a threesome with my friend (HE THOUGHT MY FRIEND WAS A GIRL). My friend was a guy but it was completely platonic.
He made a remark like, oh you can f*** just him, guess we kow where you've been.
you won't hear much from him. at least not by scorpio standard lol you better deal with it.
Aquarius don't like the rebound label. He is not dating you so he keeps his distance.
He’s being childish. You aren’t cooperating and giving him what he wants. He likes you. More than he’s admitting. It’s not being reciprocated how he desires it to be. So it’s making him be an ass toward you. Because it makes him feel better about himself. Pure ego.
Doesn’t sound like someone you should build with. These are small red flags in his character that a person without life experience would overlook.
Doesn’t sound like someone you should build with. These are small red flags in his character that a person without life experience would overlook.
Posted by AerialViewImaoooo here comes and advice from a Aqua who's married a Scorpio. God Scorpio is so intense !
you won't hear much from him. at least not by scorpio standard lol you better deal with it.
Aqua men seem to like to be more of an ass when they don't get what they want lol. They have a strange way of showing affection that's for sure. lol
I think he wants commitment. My aqua wanted to be exclusive within days of meeting and called me his gf within a week. Facebook official and alllll. I know he liked me a lot but I also think he wanted me to get off all the dating sites so no one else had a chance.
I sense something similar is going on with your aqua but he’s not handling it effectively. It’s more passive aggressive and pushing you away.
I sense something similar is going on with your aqua but he’s not handling it effectively. It’s more passive aggressive and pushing you away.
Posted by scorpiooooThere's the heart of the issue right there. The foundation of this started off on rocky ground and has become toxic as a result. It seems that the Aqua started to resent you and is just using you for sex now.
I met an aquarius man as a rebound after my relationship to my make my ex jealous and he was aware. It was a friends with benefits type situation but he would say things like once i get over my ex he would date me and he would invite me to go places like drive in, or out with his friends. I would say no at first bc I'd be working, or I wanted to get to know him and get comfortable before going to a big social outing.
Aquarius men can be unconventional in their pursuit, but old fashioned in their mindset towards relationships. He wanted more than what you were able to provide and has slowly become disenchanted with you. His frustration showed when he said hurtful things to you (possibly as a means to retaliate against the feelings he's repressing).You talking/joking about other men has only added salt to the wound.
Unless you two have a heart to heart about what it is that you both want, I don't see this turning around for you.
Posted by aquarius_manHe willingly entered into this scenario. And yes you may have explained his behavior. But that doesn’t mean it isn’t childish.Posted by Aries_Luminary
He’s being childish.
wrong.
he's aware of his own personality/ self/ worth.
when she goes like this: ' one time he got mad at me bc I would share information about other men in my past. He said why would I talk about this stuff with a guy I am hanging around with.' you understand why an aqua would just leave. were not rebound material nor fuck buddies nor your friends you could share stories with. if you re interested in an aqua male, dont mix other men in this shit
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Posted by saweetz1988i have saturn in scorpio conjuct her scorpio sun and moon in synastry.Posted by AerialViewImaoooo here comes and advice from a Aqua who's married a Scorpio. God Scorpio is so intense !
you won't hear much from him. at least not by scorpio standard lol you better deal with it.click to expand
i own her ass!!! ahahah
Posted by AerialView
i have saturn in scorpio conjuct her scorpio sun and moon in synastry.
i own her ass!!! ahahah
Sending prayers her way 🙏🏼🙏🏼😂
Posted by Whorpiolmao you don't have to. i made good use of it.Posted by AerialView
i have saturn in scorpio conjuct her scorpio sun and moon in synastry.
i own her ass!!! ahahah
Sending prayers her way 🙏🏼🙏🏼😂click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I had those passive aggressive bullcrap for a while. Aqua men r very good at this. Leo is a lot more straight forward..'I prefer Leo ways.
I think he wants commitment. My aqua wanted to be exclusive within days of meeting and called me his gf within a week. Facebook official and alllll. I know he liked me a lot but I also think he wanted me to get off all the dating sites so no one else had a chance.
I sense something similar is going on with your aqua but he’s not handling it effectively. It’s more passive aggressive and pushing you away.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by saweetz1988i have saturn in scorpio conjuct her scorpio sun and moon in synastry.Posted by AerialViewImaoooo here comes and advice from a Aqua who's married a Scorpio. God Scorpio is so intense !
you won't hear much from him. at least not by scorpio standard lol you better deal with it.
i own her ass!!! ahahahclick to expand
Lol, u own all of her ass? Good to know imao
Posted by saweetz1988Posted by pinkbird03I had those passive aggressive bullcrap for a while. Aqua men r very good at this. Leo is a lot more straight forward..'I prefer Leo ways.
I think he wants commitment. My aqua wanted to be exclusive within days of meeting and called me his gf within a week. Facebook official and alllll. I know he liked me a lot but I also think he wanted me to get off all the dating sites so no one else had a chance.
I sense something similar is going on with your aqua but he’s not handling it effectively. It’s more passive aggressive and pushing you away.click to expand
Really? I haven’t seen any passive aggressiveness yet. My aqua has been straightforward about everything. He’s on the cusp of Capricorn and I do see a lot of that in him. Maybe that’s why.
you’re saying you’re the heartbroken one, but it looks like you broke his heart very early on. it’s also very apparent to me. i don’t understand how you don’t see it either. i feel very bad for him actually, because i can feel his pain in his “mean” comments.
you went into it treating him like a rebound... to me, you should’ve known ahead of time that you’d fall for him and should’ve been more open with him once you should’ve sensed his hurt feelings. an aquarius (in my experience) isn’t going to just up and pour out his feelings. but he will sure as hell lash out at you in an indirect way when he feels slighted. someone mentioned ego, and it’s definitely about his ego. but it’s also about his vulnerability. i mean... it would be about my ego too if i were in that situation. put yourself in his shoes. imagine his pain. picture what he’s doing to you now. it will be more clear as to why he’s acting this way.
ive had very different experiences with aquarians and how they express things. to me, id say your aqua was pretty upfront and you should be grateful for that. however, you might’ve broken his heart one too many times it seems like. it MAY be fixable...but if he has hard feelings that might be hard to overcome. so i’d figure out what you want.
i dated an aqua w a cap moon/ascendant and aries venus & sag mars. never have i loved someone the way i loved him. he would lash out if he ever felt i in some way rejected him, but we worked together so i feel like that contributed to our misunderstandings. i was very neutral at work. he was definitely sensitive, but he was the type to hate that about himself. had a lot of difficult moon and venus aspects including moon sq. venus itself. he still messages me to this day, saying he loves me etc. if i don’t reply, he hates me. he had 12th house issues on top of that, so he typically finds time to message me when inebriated. but we still have normal conversations in which im very distant and unavailable to him. i think that’s what makes him still interested. a bit sad. all i’m saying is, be grateful for the fact that your aqua can communicate his feelings in a very apparent way. i LOVED my aqua and could pick up on his hurts very quickly... but my aqua would have rather died than been vulnerable to love.
your aqua was clear that he DID want to date you. you continued to be uninterested or at least pretend like you were. now that you are interested, he is already very hurt. i think that’s the reason for him not talking to you as often. i don’t think it’s him being immature so much as it is that you hurt him very deeply.
imagine if you were in his shoes, and you were completely interested in this man. he tells you it’s strictly FWB because he dumped his ex that he was madly in love with, you accept but later let him know you’d like to date him. you continue to show interest. he continues to be uninterested and just has sex with you. do you reach a breaking point? of course. you’re a scorpio so don’t tell me you don’t have a breaking point. that would be a lie. as scorpios, we definitely have breaking points. i know i have mine, and i don’t mean the explosive type...just the “ive had enough” type to where we walk away. aquarians have breaking points too. a person can only take so much.
always remember the other side. idk if it’s my libra ascendant or what, but i always put myself in the other persons shoes and try to see it from their POV. it always helps, but typically it’s quite obvious to me how another person reacts to things. maybe it’s all the practice i’ve gotten while growing up and doing this lol
you went into it treating him like a rebound... to me, you should’ve known ahead of time that you’d fall for him and should’ve been more open with him once you should’ve sensed his hurt feelings. an aquarius (in my experience) isn’t going to just up and pour out his feelings. but he will sure as hell lash out at you in an indirect way when he feels slighted. someone mentioned ego, and it’s definitely about his ego. but it’s also about his vulnerability. i mean... it would be about my ego too if i were in that situation. put yourself in his shoes. imagine his pain. picture what he’s doing to you now. it will be more clear as to why he’s acting this way.
ive had very different experiences with aquarians and how they express things. to me, id say your aqua was pretty upfront and you should be grateful for that. however, you might’ve broken his heart one too many times it seems like. it MAY be fixable...but if he has hard feelings that might be hard to overcome. so i’d figure out what you want.
i dated an aqua w a cap moon/ascendant and aries venus & sag mars. never have i loved someone the way i loved him. he would lash out if he ever felt i in some way rejected him, but we worked together so i feel like that contributed to our misunderstandings. i was very neutral at work. he was definitely sensitive, but he was the type to hate that about himself. had a lot of difficult moon and venus aspects including moon sq. venus itself. he still messages me to this day, saying he loves me etc. if i don’t reply, he hates me. he had 12th house issues on top of that, so he typically finds time to message me when inebriated. but we still have normal conversations in which im very distant and unavailable to him. i think that’s what makes him still interested. a bit sad. all i’m saying is, be grateful for the fact that your aqua can communicate his feelings in a very apparent way. i LOVED my aqua and could pick up on his hurts very quickly... but my aqua would have rather died than been vulnerable to love.
your aqua was clear that he DID want to date you. you continued to be uninterested or at least pretend like you were. now that you are interested, he is already very hurt. i think that’s the reason for him not talking to you as often. i don’t think it’s him being immature so much as it is that you hurt him very deeply.
imagine if you were in his shoes, and you were completely interested in this man. he tells you it’s strictly FWB because he dumped his ex that he was madly in love with, you accept but later let him know you’d like to date him. you continue to show interest. he continues to be uninterested and just has sex with you. do you reach a breaking point? of course. you’re a scorpio so don’t tell me you don’t have a breaking point. that would be a lie. as scorpios, we definitely have breaking points. i know i have mine, and i don’t mean the explosive type...just the “ive had enough” type to where we walk away. aquarians have breaking points too. a person can only take so much.
always remember the other side. idk if it’s my libra ascendant or what, but i always put myself in the other persons shoes and try to see it from their POV. it always helps, but typically it’s quite obvious to me how another person reacts to things. maybe it’s all the practice i’ve gotten while growing up and doing this lol
just another reason why i don’t get FWB.
you’re the one who initiated the FWB. yes he shouldn’t have gotten feelings and saw it for what it was... but now YOU’RE the one with feelings... or at least you came on dxp to express something that appears to be feelings for this man.
this is just another reminder why i should never try an FWB. doesn’t seem to really “benefit” anyone. it only seems to make a mess. i’d keep that in mind for the future too. don’t push yourself beyond your limits.
i wish you the best of luck. keep us posted. i hope he comes around, but don’t hurt yourself trying too hard to get him back. if he stays uninterested, just move forward and take it as a lesson for the future
you’re the one who initiated the FWB. yes he shouldn’t have gotten feelings and saw it for what it was... but now YOU’RE the one with feelings... or at least you came on dxp to express something that appears to be feelings for this man.
this is just another reminder why i should never try an FWB. doesn’t seem to really “benefit” anyone. it only seems to make a mess. i’d keep that in mind for the future too. don’t push yourself beyond your limits.
i wish you the best of luck. keep us posted. i hope he comes around, but don’t hurt yourself trying too hard to get him back. if he stays uninterested, just move forward and take it as a lesson for the future
You told him what you wanted he told you what he wanted you're both being childish and playing each other. Time to move on
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