Aqualad
@Aqualad
14 YearsAquarius
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Should I treetrunk where I eat?
lol there could be new favorite place to get a latte. But only this girl to get to know. Go for it.
if i fancied someone Id def pursue them even if he turned out to be a prick its not like i couldn't get him fired
Go for it. But, remember to keep it light. 🙂 Glad that you are meeting people. 🙂
um don't you want to be in a romantic, nice quiet, remote, out of sight setting? and plus, you'll get banned and/or BIG FINE for trying to disrupt in public property. Just keep that in mind.
"Don't shit/fuck where you eat" This phrase means "do not have romantic relationships with any co-workers." Nothing to do with a coffee shop or restaurant or bar. Those are all good places to hit on someone.
As a seasoned barista and bartender I'm just saying those in our line of work who's done it for years tend to 'like' people. Especially with regulars because we see faces in and out all day everyday. Don't take too much thought on what I just said but do keep it in mind because the fact is I do randomly find the odd customer to be quite attractive.
So my advice is to find a different place, take her out of her comfort zone. Whenever my customers ask me out to coffee it's always at my work and it gets annoying because I'm still in a work mindset and I can't focus on them and if I can't focus on them I may seem disinterested and nothing ever happens out of that.
Give her a reason to focus on you and nothing else.
So my advice is to find a different place, take her out of her comfort zone. Whenever my customers ask me out to coffee it's always at my work and it gets annoying because I'm still in a work mindset and I can't focus on them and if I can't focus on them I may seem disinterested and nothing ever happens out of that.
Give her a reason to focus on you and nothing else.
Lol. I was anticipating a kinky read, lad... what a disappointment! I was visualizing a lady sitting on a plate with between her legs, but oh well... To answer your question, why not? Go on and date her. I know for a fact that aquas (or maybe me) have the ability to like people and things around that person & when things turn sour theres an ability unlike EVERYTHING. But if u still like the place after you guys break up you can always pretend she doesnt exist... another ability. Theres no reason to change where you eat just because cupid striked unless of course you eat with your mouth wide open or are too stingy to tip the waiters and fear that your miserly ways may ruin things with your lady-love. Whats her sign? You are turning out to be a Romeo, lad- what happened to the gem?
Posted by EvilTurtle
lol there could be new favorite place to get a latte. But only this girl to get to know. Go for it.
Ok I'll definitely go in for it then. The reason I was worried about it being my favorite place is because I dot have a car and I walk everywhere xD.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
if i fancied someone Id def pursue them even if he turned out to be a prick its not like i couldn't get him fired
Hahahahah so cynical scorp moon or Venus or what and thank you for the help.
Posted by lisabethur8
um don't you want to be in a romantic, nice quiet, remote, out of sight setting? and plus, you'll get banned and/or BIG FINE for trying to disrupt in public property. Just keep that in mind.
Lol I guess so I've never really tried this romantic stuff that often to be honest I'm changing from those aqua males you hate on this board 😛
Posted by everevolvingepithet
So long as you don't poo where you eat it can't be all that bad.
Hahaha I wanted to put that as the title at first just to get people reading it xD.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
"Don't shit/fuck where you eat" This phrase means "do not have romantic relationships with any co-workers." Nothing to do with a coffee shop or restaurant or bar. Those are all good places to hit on someone.
I just chose it as a hook to get people to advise me on this >🙂 . Thank you also for the help 🙂
Posted by aquasnoz
As a seasoned barista and bartender I'm just saying those in our line of work who's done it for years tend to 'like' people. Especially with regulars because we see faces in and out all day everyday. Don't take too much thought on what I just said but do keep it in mind because the fact is I do randomly find the odd customer to be quite attractive.
So my advice is to find a different place, take her out of her comfort zone. Whenever my customers ask me out to coffee it's always at my work and it gets annoying because I'm still in a work mindset and I can't focus on them and if I can't focus on them I may seem disinterested and nothing ever happens out of that.
Give her a reason to focus on you and nothing else.
Hmm ok I'll take that in mind. I was planning on analyzing her a couple times before I make a move. I am an aqua after all xD. I will try to find a different place soon I hate being new to the area sometimes. I've been searching for a "top of the world" or overview of the city spot, but I keep hitting dead ends. I've tried ever since I met her I'm thinking of just using a high school roof instead xD.
Posted by WaterCup
Lol. I was anticipating a kinky read, lad... what a disappointment! I was visualizing a lady sitting on a plate with between her legs, but oh well... To answer your question, why not? Go on and date her. I know for a fact that aquas (or maybe me) have the ability to like people and things around that person & when things turn sour theres an ability unlike EVERYTHING. But if u still like the place after you guys break up you can always pretend she doesnt exist... another ability. Theres no reason to change where you eat just because cupid striked unless of course you eat with your mouth wide open or are too stingy to tip the waiters and fear that your miserly ways may ruin things with your lady-love. Whats her sign? You are turning out to be a Romeo, lad- what happened to the gem?
Lol Watercup well if you wanted one of those stories I could message you about my last week in Cali. I partied from house to house and well theres some things my friends will never see the same now 😉. Alright I hope I can do that haha I would probably just stick outside when shes there xD. I have no idea what yee sign is, but I'll get it out of her smoothly next time I speak to her. Yea I don't know what's wrong with me either usually" I'm drunk all day killing all the capulets." The gem turned out to be a sag thank goodness!!! Sorry gems but you girls scare me I'm way to attracted to you. She's back in my home town we still keep contact I just don't know what we wants still so I'm not waiting around.
Posted by feb16aquaPosted by aquapiscescusp
"Don't shit/fuck where you eat" This phrase means "do not have romantic relationships with any co-workers." Nothing to do with a coffee shop or restaurant or bar. Those are all good places to hit on someone.
Yes! And I'd go for it....could be exciting!!click to expand
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
Posted by feb16aqua
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
LOVE a challenge! A "controlled challenge" as I think of it but all good!! I just love feeling that rush, all of the emotion and anticipation of flirting and teasing!click to expand
Really? I wish I knew how to actively flirt! If I did know then I can know how to actively shut it off. Like right now I'm picturing some pretty bad and cliche barista pick up lines as forms of flirtation. smh.
Posted by feb16aqua
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
LOVE a challenge! A "controlled challenge" as I think of it but all good!! I just love feeling that rush, all of the emotion and anticipation of flirting and teasing!click to expand
Omg I love it too sometimes though I am told I'm too smooth of a talker when I'm feeling it. Then they back off for a bit and I'm thinking how does that work xD. I know I have them on the ropes though when someone's says that haha.
Posted by geminintheworld
This was a pretty sweet thing to read, makes my inner romantic happy. I hope you do go for it.
(As someone who is currently sleeping with and trying to romance my aqua teacher (dont panic we are both consenting adults, i am in my twenties, its not some weird thing) I think sometimes connections can be made in the most regular of places. Kind of brings a whole new joy to life to have romance in the mundane. And even if things get awkward at least you had a new experience).
Aww that's too cute you want to message me about some of that I'm really interested in the story. Please don't tell me it's on the gem board I'm scared to venture there.
Posted by aquasnozPosted by feb16aqua
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
LOVE a challenge! A "controlled challenge" as I think of it but all good!! I just love feeling that rush, all of the emotion and anticipation of flirting and teasing!
Really? I wish I knew how to actively flirt! If I did know then I can know how to actively shut it off. Like right now I'm picturing some pretty bad and cliche barista pick up lines as forms of flirtation. smh.click to expand
It's simple my fellow aqua male just keep the green light on all the time and turn it red when you've gone to far. Ive flirted on my mom, sister, bosses, teachers, and everything in between the first two and the last one are the most fun xD.
Posted by AqualadPosted by aquasnozPosted by feb16aqua
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
LOVE a challenge! A "controlled challenge" as I think of it but all good!! I just love feeling that rush, all of the emotion and anticipation of flirting and teasing!
Really? I wish I knew how to actively flirt! If I did know then I can know how to actively shut it off. Like right now I'm picturing some pretty bad and cliche barista pick up lines as forms of flirtation. smh.
It's simple my fellow aqua male just keep the green light on all the time and turn it red when you've gone to far. Ive flirted on my mom, sister, bosses, teachers, and everything in between the first two and the last one are the most fun xD.click to expand
I think that's my problem it's ALWAYS green. lol! Even if I don't try to talk much! Problem lies in when I actually do try I fail miserably haha.
Posted by aquasnozPosted by AqualadPosted by aquasnozPosted by feb16aqua
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
LOVE a challenge! A "controlled challenge" as I think of it but all good!! I just love feeling that rush, all of the emotion and anticipation of flirting and teasing!
Really? I wish I knew how to actively flirt! If I did know then I can know how to actively shut it off. Like right now I'm picturing some pretty bad and cliche barista pick up lines as forms of flirtation. smh.
It's simple my fellow aqua male just keep the green light on all the time and turn it red when you've gone to far. Ive flirted on my mom, sister, bosses, teachers, and everything in between the first two and the last one are the most fun xD.
I think that's my problem it's ALWAYS green. lol! Even if I don't try to talk much! Problem lies in when I actually do try I fail miserably haha.click to expand
Aww man I see maybe your talking to people with different intrests or tastes?
Posted by AqualadPosted by aquasnozPosted by AqualadPosted by aquasnozPosted by feb16aqua
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
LOVE a challenge! A "controlled challenge" as I think of it but all good!! I just love feeling that rush, all of the emotion and anticipation of flirting and teasing!
Really? I wish I knew how to actively flirt! If I did know then I can know how to actively shut it off. Like right now I'm picturing some pretty bad and cliche barista pick up lines as forms of flirtation. smh.
It's simple my fellow aqua male just keep the green light on all the time and turn it red when you've gone to far. Ive flirted on my mom, sister, bosses, teachers, and everything in between the first two and the last one are the most fun xD.
I think that's my problem it's ALWAYS green. lol! Even if I don't try to talk much! Problem lies in when I actually do try I fail miserably haha.
Aww man I see maybe your talking to people with different intrests or tastes?click to expand
aqualad, you and aquanoz are just wayyyyyyyyy toooo different. Your flirting style is Aries Venus! You need to go to the Aries forum when it comes to love.
Posted by EvilTurtle
lol there could be new favorite place to get a latte. But only this girl to get to know. Go for it.
I second this emotion! And if she's mature and things dont work out thing it should still be all right.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by AqualadPosted by aquasnozPosted by AqualadPosted by aquasnozPosted by feb16aqua
Sounds like fun my Venus in Aries has been looking for a new challenge 😉
LOVE a challenge! A "controlled challenge" as I think of it but all good!! I just love feeling that rush, all of the emotion and anticipation of flirting and teasing!
Really? I wish I knew how to actively flirt! If I did know then I can know how to actively shut it off. Like right now I'm picturing some pretty bad and cliche barista pick up lines as forms of flirtation. smh.
It's simple my fellow aqua male just keep the green light on all the time and turn it red when you've gone to far. Ive flirted on my mom, sister, bosses, teachers, and everything in between the first two and the last one are the most fun xD.
I think that's my problem it's ALWAYS green. lol! Even if I don't try to talk much! Problem lies in when I actually do try I fail miserably haha.
Aww man I see maybe your talking to people with different intrests or tastes?
aqualad, you and aquanoz are just wayyyyyyyyy toooo different. Your flirting style is Aries Venus! You need to go to the Aries forum when it comes to love.click to expand
Ahh yea your right I probably should. Maybe the sag board to Nikki has helped me alot in the past and I have a sag moon. Where is Nikki btw haven't seen her in a while 😢
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My question is should I pursue this girl I was thinking of having a couple more conversations over the weeks then asking her to hang out. At the same time I don't want to treetrunk where I eat since this is my favorite coffee shop and I don't want to be forced to go somewhere else to hang out. What should I do haha?