Simple Question

Hey, can you tell me what your deal breakers are?

Or dont, Im just a text message.

Posted by feb16aqua

I've put up with a lot of shit over the years though including cheating, lying, other annoying things...I consider myself to be pretty tolerant as a person. The ones I have listed below are things that have really gotten under my skin but I have a habit of giving people chances over and over until I'm SURE it's fucked.

So that being said, as I can recall, these are a few things that make my skin crawl:

* Someone being too bossy or trying to control me
* Yelling at me or trying to yell over me to the point it pisses me off and I want to punch your face
* Trying to get me to "submit" before I'm ready or don't want to
* Reoccurring bad breath or smell (YUCK)
* Cheap asses: No, I don't expect you to pay for everything, but I'm not paying for everything either!

Ive actually heard from a few of my Aqua mates - both male and female - that money and hygiene are high on their dealbreaker boards. I think its because you guys are so generous naturally that when you feel like you're being taken advantage of its a let down and its insulting. Being that you are usually FAIR in all aspects its a turn off. I can dig it.

Posted by feb16aqua
So I don't per say have an "immediate deal breaker" but certain things seem to weigh on me and wear down my patience over time...

Noted.

Posted by pssymonstaa
Ok I cant really think about past relationships, but my friend brought two very cute girls over to my place for me and ill tell you how they broke the deal.

Girl one was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to hyper. You could give this girl horse tranquilizer and she would still be bouncing off the walls.
Thats a deal breaker because im chill as fuck and your high, all over the place energies are fucking my vibe up.
I expect girls to act like normal people, be lady like you know.. So if I ever take you home to moms house you wont act like my little sisters..

Girl two could deff get it, based only on looks.
She turned out to be the cliche crazy red haired cat lady who will have 30+ cats and 3000+ romance novels at her house.
They came in, she sat down, and popped three prescription pills. Apparently they werent even the ones she wanted... So she took them anyway.
This kinda says to me that girl.. You are a mess, probably riddled with diseases. Do you really need to get that fucked up, or can you not get a hold of yourself?

So there is two very recent (last night) dealbreakers. Good God.

GOOD GOD this happened last night. Dont leave me in suspense man what happened next!?

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by trashedbliss


Ive actually heard from a few of my Aqua mates - both male and female - that money and hygiene are high on their dealbreaker boards. I think its because you guys are so generous naturally that when you feel like you're being taken advantage of its a let down and its insulting. Being that you are usually FAIR in all aspects its a turn off. I can dig it.

Yes! I do consider myself to be quite a fair person. And generous, yes. I HATE feeling taken advantage of...unless it's mutual oooooo

And cologne on a man is WOW!!!!! Instant cat-like response from me meoooow!!

click to expand

**YES** can you tell me why younger guys tend to not wear it anymore? I swear a guy that is "ok" looking will instantly get my attention if he can dress well and smells good. There's nothing better than being with a guy and having your pheromones go crazy from his scent. Also, if you borrow his jacket and his cologne is there! **YES**

Posted by Ladyaqua
-lies. Big or small. You're done.
-pressuring physical intimacy early. Bye bye.
-trying to set me up or catch me in a lie. Cut!
-consistent flaking. You're fired.

That's all for now

Is it bad that I envisioned you with a gavel and after each point you made "bang bang!" HAHAH.

I agree totally with the "flaking" but and the moving too fast bit. I have an Aqua rising so perhaps that why? I dont know lol.

i've got loads of flaws, so i would rather have a less than perfect mate, so we can be perfectly imperfect. yay!
so corny!! but true. like two misshapened peas in a pod!

Posted by lisabethur8
i've got loads of flaws, so i would rather have a less than perfect mate, so we can be perfectly imperfect. yay!
so corny!! but true. like two misshapened peas in a pod!

Awww tito! LOL LOL *hugs*

Posted by pssymonstaa
Lol nothing happened.
I politely asked my friend to take the two shitfaced broads back to where he brought them from.
I had work early today.

Oh I love a commanding man **RAWR** - take the sluts away please! *beats gavel*

Posted by pssymonstaa
LOL normally I would have overlooked all that and got a nut.. But eversince Ive been here learning about myself.. I feel like having standards and not just sleeping with anyone is kind of... Badass and admireable?
Idk lol

Good perspective! This site has helped me, too.

This is what I've gathered from my Aqua:

- Not being Asian. He's a US citizen, but still identifies strongly with the culture that we both came from
- Uneducated or stupid.
- Dishonest. He actually once commented that if he had a kid, and they even considered cheating in school, he'd beat the crap out of them. And he actually got mad at me for sneaking extra items on the express grocery lane once.
- Too much energy. He prefers to eat and cuddle all day. So it stresses him out when I try to drag him to go mountain biking. lol

Posted by pssymonstaa
LOL normally I would have overlooked all that and got a nut.. But eversince Ive been here learning about myself.. I feel like having standards and not just sleeping with anyone is kind of... Badass and admireable?
Idk lol

Thats GREAT. The only thread where Ive felt relation to is this one and the Aquarius rising one. My "sun" sign is Virgo but I guess because of my other elements I tend to be more loosey goosey but I like that board too because of the sarcasm. The meanness I can do without though.

But I love men who see mistakes and change them. You're in for a good life miboy.

Posted by steponscorpionsCRUNCH
This is what I've gathered from my Aqua:

- Not being Asian. He's a US citizen, but still identifies strongly with the culture that we both came from
- Uneducated or stupid.
- Dishonest. He actually once commented that if he had a kid, and they even considered cheating in school, he'd beat the crap out of them. And he actually got mad at me for sneaking extra items on the express grocery lane once.
- Too much energy. He prefers to eat and cuddle all day. So it stresses him out when I try to drag him to go mountain biking. lol

I have heard that honesty and intelligence is high up on the scale for Aquas. A bit for Virgos as well.

For me it boils down to a couple big things.

Good morning txts everyday or almost everyday slowly kills me on the inside too clingy. I also don't like the thought of you thinking about me everytime you wake up its just weird to me.

Not being able to get along with my best friend. I don't care about the friend group in general whichever it may be, but If you can't get along with me best friend then usually it's done. There are exceptions to this sometimes that Virgo is too damn aynalitical.

Lastly if you bring up my emotional secrets or facts about my childhood to people it's a big no no.

Posted by Aqualad
For me it boils down to a couple big things.

Good morning txts everyday or almost everyday slowly kills me on the inside too clingy. I also don't like the thought of you thinking about me everytime you wake up its just weird to me.

Not being able to get along with my best friend. I don't care about the friend group in general whichever it may be, but If you can't get along with me best friend then usually it's done. There are exceptions to this sometimes that Virgo is too damn aynalitical.

Lastly if you bring up my emotional secrets or facts about my childhood to people it's a big no no.

Wait break up that sentence - you mean your best friend is a Virgo?

...ppl who follow me around like a bad smell at clubs or try and use me to make them look like they are with someone.....I'm like the go to guy for that kinda shit apparently ive been to heaps of christmas, weddings and work parties as arm candy and I'm sick of it ....sure i get free alcahol and food...but its just the principle that i'm reduced to faking it....

ok i kno this is gonna sound gross but ppl who are not clean in the bed room.....and im not talking about vanilla im talking bout hygiene in the bedroom or lack there of......I'm a very conscience person when it comes to having fun in the bed room so i expect the same from others ..... I was with a guy and he was not clean and would expect me to blow him...and when i would not give him head he would get angry at me and give me attitude and I'm like woah is this guy for real!?!?...I hate it when ppl put me in awkward situations that is the biggest off putter in the world....mind you ive learnt to just blow up in awkward situations and just flip out now its really fun

oh and vain over polished ppl are very off putting....and vapidity

I have found that everything can be a deal breaker. Anything in excess can be added to the list depending on the person. ie too nice too sweet too smelly has too many crabs. Lets face it I need some crazy to go with normal or I'll get bored. So other than the vanilla answers like cheat lie steal or eat raw puppies a deal breaker can and will be anything. I mean puppies must be cooked after all, the horror. Soy puppies of course meat is murder after all. Which is a song by one of my fav bands.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
...ppl who follow me around like a bad smell at clubs or try and use me to make them look like they are with someone.....I'm like the go to guy for that kinda shit apparently ive been to heaps of christmas, weddings and work parties as arm candy and I'm sick of it ....sure i get free alcahol and food...but its just the principle that i'm reduced to faking it....

That's not because you're an aqua, that's because you're the gay best friend, isn't it? I think all gay guys go through that for their gal pals.

(If you're not gay, I sooo apologize).

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
...ppl who follow me around like a bad smell at clubs or try and use me to make them look like they are with someone.....I'm like the go to guy for that kinda shit apparently ive been to heaps of christmas, weddings and work parties as arm candy and I'm sick of it ....sure i get free alcahol and food...but its just the principle that i'm reduced to faking it....

ok i kno this is gonna sound gross but ppl who are not clean in the bed room.....and im not talking about vanilla im talking bout hygiene in the bedroom or lack there of......I'm a very conscience person when it comes to having fun in the bed room so i expect the same from others ..... I was with a guy and he was not clean and would expect me to blow him...and when i would not give him head he would get angry at me and give me attitude and I'm like woah is this guy for real!?!?...I hate it when ppl put me in awkward situations that is the biggest off putter in the world....mind you ive learnt to just blow up in awkward situations and just flip out now its really fun

ugh I think anyone that has a dirty dick should not receive a BJ