Some insight into this guy please

Right so I actually posted about this guy in 2013, but with a different username. We fancied each other back then but he had a girlfriend so I cut ties with him. Then he went traveling for 4 years but would text me throughout the years and visit me every time he was back in our home country.

I had a boyfriend for the past year and have now been single for the past 2 months. Aqua man moved back to our home country a few months ago and has been texting me every day pretty much since he found out I've been single. We live about 2 hours apart from each other, and he has come to visit me a few times the past two months where we would go to the theatre, cinema, exhibitions, and always have a blast. The first time we met up I had no feelings for him anymore and just saw him as a friend, and he told me he hasn't stopped thinking about me for the past year and that he wants to marry me. The past few times I've seen him he's said I'm a 10/10, beautiful, funny and smart, etc, and would take my hand and kiss me.

The last time I saw him was on the 21st of December, and he made plans with me to go to an exhibition before it finishes in January. He cancelled though so we have rearranged for Saturday. Now he has been silent for the past few days and I am feeling a bit anxious. I am not sure if he has been this silent before but normally he texts me all the time. Is he losing interest?

I know I should go with the flow with him which is what I do, but is it fair to ask him what I can expect of him?

I am taurus with Aries moon and Cancer Venus. He has a scorpio moon and Pisces Venus.

Any advice appreciated, thank you.

Yeah...you all probably right but WHY TA FUCK HE IS SILENT?

I think all is good. You are overthinking it. But if you are feeling anxious just talk to him

Hi ll, thank you for the advice so far. He’s meant to come to visit today and he texted an hour ago saying his motor isn’t working and will probably come down in the late afternoon... I feel he’s pulling away and will cancel. I’m thinking of saying that I can feel he’s losing interest, or is that too forward?

Ok will do, I’ll keep you posted here as I’m a bit anxious Jeje

Posted by frenchie

Hi ll, thank you for the advice so far. He’s meant to come to visit today and he texted an hour ago saying his motor isn’t working and will probably come down in the late afternoon... I feel he’s pulling away and will cancel. I’m thinking of saying that I can feel he’s losing interest, or is that too forward?

You are doubting him. He hasn’t done anything wrong jet. I would wait and see

He fixed the car and we met up last night. It was so fun, we walked around the city and spoke about everything. He said I'm unique and has never met anyone who thinks like me ever and he's entranced by it, which felt nice to hear.

However we slept together, the sex was good but he couldn't come as he was drunk, and today he's been totally silent since which isn't normal..

Hm so he has been very quiet since we last saw each other, is this normal? I sent him a message and he answered back 24 hours later.

He said that about one month ago on one of our dates. And then this last date is where he said I have a unique mind and he loves that about me. He asked me how I feel about him and I said I'm falling for him.

But since we have had sex he has been awfully quiet, usually he texts me immediately after seeing each other.

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Posted by frenchie

Hi ll, thank you for the advice so far. He’s meant to come to visit today and he texted an hour ago saying his motor isn’t working and will probably come down in the late afternoon... I feel he’s pulling away and will cancel. I’m thinking of saying that I can feel he’s losing interest, or is that too forward?

You are doubting him. He hasn’t done anything wrong jet. I would wait and see

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Week of silence is nothing wrong? On which Universe?

I did meet up with him a week later, which was this Saturday and it was so fun. He fixed his car and came down to my city, and he stayed the night but he's being silent now, he normally texts right after we hang out. Not sure if it was too intense or what..

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Posted by frenchie

Hi ll, thank you for the advice so far. He’s meant to come to visit today and he texted an hour ago saying his motor isn’t working and will probably come down in the late afternoon... I feel he’s pulling away and will cancel. I’m thinking of saying that I can feel he’s losing interest, or is that too forward?

You are doubting him. He hasn’t done anything wrong jet. I would wait and see

Week of silence is nothing wrong? On which Universe?

Oh totally normal for a guy that is in to you to not speak to you for a week. donchaknow

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Yep! Maybe his fingers got arthritis on both hands? And then he show up and trying sex and getting quiet...what’s that call here? Withdrawing? For no reason except that no cum thing...😱

It wasn't a week of silence, it just wasn't so full on as previously. He still texted to wish me a merry Xmas, what iwas up to, what I received etc.

We did stuff in the morning and he came then

Also we had sex just before I got with my ex and he said it was the best he had had in two years and couldn't stop thinking about it. He wasn't drunk so he could cum, this time he was pretty drunk though

I'm thinking of waiting and see what he does, if he reaches out. And if he doesn't then I'll bring it up and ask if he had a good time last time we met and that I can sense he's pulling away, what do you think?

Posted by frenchie

I did meet up with him a week later, which was this Saturday and it was so fun. He fixed his car and came down to my city, and he stayed the night but he's being silent now, he normally texts right after we hang out. Not sure if it was too intense or what..

Where ta fuck had he been for a week? Huh?

We’re you afraid to ask so he wouldn’t dump you?

For the whole week? We live two hours apart, it isn't possible to see each other during the week yet. We saw eachother on both weekends