suspicious aqua

Ok, so my aqua went to Egypt for a holiday couple weeks ago. That same week he invited me to his place, saying that he wanted to see me before he went and he asked me to bring my 1tb hard drive so he could transfer some tunes and films of mine onto his blackberry tablet thing. I told him that he could borrow it for the week so that he could watch what films he wanted (his blackberry tablet can only hold about 2 films on it) and when he got back we would meet and I'll collect it.

He texed me the day he left, he texted me when he got back, but ever since then he has been very distant. Over a few days we had small convo, I asked him when I could get the HD back and he was like, 'this week.' Yesterday I told him that I need it back by the end of this week, and can he let me know what day I can collect it, and he said ok but didn't say what day to come up to meet him.

I'm freaking out a bit because it seems so out-of-character of him, and I feel that he has done something to my HD, maybe lost all my stuff on it or something, but on the other hand I could be paranoid and thinking things too much. All I want to do is get him to arrange a day where I can come up and collect my stuff back, but I feel he is avoiding me for some reason. He's making me out to be a nagging woman, by giving me very little info so I'm having to ask him over and over.

I've lent him things before and he's never pulled this stunt so I don't know whats going on.

Any ideas?

Posted by Ninjagirl
Ok, so my aqua went to Egypt for a holiday couple weeks ago. That same week he invited me to his place, saying that he wanted to see me before he went and he asked me to bring my 1tb hard drive so he could transfer some tunes and films of mine onto his blackberry tablet thing. I told him that he could borrow it for the week so that he could watch what films he wanted (his blackberry tablet can only hold about 2 films on it) and when he got back we would meet and I'll collect it.

He texed me the day he left, he texted me when he got back, but ever since then he has been very distant. Over a few days we had small convo, I asked him when I could get the HD back and he was like, 'this week.' Yesterday I told him that I need it back by the end of this week, and can he let me know what day I can collect it, and he said ok but didn't say what day to come up to meet him.

I'm freaking out a bit because it seems so out-of-character of him, and I feel that he has done something to my HD, maybe lost all my stuff on it or something, but on the other hand I could be paranoid and thinking things too much. All I want to do is get him to arrange a day where I can come up and collect my stuff back, but I feel he is avoiding me for some reason. He's making me out to be a nagging woman, by giving me very little info so I'm having to ask him over and over.

I've lent him things before and he's never pulled this stunt so I don't know whats going on.

Any ideas?

yup, ask him, " is something wrong with my hd? if he says no, then "okay so whats up, why are you acting funny and procrastinating?, should i just come when i want?" 🙂

Just spoke to him - he's been looking for work for ages - his morale is low at the moment so he's not his usual self/feeling shitty. I haven't asked about the HD, I feel differently now that I know what's going on. I think it's in safe hands. Thanks Chemegin!

no work, yup that can suck. glad you two talked it out. 🙂
anytime, we like to help as you know. 🙂

Your hard disk, is sure in safe hand. 🙂 , you can trust aqua. If your Hd is broken, he will tell you. If you need your HD back just tell him in a nice way. He in moody right now, if you tell him bluntly you need your HD back at this time. He will sure return it to you but be expected he will not ever going ask to borrow your HD again.