taurus man in love with aquarius female

I've been with this girl for 5years.I read horoscopes to better understand her.She is a tough girl and I feel like she doesn't show her indepth feelings for me.I love her to death and I know she loves me.I need to know how to make her on fire in bed also.She says she enjoys it and I satisfy her.But mentaly I don't totally feel it. I am a body builder now and used to be a model but my self esteme of myself is not their.I do get copliments from her sometimes,but I need more. We've living together after the 1st 6months of the relationship. Everything is great overal I shouldn't complain.We have a communication problem I decifer what she says differently and she does the same.Things that are minute to her are very important to me.I always try to keep her interested and make things exciting by using an intellectual approach.Even sometimes buying little gifts like a good book [ripley's believe it or not,every day after work she read it until she finished she loved it.Recently 4days ago I bought her an electronic cross word puzzle game.She hasn't put it down yet either.Things like,, this I believe have made her relize how important her well being is to me.I have talked to her about trying to make me feel like i'm #1 and not just saying it.This is not an easy relationship,I know she is faithful and wants to be with me forever ,but the stars say we will never work.I am not going to give up anytime soon.Just need advice from some aquariuses out their!!!!! What can make her want me more and more and show it—

I think thats great that you buy her things to stimulate her mind but I don't think you should try so hard. Being an aquarian, I am turned off by someone who is desperate to be with me, it makes me feel stiffled and crowded and then I don't want to see them anymore. I believe that if we are meant to be with someone we will be, if not then we won't, you can't make anyone make you feel good about yourself, you have to do that for yourself. If your happy with her just be happy with what you have, even if it is for the time being, just enjoy what you have now and quit grasping for something more.

TO-SHAY HUNGRY ; ]

I agree with Hungry on this one and its worth while in noting what she both says and does,nt say.
This relationship for you my friend is most difficult. It is good you have studied her astrology. I was once involved with an Aqua for many years and struggled despite learning all there was to know about this sign. They are good in many ways but intimate relationships are not their speciality.
First see if you really need an ego.

You will have fun and lots of it I hope you enjoy being together.

Earl of Skye

HUNGRY WHO'S USING YOUR COMPUTER HAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAA IT DON'T SOUND LIKE YOU : ] AHHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Hi there! You may have studied her Acqa sign, but that's not who she may really be. To figure out a person you need to know which sign their personal planets are in. You need to know the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, Mars and Saturn placements. Knowing these placements you can than hopefully relate to her better. Depending on what signs are in these placements, she will examplify the characteristics of those signs. So you see she really isn't an Acqa like you may think. That's just her sun sign and an outward characteristic. This is what these planets rules...

Sun - outward characteristics
Mars - passion AND temper
Venus - how one loves
Mercury - communicatiomn
Saturn - overall karma, ones beliefs, how one does their tasks, etc.
Moon - rules emotions

Me myself I'm a Sagi Sun. My mars, venus, mercury are in Sagi too. But my moon is in Acqu and my emotional outlook is just like an Acqu. My saturn is in Capi and boy do I embody a Capi!!! It's pretty amazing IMO. I think you'll be surprised how accurate this will turn out to be. Once you know these placements you can better get insight into how to relate w/her. If you don't know the placements you can post her birthday and I'll post back what they are. Include the year too! If you want to include yours as well I can let you know how harmonious you two are together as well.

Please don't go by what the horoscopes say as to what "is or is not a good match". They do not take planet placements into account nor the 2 people's hearts for that matter!

HE'PPER WHAT THA-HAY WAS THAT LADY STAR I NEED A INTERPUTER HAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA : ]

OK MR. SAG THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO A STORY AND LIFE IS WHAT WE BREW UP SO WHATS THE POINT SHE LOVES TO LAUGH LET HER : ] AHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ; ]

Thank you for the heads up.It's not like i'm buying her things all the time and kissing her a**.[excuse my french]You know you have a good point about smothering her because,,,I noticed for the 1st 2years of the relationship I didn't care like I do now.I think it was a challenge

Well I hit the post button by accident.To finsh what I was saying I think it was a challenge for her because she thought I didn't care,,,and she did show a lot more affection and interest in me. I felt like I was #1 in her life.Now she is use to me and I am going to start cutting her slack so life isn't so complicated.I need to just work on myself in certain ways rather than her worrying about pulling some of my weight and her own.Most women wish they had a man who expresses his true feelings + is their when you need him.But on the other hand who wants a man whose all over you like a "wet suit".THANK YOU. PS:If you write a message again one thing about most aquarius women is you can be insensitive about other peoples feelings.I don't know you or you true intention ,but it did sound a little harsh.In a way that's how I would interpet some e-mails from my girl.She would write back and say I didn't mean for it to sound cocky Im sorry

Well,. just to let you know the date of birth for both of us.I was born May18,1974 @ 7:00am in Massachusetts.She was born January 22,1974 @ 2:45pm also the same state.If this is the info you need it would be greatly appreciated to know what makes us both tic,,,besides just your standard sun sign.Please feel free to post your knowledge.THANK YOU

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Cowboy!

LOL!
Star

HEY CB not everyone can walk around laughing all day long like you! I think that 66 had a general concern, and he is right about us aquarians being insensitive, I've been accused of that many times and have come to see its true even though I don't mean to be that way. I think your doing the right thing 66, give yourself some time and attention and you will probably have a good relationship! Best of luck.

And you CB just proved how insenstive the aquarian men can be (from what you just posted here)!!!!!!!!!

Hey hungry Thanks for that positive note.I guess you told cb what time it is.I'll tell ya I wish I could laugh all day everyday like this guy.Anyway,posting these messages while @ work and seeing a responses the next day when I come in has been really good. All I know is I am a stubborn bull and not going to give up over my insecurity and lack of communication. PS:Hungry so I guess their is a soft side you can express!!!!!See you help me i'll help you.Just kiden I think I need more help than you anyway.Well hope I here from people out their soon.Thanks again

Best of luck! Just remember, Aquarians are the strange ones of the zodiak, we do have a soft side, but sometimes it takes along time to find it!

HUNGRY I LOVE THE WAY YOU HIT ME HAHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA : ]

I am an Aquarius woman in love head over heals with a Taurus man. One thing I'd like to say is, I myself had just experienced my Taurus man wanting to please me .. he did alot of things, like burning my favorite inncense, cooking my favorite meal, downloading my favorite computer program for me to play with. I have to tell you, it's not that we don't appreciate it. I was to shy to say.. we just don't come out and say, I extreamly enjoyed what he did for me.. I see it now that we are seperated for a day. But right now, I am sooo in love with him all the more now for doing those extra special things for me. I feel like I should thank him for doing that.. but I just don't know or can figure out the words to say cause of my shyness. I guess we Aquarians are really affectionate to an extent.. as long as we are not feeling overly smothered.. we are fine with it. In my opinion, I was thinking I'd rather be hugging and him showing his affection in that way.. cause doing things for me, instead of with me, just makes me uncomfortable.
gee I hope this makes sense.
Just try to understand.. she loves you! and she loves you cause of the things you do for her.. so, you likely will not always hear what you want to hear.. but she does tell you every now and then.. be happy with that.. cause if she wasnt' happy.. she'd be gone. You are doing a great job.. just keep at it.. maybe it will just take her a little longer to say whats really on her mind. At times with myself, it seems I feel that actions prove more then words. My actions of spending time on the program he downloaded for me, complimenting him on his cooking, and stating that I love that smell is enough for me.. the rest is the actions of the tender kisses I give him during and afterwards.

C-B we come to this forum not ONLY for fun but for adice as well, so we shouldn't be considerate and helpful to those who are desperate.....

C-B we come to this forum not ONLY for fun but for adive as well, so we should be considerate and helpful to those who are desperate.....

C-B we come to this forum not ONLY for fun but for advice as well, so we should be considerate and helpful to those who are desperate.....

jollyjas has pretty much explained the way that it is. My husband and I have been married since 1991, together since 1989. He's taurus, 5 years younger than me, I'm aquarius. I'm not going to say it's been easy. Especially since he is younger than me. We go through the same argument every year (that's when we let it out, REALLY let it out, about once a year!). And I can say this and kind of laugh because it's true.

But this is his argument: I don't show enuf affection, not enuf sex for him. For me: he doesn't show me any attention or enuf attention for me to want to give him all the great sex that he expects from me. That's our main argument. We have learned to give each other space to do what we want. Which may or may not be a good thing. I don't know.

As far as affection goes, I'm not talking about the gifts and the help around the house or even, god, the smothering hugs all the time (but I love him, I love him, I love him) but the every day, how are you, how was your day. can I spend time with you today? thing....not clingy, but there. hard to explain, even harder to listen to, I know. Just go to a movie with me. Shopping, anything that I enjoy too. Not car shows, not drag races, not HUNTING! But something we both can enjoy.

I, too, have a hard time accepting compliments and gifts. I don't want to be obligated to anyone, even my husband. But I want someone there when I need them. I know that sounds really contradictory, but it's just what I NEED. I don't know what to say to him when he tells me he still "craves me after all these years." I want to say "so? you SHOULD say that! We've been married for 14 years!!" But I can't. It's taken me a long while to mature and not say that!!! Even tho sometimes I still laugh at him when he says it!! hehe I can't help it!!!

Anyway, be patient, be kind, be alert, not too attentive, but there. If that makes any sense??

msmissy said:
but it's just what I NEED. I don't know what to say to him when he tells me he still "craves me after all these years." I want to say "so? you SHOULD say that! We've been married for 14 years!!" But I can't. It's taken me a long while to mature and not say that!!!
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I have to say here, it just seems he is so compassionate.. I don't think I had a relationship with any other man like that. It's so overwhelming. I to don't know what to say when he comes out with these little surprizes. he totally stumps me!
example: I would be telling him how much I miss him.. over and over. He says 'nothing' so I start to thinking.. ok. he don't miss me, or don't feel the same way I do..but really it's choice,my choice is I 'care' about him.. he don't 'have to' miss me. Then all of a sudden when others are around. He'd say: 'I miss 'her' body' I'd say.. who's body? 'yours' he'd say, then he'd go on and on about how good we have it and we can make it and that we are 'two old souls'

It's comes always as such a surprize that it floors me.. and I am totally stumped as to what to say.
Another Example: When I am with him..I want 'hugs' cuddle time, and conversation. He's just withdrawn, and into watching tv or something. I accept it... seems like he waits for that or something... lol. then all of a sudden, he's showing affection in other ways like 'tucking me in on the couch' giving me a kiss and he's off again in his own world. When night time falls.. it's to much! haha. I mean it's 'wild', but at the same time I love it, I'm just not able to handle it all of a sudden.
I guess as is said: us aquarians need 'mind stimulation' first .. that could be it, you think?

And he is extremely jelous.. another thing I am not used to.. I have never met a man as jelous as him. I have a male 'friend' thats all we will ever be.. I knew that man for like 30 years.. if there was something that was going on between us.. it would of happened years ago. He says he understands.. but still. I can tell he's still not believing that I am honest, that bothers me, cause I KNOW I am as honest as they come. I am with him.. and only him, thats all it will ever be as long as we are together.
does your husband do that? if so, how do you handle it?

Jolly, that is soooo true! I think you hit it on the head when you said that you're just not able to handle it all of a sudden. I hadn't thought of it quite like that, but yeah. When you don't see him all day and all of a sudden he's there in your face and I pull away because it's just "TOO MUCH all of a sudden." He doesn't understand it. Like I said, that's our biggest argument. Not enuf sex for him. And I have never understood why I started pulling away after several years of it, but I think that really explains alot. I'm always telling him that I need more attention before I can give attention in that area or any other area sometimes. He works such odd hours and it's really tough for us to be on the same page. But I think we're managing. It gets bad sometimes but we'll have our "once a year blowout argument" and things will settle down again for a while. Usually because I don't bring it up again and let him have his way. Until it starts to bug me that I'm going against my grain and beliefs. but we work it out.

Stuart does the exact same thing as you said that yours does when it comes to cuddling or saying things. I think he wants to make sure that everyone knows how good he is to me and how much he loves me. That would fall probably under the jurisdiction of jealousy, huh? How do I handle it? Hmmm, I just try to come back with a smart remark, usually. I think we've been together now long enuf to know when to ying and yang.

But as far as jealousy, he does have a small jealousy side. If I talk too much to one guy, yeah, he gets a little crazy. But it's not really been that bad. Most of the time, I think it's because we live in a small community. He grew up here and was pretty much the badass. So, when guys have found out that I am with Stuart, they usually back away.

I lived with a libra man a long time ago and he was extremely jealous. I couldn't talk to anyone!! Especially his friends. I will never be with another libra again in my life because of that.

whew! that was alot. It's just that this is so wild to me that we're in relationships so much alike that it's scarey!

This is rather freaky. But I look at it this way. things happen for a reason.. and souls are put together either knowingly or not..to learn from each other. I had questions.. you are here to fullfill that request.. thats sooo cool!
Marty and I just had an arguement about 'trust' I hate the feeling that he don't trust me.. I trust him with all my heart and soul.
It's hard for me cause I am not living in 'his' small community.. we are seperated by a few miles. But I lived there before. He also is the badass LOL. So I have no fears of someone trying to mess around. They'd never succeed anyways, one thing about us aquarians is we are very faithful.. through and through.
I'm thinking he and I can make it. I just need to learn how to accept these WILD nights. He comes on so strong, that it takes my breath away. but it's so cool,that feeling that he's there for me, and only me.. yet overwhelming. can I truely handle all this in the long run? time will tell I guess... as long as I try to remember not to argue with him.. cause he will always win.
I think our attention is from the 'little' things he does.. and the beauty he creates around us. I'm thinking we aren't going to get much more of that. He's not as verbal about things as I am.. just the odd unexpected times he says alot.. knowing I'm sure that he's doing a good job of keeping my interest, and keeping me wondering till the next time he floors me.
LOL.. this relationship is sooo cool.. I've never dated a Taurus before that I know of... so yea.. I'm loving it.
I married a picies [spelling] that was hell.. he was mentally abusive. was in a long relationship with another aquarius.. and that was wonderful.. to wonderful actually to make it last, we went our seperate ways and still remain friends.
my friend of 30 is also another aquaruis.. and i can't stand the way he treats women.
my Marty is so much a gentleman as well, think I haven't been through that as well, and he's totally neat.. organized, and on a regular routine.
I'm more layed back, not into routines as much.. wonder how that will work out? lol

Trust is a real issue with us, too. We both feel the need to always be trustworthy. Our motto when we first got together was that "everything was to be 50-50." No matter what!! And it has for the most part. Of course, it's not always going to be that way, sometimes one or the other will need to give more. That's just the way it is. He will trust you eventually. This is going to sound so shallow to say, but in the beginning giving them their way is the way to the trust. Most of the time you will be on the same page with him anyway. But just knowing that you will be there with them, that means everything to them.

That's so funny that he also is the "badass." Those bulls, I guess you can't stop them! I think also with the wild nights, they do calm down a bit. They don't really like it to, but it does. It will on your end. I think any relationship will, no matter what, but taurus has a hard time trying to accept that fact. He's still raring to go at every turn. Arguing with him tho, I think I'm usually the one that wins!! hehe At least that's what he tells me!! We joke that our first 10 years of marriage I was right, now the next 10 he gets to be right!!

They truly are gentlemen. Stuart was born and raised in the south so he was raised that way to boot. I call him a "man's man." Because he likes to hunt and fish, racing, sports, he's a carpenter, can make just about anything. I had someone tell me once that a true carpenter reminded them of a cowboy. They carry their tools on their leather belt and just have a way about them. He can talk to any man about anything. It amazes me sometimes. I just look at him in awe.

You also said "things happen for a reason.. and souls are put together either knowingly or not..to learn from each other. I had questions.. you are here to fullfill that request.. thats sooo cool!" and that Aquarians are faithful. Yes, and no. We are pretty faithful, but sometimes shit happens. I've been "talking" to an Aquarian male since New Year's eve. We have really clicked and it's weird. We're both married to very strong individuals and I think that's why we have the urge to want to be together. We have kissed and hugged, but have not gone any farther. Neither one of us want to complicate things any further than they are now. My whole point is this: just talking about our tauran males makes me fall further inlove with my husband. I need this right now also!! And I need to thank you for that! ;~) So yes, there is always a reason 2 souls are put together!!

So much to say about him. Stuart is laid back and I'm the hyper one. I love people, parties and friends. He's a homebody. That's a problem sometimes. He leaves things laying around, I need to pick things up and put them in their place. I have a daily schedule of sorts, his daily routine depends on whether he has to work or not that day, then he'll decide. We really are sort of opposites, but it does work. It's the longest relationship I have ever been in and the best. We've been together going on 16 years. 1st taurus that I'd been with. I think I've dated just about every sign and this is the best for me. He keeps me grounded whether I want to be or not. I can keep him grounded also. Does that make sense??

This is cool, tho!! so much more to talk about! I don't know if anyone is going to let us continue this thread or not. But if y'all do, great!! I'm enjoying it. If not, let us know and we'll figure something out.

Thanks again, Jolly!

This 50-50 bit I have to say I disagree with. It's almost like saying, "I give you 50% and the other 50% goes somewhere else. When we are in a relationship.. we have to work at it according to 'Carolyn Bushog' something like that!.. she says we must give relationship 100% everyday. Don't worry about the others percentage.. just do your 100% and all should go well.
Marty can talk to anyone about anything too.. age range makes no difference.. he's right on their level.. speaks from his heart.. down to earth.. really blows me away. there isn't one soul in his town that don't like him.. everyone likes him. Me? I manage to create enimies no matter where I go.. cause I speak the truth > lol.. don't know if thats an aquarius trait or not.
I'm not saying that I was 'never' unfaithful. In my past I was always looking for 'mr. right' or someone to fullfill me mentally. I was always on the prowl.. yes.. I had many relationships. When I was with my Aquarian male for 5 years [Tim], that was extra special.. Being with him, was almost like being with myself.. it was something. I could aways know what was on his mind, and I found him so intelligent, we could talk about anything.. and fully understand each other. Our relationship was very special.. but I still messed around on him. We got along soo well, that it was unbelieveable... I needed something more. We ended up going our seperate ways. Know what changed me? when I seen him again about 10 years later.. he held me and cried ..said "when you messed around on me, you hurt me so badly.. I loved you soo much..it tore me apart inside and I have never been the same since! I can't trust anyone now cause of what you did to me."
After that.. I was never able to do that to another male again. I was married for 17 years and never once did I mess around on him.. even though he did on me.
So yes we are faithful to our own word.. when we make up our minds to do something, we do it. It was hearing about how badly I hurt someone that did it for me.
I think you may change in time with this Aquarian.. I know I did.. we are the best match.. but it also says it's to good to be true. I still consider him my best friend.. I have talked to him now and then thoughout the years.. and I still to this day have alot of feelings for him.. but I think more so in need of that conversation we did so well! I think in time you will find that you will want to move on. I'd go back with him in a heartbeat if I knew that all would be well.. but I veiw it as this.. why mess up a good friendship? what we had was very special.. I want to remember it as that.
I almost wanted to back in 1996, as you said, we also were both married to strong individuals [isn't that strange? same here!] it was that thinking.. seeing him 'unhappy' with her all them years.. i wanted to take him back and make him happy.. It hurt to see him so unhappy in that relationship.. I also was unhappy.. so yes... I did come very close to trying to take him back. We talked about it...he said "i dont believe in trying to redo the past'
This other one, the one that I knew for 30 years, he's a complete asshole [aquarian] he has no repect for women [nathan], and he's always playing mind games on me.. don't go over to well with us aquarians. He keeps thinking he's going to win me.. well I'm simply not interested in him what so ever. I'll stay friends with him for the simple reason that I KNOW he will try to split me and marty up cause 'he' can't have me. If i stay friends he may back off.

My Taurus man.. he loves to be home at all times, he's not comfortable say in the bar or something.. he does love to entertain though, and does a wonderful job of making people feel at ease in his home.
I think I know about the 'grounded' thing. He says he's going to change me for the better.. well we'll see how that goes LOL> said I live to much of a wild life with the way I let my kids get to me,

Yeah, I know what you're saying about the 50-50 part. You definitely need to give 100% . When we say 50-50 tho, we mean that no one is going to give more than the other, I guess. I grew up in a househould where my mother was walked upon. I never wanted that. And I had just come out of a relationship with an Aries. Very quiet but mind games were horrible! So I didn't want to have to have everything on my shoulders nor did I want him to have to have everything on his. So that's what we mean by that!

I also tell the truth. Have had to learn to count to 10 before speaking and even then things just blurt out!! I try not to hurt anyone's feelings. I work with an Aquarian male and he's a retired marine to boot! He's constantly saying things right off the top of his head!! he's funny! It's strange that I had never really allowed myself to be around male aquarians because my brother is one and he is a complete a**hole. He and I have totally disclaimed each other. He told me "he doesn't want to know me." in the middle of an argument last year. I also have an aquarian sister, both he and her were born on Jan 22, 2 years apart. They are cut from the same mold. Both are mean and hateful people. It's sad. That's why when my aquarian male friend, Phil, and I started talking, it really surprised me that I was interested. Number one, he is just a year older than me (I'm 46 he's 47) and has a heart condition. He's bald, has a bit of a belly and hair all over!! I have never, EVER liked a man with that much hair on his chest and back. It's wild to me!! Anyway, but yes, we think alike, talk alike, act alike. We talk about anything and get it. His birthday is Jan 30. He's the total opposite of Stuart. Stuart is slim and younger. Blond hair, blue eyes. I have always gone for the macho type, I guess. My way of judging a man (this is silly) is I want someone that could take care of me in a nuclear war! Too funny, I know. But someone basically that can take care of themselves. Phil can't build anything, doesn't know much about cars, has a boat, but doesn't know anything about it. Doesn't fish, hunt or anything, doesn't really care about sports....I call him a "girly-man" because he really likes the company of women. He doesn't act gay or anything, nothing like that. It's just that he's been married for 20 years to this loud-mouthed woman and he's just a bit "whipped" I guess. I'm sure that it won't last. It can't. I can't continue 2 relationships like this. I'm not cut out for it. Even tho there is absolutely no sex involved and we don't do anything but hug and kiss when we do see each other once about every other week, we talk every day and email. He works from home so it's pretty easy to do.

Anyway, Marty sounds so much like my Stuart it's incredible! What year were you born? I was born 1959. Stuart's birthday is 4/27/64. You said that when we make up our minds to do something we do it. That is totally right! I get something in my head and it won't go away until I do it, be it right or wrong!

Stuart and I really are friends, first and foremost, I think. We are so attuned to each other now that we complete each other's sentences. He'll say something and I'll say "I was just going to say that!" and vice versa. We really do get along incredibly well. After years of ending up with the wrong guy, it was a blessing and a treat to be with someone like him. I think that's why it's lasted so long. We have alot in common as far as hobbies and such. He jumps from hobby to hobby, we both have to keep our interests spiked. We like new things and we are both selfish. We have admitted to that and that's why we didn't have children. We recognized that early on in each other.

Yeah, the boards have been pretty quiet the past few days. Spring is in the air down here, maybe everyone is out enjoying the beautiful weather!!

Take care!! hugs to you,too!
mindy

This must be the aquarian trait then.. cause yes, things blurt out of my mouth alot to.. I never want to hurt anyones feelings, I say things to try to help.. and people always read me the wrong way.

This thing about wanting someone to take care of you in a nuclear war. I'd say is the Taurus trait.. they are people that want to look after their lovers, they plan for the future more so then any other sign. Marty does really well by himself. but still in need of someone like me around him for excitement.

about the talking thing. I understand. This male even though I have no respect about how he treats women [ nathan]. He is like talking to a female in some ways.. I tell him he must be half female. We talk about EVERYTHING. Marty was thinking there was something between us.. other then conversation.. NOTHING is going on.. he'd be the last man on earth I'd want to have a relationship with, he's also bald.. and full of hair yuk lol
Marty has dark long hair, no hair on his body, green eyes, huge neck [taurus trait]. He's more man than I've ever had before. But not in a moncho way.. more of a [it's hard to explain] he's very quiet, relaxed.. yet sooo man.
His home has femine qualities about it.. it's weird, but he has a wonderful scense of style /decorating.. and he's very much into toys, very expensive toys.

I was born in 1956. He was born in 1953 May 21, 1953. So he's also I think on the cusp.. I read some places on the net telling me he is Gemini..and yet others he is Taurus.

Anyways, I've desided I dont want to be these many miles away from him anymore. This man is addicting! So I think I'm going to make that move, and see if we can't get together, I'm moving in! thats it.. I think about him constantly.. And want to be with him. He makes me feel beautiful when I am around him..and without him near me I feel so alone.

So glad I met you here Missy!

sorry typo! I meant 'Mindy' not missy

Ok, well, I don't want to make this about me but. Im currently w/ a taurus man, and Im so excited! - rough rugged, sensitive, loving, dedicated to me, and craving to settle down right away! We've been together for 6 mos @the end of this month (June 2013). I seriously dated a Taurus when I was 19, for 2 and a half years. Everything was great except he was so jealous and possesive. Now Im a 34 yr old woman, so, Im a totally different person now. Im really magnetized by this man, & Im trying to figure him out because we are both so strong, and he seems to be struggling with me. But, his sweetness, loving and caring ways, and dedication to me is what makes me want to spill kisses on him and let him have his way when he wants it. I know he feels Im not as passionate as him, I can feel it. But if he only knew .... it's just hard for me to express for some reason, the way he does. I feel like I need to step it up to give him "a clue". Any Taurus men up here? Give me some info on how to love this man. I'll take any advice from Taurus to Aquarius couples too. I want to win him w/o losing myself. He's a good man.

I'm 32 and in a relationship with a Taurus man 34. I'm reading some of the post on here past and present and I'm so confused. Many of you Aquarius women seem to be so happy with your Taurus men. Yes I see some have said it was difficult but you all still seem to love them and be overall happy. I'm wondering why this has been the most difficult relationship I've ever been in. This Taurus, doesn't communicate well. I feel I have to get him to stop sugarcoating and speak up about the truth. I'm very direct and it's hard for me to respect him because he's not. He's admitting to not being direct. I love to be mentally stimulated and he doesn't do it for me. Many have asked me why am I with him. On the few occasions when he isn't getting on my nerves I enjoy his company. I like that he likes to go to church, and I enjoying knowing that every weekend I have something to do with him. I know that basically says I probably would be best as just being a hangout partner with him. But he doesn't want that. He wants a relationship or nothing. I hate how he hesitates when I'm talking to him. I constantly have to say HELLO! to get his attention and get a response from him. He says I don't give him time to think or respond. I don't understand why he needs time to think of an answer. I guess I'm quick and maybe he's slow. Either way, when I research our signs things say we are NOT compatible and I clearly see that. So I wonder how are some of you making it. I read on one of the posts that you need to look up signs and what the moon etc says. I will look into that. I'm tired of dating and I don't meet many guys that I'm interested in or are compatible with so I guess I'm trying to hold on to this relationship until I am absolutly sure that this won't work and I'm not looking forward to being single again with nothing to do.