the calm before the storm

Ya'll are idiots. to thine ownself be true, remember? "Be strong of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed; for the Lord thy god is with you withsoever you goest." That's fron Joshua I:9. Good grief, people, get a grip. Take responsibility for yourselves and your own happiness. It's YOUR life.! Make God happy if you can't make yourself happy!!

YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY NOT AN AQUARIAN!!

Barbarosa,

Unknown is probably right in saying that you must not be an Aquarian, but aside from that, sometimes things (good and bad) happen to us that we have no control over. However, we do have control over our responses and the choices that we make. The choices that we make are what will either make God pleased or disappointed with us.

Do watch how you talk to others, as your day will come too!!!! I only hope that when it does, you will have the intelligence enough to contemplate and meditate on what is happening in your life and why it is happening as we aquarians have been doing for sometime now. Many of us have been hit hard over the past year, but we all will overcome this and be better people for it.

And by the way, talking about making God happy, I don't think you did with your reply.............Take Care

Dearest Fellow Aquarians: Not only am I an Aquarian, but I have Aquarius as my Ascendant sign as well. I too have been hit hard by calamities and I pulled myself up, got myself over whatever it was and went on with it. I count my blessings every day: I have a wonderful family that I get along great with, fullfilling friendships, and a wonderful boyfriend. I like myself and I enjoy my life. I would apologize for touching such sensitive nerves, but I believe you protest too much. It sounds like it was the truth that hurt. All that moaning and groaning about relationships that don't work, jobs that suck, or people who are not very nice, isn't making anyone happier. Did no one ever tell you that life is unfair? You don't have to be unhappy just because it is. All we can do is make our corner of the world the best that it can be. Crying about 8-year relationships with horrible sounding men does not indicate good emotional health. There are professional counselors out there who are TRAINED to teach people to stand up for themselves and take responsibility for their choices (some of which are which people we choose to live and love with!). Get a grip. Life is not an internet message board anyway!

Barbarosa, LOL - "life is not a message board" - then WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING HERE!! Hhm? Yeah, I see.

OKAY, FIRST OF ALL, I'M SOOOOO GLAD THAT YOUR LIFE IS PEACHY KEEN! AS FOR THE TYPICAL AQUAR, WE HAVE HAD AT LEAST 3 YEARS OF SOME EMOTIONALLY,PHYSICALLY,AND SPIRITUALLY GRUELING TIMES. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR PEOPLE "COMPLAINING" RATHER SHALL I SAY SHARING, THEN WHY IN THE HELL ARE YOU CHECKING OUT THIS SITE>? I FEEL IT IS A VERY IMPORTANT PART OF LIFE TO BE ABLE TO SHARE BOTH GOOD AND BAD TIMES WITH OTHERS AROUND YOU, IT AIDES IN THE HEALING PROCESS AND GIVES A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE ON THE SITUATION AT HAND. SOMEONE ELSES ADVICE COULD BE A LIFE CHANGING SITUATION. YOU SEEM SO CLOSE-MINDED TO BE AN AQUAR. ANYWAY, I GUESS THE MAIN PURPOSE FOR MY RESPONSE IS THAT I REALLY HOPE THAT YOU CAN GIVE SOMEONE GOOD AND LOVING ADVICE TO THEIR QUESTION OR PROBLEM IN THE FUTURE WITHOUT BEING SO QUICK TO HAVE IT ALL TOGETHER AND JUDGE OTHERS