QueenCaLi
@QueenCaLi
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Theres Something Strange about that AQUA...
and that is a perfect example of why i originally put aquarius on the "Top 5 Fakest Signs" list.
Aquarius females can be fake but one-on-one, they're kewl..
Aquarius females can be fake but one-on-one, they're kewl..
I think you're friend is just insecure & not comfortable in her own skin. She is not yet ready to be her true self.
And I don't think this is an "Aqua thing." I think it's moreso a maturity thing.
It just may be that your friend is extremely insecure & that she feels the need to become who she thinks others WANT her to become all just to fit in. There are alot of people in this world like this, including Aquas & other signs.
I don't think the common denominator in situations like this is that she's an Aqua...the common denominator is a lack of comfort with self.
Granted, some Aquas can absolutely be more forthcoming & open to their true friends vs. strangers. I think that's how most people are. Blatenly lying about what you like just to impress or avoid rejection from others is another story, but then again, alot of people are like this...just in different ways.
And I don't think this is an "Aqua thing." I think it's moreso a maturity thing.
It just may be that your friend is extremely insecure & that she feels the need to become who she thinks others WANT her to become all just to fit in. There are alot of people in this world like this, including Aquas & other signs.
I don't think the common denominator in situations like this is that she's an Aqua...the common denominator is a lack of comfort with self.
Granted, some Aquas can absolutely be more forthcoming & open to their true friends vs. strangers. I think that's how most people are. Blatenly lying about what you like just to impress or avoid rejection from others is another story, but then again, alot of people are like this...just in different ways.
i must have fuxked with a lotta insecure aqua women then...(**yikes**)
My SCORP sis used to do this to me ALL the time,I HAAATTTTEEEDDD it..I do the same thing..let me just say,consider yourself LUCKY she even shares that side with you,that means she comfortable with opening up that side of her with you & with strangers she's not,Aqaus hate being JUDGED if it's not on our own accord...alot of us are ALOT different more than ppl actually think..& the only way you'll ever know OR see that is too keep our trust!It has nothing to do with IMPRESSING others IMO..to me sharing parts of yourself to those who aren't trustworthy/or judgmental can REALLY ruin a person..we DO care what other ppl think,but to an extent...meaning we aren't going to change who we are INSIDE but we may give a impression,for the sake of protecting that of who we REALLY are...(if that makes sense)lol
I on the other hand doesn't even see it as FAKING or RoLE Playing or her trying to impress. i mean i dont' know the whole story..but from another stand point...
I see it this way ...in the moment she is having fun. i know the lyrics to some stupid brittany song or rihana s&m song. for instance, when i want to get pumped up for a night out or just listen to a beat that will keep my drive home from work IN TRAFFIC not so dull, i'll listen to it. That or its just on the radio. Repeatedly. DO i or would i BURN a cd on it? no .i dont like it. i dont think its something i call good music.
i think your should let her be her. why does it bother you even? and how does that even reflect on to yoU? you make her sound like shes acting as if shes better than u.i really think shes just socializing. a person can agree on multiple view points. and have multiple ideas and agree both to them and SEE both sides. she may not categorize that as a good song. but its catchy and its good to dance too. but she can ALSO EQUALLY agree to the fact that the ACTUALY song is crap. DId you ever think that she values having fun with her friends. that talking about topics subjectively and bantering jsut in general? that is the point. not whether she likes a song or not. imagine having a friend that won't do anything with you cuz she doesn't like a certain place, a type of food, a type of song, your lucky you have a friend like that to me! 🙂
she cares about you and your friendship, its real to me. From my aqua friends and including myself we all just have all sorts of friendships from the lower rungs of society to the higher ends. all kinds. why? we dont make these sort of judgements. we live and let live nor do we over analyze and project . We take people as they come. We like to know a lot of things, talk about a lot of things, learn a lot of things, so we or some aquas may have deep personalities. i hate mainstream rap, but i'll listen to tech nine or immortal technique. we are all...HUMANS are all walking paradoxes. (example)
she's not perfect ya know...🙂
I see it this way ...in the moment she is having fun. i know the lyrics to some stupid brittany song or rihana s&m song. for instance, when i want to get pumped up for a night out or just listen to a beat that will keep my drive home from work IN TRAFFIC not so dull, i'll listen to it. That or its just on the radio. Repeatedly. DO i or would i BURN a cd on it? no .i dont like it. i dont think its something i call good music.
i think your should let her be her. why does it bother you even? and how does that even reflect on to yoU? you make her sound like shes acting as if shes better than u.i really think shes just socializing. a person can agree on multiple view points. and have multiple ideas and agree both to them and SEE both sides. she may not categorize that as a good song. but its catchy and its good to dance too. but she can ALSO EQUALLY agree to the fact that the ACTUALY song is crap. DId you ever think that she values having fun with her friends. that talking about topics subjectively and bantering jsut in general? that is the point. not whether she likes a song or not. imagine having a friend that won't do anything with you cuz she doesn't like a certain place, a type of food, a type of song, your lucky you have a friend like that to me! 🙂
she cares about you and your friendship, its real to me. From my aqua friends and including myself we all just have all sorts of friendships from the lower rungs of society to the higher ends. all kinds. why? we dont make these sort of judgements. we live and let live nor do we over analyze and project . We take people as they come. We like to know a lot of things, talk about a lot of things, learn a lot of things, so we or some aquas may have deep personalities. i hate mainstream rap, but i'll listen to tech nine or immortal technique. we are all...HUMANS are all walking paradoxes. (example)
she's not perfect ya know...🙂
There's 2 things I'm thinking. Either your friend is an insecure girl, which has nothing to do with astrology, not to mention that's very uncharacterlike for an Aqua. Second thing is: she really doesn't like Britney songs, but with you she just lets loose and be as silly as she wants to because she's very comfortable with you. I've done this before too. I don't like Rhianna and nor do I like her dumb songs, but when I let loose and party with my gfs, I know the lyrics to her songs or I'll make a funny voice and sing one of her songs. I don't have to like an artist or listen to their song out of interest to like them. I can just listen to their song because most stores play Rhianna's songs. I don't live in a bubble. I come across her songs all the time and as a result, I know the lyrics. It's all a matter of who is close to you and who isn't. My close friends see my true self because they know me and I can act as silly as I want and not get judged, while with outsiders or people I don't know, why would I show them who I really am. They are nobody to me and I personally can't be bothered to show them who I really am unless they care enough to know by getting to know me one on one.I hope that helps.
@Candi: Well someone blately lying about what they like IS def. an issue & is NOT ok. Liking 1 million different types of things/songs is 1 thing. But claiming to me that you hate A & yet telling someone else that you love A is a flat out lie.
And yes, lies (whether it's to yourself OR to others) DO affect the people around you.
How can you consider yourself a true friend to someone if you continually witness them lying or putting up a front in front of others? It WOULD absolutely bother a "real friend" if she saw another friend not being able to be comfortable in her own skin, no different than it would bother your parents or partner.
Of course QueenCali shouldn't be making her friend's insecurities her own battle, BUT I can def. understand her concern.
It hurts me deeply when I see others who can't be themselves...when they're 1 way to me & 500 different ways to other folks. If someone can't "keep it real" with themselves, me or others, it'll be hard for me to take them seriously, trust them or be sure that I even know who they truly are
And yes, lies (whether it's to yourself OR to others) DO affect the people around you.
How can you consider yourself a true friend to someone if you continually witness them lying or putting up a front in front of others? It WOULD absolutely bother a "real friend" if she saw another friend not being able to be comfortable in her own skin, no different than it would bother your parents or partner.
Of course QueenCali shouldn't be making her friend's insecurities her own battle, BUT I can def. understand her concern.
It hurts me deeply when I see others who can't be themselves...when they're 1 way to me & 500 different ways to other folks. If someone can't "keep it real" with themselves, me or others, it'll be hard for me to take them seriously, trust them or be sure that I even know who they truly are
I think what you witnessed was the interplay between Saturn and Uranus in Aquarius, as they're influenced by both. Uranus is the "get wild go crazy and let go" planet, symbolizing unconventionality and freedom, and Saturn is the "do everything by the books, play by the rules, and do what's expected of you" planet, symbolizing social structure and conduct.
Anyway, I think that you should be happy she is yourself around you and not others, that shows she trusts you.
Anyway, I think that you should be happy she is yourself around you and not others, that shows she trusts you.
Posted by krysrenee7
@Candi: Well someone blately lying about what they like IS def. an issue & is NOT ok. Liking 1 million different types of things/songs is 1 thing. But claiming to me that you hate A & yet telling someone else that you love A is a flat out lie.
And yes, lies (whether it's to yourself OR to others) DO affect the people around you.
How can you consider yourself a true friend to someone if you continually witness them lying or putting up a front in front of others? It WOULD absolutely bother a "real friend" if she saw another friend not being able to be comfortable in her own skin, no different than it would bother your parents or partner.
Of course QueenCali shouldn't be making her friend's insecurities her own battle, BUT I can def. understand her concern.
It hurts me deeply when I see others who can't be themselves...when they're 1 way to me & 500 different ways to other folks. If someone can't "keep it real" with themselves, me or others, it'll be hard for me to take them seriously, trust them or be sure that I even know who they truly are
thats the thing. its not a lie. she stated "she is dancing crazy to it" blah blah blha. not necessarily this girl likes it. so if i dont like a specific song then im just not gonna dance with my friend—
i do agree with you if she is straight up being two face. but i don't think she is in this example. just from this example. my argument is that she isn't
a) fake
b) lying about anything
how can her actions of just having fun with HER FRIEND regardless. be misconstrued and to pass such a huge judgement.
Posted by aquarius09
There's 2 things I'm thinking. Either your friend is an insecure girl, which has nothing to do with astrology, not to mention that's very uncharacterlike for an Aqua. Second thing is: she really doesn't like Britney songs, but with you she just lets loose and be as silly as she wants to because she's very comfortable with you. I've done this before too. I don't like Rhianna and nor do I like her dumb songs, but when I let loose and party with my gfs, I know the lyrics to her songs or I'll make a funny voice and sing one of her songs. I don't have to like an artist or listen to their song out of interest to like them. I can just listen to their song because most stores play Rhianna's songs. I don't live in a bubble. I come across her songs all the time and as a result, I know the lyrics. It's all a matter of who is close to you and who isn't. My close friends see my true self because they know me and I can act as silly as I want and not get judged, while with outsiders or people I don't know, why would I show them who I really am. They are nobody to me and I personally can't be bothered to show them who I really am unless they care enough to know by getting to know me one on one.I hope that helps.
exactly.
I think the poster was trying to insinuate that this isn't the 1st time this girl has been flaky & has appeared to be 1 way with her & another way around others.
I think she was just using the Britney Spears song as an example
I'm giving the poster the benefit of the doubt in assuming that this was just 1 example out of many. Had this been the only thing to complain about, I could see you all's point in that it'd be petty to call her fake or insecure all b/c of this 1 incident.
But if this girl has shown a pattern of being 2 different people when around different people, that def. IS cause for concern. Maybe not to the point of cutting her off or taking it too personally, BUT I can understand why the poster did notice this about her friend. I mean how could she not notice it?
I agree that sometimes people (not just Aquas) feel more comfortable letting their hair down in front of certain people & that it's quite normal for some people to be ashamed of/embarrassed by some of the things they secretely adore, BUT...
Again, if this Aqua is constantly flip flopping back & forth, that indicates a huge level of insecurity somewhere
I think she was just using the Britney Spears song as an example
I'm giving the poster the benefit of the doubt in assuming that this was just 1 example out of many. Had this been the only thing to complain about, I could see you all's point in that it'd be petty to call her fake or insecure all b/c of this 1 incident.
But if this girl has shown a pattern of being 2 different people when around different people, that def. IS cause for concern. Maybe not to the point of cutting her off or taking it too personally, BUT I can understand why the poster did notice this about her friend. I mean how could she not notice it?
I agree that sometimes people (not just Aquas) feel more comfortable letting their hair down in front of certain people & that it's quite normal for some people to be ashamed of/embarrassed by some of the things they secretely adore, BUT...
Again, if this Aqua is constantly flip flopping back & forth, that indicates a huge level of insecurity somewhere
good point..ok fine. if its a pattern picking up then its just sad...
Come as you are? by Nirvana, anyone ?
Posted by candi3bb
I on the other hand doesn't even see it as FAKING or RoLE Playing or her trying to impress. i mean i dont' know the whole story..but from another stand point...
I see it this way ...in the moment she is having fun. i know the lyrics to some stupid brittany song or rihana s&m song. for instance, when i want to get pumped up for a night out or just listen to a beat that will keep my drive home from work IN TRAFFIC not so dull, i'll listen to it. That or its just on the radio. Repeatedly. DO i or would i BURN a cd on it? no .i dont like it. i dont think its something i call good music.
i think your should let her be her. why does it bother you even? and how does that even reflect on to yoU? you make her sound like shes acting as if shes better than u.i really think shes just socializing. a person can agree on multiple view points. and have multiple ideas and agree both to them and SEE both sides. she may not categorize that as a good song. but its catchy and its good to dance too. but she can ALSO EQUALLY agree to the fact that the ACTUALY song is crap. DId you ever think that she values having fun with her friends. that talking about topics subjectively and bantering jsut in general? that is the point. not whether she likes a song or not. imagine having a friend that won't do anything with you cuz she doesn't like a certain place, a type of food, a type of song, your lucky you have a friend like that to me! 🙂
she cares about you and your friendship, its real to me. From my aqua friends and including myself we all just have all sorts of friendships from the lower rungs of society to the higher ends. all kinds. why? we dont make these sort of judgements. we live and let live nor do we over analyze and project . We take people as they come. We like to know a lot of things, talk about a lot of things, learn a lot of things, so we or some aquas may have deep personalities. i hate mainstream rap, but i'll listen to tech nine or immortal technique. we are all...HUMANS are all walking paradoxes. (example)
she's not perfect ya know...🙂
Wow! That really makes sense! I never thought of it that way! Thanks. This is why I love coming here because I know it can be annoying picking your friends brain asking them a billion questions. So thanks for letting me pick at your mind. My Aqua BESTIE is GREAT Shes freakin Super Woman.. and I am lucky to have
LMAO
sorry about that ..ugh !
Ok so yes. My bestie is super woman! and yes I am lucky
But I guess it bthers me not that she doesnt like a certain type of music. Lol thats just silly. Its the fact that she will make fun or insult me WITH the rejection crowd. Its one thing I dont give a fuck if random socializers turn their nose up at me. I am sensitve and it hurts my feelings when someone who I adore and respect would kind like... follow behind and point and laugh as well. when less than 24 hours ago we were both Rocking out. U know. I havent called her out on it ...and I wont.. And yes it is a pattern. But i know she has alot to deal with ... I kno she is for a fact insecure about being of mixed race black and white. Sometimes shell just let things spill out... and it seems like somehow or someway she feels she has to pick a side. But She does not to have to because I love her.
sorry about that ..ugh !
Ok so yes. My bestie is super woman! and yes I am lucky
But I guess it bthers me not that she doesnt like a certain type of music. Lol thats just silly. Its the fact that she will make fun or insult me WITH the rejection crowd. Its one thing I dont give a fuck if random socializers turn their nose up at me. I am sensitve and it hurts my feelings when someone who I adore and respect would kind like... follow behind and point and laugh as well. when less than 24 hours ago we were both Rocking out. U know. I havent called her out on it ...and I wont.. And yes it is a pattern. But i know she has alot to deal with ... I kno she is for a fact insecure about being of mixed race black and white. Sometimes shell just let things spill out... and it seems like somehow or someway she feels she has to pick a side. But She does not to have to because I love her.
Posted by krysrenee7
I think the poster was trying to insinuate that this isn't the 1st time this girl has been flaky & has appeared to be 1 way with her & another way around others.
I think she was just using the Britney Spears song as an example
I'm giving the poster the benefit of the doubt in assuming that this was just 1 example out of many. Had this been the only thing to complain about, I could see you all's point in that it'd be petty to call her fake or insecure all b/c of this 1 incident.
But if this girl has shown a pattern of being 2 different people when around different people, that def. IS cause for concern. Maybe not to the point of cutting her off or taking it too personally, BUT I can understand why the poster did notice this about her friend. I mean how could she not notice it?
I agree that sometimes people (not just Aquas) feel more comfortable letting their hair down in front of certain people & that it's quite normal for some people to be ashamed of/embarrassed by some of the things they secretely adore, BUT...
Again, if this Aqua is constantly flip flopping back & forth, that indicates a huge level of insecurity somewhere
Yes the Pop artist is just 1 example. Ive known this girl for 6 years. I dont use the word best friend lightly either. lol. Call me what you want I just wanna know whats up with my friend!
I didnt want to list all the incidents cause hten I would just sound like a hater! And its my friend I dont want to talk crap about her. I wanna know why she makes fun of me its mean.
Lol Im not going to stop being her friend. I just dont wanna annoy her and ask her why this why that . So i thought maybe you guys could help a little. I dont mean to offend anyone! Like I said I respect my friend. Shes an amazing person.
Posted by zentientsquirrelsentinel
Come as you are? by Nirvana, anyone ?
And the scorpio says..
Um before you were even invited...Who ARE YOU— lol
Posted by AybLynk
and that is a perfect example of why i originally put aquarius on the "Top 5 Fakest Signs" list.
Aquarius females can be fake but one-on-one, they're kewl..
Yea
I love her individualism. I know everyone would too if they were to her of seeing it.
She is who she is. A beautiful girl. Gotta love her
I mean to say
If they were worthy of them seeing that side of her. But they are not... and I AM. *BIGGEST SMILE EVER*
If they were worthy of them seeing that side of her. But they are not... and I AM. *BIGGEST SMILE EVER*
Posted by QueenCaLiPosted by zentientsquirrelsentinel
Come as you are? by Nirvana, anyone ?
And the scorpio says..
Um before you were even invited...Who ARE YOU— lolclick to expand
I'm me.
🙂
Posted by aquarius09
There's 2 things I'm thinking. Either your friend is an insecure girl, which has nothing to do with astrology, not to mention that's very uncharacterlike for an Aqua. Second thing is: she really doesn't like Britney songs, but with you she just lets loose and be as silly as she wants to because she's very comfortable with you. I've done this before too. I don't like Rhianna and nor do I like her dumb songs, but when I let loose and party with my gfs, I know the lyrics to her songs or I'll make a funny voice and sing one of her songs. I don't have to like an artist or listen to their song out of interest to like them. I can just listen to their song because most stores play Rhianna's songs. I don't live in a bubble. I come across her songs all the time and as a result, I know the lyrics. It's all a matter of who is close to you and who isn't. My close friends see my true self because they know me and I can act as silly as I want and not get judged, while with outsiders or people I don't know, why would I show them who I really am. They are nobody to me and I personally can't be bothered to show them who I really am unless they care enough to know by getting to know me one on one.I hope that helps.
That makes alot of sense. I see where you are coming from
I think my friend has a little bit of both insecure... and just not showing ppl who dont matter who true self. And thats cool. It was just an itch bugging me for 6 years. Awww. that feels better! Lol
Its terrific that she can be so cultured and worldly. I have already learned so much from her. I see myself changing because of her. The way she is in the world. Shes awesome with ppl and she always says things and gets them done. She freaking takes kickboxing out of no where! Talk about FIRE CRACKER. My best Friends the SHIT!
Thank you!
I guess it comes down to you figuring out whether what you're noticing with this Aqua is insecurity OR her just being more comfortable showing her true colors/desires in front of you moreso than others.
If it's insecurity, I can understand why this would bother you...After all, who actually LIKES seeing someone they love, who can't ever be themselves. Not being able to truly be yourself is the worst feeling in the world. And only someonen's TRUE friends would pick up on this with their friends.
However, if she's just more comfortable with you than she is with others, of course we're gonna advise you not to take it so personal or not to make such a big deal out of it. If anything, her being more open/honest with you is a compliment b/c it means that you're 1 of the only few people she trusts & feels comfortable with. And you know getting an Aqua to feel that sense of extreme comfort is rare & is NOT something everyone else in an Aquas life gets to see/experience.
Talk to her about it. If she's being slightly dishonest about her taste in music around others, that's petty. BUT if she's being this way about other things that are way more important than you'd def. be entitled to having "the talk" with her. Doesn't mean that she'll agree with you, see where you're coming from, change or even that she'll admit it, BUT atleast let her know that you've noticed.
If there's 1 thing all Aquas hate being considered, it's fake! The min. we get the sense that people think we're fake (especially when we genuinely & honestly don't think we are), we'll get our act together & start paying more attention to how we come off to others
If it's insecurity, I can understand why this would bother you...After all, who actually LIKES seeing someone they love, who can't ever be themselves. Not being able to truly be yourself is the worst feeling in the world. And only someonen's TRUE friends would pick up on this with their friends.
However, if she's just more comfortable with you than she is with others, of course we're gonna advise you not to take it so personal or not to make such a big deal out of it. If anything, her being more open/honest with you is a compliment b/c it means that you're 1 of the only few people she trusts & feels comfortable with. And you know getting an Aqua to feel that sense of extreme comfort is rare & is NOT something everyone else in an Aquas life gets to see/experience.
Talk to her about it. If she's being slightly dishonest about her taste in music around others, that's petty. BUT if she's being this way about other things that are way more important than you'd def. be entitled to having "the talk" with her. Doesn't mean that she'll agree with you, see where you're coming from, change or even that she'll admit it, BUT atleast let her know that you've noticed.
If there's 1 thing all Aquas hate being considered, it's fake! The min. we get the sense that people think we're fake (especially when we genuinely & honestly don't think we are), we'll get our act together & start paying more attention to how we come off to others
Posted by QueenCaLi
LMAO
sorry about that ..ugh !
Ok so yes. My bestie is super woman! and yes I am lucky
But I guess it bthers me not that she doesnt like a certain type of music. Lol thats just silly. Its the fact that she will make fun or insult me WITH the rejection crowd. Its one thing I dont give a fuck if random socializers turn their nose up at me. I am sensitve and it hurts my feelings when someone who I adore and respect would kind like... follow behind and point and laugh as well. when less than 24 hours ago we were both Rocking out. U know. I havent called her out on it ...and I wont.. And yes it is a pattern. But i know she has alot to deal with ... I kno she is for a fact insecure about being of mixed race black and white. Sometimes shell just let things spill out... and it seems like somehow or someway she feels she has to pick a side. But She does not to have to because I love her.
oh and let me add when lovely krynsee (bad with names in general haha) um stated her points i also stated "ok fine...then its jsut sad or whatever" then someone said "come as you are" i literally after that wanted to write. YEP! i agree. But wouldn't that make me a fake? or insecure trying to blend iN? nope...just agree with both. open minded i would like to think
but man that sucks if she puts you on the spot like that. NOW thats not cool at all. if it makes you feel better ...i think aquas..sorta...well say things at times and not really know how it comes across. im not sure for everyone. but im like that at times. then till someone tells me how it came across i immediately can see how it could be miscontrued that way. so i will apologize. and at times also explain my end how i though to of it. you should try to talk to her about it ..shes yoru bestie and i hope as a best friend she'll understand and try to make sure everything is good on your end. if you don't bring it up..how would she know?..what do you have to lose? i mean you'll lose this friendship eventually if this communication thing doesn't get fixed!
Posted by krysrenee7
@Candi: Well someone blately lying about what they like IS def. an issue & is NOT ok. Liking 1 million different types of things/songs is 1 thing. But claiming to me that you hate A & yet telling someone else that you love A is a flat out lie.
And yes, lies (whether it's to yourself OR to others) DO affect the people around you.
How can you consider yourself a true friend to someone if you continually witness them lying or putting up a front in front of others? It WOULD absolutely bother a "real friend" if she saw another friend not being able to be comfortable in her own skin, no different than it would bother your parents or partner.
Of course QueenCali shouldn't be making her friend's insecurities her own battle, BUT I can def. understand her concern.
It hurts me deeply when I see others who can't be themselves...when they're 1 way to me & 500 different ways to other folks. If someone can't "keep it real" with themselves, me or others, it'll be hard for me to take them seriously, trust them or be sure that I even know who they truly are
You hit the nail on the head! Yes! Yes sometimes it can be confusing!
Posted by candi3bbPosted by QueenCaLi
LMAO
sorry about that ..ugh !
Ok so yes. My bestie is super woman! and yes I am lucky
But I guess it bthers me not that she doesnt like a certain type of music. Lol thats just silly. Its the fact that she will make fun or insult me WITH the rejection crowd. Its one thing I dont give a fuck if random socializers turn their nose up at me. I am sensitve and it hurts my feelings when someone who I adore and respect would kind like... follow behind and point and laugh as well. when less than 24 hours ago we were both Rocking out. U know. I havent called her out on it ...and I wont.. And yes it is a pattern. But i know she has alot to deal with ... I kno she is for a fact insecure about being of mixed race black and white. Sometimes shell just let things spill out... and it seems like somehow or someway she feels she has to pick a side. But She does not to have to because I love her.
oh and let me add when lovely krynsee (bad with names in general haha) um stated her points i also stated "ok fine...then its jsut sad or whatever" then someone said "come as you are" i literally after that wanted to write. YEP! i agree. But wouldn't that make me a fake? or insecure trying to blend iN? nope...just agree with both. open minded i would like to think
but man that sucks if she puts you on the spot like that. NOW thats not cool at all. if it makes you feel better ...i think aquas..sorta...well say things at times and not really know how it comes across. im not sure for everyone. but im like that at times. then till someone tells me how it came across i immediately can see how it could be miscontrued that way. so i will apologize. and at times also explain my end how i though to of it. you should try to talk to her about it ..shes yoru bestie and i hope as a best friend she'll understand and try to make sure everything is good on your end. if you don't bring it up..how would she know?..what do you have to lose? i mean you'll lose this friendship eventually if this communication thing doesn't get fixed!click to expand
Hey thanks alot! I spoke to my Aqua about a different topic about an issue. And its so funny she said what you said. Sometimes she doesnt know how she comes off to ppl. And she needs to be made aware if shes hurting a friend by accident. It all makes sense.
Posted by QueenCaLiPosted by candi3bbPosted by QueenCaLi
LMAO
sorry about that ..ugh !
but man that sucks if she puts you on the spot like that. NOW thats not cool at all. if it makes you feel better ...i think aquas..sorta...well say things at times and not really know how it comes across. im not sure for everyone. but im like that at times. then till someone tells me how it came across i immediately can see how it could be miscontrued that way. so i will apologize. and at times also explain my end how i though to of it. you should try to talk to her about it ..shes yoru bestie and i hope as a best friend she'll understand and try to make sure everything is good on your end. if you don't bring it up..how would she know?..what do you have to lose? i mean you'll lose this friendship eventually if this communication thing doesn't get fixed!
Hey thanks alot! I spoke to my Aqua about a different topic about an issue. And its so funny she said what you said. Sometimes she doesnt know how she comes off to ppl. And she needs to be made aware if shes hurting a friend by accident. It all makes sense....We are all different. She said she was TOTALLY UNAWARE of how certain comments affected me. And now that she knows ...I saw an instant change in her. It was the sweetest thing. I guess we can both learn alot from one another. Now me and my friend are stronger than ever. I'll never bring this up to her again....cause well be too busy having fun and enjoying life!
Thank you!
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Posted by 0987654321234567890
"Theres Something Strange about that AQUA..."
yeah? well, get used to it.
Uh yea thanks.... thats already been established... when we became best friends. Which would indicate... me being used to it for 6 years now....
U can have ur 2 cents back i have my own change hun. thanks. =\
Posted by AybLynk
and that is a perfect example of why i originally put aquarius on the "Top 5 Fakest Signs" list.
Aquarius females can be fake but one-on-one, they're kewl..
Who cares. What about the slores !?!?!
Britney can turn even the strongest aquas
Posted by aquagirl24Posted by krysrenee7
I think you're friend is just insecure & not comfortable in her own skin. She is not yet ready to be her true self.
And I don't think this is an "Aqua thing." I think it's moreso a maturity thing.
It just may be that your friend is extremely insecure & that she feels the need to become who she thinks others WANT her to become all just to fit in. There are alot of people in this world like this, including Aquas & other signs.
I don't think the common denominator in situations like this is that she's an Aqua...the common denominator is a lack of comfort with self.
Granted, some Aquas can absolutely be more forthcoming & open to their true friends vs. strangers. I think that's how most people are. Blatenly lying about what you like just to impress or avoid rejection from others is another story, but then again, alot of people are like this...just in different ways.
i think she just hasnt found the right friends... if she was comfy with her friends then she would show her true self... xxxclick to expand
^^co-sign^^
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