TO ALL THE AQUARIUS MEN!!

Are you guys selfish?

Would you ever "use" a girl to spend time with you (but no intimacy) just because you had nothing else to do, especially since you know she likes you?

My aqua male said to me last year "everybody uses everybody, its not a bad things to be used or use someone, everyone does it"

Selfish, hmmmmmmm, yeah, he is very self centered, he is definitely in his world and you are in yours or me in mine until he decides to penetrate mine with his presence, no matter the time of day or night or for the length of time he decides suites his need, but i am NEVER allowed to penetrate his, this is a MAJOR no no. Not in person, text, phone or otherwise, this i call pretty damn selfish and inconsiderate, what about you?

Some chick

He should not penetrate my world. which he does at will. Not visa versa and earned trust, yeah, i got some of it, which i can assure you he does not give easily.

Fact is....i am me, he is he and we are not a we, not currently. So its all good. Just expressing my experiences w/him which have been vast in two years .


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I can say the "push and pull" that seems to be associated with most Virgo's, well, My Aqua is a pro at it.

And ugly words, he is full of them when he wants to be, by the same token, he can be attentive and tries sometimes, seems like when i am in that place of "don't wanna hear it, its too late" yeah. Then i feel bad for sticking to my guns when he finally shows me something that "might" be real, for I never know when its just another play to stay in my game or what? And i so don't like or want to hurt someone, especially someone i love and truly care about. I feel like he takes advantage of that. Honestly.

Anyway, he is another who keeps coming back. I see similarities between the Aqua and Virgo. And i must say, i am just realizing how many i actually do know that are and how easy they are attracted to me as a person, friend, and lover. I guess i just wasnt paying attention before lately since i am looking into all of this as deep as i have been and trying to understand.

Libra's another

And Pieces, they always beggin me and tryin, dont want no short time man, LOL! They come on like a FwB and wanna move in

🙂 I am figuring some stuff out, LOL

I've come to conclusion that this particular Aqua I know is selfish! Doesn't mean he can't be nice or kind. When he is nice or sweet to you, it's because he wants to, either he wants to get your attention, or he is in the mood of doing such such things to fulfil his needs! But he would never go out his way to sacrifice himself for other people's needs.

I was really interested in this guy and thought it could've been something special. I don't mind him needing much freedom and space etc, but selfishness is something else...

I'm sad...

Are you guys selfish?
Would you ever "use" a girl to spend time with you (but no intimacy) just because you had nothing else to do, especially since you know she likes you?

Yes. At some subliminal level, I know I might be used too.