Is it normal for an Aqua to be non-communicative?

Hi,
Do you guys think that Aqua men can be non-communicative to the extent of not replying to your emails? Like this one i am seeing since last few months is on travel and he hasn't really responded to my couple emails! Forget about calling himself. He didn't even respond yet! And a week ago he was ok and had responded to me. He is on a work related travel but wth it wont take much to reply...will it?
Idk what to do 😢
Please suggest, any similar experiences?

Yes.

Hmmm...thanks Lady_M...
but then it shouldn't be taken as a sign of warning or anything? Or its absolutely normal so I let it go? Should I keep trying to contact him or what?
Me being a Cancer, guess I am too sensitive 😢

If he isn't responding, you should absolutely stop trying to get in touch with him. How rude, regardless of work. What is he some kind of neurotic workaholic who cant think outside of himself for a second??

I agree Sola...
Thing is he is seeming to be sooo distant
I mean normally he is super sweet and all
But Idk whats happened, though he had told me its gonna be hectic for him till his tour ends, but still I do see him (my friends tell me) coming online sometimes, and I aint really available that time. Its a LDR btw...

More reason for more effort then!! Sorry love, he's taking the piss but it's not your fault. Just don't let it continue...

They're bad communicators in that they say it wrong and tend to be a little misunderstood. Sometimes they think something and then get frustrated when you can't read their minds, but no communication isn't a good thing. I've not had that experience with mine but yes he's communication skills suck in the sense that he cannot always get out what he wants to say - but he tries at least.

They're bad communicators in that they say it wrong and tend to be a little misunderstood. Sometimes they think something and then get frustrated when you can't read their minds, but no communication isn't a good thing. I've not had that experience with mine but yes he's communication skills suck in the sense that he cannot always get out what he wants to say - but he tries at least.

Really....? Oh btw did I mention that i asked for his contact as his phone is not working? And he didnt really care to gimme the other number which he must be using...i did ask...in the last email i am talking about...Seems like I am asking too much or what?
Its been some 15 days since he started traveling. Its not that he hasnt replied to any of my mails, but last two times he hasn't. Its been 6-7 or so email messages both sided, and once some chatting for like an hr...in last 15 days.
So you bijou2u think I should back off? Or continue? Or write him an angry mail?
Btw, what's your sign bijou2u?

LeoAqua, I understand...But mine is super sweet most of then time when we do talk. I never felt he has any communication issues...Like more sweeter than normally guys are, romantic kinds and all mushy. It seems that when he wants to be so, he can, and when I want to be so, I have to look around for his signs or so called aqua traits...It feels so bad though...

yes unusualcancer, but thing is i didn't really write mushy stuff...
Infact normally he is more mushy than me...
Like last week he was just fine...Dunno what happened suddenly...
I wrote something like "where have you been...? And how are you?" kinds...
Thing is idk what part of the country he is at the moment...(he is in a different country than mine, working there) He has to keep moving between states so I was just asking where's he currently...since it had been some 3 days since i wrote to him...

Well it had been much better CancerLOVE1975, as you putting it...
He has been totally INTO me for these past 3-4 months since this thing started. Its just last 2 months when he got real busy or whatever, he had issues workwise too, so he dedicated lee time to me...
But now this thing drives me nuts
i guess..i ll take you advice to put in my energies somewhere else though

Yeah... it sucks...

I get what you feel moon girl. You cancers have so much more patience than me! Maybe its cause you are water signs and you still look and see from the guys prespective not just your own (like me 🙂

Yeah, I too guess its a Cancer thing.
We are too cautious initially, but when we decide that this is it, we can be so attached and so in love, even if they act like this.
I don't want to make him believe am being a doormat btw, coz i am far from one, infact in my past relationship (again an Aqua), I was sooo dominating. I got him really hyper sometimes. But that was long back, i guess i've grown up.
Pisces are emotional too..but probably in a different way...

Same here...It doesnt really feel great...
Rejection is the word, though it may not be so according to the Aqua...
But I take it so too, aptly put Starfish...

"To the Aqua it spells loyalty I guess.."

Well, I would like to know, what is loyalty for Aquas when they are on the giving side?
Do they act loyal?

hmmmm....
you an aqua bijou2u?
curious 😛

"Most of these guys have very odd and unconventional behavior.."

Okay Star but I want to know in their odd and uncinventional way, what is THEIR logic in THEIR heads for shutting down communication— Obviously Moongirl didnt do anything to her aqua either to deserve a toatal lack of communication and disregard for her feelings and existance on this great earth as a human being!

I am thinking along Bijou's line of dropping ... and rolling out of here.

Story of my life with my Aqua!! Wow, I feel like I'm deja-vuing here. My aqua travels a lot on business, too (in fact, he's away right now). And as far as communication goes...sometimes it feels like I'm talking to a brick wall (insert any non-responsive, inanimate object here). I'll call, he won't pick up, and will call me like two days later or it will take another three days for him to respond to a text. It's pretty ridiculous. I'm not sure about Cancers, though they do seem to be EXTREMELY patient, but as far as Pisces, there's only so much we can take.

I'm honestly getting sick of this bullcrap, and I'm slowly starting to like my Aqua less and less. I think some of us should just give up on the Aquas, bless their hearts, but they're waaaaaay too detached, I'm not buying it anymore.

Question for all of you women in relationships that are not meeting your needs....

When you taste a food and you realize that it does not taste sooo good/not meeting the needs of your fantabulous tastey buds....do you continue to eat it or do you simply say....I don't think I will have that again and move along to find something that satisfies you?

Men are like busses...another one will show up in 10 min. 😉

hahahah!

"Thats all that is. Just wait. AND BE PATIENT!"

In BA's case this situation is not about her being patient - it is about being disrespected. Let's make sure that patience is NOT confused with allowing a man to treat a woman any way he chooses.

Also....a woman need not "soften up" to win a man if this is not who she is.

Wow Freebird you hit it right on the head (or whatever the expression is).

It's not just about patience, it's more like repeatedly being treated like crap and taking it. This Aqua behavior is pure disrespect!!! Why would anyone allow someone else to treat them like this and continue to accept it year after year? Honestly, I don't think there's any excuse to ignore someone's calls/messages/etc. If you're not interested or are afraid of commitment or WHATEVER, do the right thing and be upfront with that person.

Just because they're nice to you once a month doesn't mean you should "be patient" and take their crap the other 29 and/or 30 days of the month. Enough is enough!!!

unusualcancer, yes i am his gf.
Its been 4 days now, he hasnt really responded.
And an update for all of you on my story
***I read on his networking site message list, his friends have been asking him when did he come to his home country****

I mean now, it goes like this, he told me he is gnna be on a tour in the same country where he works, but his friends are all asking abt his visit to his HOME country (mine too, where I am right now) and he doesnot respond to anyone asking this sort of thing, instead he keeps DELETING their messages cz its viewable by public.
So, now I have strong doubts, that he is in the country, and he did not tell me about the same...I feel sick...

We kinda live in different towns in the home country...its been an LDR....I dont really have his address coz it all started as an LDR so it never came up...

UGH. He texted me hey from work, like nothing happened like he did nothing wrong—. Oooooh like I care. I freaking ingnored his lame ass text. He is not from this world. I just dont get them,

Yay, strong laydeez!! How good does it feel when it gets to the point when you can finally ignore them..with ease!! Don't get soft, get even, la, la, la...hapy days!!