@FallingForVirgo
19 Years
Hey! I have a Virgo Sun and Aqua Moon too! 😄
Well I'm not a guy, but I think I can still help you...!
About that emotionally detached stuff...
See the thing is before my own mother told me I was emotionally detached,
I never even thought about that! I thought I was very caring person
and I thought I seemed like a warm person (but I guess not)
So, that guy too probably has no idea that he is "emotionally detached".
And would keep acting the way he has been.
He has no idea that he's hurting people's feelings, so
if he has said or did anything that made you feel bad, don't take it too personally.
It's just like a habit. You do things that come naturally to you, you know?
To approach him, I'd suggest that you don't go overboard with anything.
Don't be too aggressive or too shy. It's obvious, I know but you should be more careful with that guy.
Make a lot of eye contact, but not those scary ones...
Find out what he likes and when you get to talk to him bring up those topics...
Praise him a lot, but don't fake it he will KNOW, i tell you
And don't give obvious hints that you are interested in him.
It will work for a while, but trust me on a long term it is a serious turn-off.
Good luck to you!
I hope everything turns out the way you want!
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I just read about this combo (Virgo Sun + Aqua Moon) and I was about to cry. This is a man that I am interested in and it's been taking ages to "reach" to him. From what I read they can be emotionally detached... No wonder he is acting the way he is...
Does anyone have anything good to say about this combo?
Also, any hints as to how to approach this men?
Thanks!