TechieAquaBarbie
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What do you do to get over someone?
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What are your placements?
Posted by AerialViewSun in Aquarius
What are your placements?
Moon in Libra
Mercury in Aquarius
Venus in Aquarius
Mars in Scorpio
Jupiter in Aquarius
Saturn in Sagittarius
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Posted by LibraMudraThanks...I’ll look into that 🙂 it’s just so weird I wasn’t thinking about him this much until recently, he’s been on the back of my mind but now he’s at
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/how-do-you-let-go-of-someone-9534256/
This could help. I wrote a long post there and some other good suggestions.
I could help ya with meditation videos on YouTube or yoga... Lemme know...
the front lol and suddenly.
Posted by intergalacticplanetaryi think this would remedy for alot of people but what if they have no money?
Travel, maybe not completely practical but it's helped me move on in the past. Just jump on a plane, train, bus whatever..see where it takes you, shit is good for the soul.
maybe save up some money for a long bus trip.
bus tour trips are cheaper.
Posted by TechieAquaBarbieyou're using that Mss Universe from last year, Aquarius sun/Pisces moon/Cancer mars.
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and the one crowning her is the former Miss Universe who is a Libra sun/cancer moon dating a Scorpio man with Scorpio mars/Taurus moon, who is a doctor
http://www.gmanetwork.com/entertainment/showbiznews/news/27853/look-pia-wurtzbach-dr-mikes-new-year-photos-with-their-new-loves/story
Remain in those feelings for a a few weeks. Just to remember not to feel them again
Then Smoke sum herb. Watch funny movies. And date myself.
Reinvent yourself a new.
Then cut of all contact and don't go after him. Caps like to keep an open line of communication. But don't do that.
Then Smoke sum herb. Watch funny movies. And date myself.
Reinvent yourself a new.
Then cut of all contact and don't go after him. Caps like to keep an open line of communication. But don't do that.
And definitely don't keep dating lol
Heal yourself first before trying to be a part of anyone else's life
Heal yourself first before trying to be a part of anyone else's life
Posted by bittercupcakeGood post ^5 (high five!). I did the same; but being Piscean, I'm more stronger than most zodiac signs...I blocked him (ex bf Saggy) on FB and my cell phone. Came to find out from a psychic he's the one calling my office as he hasn't had closure; and needed this. In order for my new love to come into my life, I was told to communicate w/ex and give him said "closure". I unblocked him on FB and gave him his peace. I HAD to wait 48 hours to unblock him again on FB; I did. I decided to BLOCK his two friends (Sandy and her daughter) as I was not that close to them, but I HAD to close this door for good. I am ready (have been) for a relationship....it's been 24 months (since I broke up w/Saggy).
You have double air like I do and Venus in Aqua.
Brace yourself. If it's been 5 months and you still haven't closed that chapter then it won't anytime soon. I was going through the same with a Leo. We broke things off in December/January and I spoke with him on two seperate occasions after that. One was in May, which made me feel worse, and another time in September. The last time we spoke in September, it hurt but it felt good. I finally felt like that feeling finally wore off and those residual feelings were turned into acceptance. It made me feel good about finally moving on and not looking back.
I haven't looked back. I think about him here and there but I mostly feel pitty for him. He is damaged and has serious issues and the issues were mostly about him and not me. I feel content that I left that darkness that I felt I was getting completely swept under. I have all the answers I need to finally close that book and be content with not having him in my life.
It took me over a year to put all the missing pieces of the puzzle. It's a process which you have to give yourself time for if you truly wish to move on. As an Aqua venus, you need the full scope in order to move on. "The mystery has been solved now you can go and explore future endeavors." That's the only way you'll feel at peace.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by bittercupcakeThank you so much for sharing this and I’m sorry for everything you had to endure over the year. It’s a horrible feeling but it seems like you have overcame a lot of the emotions I’m still feeling and I’m happy for that🙂..and you are right...time heals all wounds eventually
You have double air like I do and Venus in Aqua.
Brace yourself. If it's been 5 months and you still haven't closed that chapter then it won't anytime soon. I was going through the same with a Leo. We broke things off in December/January and I spoke with him on two seperate occasions after that. One was in May, which made me feel worse, and another time in September. The last time we spoke in September, it hurt but it felt good. I finally felt like that feeling finally wore off and those residual feelings were turned into acceptance. It made me feel good about finally moving on and not looking back.
I haven't looked back. I think about him here and there but I mostly feel pitty for him. He is damaged and has serious issues and the issues were mostly about him and not me. I feel content that I left that darkness that I felt I was getting completely swept under. I have all the answers I need to finally close that book and be content with not having him in my life.
It took me over a year to put all the missing pieces of the puzzle. It's a process which you have to give yourself time for if you truly wish to move on. As an Aqua venus, you need the full scope in order to move on. "The mystery has been solved now you can go and explore future endeavors." That's the only way you'll feel at peace.
I also think my ego/self-esteem and not getting proper closure contributed to the way I feel. I find myself to be fairly attractive...smart...educated and I’m doing very well for myself career wise at such a young age....and to get rejected or basically belittled as nothing more than someone he would like to have sex with (wasn’t said like that but I read between the lines)....it’s heartbreaking when you care about that person so much. And I just ended it and I blocked him...he tried everything to get me to talk to him but I just couldn’t...I don’t beg and I don’t ask why...if you tell me you don’t want to pursue things with me I assume you thought long and hard about it....
Posted by intergalacticplanetaryI travel quite a bit for work but I haven’t really had a vacation...it something I want to do for my birthday...just go to some island and just be..
Travel, maybe not completely practical but it's helped me move on in the past. Just jump on a plane, train, bus whatever..see where it takes you, shit is good for the soul.
Posted by miriyahhhLol thanks 😉 No worries, I have too much pride to go after someone. Especially someone who I felt wronged me in some way. He’s already been cut off...it just sucks cause part of my wishes he would come to his “senses” and realize what he had...but how could he? I blocked all communication lol
Remain in those feelings for a a few weeks. Just to remember not to feel them again
Then Smoke sum herb. Watch funny movies. And date myself.
Reinvent yourself a new.
Then cut of all contact and don't go after him. Caps like to keep an open line of communication. But don't do that.
In any case, I need to just idk let go somehow and I’ll work on that with some of the things you suggested
Posted by bittercupcakePosted by TechieAquaBarbieWhat I highlighted is exactly the reason why it's hard for me to move on AND to commit. I completely understand where you're coming from but hopefully you learn from this negative experience. I knew I was going to get over it eventually, but my heart still clung - mostly out of pride. I felt indignant that a person so damaged with issues would treat me the way he did, when I was kind and loving. Not getting the answers I was seeking through him - he kept trying to sweep it under the rug - made me feel even more adamant to try and find the answers.
Thank you so much for sharing this and I’m sorry for everything you had to endure over the year. It’s a horrible feeling but it seems like you have overcame a lot of the emotions I’m still feeling and I’m happy for that🙂..and you are right...time heals all wounds eventually
I also think my ego/self-esteem and not getting proper closure contributed to the way I feel. I find myself to be fairly attractive...smart...educated and I’m doing very well for myself career wise at such a young age....and to get rejected or basically belittled as nothing more than someone he would like to have sex with (wasn’t said like that but I read between the lines)....it’s heartbreaking when you care about that person so much. And I just ended it and I blocked him...he tried everything to get me to talk to him but I just couldn’t...I don’t beg and I don’t ask why...if you tell me you don’t want to pursue things with me I assume you thought long and hard about it....
But, unfortunately if you truly wish to move on for your own sake, you have find the answers for yourself and come to terms with it. It adds to each piece of the puzzle. Once you get it completely and your heart heals, you'll feel like you can breathe again and you'll feel so content doing so. Focusing on yourself and traveling would help look at the brighter side.
You'll get there. Just keep doing you and block him and never give him the opportunity to speak to you until AFTER you've moved on.
🤗 Hugs XOXOclick to expand
I understand you completely about being indignant...I definitely felt that. And thank you so much! I’ll try my best to get over this and I appreciate all the kind words...
Posted by TechieAquaBarbieShould have been easy to let go and move on with those placements. He must be some kind of special. Like you said, its only him.Posted by AerialViewSun in Aquarius
What are your placements?
Moon in Libra
Mercury in Aquarius
Venus in Aquarius
Mars in Scorpio
Jupiter in Aquarius
Saturn in Sagittarius
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
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Posted by AerialViewI know right! I have NEVER felt this way about anyone. I usually don’t give so much of myself to one person and I did with him. But, whatever I guess 🙂Posted by TechieAquaBarbieShould have been easy to let go and move on with those placements. He must be some kind of special. Like you said, its only him.Posted by AerialViewSun in Aquarius
What are your placements?
Moon in Libra
Mercury in Aquarius
Venus in Aquarius
Mars in Scorpio
Jupiter in Aquarius
Saturn in Sagittarius
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
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Posted by OrGasMeOnline habit. I typically do that when I’m realizing something or thinking in the moment.
So many dots...
Posted by clownloyalThanks! I’ll read it now 🙂
I usually look up at the moon and wait for a new moon since my chart ruler is the moon and I tell myself 'this will all be over soon' but hold on there's this speech that helps me when I can't get a cap out of my mind, caps are seriously quick sand
http://unclegrandaddyo.tumblr.com/post/168126335214/90scherry-if-youre-stuck-on-someone-and-not
Just knowing that they fucked up and lost a good partner is enough. It's their loss 🙂
Makes it easy
Makes it easy
Posted by AquarelleThank you so much for the virtual hug and kind words 🙂 and yes I’ve tried to remind myself that nothing is wrong with me...so I try to give myself those daily affirmations.
Think of it this way.
Be glad you found out that he was only in it for sex. At least you know now that he is not the right guy for you. And it has nothing to do with you being smart, attractive and so on. You still are, and continue to be, those things. If he doesn't see that in you, it's his loss.
Part of you is still connected to him, that's why you dream of him and are being reminded of him. It could be a karmic connection, those can be pretty intense and hard to let go of. If you want to be sure you can talk to a medium or psychic about it. They can also help you to let it go.
Don't let your self worth be affected by this guy. You deserve someone who cares about you for who you really are. And it is true that time eventually heals all wounds.
Karmic connection...I’ll have to read about that. I definitely had a connection with him...he was so different than any of the other guys I have dated. He was handsome, mature, smart and responsible. He was also thoughtful and easy to trust...I even met his parents. And we truly got along...I mean talk everyday and all night about anything type of get along..lol so idk how we ended the way we did. I would have never allowed myself to fall if I didn’t sense something on his side. But I digress...
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I don’t know what to do.