Do you feel that way when someone isn't chasing you?
What makes ou clingy or insecure?

Posted by ladylibra21Neither. if we chase is to prove we like that person. If we don't chase, then we don't like that person enough imo
Do you feel that way when someone isn't chasing you?

Posted by ladylibra21I can get a tiny bit clingy in the talk to me kind of way. If I really like the person. I have no problem chasing or being chased( as long as they are pursuing me). Not big fan of 24/7 communication.
Do you feel that way when someone isn't chasing you?
Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ladylibra21I can get a tiny bit clingy in the talk to me kind of way. If I really like the person. I have no problem chasing or being chased( as long as they are pursuing me). Not big fan of 24/7 communication.
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He says we don't spend enough time together and he is used to girls chasing him maybe it is an ego thing? But he makes it sound like I am making him insecure.

i'm one of the rare clingy aqua.
it's just my nature nothing caused it.
it's just my nature nothing caused it.

Clingy? I don't think. I value my own space and i respect other's space too.
Insecure, perhaps. I'd have a lot of whys in my mind and start (over)analyzing stuff.
But still keep maintain my space and tried to not bombard him anyway.
If i like the person a lot, i won't mind hit them up. But if things don't go anywhere i'd back off and detach.
Insecure, perhaps. I'd have a lot of whys in my mind and start (over)analyzing stuff.
But still keep maintain my space and tried to not bombard him anyway.
If i like the person a lot, i won't mind hit them up. But if things don't go anywhere i'd back off and detach.
What makes Aqua's insecure? As in what breeds the insecurity and what triggers it for you guys?

Posted by ladylibra21Posted by MissLadyIceQueenPosted by ladylibra21I can get a tiny bit clingy in the talk to me kind of way. If I really like the person. I have no problem chasing or being chased( as long as they are pursuing me). Not big fan of 24/7 communication.
Do you feel that way when someone isn't chasing you?
He says we don't spend enough time together and he is used to girls chasing him maybe it is an ego thing? But he makes it sound like I am making him insecure.
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What he means is give him compliments and ask him to do stuff with you.

Aquarius likes to chase but they also like to see that your interested, they like to chase the spot light so if your the center of attention they'll be attracted to you, something about challenges and setting goals then reaching them.
Posted by Happy_Aqua
It depends.
If I really, really like someone and would like for us to have a relationship, it can make me insecure when my affection is not reciprocated, or when I feel it's not reciprocated.
If I'm in love, I can become clingy and needy because I would love to be close to that person and spend as much time together as possible.
The clingyness usually doesn't stay though. It's usually only in the beginning and caused by insecurity as well. Not knowing where you stand with the other person, yet feeling the attraction. It's tense.
That's what I think is going on he says it scares him how much he likes me but he feels I am distant and not into him. I do like him but I wasted a year and a half on a Cap that couldn't be bothered and he knows this in turn this put me in a mood to be focused on myself. It is still new so o don't want to loose site of my goals and it may take me a bit longer to warm up because I have never dated a guy like him before. He is used to girls chasing him and I am not doing that so he feels it's not reciprocated but it is I am just not on the sake level of reciprocation.
Posted by ChrisIsKodakLol what?Posted by ladylibra21Saggy girls *shudders*
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