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Posted by NikkiMse1978
"Mine is a February Aqua, he was EXTREMELY detatched, I brought him out of it."- GodMadeBeauty, how may I ask did you do this?

Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by GodMadeBeauty
My aqua, doesnt ever do disappearing acts. He sometimes likes to have time to himself, or go out with friends, or go on vacations but I always know where he is and he always keeps in contact. He has never been gone for more than 2 days.
The only exceptions were when we were fighting and I didn't contact him, even then he would end up contacting me with some random stupid question or something about work after a week, so we would get over the fight and then one time in the beginning of us dating that he did not contact as much and spend as much time he was talking to someone else, even then he didn't disappear just didn't hang out with me as much.click to expand
When will you two be married? =D If not already? I'd say he loves chuuu!
LOL, no time soon. There are a lot of things going on in both of our lives career related that we have to sort out.

Posted by GodMadeBeautyPosted by NikkiMse1978
"Mine is a February Aqua, he was EXTREMELY detatched, I brought him out of it."- GodMadeBeauty, how may I ask did you do this?
I'll message you.click to expand

Posted by charotera
No, we don't disappear for sucky reasons. We disappear if we think its going nowhere.

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
I have found January Aquas are wayyyyy different than February.
Usually January ones aren't as aloof and detatched from my experience.
My good friend is a January one hes pretty good about his emotions and keeping contact.
Mine is a February Aqua, he was EXTREMELY detatched, I brought him out of it.
My father was a Feb one, he was detatched to everyone but ME, because I was his babygirl =]

Posted by iamanariessuperwomanFound this question while googling.
In my observation, Aquas disappear and reappear for the following reasons in relationship:
a. There is a comfort level, even if the relationship is/was/and always will be toxic as hell.
b. The other person lifted them to new heights and the Aqua freaked out bc it was they didn't have their act together.
c. The other person is just a fallback pawn to them.
If you are in situation a or c, the Aqua will eventually stop coming around.
For those in situation b, you may never get rid of the Aqua no matter how assertive you get.

Posted by truecapYes! Absolutely!
Just curious. I keep reading that Aquas do this disppearing act, then reappear, then disappear.... and so on.
Aren't you afraid we'll think you're not into us and that we will start seeing someone else?
Just askin' for the sake of askin'.



Posted by MsTeeq1974What's your scrop's venus?
The Scorp I was with had an Aqua moon and he disappeared on everyone...a lot. He said that he couldn't stick around the same people or person, because it got boring. I also saw this other Aqua for a short period of time once who said the same thing about romantic liaisons. He said that he honestly didn't think that he was meant to be with just one person in life. He was very honest and his attitude towards that part of himself was very raw/factual. Same with the Scorp when he told me that. It was weird, because there was absolutely zero emotion behind it. It's like they were stating a plain fact without assigning any meaning to it.


Posted by christinelovessnickersI'm referring to the first and EX Scorp. I only say that, because I'm with a Scorp now and he's devoted. lol I don't ever want people confusing the two. The ex Scorp's Venus was in Libra with a Mars in Sag...Leo NN. Sun and Merc in Scorp.Posted by MsTeeq1974What's your scrop's venus?
The Scorp I was with had an Aqua moon and he disappeared on everyone...a lot. He said that he couldn't stick around the same people or person, because it got boring. I also saw this other Aqua for a short period of time once who said the same thing about romantic liaisons. He said that he honestly didn't think that he was meant to be with just one person in life. He was very honest and his attitude towards that part of himself was very raw/factual. Same with the Scorp when he told me that. It was weird, because there was absolutely zero emotion behind it. It's like they were stating a plain fact without assigning any meaning to it.click to expand

Posted by MsTeeq1974Sounded familiar lolPosted by christinelovessnickersI'm referring to the first and EX Scorp. I only say that, because I'm with a Scorp now and he's devoted. lol I don't ever want people confusing the two. The ex Scorp's Venus was in Libra with a Mars in Sag...Leo NN. Sun and Merc in Scorp.Posted by MsTeeq1974What's your scrop's venus?
The Scorp I was with had an Aqua moon and he disappeared on everyone...a lot. He said that he couldn't stick around the same people or person, because it got boring. I also saw this other Aqua for a short period of time once who said the same thing about romantic liaisons. He said that he honestly didn't think that he was meant to be with just one person in life. He was very honest and his attitude towards that part of himself was very raw/factual. Same with the Scorp when he told me that. It was weird, because there was absolutely zero emotion behind it. It's like they were stating a plain fact without assigning any meaning to it.click to expand

Posted by christinelovessnickersA guy that you know? LMBO!!! Spill it. It could be him. Shit...he was all over the damn place the last I knew. In fact, a crazy female called me one day after hunting me down, because he disappeared on her and she just assumed he was back with me, because she said that I was all that he talked about. She said that he talked about me day and night, always telling her how perfect I was. I was SOOOOOO angry. She was kind of crazy and I felt very vulnerable to any attacks that she might have wanted to carry out. I mean, she wouldn't get off of the damn phone at like 11pm and I was trying to put my kids to bed. They were all teens, but it scared the shit out of us. My son even answered the phone once and was like, "Lady...stop calling our house!" I sent him a scathing email telling him to QUIT talking about me to these women, because one managed to find me and wouldn't stop calling my house crying. It was bananas.Posted by MsTeeq1974Sounded familiar lolPosted by christinelovessnickersI'm referring to the first and EX Scorp. I only say that, because I'm with a Scorp now and he's devoted. lol I don't ever want people confusing the two. The ex Scorp's Venus was in Libra with a Mars in Sag...Leo NN. Sun and Merc in Scorp.Posted by MsTeeq1974What's your scrop's venus?
The Scorp I was with had an Aqua moon and he disappeared on everyone...a lot. He said that he couldn't stick around the same people or person, because it got boring. I also saw this other Aqua for a short period of time once who said the same thing about romantic liaisons. He said that he honestly didn't think that he was meant to be with just one person in life. He was very honest and his attitude towards that part of himself was very raw/factual. Same with the Scorp when he told me that. It was weird, because there was absolutely zero emotion behind it. It's like they were stating a plain fact without assigning any meaning to it.click to expand

Posted by MsTeeq1974More along the lines of claiming to be a bad person, but others don't believe it. No info as to why. That's the scorp.Posted by christinelovessnickersA guy that you know? LMBO!!! Spill it. It could be him. Shit...he was all over the damn place the last I knew. In fact, a crazy female called me one day after hunting me down, because he disappeared on her and she just assumed he was back with me, because she said that I was all that he talked about. She said that he talked about me day and night, always telling her how perfect I was. I was SOOOOOO angry. She was kind of crazy and I felt very vulnerable to any attacks that she might have wanted to carry out. I mean, she wouldn't get off of the damn phone at like 11pm and I was trying to put my kids to bed. They were all teens, but it scared the shit out of us. My son even answered the phone once and was like, "Lady...stop calling our house!" I sent him a scathing email telling him to QUIT talking about me to these women, because one managed to find me and wouldn't stop calling my house crying. It was bananas.Posted by MsTeeq1974Sounded familiar lolPosted by christinelovessnickersI'm referring to the first and EX Scorp. I only say that, because I'm with a Scorp now and he's devoted. lol I don't ever want people confusing the two. The ex Scorp's Venus was in Libra with a Mars in Sag...Leo NN. Sun and Merc in Scorp.Posted by MsTeeq1974What's your scrop's venus?
The Scorp I was with had an Aqua moon and he disappeared on everyone...a lot. He said that he couldn't stick around the same people or person, because it got boring. I also saw this other Aqua for a short period of time once who said the same thing about romantic liaisons. He said that he honestly didn't think that he was meant to be with just one person in life. He was very honest and his attitude towards that part of himself was very raw/factual. Same with the Scorp when he told me that. It was weird, because there was absolutely zero emotion behind it. It's like they were stating a plain fact without assigning any meaning to it.click to expand


Posted by LIb4Life+1000
Doesn't have to be that serious..if you like someone, hell, you just like'm...what's with all the games?
Life's too short for bullshiggity...Imagine how much time is being wasted going back and forth.
I, for one, will not sit around and wait for someone to make me a priority in their life.
Once I put out there that I'm interested, either you're interested or not...real simple.
Don't waste time questioning if someone likes you or not. See it for what it is and keep it moving.
Besides, we all know when there is instant chemistry with someone that we like or interested in.
Hopefully, it's an age and immaturity thing....I would hate to be involved with someone over the age of 30 still acting like a dayum teeny bopper...JSMDH
Posted by starloverdepends on the aqua. some aquas wouldnt leave your side.
I was with two Aquas.....i never felt i was *with* them though....they would both disappear, one would even sit in the car outside our house to read for long periods of time
The other one went three weeks without contacting me and thought that was okay
A woman i worked with told me her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub one christmas day and didn't turn up for dinner, even though his wife and 2 daughters waited
Uranus hey?
smh
Posted by starloverbesides too much CLINGY and too much not spending time in the same home together and going off to somewhere land are two EXTREMES.
I was with two Aquas.....i never felt i was *with* them though....they would both disappear, one would even sit in the car outside our house to read for long periods of time
The other one went three weeks without contacting me and thought that was okay
A woman i worked with told me her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub one christmas day and didn't turn up for dinner, even though his wife and 2 daughters waited
Uranus hey?
smh
Posted by starloverheeheePosted by lisabethur8I am yet to meet one of those in man form Lisa 😄Posted by starloverdepends on the aqua. some aquas wouldnt leave your side.
I was with two Aquas.....i never felt i was *with* them though....they would both disappear, one would even sit in the car outside our house to read for long periods of time
The other one went three weeks without contacting me and thought that was okay
A woman i worked with told me her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub one christmas day and didn't turn up for dinner, even though his wife and 2 daughters waited
Uranus hey?
smh
clingy as hell!!!!
Will report back when i doclick to expand

Posted by starlover
I was with two Aquas.....i never felt i was *with* them though....they would both disappear, one would even sit in the car outside our house to read for long periods of time
The other one went three weeks without contacting me and thought that was okay
A woman i worked with told me her Aqua hubbie stayed in the pub one christmas day and didn't turn up for dinner, even though his wife and 2 daughters waited
Uranus hey?
smh


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Aren't you afraid we'll think you're not into us and that we will start seeing someone else?
Just askin' for the sake of askin'.