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Aquarius friend threw everything I shared in confidence in my face. She's quite blunt, outspoken and heartless with her brutal honesty. Is this common? I asked her if she would be willing to meet me half-way and not communicate my flaws without my permission she accused me of trying to control her. Her brutal honesty has left me wounded. What should I do? It really really turns me off.Tthere was truth in her words, I did make some small changes as a result of her confrontation, but I feel like my guts are hanging out with blood dripping on my feet. She is highly tolerate of my imperfections as well, however this feels like a deal-breaker. I don't think she is going to change. What should I do? Can you give me better understanding of the brutality behind the honesty.
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Aquas are always cold because people always want to take our clothes off and ... also we are always born on feb so winter ... but if you are born in southern hemisphere like Saf or Australia then we are warm ......................................................................................zzzz

Aw thanks for the insight, that was quite prolific................................zzz
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Sounds like you have Leo in you.

Not a drop
Well I'll be damned. Can't win em all eh.
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Leo placements and dominant Leos in my personal experience from my ex husband Pisces/Leo moon and my current husband NEED SPACE.

I know that sounds so strange....

but it's true.

They don't want to be clung on. Which i love very much. I dont know why they love freedom. This is why i love that!!! they don't cling.
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Sounds like you have Leo in you.

Not a drop
Well I'll be damned. Can't win em all eh.
Leo placements and dominant Leos in my personal experience from my ex husband Pisces/Leo moon and my current husband NEED SPACE.

I know that sounds so strange....

but it's true.

They don't want to be clung on. Which i love very much. I dont know why they love freedom. This is why i love that!!! they don't cling.
I was thinking more about people who don't like their own flaws pointed out to them. Seems to be a real sore spot for Leo-influenced people I run into.
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maybe they are unevolved??

my ex husband wasn't really "evolved" though. It could be all the drugs/addiction/alcohol.

but he didnt bother with me about that stuff that OP talks about.

he could care less and don't want negativity around him. Ironic though because he initiated or provoked negativity (criminal activities) but didnt like it on him.
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Is she controlling or trying to put you down?

That's what I am trying to figure out. She said "You have not done anything you said you were going to do. You are all talk." I told her two things; I am traveling to Texas - which happens next month, and the other was about my business which is taking a little longer than I thought. But then again I think I have said some things that has not quite happened. But what's it to her?
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There's nothing wrong with constructive criticism though, even if it hurts. As long as she went about it in a appropriate manner and not maliciously, then it shouldn't be a problem.

I heard Aries hate constructive criticism is that true? Yeah but she is a know-it-all and won't admit her faults. It feels really negative...
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I personally don't mind it but I can't speak for the others. If you feel like she's being malicious or negative then drop her. She's not your friend.
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Posted by heartofsag
watch who you share and confide in next time

Right! I was just sharing everyday conversation; "Hey lady I am traveling to Texas, I'm thinking about relocating there; maybe the bay area. Just talking..." Then 30 days later she said I haven't done anything I told her I was going to do. (I guess I was supposed to travel in September instead of October). Why does it matter whether or not I delayed my trip? What's it to her? I don't understand why she is so concerned about my affairs? She confronted me, and claimed i'm all talk I didn't go to tx, I didn't start the business within 30 days. What gives? She a relatively new friend.
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She probably does have Mercury in Capricorn and maybe even some Sag in her with the excessive bluntness and self-righteousness. I'm an Aqua with Cap Mercury and Sag Moon, so I've had similar behavior before (which I'm not proud of by the way).

Just know that as a fixed Sun, she will only change by her own doing, and the more you whine and show emotion, the less likely she'll do what you want. That's partly because emotional displays usually don't work on us and partly the contrary nature of Aquarius. She'd be much more likely to listen and meet you halfway if you approach her calmly and explain why it upsets you, preferably without tears or anger. Almost mirror her detachment.

With Cap Mercury, we get really bitchy when people don't do what they say they will... it doesn't even have to be important or affect us in any way. For some reason we just judge and assume you don't have your life together or you're doing something shady. Maybe she thinks you're being fake since you didn't move when or start your business when you said you would? Like you're trying too hard to impress people?

I don't know. It clearly seems like she doesn't like you very much, because Aquarians are extremely kind-hearted otherwise despite the detachment. The feelings are there, you just rarely see them, if ever.
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Sounds like you have Leo in you.

Not a drop
Well I'll be damned. Can't win em all eh.
Leo placements and dominant Leos in my personal experience from my ex husband Pisces/Leo moon and my current husband NEED SPACE.

I know that sounds so strange....

but it's true.

They don't want to be clung on. Which i love very much. I dont know why they love freedom. This is why i love that!!! they don't cling.
I was thinking more about people who don't like their own flaws pointed out to them. Seems to be a real sore spot for Leo-influenced people I run into.
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Isn't it a Libra sore spot as well? i mean it can apply to all signs really.

As for the bluntness, i am beyond blunt but i have always figured that was my sag placements all in the 1st house. What exactly happened OP? You said you confided in her and she threw it all back in your face. Did you guys get into a fight? Was this stuff that perhaps you have come to her over and over with? I get fed up when someone comes to me repeatedly and i give my advise and it's discarded like dirty toilet paper. It makes me feel like i'm wasting my time and they don't value what i have said.
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She probably does have Mercury in Capricorn and maybe even some Sag in her with the excessive bluntness and self-righteousness. I'm an Aqua with Cap Mercury and Sag Moon, so I've had similar behavior before (which I'm not proud of by the way).

Just know that as a fixed Sun, she will only change by her own doing, and the more you whine and show emotion, the less likely she'll do what you want. That's partly because emotional displays usually don't work on us and partly the contrary nature of Aquarius. She'd be much more likely to listen and meet you halfway if you approach her calmly and explain why it upsets you, preferably without tears or anger. Almost mirror her detachment.

With Cap Mercury, we get really bitchy when people don't do what they say they will... it doesn't even have to be important or affect us in any way. For some reason we just judge and assume you don't have your life together or you're doing something shady. Maybe she thinks you're being fake since you didn't move when or start your business when you said you would? Like you're trying too hard to impress people?

I don't know. It clearly seems like she doesn't like you very much, because Aquarians are extremely kind-hearted otherwise despite the detachment. The feelings are there, you just rarely see them, if ever.
Pretty much! Cap merc here too and more then a dallop of Sag myself 😆 Man i can be ruthless and don't even realize it sometimes.
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We say things colds and I differently because it's difficult for us to say as a pleasant Aqua.


I'm 80% happy go lucky guy and I let shit slide which is bad because I let people get away with doing stupid shit all the time.

Somedays if I'm feeling short with someone I'll let them have it and it's usually after I've listened to their bullshit long enough.


Your friend has probably heard all she wanted of you faux Texan trip and pretty much told u to shut the fuck up about it because it wasn't gonna happen anyway.

My brother does this all the time yes got a knack for cold timing
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Extremely emotional with partners and friends, family but anyone else that they haven't really brought into their circle very detached and aloof. I wouldn't say she is a bestie..

She has sought my friendship over these past few years. I have never initiated a conversation or invitation, she, on the other hand, calls repeatedly inviting me to the movies, Palm Springs, the fair, a lecture, and camping. I have repeatedly declined her requests; I could care less about her detachment or enmeshment and quite frankly I could care less about being in her close circle of friends, Seriously. 🙂
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Posted by heartofsag
you dont have to terminate it. just back off and stop telling her ALL your damn business. all shes gonna do is try to put you down.

stop treating her like shes your bestie tho becuz thats obv not true... you sounding hurt and all

Yeah Okay Sag, this is my first experience of a person throwing personal non important facts in my face and getting angry over my lifestyle choices. She is virtually a stranger to me.
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Posted by capricornmoon
As a cardinal sign(libra)., of course you will be offended by what a fixed sign(Aqua) thinks or says. Libras are very sensitive if it only pertains to them, if not, they could care less and are just as, if not equally as cold as aquas. Libras are dead fish. Lifeless and boring, but very intelligent, I give you guys credit for that.
Aquas are cold, astrologically speaking because the secondary or co ruler of AQuarius is that evil planet called Saturn.

On a real life aspect, not taking astrology into account, don't put your business on front street, speak up for yourself and tell her she is being insensitive and judge mental, if she values you and your friendship, she will change, but again, she's a fixed sign, she might not see anything wrong with what she said.

Yes you are absolutely right! I was offended by her unsolicited opinions about my life! I didn't think sharing my excitement about visiting Dallas constituted putting my business on front street, but okay. But yes you are right, could practice more self-control around new acquaintances.
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She probably does have Mercury in Capricorn and maybe even some Sag in her with the excessive bluntness and self-righteousness. I'm an Aqua with Cap Mercury and Sag Moon, so I've had similar behavior before (which I'm not proud of by the way).

Just know that as a fixed Sun, she will only change by her own doing, and the more you whine and show emotion, the less likely she'll do what you want. That's partly because emotional displays usually don't work on us and partly the contrary nature of Aquarius. She'd be much more likely to listen and meet you halfway if you approach her calmly and explain why it upsets you, preferably without tears or anger. Almost mirror her detachment.

With Cap Mercury, we get really bitchy when people don't do what they say they will... it doesn't even have to be important or affect us in any way. For some reason we just judge and assume you don't have your life together or you're doing something shady. Maybe she thinks you're being fake since you didn't move when or start your business when you said you would? Like you're trying too hard to impress people?

I don't know. It clearly seems like she like you very much, because Aquarians are extremely kind-hearted otherwise despite the detachment. The feelings are there, you just rarely see them, if ever.

She is a lesbian with a romantic interest in me initially. I have a boyfriend and I expressed that to her repeatedly but she insisted we can just hang out as friends. Regarding her not liking me Okay? She pursued our acquaintanceship with many invitations to a myriad of events. She looks for my car in our small town and finds me at lunch.
Yes Sag moon or something because her brutal honesty surpassed what I call - socially acceptable commentary. Her words felt like an internal boundary violation, there was something uncaring, cold, and borderline cruel. I think she was crass, rash, and crude. She was so detached from her emotions and when I commented on her ruthless demeanor she was not compassionate.Regarding Cap Mercury I think that is a reflection of their own ineptitude to accomplish things they set out to accomplish. I did exaggerate the truth on a few things to impress her and she called me on it and I appreciate the ability to feel shame and seek spiritual solace. I guess I do need more help to get some things off the gro
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She probably does have Mercury in Capricorn and maybe even some Sag in her with the excessive bluntness and self-righteousness. I'm an Aqua with Cap Mercury and Sag Moon, so I've had similar behavior before (which I'm not proud of by the way).

Just know that as a fixed Sun, she will only change by her own doing, and the more you whine and show emotion, the less likely she'll do what you want. That's partly because emotional displays usually don't work on us and partly the contrary nature of Aquarius. She'd be much more likely to listen and meet you halfway if you approach her calmly and explain why it upsets you, preferably without tears or anger. Almost mirror her detachment.

With Cap Mercury, we get really bitchy when people don't do what they say they will... it doesn't even have to be important or affect us in any way. For some reason we just judge and assume you don't have your life together or you're doing something shady. Maybe she thinks you're being fake since you didn't move when or start your business when you said you would? Like you're trying too hard to impress people?

I don't know. It clearly seems like she doesn't like you very much, because Aquarians are extremely kind-hearted otherwise despite the detachment. The feelings are there, you just rarely see them, if ever.

Since her brutal words however, I have been working really hard getting breakthroughs I haven't had in a long time with my business. And she was right in a way, and although it was a little humiliating I can take what I can from the situation and move on. I don't think I want to experience her brutal commentary any more however. I think twice is enough.
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Posted by magma
She had a sexual/romantic interest in you, you made it clear that you weren't interested in her that way, so she may feel scorned and resentful.

If you don't care they (she) can't hurt you.

I am interested and yes I think she feels scorned and resentful. I was trying to protect my boyfriend but I am interested in her, or at least I was but now she has ran me away.
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watch who you share and confide in next time

Right! I was just sharing everyday conversation; "Hey lady I am traveling to Texas, I'm thinking about relocating there; maybe the bay area. Just talking..." Then 30 days later she said I haven't done anything I told her I was going to do. (I guess I was supposed to travel in September instead of October). Why does it matter whether or not I delayed my trip? What's it to her? I don't understand why she is so concerned about my affairs? She confronted me, and claimed i'm all talk I didn't go to tx, I didn't start the business within 30 days. What gives? She a relatively new friend.
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I am the Aqua like your friend and I'm not liking your one sided story. However, as this thread progressed, I notice that you're giving more details as to what happened, even though we still don't have enough information. I'm going to assume something about you from your quote above: you sound like one of those wishy washy people who sit there and say idle things that you have no intention of doing and if you are, then I'll tell you that I get really annoyed by people who claim things all the time and do none of them. How I see it is that I listened to your garbage and you wasted my time. Why are you speaking of things you have no intention of doing? I'm an action oriented person. If I say I wanna do something, I'll go do it. People like that annoy me. I'll listen to their pointless ranting like 5-6 times and then they're gonna get it and I will throw all of that shit on their face to BaCK UP my point when I'm making it clear that they are scattered brain and I have no interest in listening to their pointless garbage. Throwing all of that in your face is not to hurt you, but it's to show where she's coming from and why she's blowing you (like you've done this plenty of times blah blah blah).
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She had a sexual/romantic interest in you, you made it clear that you weren't interested in her that way, so she may feel scorned and resentful.

If you don't care they (she) can't hurt you.

I am interested and yes I think she feels scorned and resentful. I was trying to protect my boyfriend but I am interested in her, or at least I was but now she has ran me away.
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The plot thickens. You are talking from both sides of your mouth and Aquas hate that shit.

As I said before ( in a very wordy way), now is my blunt way > she's done hearing all words no actions. This is not about her moon or merc, it's all about how you are handling it.
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watch who you share and confide in next time

Right! I was just sharing everyday conversation; "Hey lady I am traveling to Texas, I'm thinking about relocating there; maybe the bay area. Just talking..." Then 30 days later she said I haven't done anything I told her I was going to do. (I guess I was supposed to travel in September instead of October). Why does it matter whether or not I delayed my trip? What's it to her? I don't understand why she is so concerned about my affairs? She confronted me, and claimed i'm all talk I didn't go to tx, I didn't start the business within 30 days. What gives? She a relatively new friend.
I am the Aqua like your friend and I'm not liking your one sided story. However, as this thread progressed, I notice that you're giving more details as to what happened, even though we still don't have enough information. I'm going to assume something about you from your quote above: you sound like one of those wishy washy people who sit there and say idle things that you have no intention of doing and if you are, then I'll tell you that I get really annoyed by people who claim things all the time and do none of them. How I see it is that I listened to your garbage and you wasted my time. Why are you speaking of things you have no intention of doing? I'm an action oriented person. If I say I wanna do something, I'll go do it. People like that annoy me. I'll listen to their pointless ranting like 5-6 times and then they're gonna get it and I will throw all of that shit on their face to BaCK UP my point when I'm making it clear that they are scattered brain and I have no interest in listening to their pointless garbage. Throwing all of that in your face is not to hurt you, but it's to show where she's coming from and why she's blowing you (like you've done this plenty of times blah blah blah).
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THANK YOU, aquarius09 and justagirl.

Regarding Cap Mercury I think that is a reflection of their own ineptitude to accomplish things they set out to accomplish. I did exaggerate the truth on a few things to impress her and she called me on it and I appreciate the ability to feel shame and seek spiritual solace. I guess I do need more help to get some things off the gro
Ummm, I'd have to say it's quite the opposite. We're judging you because we know how to keep our word, and we don't exaggerate just to make a good story or impress people. Once we set our minds to something (Mercury), we do the hard work necessary to get it done (Capricorn). Shit gets done with this placement (barring some awful natal aspect).

You seem to possess a lot of traits that generally don't mesh well with Aquarians. You're extremely wishy washy. You make her look weird for seeking out your friendship/pursuing you romantically. You say you're not interested because you have a boyfriend, but OH WAIT, you really are interested in her, but you were sparing your boyfriend the hurt feelings...? What even is that? Make up your mind, and if you can't, at least have the decency to admit and explain that and not string her along, which is probably why she still wants to be friends.

Also, defensiveness. Aquarians will say whatever the hell we want whenever we want, and it's rarely ever out of malicious intent. We just can't stand bullshitters. And since we're not purposefully trying to hurt your feelings, we don't look at it as "Oh, she and I are friends/she's a really nice person who has never done anything to me--I should probably make what I'm about to say a little easier to swallow." No. We tell you the truth and if you can't handle it without getting your panties in a twirl, maybe being friends isn't such a great idea.

Excessive emotionalism, lack of objectivity... I could go on. I think you get it, though.
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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
We say things colds and I differently because it's difficult for us to say as a pleasant Aqua.


I'm 80% happy go lucky guy and I let shit slide which is bad because I let people get away with doing stupid shit all the time.

Somedays if I'm feeling short with someone I'll let them have it and it's usually after I've listened to their bullshit long enough.


Your friend has probably heard all she wanted of you faux Texan trip and pretty much told u to shut the fuck up about it because it wasn't gonna happen anyway.

My brother does this all the time yes got a knack for cold timing

I have responded this twice before and it didn't show up. Let's see what happens now.
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Sounds like you have Leo in you.

Not a drop
Well I'll be damned. Can't win em all eh.
Leo placements and dominant Leos in my personal experience from my ex husband Pisces/Leo moon and my current husband NEED SPACE.

I know that sounds so strange....

but it's true.

They don't want to be clung on. Which i love very much. I dont know why they love freedom. This is why i love that!!! they don't cling.
I was thinking more about people who don't like their own flaws pointed out to them. Seems to be a real sore spot for Leo-influenced people I run into.
Isn't it a Libra sore spot as well?
You're right.
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To be fair. It can be said about any sign.
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Posted by aquaaa0214
THANK YOU, aquarius09 and justagirl.

Regarding Cap Mercury I think that is a reflection of their own ineptitude to accomplish things they set out to accomplish. I did exaggerate the truth on a few things to impress her and she called me on it and I appreciate the ability to feel shame and seek spiritual solace. I guess I do need more help to get some things off the gro
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Ummm, I'd have to say it's quite the opposite. We're judging you because we know how to keep our word,

Wow aren't you the nasty one! I couldn't imagine being you; all that self-hatred and self-loathing spewing from inside of you to innocent people. I could readily see how a man could readily hate an Aquarius woman, you are truly nasty! You sound like a bitter, dried up hateful old spinster. Better yet.... run along back into the sandbox with the rest of the kids and stay out of grown folks conversations.
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THANK YOU, aquarius09 and justagirl.

Regarding Cap Mercury I think that is a reflection of their own ineptitude to accomplish things they set out to accomplish. I did exaggerate the truth on a few things to impress her and she called me on it and I appreciate the ability to feel shame and seek spiritual solace. I guess I do need more help to get some things off the gro
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Ummm, I'd have to say it's quite the opposite. We're judging you because we know how to keep our word, and we don't exaggerate just to make a good story or impress people. Once we set our minds to something (Mercury), we do the hard work necessary to get it done (Capricorn).

The only reason you can do anything is by God's grace and design. If you can make up your minds it is because God said so, if Libra can not make up their minds it is because God said so. God made Aquarius weird and Libra wishy washy, if you have a problem with his creation take it up with him. In regards to your reaction to the imperfections of your fellow man that's between you and your God. I could care less about receiving the approval of an Aquarius! Do you have any idea the effects Venus has on others? the planet of love and beauty mesmerizes many, not all, but enough to be overwhelmed. And don't be shapely! Say what you will I could care less, but Libra women are beat down from attention. It's Venus. I would feel grateful if Aquarius would leave me alone, one less sign to worry about. However that is not the case with this chick she just finished calling three times in a row. Yes I am wishy washy it's been that way from Libra since the beginning of time talk it over with the creator. Guess what? I am still greatly loved by friends and family. You have your faults too,
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I mean, I believe in God and all, but don't let your religion and belief in a higher power allow you to stay settled in your ways.

I am well aware of my own imperfections, and I work with them to be the best I can be. Some people appreciate my blunt and straightforward way of communicating very much, and some don't. Oh whale. In my experience it does more good than harm (i.e. it's not excessive), and I make a concerted effort to rein it in when necessary. I'm also pretty tolerant of others' imperfections AS LONG AS they do the same and strive for self-improvement. But I'm also stubborn and confident enough to realize there are some people that I will definitely rub the wrong way by just being myself in a non-exaggerated form, so there's no use in trying to censor myself. I have friends and love and rainbows and sunshine for dayyyys. No need to pity me 🙂

You've been wanting to change her, but have you thought about changing yourself? The first step to changing pretty much any situation is to look at yourself and your own actions. You can't control her. Since it seems like you've given up on trying to be friends with her, maybe you should channel some of Libra's cardinal energy and take the initiative to break things off. Tell her you can't deal with her, and try not to beat around the bush. If she still pursues you, that's on her; she's making herself look like an ass. At least you can walk away with the peace of mind that you actually DID something instead of complain.
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THANK YOU, aquarius09 and justagirl.

Regarding Cap Mercury I think that is a reflection of their own ineptitude to accomplish things they set out to accomplish. I did exaggerate the truth on a few things to impress her and she called me on it and I appreciate the ability to feel shame and seek spiritual solace. I guess I do need more help to get some things off the gro
Ummm, I'd have to say it's quite the opposite. We're judging you because we know how to keep our word,

Wow aren't you the nasty one! I couldn't imagine being you; all that self-hatred and self-loathing spewing from inside of you to innocent people. I could readily see how a man could readily hate an Aquarius woman, you are truly nasty! You sound like a bitter, dried up hateful old spinster. Better yet.... run along back into the sandbox with the rest of the kids and stay out of grown folks conversations.
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No self-hatred or self-loathing over here haha. That's just how we generally see things, and I was just clearing that up for her.
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Posted by AquaMermaid
Weird thread! I'm out!

Good Aquamermaid stay out. Who cares!
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Why are you so aggressively mean? I thought Libras are all about balance and fairness; you are far from that from your posts i have stumbled across. Just angry and volatile.

You post on the Aqua forum and then lash out and get mad at those that respond.... Are you just looking for a fight?
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Posted by AquaMermaid
Bitter and jealous people everywhere,lol! I think they come to DXP to vent because they're too coward to confront the people who hurt them or just because therapy is expensive. *shrugs*
Would normally agree but lets keep it real Aqua, 9 times out of 10 if they have a problem with an Aqua they cant confront them because A🙂 when they confront them they are going to run and hide or B🙂 Aqua is somewhere not answering calls or texts ............... Aquas do dirt and run, i understand Aquas so i dont trip, but i can def see how there ways could piss people off.
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