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watch who you share and confide in next time

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Right! I was just sharing everyday conversation; "Hey lady I am traveling to Texas, I'm thinking about relocating there; maybe the bay area. Just talking..." Well she can go straight to hell for all I care, or stop pursuing me
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Aquarius friend threw everything I shared in confidence in my face. She's quite blunt, outspoken and heartless with her brutal honesty. Is this common? I asked her if she would be willing to meet me half-way and not communicate my flaws without my permission she accused me of trying to control her. Her brutal honesty has Y left me wounded. I think you are right, but now there are feelings and there are other people involved. She is not a lesbian btw, it appears she is a bi sexual woman. She wants her man and me and I don't want that. So we are no longer on speaking terms as of 3 days ago. Constant drama, constant arguing, constant tension, maybe we should leave each other alone.
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No, she's being exactly what the Aqua has seen in her. Us Aquariuses an see through someone's bullshit and than we call you out on it.. She obviously couldn't handle it and created this fuxkin thread.

Can't understand Ebonics sorry, try writing in English so I can understand your point.
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Lmaoooo. If you're going to get sassy about the way someone writes, at least TRY to use correct grammar and punctuation. I could hardly follow your previous posts to be honest, so you have no room to talk.

Damn, this thread is entertaining.
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Bitter and jealous people everywhere,lol! I think they come to DXP to vent because they're too coward to confront the people who hurt them or just because therapy is expensive. *shrugs*
Would normally agree but lets keep it real Aqua, 9 times out of 10 if they have a problem with an Aqua they cant confront them because A🙂 when they confront them they are going to run and hide or B🙂 Aqua is somewhere not answering calls or texts ............... Aquas do dirt and run, i understand Aquas so i dont trip, but i can def see how there ways could piss people off.

Hey not so rational Virgo. Let's keep it REAL, you don't understand Aquarius as much you are bragging about it.I am an Aquarius and I know Aquarians better than you do.Let's not get over-confident and cocky. Firstly,this woman/man is most likely a troll.His/her behaviour is suspicious and not at all decent.So may be you jumped into this bandwagon because of your own personal grudge with Aquarians.Secondly, what you described about us is nothing but your own shallow opinion.We put up with a lot of nonsense before we return it back.No other sign has so much tolerance.And you're addressing the wrong Aquarian,I neither run and hide from confrontations nor am I the one to "do dirt and run away". I feel sorry for your tunnel view and judgmental ways. May be you're targeting me because you think I hate your kind from the other crazy Virgo lady thread but you're so wrong.I expect better sense of judgment from earth signs...sigh!
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When people get defensive and call you names. Its because they are emotionally bothered by the truth in which they cant handle. Thank you for confirming my statements, if it had no validity, you would not have ranted with your name calling and defensiveness. Thank you. I would debate and argue with you, but you would dimiss me after you figure you cant win, and come up with a reason why its not worth arguing. But I can honestly write a page long essay debunking everything you just said, but I know Aquas, even the truth wont sway your fixed opinion, so ill leave with my win. Thanks for getting emotional ............
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@Virgo, I am literally laughing at your assumptions and your stupidity. It's very much evident who got emotional and defensive. YOU quoted me. I wasn't even talking to you. But obviously you are really pissed off at the Aquarians in your life that's why you're crying over here for attention. I'm sorry but you came out of nowhere and started taking sides with the Libra lady and you've dismissed everything I said and fixated on your own opinion. I know plenty of Virgos both good and bad. I can tell 50 page stories too,lol. Just because I know Virgos doesn't mean I am a Virgo, and just because you know a few Aquarians, it doesn't mean you're an Aquarian. I don't know what you faced with Aquarians but clearly you seem to be the butthurt and emotional one here. I've not called you names but I can see how defensive you've become. I hope you find peace because it seems you're holding a lot of bitterness inside you to attack random strangers for someone else's mistakes. And the way you've responded I'm sure you cooked up a lot of those assumptions in your head. And yeah you win 😛 As if I want to be the punching bag for someone else's issues with Aquarians. Lol
I love Aquarians, best lovers and friends have been Aquas. Im just stating facts facts, that ive seen ................. you the one taking it personal. I guess it touched your soul .........
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when I confront the aquas in my life they are willing to listen. they shy away if I DONT confront them and they know I am upset.

example: I got in a huge fight with my Aqua friend at the bar. he was somewhat attempting to romantically pursue me. Instead of making a scene at the bar in front of our friends I left. plus I had a stomach ache, so I figured it would be best if I just went home. he at first pursued me and followed me home apologizing. I said I accept his apology but won't let him treat me with disrespect in front of our friends. he shied away from me for about a week. I could almost feel the pain radiating from him when we came into close contact, but he would avoid me. our friend asked about it and he replied "she doesn't wanna deal with me anymore" LOL. however after hearing this I confronted him again and he was quite happy about the confrontation, and we worked it out.

I feel like confronting our issues is how we resolve them. I haven't had any evade issues. in fact some of my Aqua friends confront me when I'm flakey and decide to be a recluse for our normal nights out.

maybe that's just the Aquas I know. I have 6 Aquarius friends, 4 who I'm in almost constant contact with (even though we're all very busy).

my father is also very ready for confrontation with anyone he has issues with. he's an Aquarius in case the implication isn't understood.
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@Virgo, I am literally laughing at your assumptions and your stupidity. It's very much evident who got emotional and defensive. YOU quoted me. I wasn't even talking to you. But obviously you are really pissed off at the Aquarians in your life that's why you're crying over here for attention. I'm sorry but you came out of nowhere and started taking sides with the Libra lady and you've dismissed everything I said and fixated on your own opinion. I know plenty of Virgos both good and bad. I can tell 50 page stories too,lol. Just because I know Virgos doesn't mean I am a Virgo, and just because you know a few Aquarians, it doesn't mean you're an Aquarian. I don't know what you faced with Aquarians but clearly you seem to be the butthurt and emotional one here. I've not called you names but I can see how defensive you've become. I hope you find peace because it seems you're holding a lot of bitterness inside you to attack random strangers for someone else's mistakes. And the way you've responded I'm sure you cooked up a lot of those assumptions in your head. And yeah you win 😛 As if I want to be the punching bag for someone else's issues with Aquarians. Lol
I love Aquarians, best lovers and friends have been Aquas. Im just stating facts facts, that ive seen ................. you the one taking it personal. I guess it touched your soul .........
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And thats a good thing. I take pride in making Aquas emotional, because Ive spent plenty time behind the scenes seeing the great job yall do in hiding it other people. To be emotionally open with me is an honor to me, and I think thats why I attract Aquas in my real life. To see an Aqua cry in front of you is the most greatest feelings ever, to be loved by one is also, Thats why I will never have animosity towards Aquas, but I wont hold back on pointing out facts either..........
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@Virgo, I am literally laughing at your assumptions and your stupidity. It's very much evident who got emotional and defensive. YOU quoted me. I wasn't even talking to you. But obviously you are really pissed off at the Aquarians in your life that's why you're crying over here for attention. I'm sorry but you came out of nowhere and started taking sides with the Libra lady and you've dismissed everything I said and fixated on your own opinion. I know plenty of Virgos both good and bad. I can tell 50 page stories too,lol. Just because I know Virgos doesn't mean I am a Virgo, and just because you know a few Aquarians, it doesn't mean you're an Aquarian. I don't know what you faced with Aquarians but clearly you seem to be the butthurt and emotional one here. I've not called you names but I can see how defensive you've become. I hope you find peace because it seems you're holding a lot of bitterness inside you to attack random strangers for someone else's mistakes. And the way you've responded I'm sure you cooked up a lot of those assumptions in your head. And yeah you win 😛 As if I want to be the punching bag for someone else's issues with Aquarians. Lol
I love Aquarians, best lovers and friends have been Aquas. Im just stating facts facts, that ive seen ................. you the one taking it personal. I guess it touched your soul .........
And thats a good thing. I take pride in making Aquas emotional, because Ive spent plenty time behind the scenes seeing the great job yall do in hiding it other people. To be emotionally open with me is an honor to me, and I think thats why I attract Aquas in my real life. To see an Aqua cry in front of you is the most greatest feelings ever, to be loved by one is also, Thats why I will never have animosity towards Aquas, but I wont hold back on pointing out facts either..........
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Its not personal love, Im not trying to tear down your Aqua image 🙂 If people understand why Aquas do some of things they do. You might see less " Why wont my Aqua talk to me" posts. Once you know Aquas flaws, you realize its not personal ...........
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Lol all these troll on the aqua board— Waaaaay up I feel blessed.
LMBO!!!!! I was actually going to give my input...based on being a mom of an Aqua daughter. lol Then I read this and had to laugh. ha ha ha ha

Ok, ok, ok...based on how my Aqua daughter views friendships, I'm going to be honest and say that I think Aquas don't see this as a HUGE offense. They feel like if they are tolerating it and supportive of you, what they say about your flaws isn't important, especially if/when your flaws pissed them off. That's where that comes from. They get pissed off and start talking shit. So, should you take it personally...maybe. That part is completely up to you. Depending on what was said, I might take offense...and maybe not. Could you be putting a 20 on a 10, because it puts you at an advantage in this one situation? Maybe. Think about it. Why are you offended? One thing that people should know is that firstly, you're going to be talked about and even by those who are closest to you as well as love you. It's just a way of life. C'mon now. The other thing that we have to remember is that we are social people. If you tell even ONE person something, it's no longer a secret. You told your secret first, so actually you betrayed your own confidence before another person.

My mom always told me...if you want to keep something hidden, don't do it. If you do it and no one knows, don't tell anyone.
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she probably doesnt give a fudge about your feelings

thats not aquarius mannnn

thats a rude bitch . fuck her.

She apparently does not give a fudge about my feelings. Is that reason enough to terminate the relationship? What would you do?
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Are you basing this off of your friendship in action or by what people here are telling you. You have to be careful, because no one but you and her are involved in this friendship. I'm not saying that the "advice" that people are giving you isn't valid, I'm saying that before you TERMINATE a relationship (which is HUGE)...consider that all of us, including me, don't have all of the information.
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I'm Aries Mars Scorp babe, I never back down from confrontations irl. Do you know any Aquas with Aries Mars irl?
Nah, havent met one yet, just Taurus,Cancer, and Virgo Mars ...............
Sorry Moon not Mars

I was talking to the Scorpio chick but it seems you want all my attention 😛
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🙂 as if you quoted scorp right— LMAO ........... you still in your feelings Aqua LMAO
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@Virgo, I am literally laughing at your assumptions and your stupidity. It's very much evident who got emotional and defensive. YOU quoted me. I wasn't even talking to you. But obviously you are really pissed off at the Aquarians in your life that's why you're crying over here for attention. I'm sorry but you came out of nowhere and started taking sides with the Libra lady and you've dismissed everything I said and fixated on your own opinion. I know plenty of Virgos both good and bad. I can tell 50 page stories too,lol. Just because I know Virgos doesn't mean I am a Virgo, and just because you know a few Aquarians, it doesn't mean you're an Aquarian. I don't know what you faced with Aquarians but clearly you seem to be the butthurt and emotional one here. I've not called you names but I can see how defensive you've become. I hope you find peace because it seems you're holding a lot of bitterness inside you to attack random strangers for someone else's mistakes. And the way you've responded I'm sure you cooked up a lot of those assumptions in your head. And yeah you win 😛 As if I want to be the punching bag for someone else's issues with Aquarians. Lol
I love Aquarians, best lovers and friends have been Aquas. Im just stating facts facts, that ive seen ................. you the one taking it personal. I guess it touched your soul .........
And thats a good thing. I take pride in making Aquas emotional, because Ive spent plenty time behind the scenes seeing the great job yall do in hiding it other people. To be emotionally open with me is an honor to me, and I think thats why I attract Aquas in my real life. To see an Aqua cry in front of you is the most greatest feelings ever, to be loved by one is also, Thats why I will never have animosity towards Aquas, but I wont hold back on pointing out facts either..........

And I'm happy you quoted me to get the attention to brag about yourself,LOL. I have had Virgo friends who nagged me like hell and always wanted my attention.I've saved their asses because they would always get into trouble and call me first, aaah great times 😄
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Just like the trusty Aqua you are, we can be analytical say and do whatever to you, and you'll shake it off and be there regardless ........ i love Aquas. I would tell personal experiences but you in your feelings and ill be accused of being arrogant and cocky LMAO
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@AquaMermaid actually no! only one has an Aries Venus. but he does have a Sag Mars (like me). boy is that a combative pair LOL. as for the others 2 have Mars in Cap (one of which is my dad🙂 ), 2 with Gem Mars, and 1 with a Cancer Mars, and the other with a Taurus Mars.

you are the sole Aries Mars I know now 😄

most of the Aquas in my life aren't afraid of confrontation! just the Aries Venus/Sag Mars gets a bit wishy washy. he's ready to confront but sometimes I have to instigate because he's afraid I "never wanna deal with him again" LOL. I consider him a paradox sometimes. always ready to confront someone and he can get pretty fiery as his element entails, but sometimes I feel like he tones himself down. he's a little fireball alright. he gets a twinkle in his eye when he's feeling combative and antagonizing. sometimes I think he likes to have confrontations about nothing. he once confronted a google representative that we worked with to tell him that the Google chromecast sucked and he couldn't imagine why anyone would ever buy it because it's the most worthless piece of crap in the market. LMFAO. I couldn't believe he said that. the poor guy. I started laughing because I was like "what the hell?" and immediately felt terrible for the poor rep (even though he was a pretty creepy guy who stared at me on the low- my manager had to tell him to stop staring over my shoulder once). the rep tried making an argument back and it didn't go so well.

I think a lot of Aquas are fearless if they have that quality. I don't know too many passive ones. even my dad gets pretty confrontational. he doesn't tolerate anything. and his Mars is in Cap!

even the Mars in Cancer Aqua is confrontational.
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Adios 😛
Why I wont argue with you, and what I predicted several posts ago what you would do ............... thanks for proving my point love.
Aqua literally proved the idea the whole emotional rant was against LMAO .............

You just love trolling me Virgo, don't you? 😛 I had to drive home yesterday,I had to log out of the site.I didn't run away.You're too arrogant and cocky! 😆
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🙂 I love DXPNET filters LMAO, no troll ............... you proved a fact. You only came back because of pride, that Aries Moon LMAO ...... but your Aqua side was out of here.
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Adios 😛
Why I wont argue with you, and what I predicted several posts ago what you would do ............... thanks for proving my point love.
Aqua literally proved the idea the whole emotional rant was against LMAO .............

You just love trolling me Virgo, don't you? 😛 I had to drive home yesterday,I had to log out of the site.I didn't run away.You're too arrogant and cocky! 😆
🙂 I love DXPNET filters LMAO, no troll ............... you proved a fact. You only came back because of pride, that Aries Moon LMAO ...... but your Aqua side was out of here.
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Now correct me on the fact I side moon not mars LMAO
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Adios 😛
Why I wont argue with you, and what I predicted several posts ago what you would do ............... thanks for proving my point love.
Aqua literally proved the idea the whole emotional rant was against LMAO .............

You just love trolling me Virgo, don't you? 😛 I had to drive home yesterday,I had to log out of the site.I didn't run away.You're too arrogant and cocky! 😆
🙂 I love DXPNET filters LMAO, no troll ............... you proved a fact. You only came back because of pride, that Aries Moon LMAO ...... but your Aqua side was out of here.

You've a pride otherwise you wouldn't have bothered to quote me again 😛 So I came back because of my Aries Mars? LOL You just need excuses to blame Aquas.
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No blame, just #Facts ........ if untrue how are you proving that?
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I would say to you Librawoman to not expect a change from a fixed sign, specially aquarius. To me, aquarius are good acquaintances, if I want to talk about intelectual things it is good, but that's all. Personally, I don't have any other interest in them.
This exactly ...........

You do this and then you're declaring your love for Aquas as friends and lovers in your every other comment. Hypocrite much? 😆
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No hypocrite at all, i speak from an unbiased POV and state ALL facts. Just not the side people want to accept or hear ............
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I would say to you Librawoman to not expect a change from a fixed sign, specially aquarius. To me, aquarius are good acquaintances, if I want to talk about intelectual things it is good, but that's all. Personally, I don't have any other interest in them.
This exactly ...........

You do this and then you're declaring your love for Aquas as friends and lovers in your every other comment. Hypocrite much? 😆
No hypocrite at all, i speak from an unbiased POV and state ALL facts. Just not the side people want to accept or hear ............
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I have loved and been loved by them, but I also know that they emotional instability is a gamble that i can attest to both sides of the coin on. You want everything to be ONE WAY, but life is most times based on duality ..........
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I would say to you Librawoman to not expect a change from a fixed sign, specially aquarius. To me, aquarius are good acquaintances, if I want to talk about intelectual things it is good, but that's all. Personally, I don't have any other interest in them.
This exactly ...........

You do this and then you're declaring your love for Aquas as friends and lovers in your every other comment. Hypocrite much? 😆
No hypocrite at all, i speak from an unbiased POV and state ALL facts. Just not the side people want to accept or hear ............
I have loved and been loved by them, but I also know that they emotional instability is a gamble that i can attest to both sides of the coin on. You want everything to be ONE WAY, but life is most times based on duality ..........
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Im not hijacking, WE are responding to each others comments ............
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Make a thread and share your Aqua wisdom with everyone. Let everyone read and give their opinions.
This for me or Scorp ............ dont want tp attention grab LMAO

It's for you wise Virgo. Please make a separate thread and share your Aqua stories and complains.And you are attention hoing. 😄
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You are the interested in me, and making a thread. You should make it, and it appears that WE are attention whores, you are here with me ................
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Make a thread and share your Aqua wisdom with everyone. Let everyone read and give their opinions.
This for me or Scorp ............ dont want tp attention grab LMAO

It's for you wise Virgo. Please make a separate thread and share your Aqua stories and complains.And you are attention hoing. 😄
You are the interested in me, and making a thread. You should make it, and it appears that WE are attention whores, you are here with me ................
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like mes LMAO * attention whh0res
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Thanks for proving why Aquarians stop responding to nutjobs.I win!! Bye
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@Virgo, I am literally laughing at your assumptions and your stupidity. It's very much evident who got emotional and defensive. YOU quoted me. I wasn't even talking to you. But obviously you are really pissed off at the Aquarians in your life that's why you're crying over here for attention. I'm sorry but you came out of nowhere and started taking sides with the Libra lady and you've dismissed everything I said and fixated on your own opinion. I know plenty of Virgos both good and bad. I can tell 50 page stories too,lol. Just because I know Virgos doesn't mean I am a Virgo, and just because you know a few Aquarians, it doesn't mean you're an Aquarian. I don't know what you faced with Aquarians but clearly you seem to be the butthurt and emotional one here. I'VE NOT CALLED YOU NAMES but I can see how defensive you've become. I hope you find peace because it seems you're holding a lot of bitterness inside you to attack random strangers for someone else's mistakes. And the way you've responded I'm sure you cooked up a lot of those assumptions in your head. And yeah you win 😛 As if I want to be the punching bag for someone else's issues with Aquarians. Lol
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Im a hypocrite but you clearly have described me as "stupid" in the same paragraph that you said you havent called me names. Along with in the last post calling me a "nut job" , and Im pretty sure some more derogatory terms have been thrown if i go through your previous posts. My point is, I have not called you names, and it seems that you you are accusing me of being and doing all the things that you are doing without seeing it in yourself. All because what —? I have an opinion that differs from your views—? As I asked before and you never answered, If you feel so strongly that people are "hating" on Aquas just because they have an opinion that differs from yours. Youve gone so far to describe them as "Stupid", what have you done so far to prove the accusations wrong? What personal stories or testimonies have you contributed to debunk any of these accusations you describe as stupid. Or is it just "stupid" because it doesn't line up with how you see the world?
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she probably doesnt give a fudge about your feelings

thats not aquarius mannnn

thats a rude bitch . fuck her.

She apparently does not give a fudge about my feelings. Is that reason enough to terminate the relationship? What would you do?
Are you basing this off of your friendship in action or by what people here are telling you. You have to be careful, because no one but you and her are involved in this friendship. I'm not saying that the "advice" that people are giving you isn't valid, I'm saying that before you TERMINATE a relationship (which is HUGE)...consider that all of us, including me, don't have all of the information.
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Thank you so much, may I ask your sun sign? Probably a cool ass Leo? I don't know? LOL
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Aquarius friend threw everything I shared in confidence in my face. She's quite blunt, outspoken and heartless with her brutal honesty. Is this common? I asked her if she would be willing to meet me half-way and not communicate my flaws without my permission she accused me of trying to control her. Her brutal honesty has left me wounded. What should I do? It really really turns me off.Tthere was truth in her words, I did make some small changes as a result of her confrontation, but I feel like my guts are hanging out with blood dripping on my feet. She is highly tolerate of my imperfections as well, however this feels like a deal-breaker. I don't think she is going to change. What should I do? Can you give me better understanding of the brutality behind the honesty.
I havent read the thread but from this alone, my aqua friend does give me honesty and constructive criticism. But she isn't blunt. It is meant kindly with my best interests at heart and she says is in a kind way intended to help me.

There is no need for rudeness.
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My sentiments exactly. What is your sun sign RoseAngel?
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when I confront the aquas in my life they are willing to listen. they shy away if I DONT confront them and they know I am upset.

example: I got in a huge fight with my Aqua friend at the bar. he was somewhat attempting to romantically pursue me. Instead of making a scene at the bar in front of our friends I left. plus I had a stomach ache, so I figured it would be best if I just went home.

Thank you for taking the time to share your story.
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Lol all these troll on the aqua board— Waaaaay up I feel blessed.
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LMBO!!!!! I was actually going to give my input...based on being a mom of an Aqua daughter. lol Then I read this and had to laugh. ha ha ha ha

I am happy you found the thread so comical I can't see about 3 to 4 users.... I forgot their names so perhaps I am missing something funny. LOL.
If I did not reply to a comment, I can not see the user's posting. Anyway, your response makes sooo much sense. I finally got the answer I was seeking.
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Posted by aquaaa0214
THANK YOU, aquarius09 and justagirl.

Regarding Cap Mercury I think that is a reflection of their own ineptitude to accomplish things they set out to accomplish. I did exaggerate the truth on a few things to impress her and she called me on it and I appreciate the ability to feel shame and seek spiritual solace. I guess I do need more help to get some things off the gro
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Lmao
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Posted by Librawoman77
Posted by AquaMermaid
Weird thread! I'm out!

Good Aquamermaid stay out. Who cares!
Why are you so aggressively mean? I thought Libras are all about balance and fairness; you are far from that from your posts i have stumbled across. Just angry and volatile.

You post on the Aqua forum and then lash out and get mad at those that respond.... Are you just looking for a fight?
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She responded to the above rude comment why did you not address that comment?
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Posted by aquaaa0214
THANK YOU, aquarius09 and justagirl.

Regarding Cap Mercury I think that is a reflection of their own ineptitude to accomplish things they set out to accomplish.


Maybe in certain social economical circles people with your blunt straightforward communication are appreciated, but the people with whom I associate would refer to your candor as; uncivilized, uncouth, barbaric and rude. In fact the higher the income the better the manners, statements like "You're extremely wishy washy" are considered rude, unkind and low-class. The worst the neighborhood the more rude the people, the better the neighborhood the better the manners. Also your other tacky comment -You have a lot of traits that generally don't mesh well with Aquarius " I have too many Aquarius friends for that to be true however, my interaction with you has taught me one thing: I don't mesh well with Aquarius without class. The problem with my friend is a class issue not a gender issue.
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Posted by virgotruth
Posted by NNathy
I would say to you Librawoman to not expect a change from a fixed sign, specially aquarius. To me, aquarius are good acquaintances, if I want to talk about intelectual things it is good, but that's all. Personally, I don't have any other interest in them.
This exactly ...........

You do this and then you're declaring your love for Aquas as friends and lovers in your every other comment. Hypocrite much? 😆
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THis is very rude to hijack this thread you miserable terrible human being.
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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Posted by justagirl
Posted by Librawoman77
Posted by AquaMermaid
Weird thread! I'm out!

Good Aquamermaid stay out. Who cares!
Why are you so aggressively mean? I thought Libras are all about balance and fairness; you are far from that from your posts i have stumbled across. Just angry and volatile.

You post on the Aqua forum and then lash out and get mad at those that respond.... Are you just looking for a fight?
She responded to the above rude comment why did you not address that comment?
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How was saying "weird thread , I'm out" rude?

Have you read her comments she has made here and in other threads. I was asking her a legit question. She needs to see how she is coming across, cause that is going to drive people away. But hey no skin off my nose.
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by Librawoman77
Posted by heartofsag
watch who you share and confide in next time

Right! I was just sharing everyday conversation; "Hey lady I am traveling to Texas, I'm thinking about relocating there; maybe the bay area. Just talking..." Then 30 days later she said I haven't done anything I told her I was going to do. (I guess I was supposed to travel in September instead of October). Why does it matter whether or not I delayed my trip? What's it to her? I don't understand why she is so concerned about my affairs? She confronted me, and claimed i'm all talk I didn't go to tx, I didn't start the business within 30 days. What gives? She a relatively new friend.
I am the Aqua like your friend and I'm not liking your one sided story. However, as this thread progressed, I notice that you're giving more details as to what happened, even though we still don't have enough information. I'm going to assume something about you from your quote above: you sound like one of those wishy washy people who sit there and say idle things that you have no intention of doing and if you are, then I'll tell you that I get really annoyed by people who claim things all the time and do none of them. How I see it is that I listened to your garbage and you wasted my time. Why are you speaking of things you have no intention of doing? I'm an action oriented person. If I say I wanna do something, I'll go do it. People like that annoy me. I'll listen to their pointless ranting like 5-6 times and then they're gonna get it and I will throw all of that shit on their face to BaCK UP my point when I'm making it clear that they are scattered brain and I have no interest in listening to their pointless garbage. Throwing all of that in your face is not to hurt you, but it's to show where she's coming from and why she's blowing you (like you've done this plenty of times blah blah blah).
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my bestfriend is an aqua and he acts just like that, thats what i was thinking also, OP it sounds like your aqua thinks you are full of shit...sorry
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Posted by Librawoman77
Maybe in certain social economical circles people with your blunt straightforward communication are appreciated, but the people with whom I associate would refer to your candor as; uncivilized, uncouth, barbaric and rude. In fact the higher the income the better the manners, statements like "You're extremely wishy washy" are considered rude, unkind and low-class. The worst the neighborhood the more rude the people, the better the neighborhood the better the manners. Also your other tacky comment -You have a lot of traits that generally don't mesh well with Aquarius " I have too many Aquarius friends for that to be true however, my interaction with you has taught me one thing: I don't mesh well with Aquarius without class. The problem with my friend is a class issue not a gender issue.
I like how this suddenly turned into a psychology lesson on socio-economic status. I was raised perfectly fine in a normal, middle-class American home, and I'm very well-mannered in real-life social situations. But, in case you forgot, we're on the internet. YOU posted on the Aquarius forum asking for our advice, and since we don't see the point in beating around the bush trying to soften the blow for you, we're honest and straightforward because being any other way would be a waste of our time and yours. How do you expect to deal with a situation effectively without honest advice? We're doing you a favor, and you would see that if you humbled yourself for two seconds. We were sincerely trying to help you, but you took it too personally and started crying about how "that's the way God made Libras". Instead of just taking our advice and accepting that maybe you just don't get along with certain Aquarians and leaving it be, you come back to this thread with your whiny, bullshit, high-horse comebacks to (I assume) feel better about yourself.

I'm sorry you wasted so much time and energy researching to craft your ever-so-clever response because this isn't a class issue. It's a personality issue, plain and simple. How do I know? I know because--in being consistent with your above argument--your "high-class" upbringing and lifestyle would mean that you received a quality education and therefore wouldn't have such poor grammar and punctuation skills; you would realize how many errors you made. I, being so "low-class" and "poor", wouldn't have received the quality of education required to be able to recognize that. So, now that you know how ineffective your argument was, how about we stop making blind generalizations about class. Hiding behind manners and social graces prevents you from fully addressing and fixing an issue, which was why you made this thread in the first place, right?

I didn't intend on getting nasty in this post, but someone needed to tell you to sit the fuck down.
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That whole post Aquarius09 made I think is exactly how I am...I hate people who spout shit, make you think they're going to do something or act on it then it's just like bleh.. That grinds the living hell out my gears.

Now back to regular schedule programming... OP you're full of shit, and that's why he/she is cold (currently tired and cba reading the front page again.)