I'm dating a fellow Aries man and when we are together it's fireworks, fun, affection, laughs, good convo...everything is great we can't get enough of each other. We've been together every weekend since we met. But when we are apart we bicker over the smallest things...things that are basic that should be a given. I think it's crazy. I always bring it up like what is the deal with the spats. It's got to end..I am not used to this with dating...this is out of my experience and I don't like it...it must cease. It's only been two months and I am worried that what I have read about two Aries not working in a relationship are true. I don't think we're going to make it. He likes me A LOT! He has no problem voicing and expressing how deep he feels...I like him a lot also...but he is a lil deeper than I am...which is not a problem, I'm getting there...but with the silly miscommunications and disagreements, I have my reservations. I'm just trying to find the happy medium. Don't want it to end before it starts, I do see the great possibilities, but how do we get there, before I decide to walk out. Just wondering if there are any success stories out there with two Aries?
Also fyi.. I'm in my late 30's and he is in his early 40's...there's also another issue, but I will get to that portion when I get some responses...thanks in advance guys! This girl needs help!
Thanks for responding tiziani...well I can only speak for me...I do like to keep things fun and easy breezy. Just don't know what the hiccup is with this one.
champranger...`I thought about us both wanting to lead, but I really don't want to, I do believe in letting a man pursue with a lil fun nudge and tug from me time to time...so he can lead, but not be bossy.I don't like to argue and I already expressed that to him...I love harmony and resolution. I am big on communication.
Feby16aqua...it's silly things like miscommunication because he's not listening or him taking something out of context which then leads him to tell me I hurt his feelings...so me being the person I am, I quick re-evaluate the situation, make she I was understood properly and reassure him that his hurt feelings were not my intent. Then sometimes he just a lil bossy....that Aries thing I guess....lol! It's just small things that I have never encountered with any other man of other signs...it kind of makes me laugh with shock, because I really do at times hope he's playing. LOL!
And champranger...it could be things that bother both of us, but I rather talk it out like mature adults than to quickly get an attitude and lash out. I have to remind him that we are still in the getting to know each other phase, so there will be things here and there that we will not like or need to adjust a lil if we want the same thing. And I'm not the sweep it under the rug type of gal...I am straight forward, let's deal with it right then and there, discuss things calmly and move on. Like i said I love peace harmony, love, compromise when needed and resolution. And yes you made sense. :-)
There's a lil more to my story that transpired Sunday...the next part really needs the male Aries input...thanks!