Aries and being a loner

I am pretty much a loner type, although I have a few life long friends, I really enjoy the quiet of my own mind and spirit....and the other aries men and females I know def. have alot of alone time. What about you aries?

I have 3 close friends that I feel comfortable confiding anything and everything too. I don't trust too many people to get close to me. I love to have my alone time as well. It gives me time to think, maybe think to much but If I don't have my alone time then I am a total bitch. I'm also a neat freak so cleaning is my alone time that helps me relax as well.

Yup, lots of alone time. Some of it self imposed, some of it because I tend to be way to hyper for most people.

My Aries dad only ever had two or three best friends (besides family).

My Aries son hardly ever goes to anyone's house or has anyone come to our house. He has friends at school. He runs into people at the store, talks, kids seem to like him, but he just never hangs out with any "group" except for activities with our church youth group. He prefers weekends hanging out at home with the family or just watching TV.

I suppose it's normal then?

^^^ Yeah, that pretty much describes me as a kid, and now as an adult. As for it being "normal," I don't suppose I have any way of measuring that. I do know that I don't have a lot of tolerance for most people, and most people don't have much tolerance for me. Just don't "click" as it were, you see.

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Loads of alone time here... I like the peace and quiet and spending time in thought. I tend to seperate myself from society as much as I can... I feel pretty misunderstood and only really give my time to people who I can be my absolute self with and who accept, understand and like me for everything I am: good and bad. I couldn't give a shit about anyone else really. I'm really selfish about 'me'.
But on the other hand... Like sugared said, I also have phases where I'm a total hermit and nobody will see me or hear from me for like a month and then I'll be all over the place plastering the town with mischief and mayhem.
At the moment I'm in a complete state of inertia! I have no interest in doing anything or seeing anyone. Im chilling pretty hard at the moment. Not even sports! And usually im at the gym for like 2 hours a day and boxing and wakeboarding every other day. I've pretty much hermitted the whole of December. It feels weird. But.... New years is approaching and I like to get loose and unleash some chaos over new years, so I've come crawling out of my shell again looking for sillyness. Still can't be bothered dragging myself off to do my favourite sport though! I'm such a summer baby and this year I hardly even have a tan! It does concern me.

I am a very social Aries. I have an inner circle of close friends but, I also have a couple of trustworthy social roll dawgs. I hang out with friends like once or twice a month. Mostly, I talk with people on the phone or by instant message. I like meetup.com groups because you can socialize for a few hours and then go home. I hate cliques though. I find them boring and inane.

LOL@rocky,

I go out once, twice a month or hardly ever, cliques are like eh, don't mind get togethers, they are fun

Social if I want to be, mostly a homebody, so selfish with my time. My house, my shell.

Second house in cancer, fourth house in leo.

Thanks Boh! 🙂 How are you?? How was your Christmas? 🙂

I thought my hermitting was due to all the Pisces I have in the rest of my chart. Didn't know other Aries also did the same thing.

I'n not sure why for me as a kid I always was never really in the in crowd. And as a teenager always danced to the beat of my own drum...and as an adult..lol. Still doing the same..lol.
This is my chart don't know if its the virgo moon that keeps me anti social and working all the time, as I work from home too....I work non stop.lol.

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Aries 3.30
Moon Virgo 14.56
Mercury Pisces 6.54
Venus Taurus 5.22
Mars Scorpio 1.33 R
Jupiter Cancer 24.27
Saturn Aries 2.36
Uranus Virgo 21.54 R
Neptune Scorpio 24.09 R
Pluto Virgo 18.59 R
Lilith Aries 9.47
Asc node Taurus 7.28




Aspects
The following table shows the planetary aspects in your natal chart. Short interpretations are found below.



Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Saturn 0.54 99
Moon Opposition Mercury 8.03 -25
Moon Conjunction Uranus 6.57 146
Moon Conjunction Pluto 4.02 238
Mercury Sextile Venus 1.32 195
Mercury Trine Mars 5.21 49
Venus Opposition Mars 3.49 -337
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 2.33 75
Jupiter Trine Neptune 0.18 88
Uranus Sextile Neptune 2.15 44
Uranus Conjunction Pluto 2.55 113
1047 -362 685

Posted by lotuslily
I thought my hermitting was due to all the Pisces I have in the rest of my chart. Didn't know other Aries also did the same thing.

I have mercury in pisces and I like to be alone and just think. All the time..too much.lol.

Sometimes I don't think sign matters. Have you SEEN the people out there? It's enough to drive anyone into hermit status.

I am a loner. But, I am not a hermit. I'm extremely extroverted - love crowds, love strangers, make friends easily, etc. I'm just not much for intimate one-on-one stuff. Things get kinda creepy. I like to keep it moving, "Hi, I love you, bye."

Being married to a Leo/Virgo Cusp with a Cancer Moon, I stay at home alot more than I would like to. I want to dance; he buys "Dance Party 4 - the Hip Hop version." I want to sing, he asks me if I want a karaoke machine.

But I am a loner. I do alot of stuff, meet alot of people... by myself.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Sometimes I don't think sign matters. Have you SEEN the people out there? It's enough to drive anyone into hermit status.

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Posted by VenusAquarius
I am a loner. But, I am not a hermit. I'm extremely extroverted - love crowds, love strangers, make friends easily, etc. I'm just not much for intimate one-on-one stuff. Things get kinda creepy. I like to keep it moving, "Hi, I love you, bye."

Being married to a Leo/Virgo Cusp with a Cancer Moon, I stay at home alot more than I would like to. I want to dance; he buys "Dance Party 4 - the Hip Hop version." I want to sing, he asks me if I want a karaoke machine.

But I am a loner. I do alot of stuff, meet alot of people... by myself.

Are you an Aries? I have read a few of your posts, and between your name and the other things you've said about your chart placements, you don't seem to have any Aries in you. What's your deal? And I mean that in the politest most non offensive way possible. Satisfy my curiosity please.

How exciting ! Not including the actual moving but starting somewhere new 🙂 I had a great Christmas, thank you for asking. I think this year feels for the rams, it is near too.

Btw, anyone who happens to be a Water Snake or any Snake, this is the year for u guys

Meaning Water Snake gets twice as much.

Really ? Maybe, who knows. Letting it be known, either way.

LotusLily,

Yes, I am an Aries Sun...the Aries Decan of Aries.

Even tho I have friends I am a loner and barely share my problems with people. In the past two years I have started to open up more about my problems or things that really bother me, bacause I actually neeeded more support than ever in my life in the past few years. It was cool at first but now I just see it as people having things they csn use against you or use to boost their ego. I cut off 2 girls I have been really close to for years this year and for some reason I feel like doing so with the friends I still have and I have known them longer. I had a a very petty argument with one of them last night and I felt like the stance she took was unreasonable and anytime I have bought something up to this girl or had an issue with her which has been far and few in the 26 years I have known her but still the two times we did argue she has been unable to admit her faults and simpy shuts down and say she doesnt want to talk about. I cant get with that. Then its the arrongance that comes along with it. And my other two girls too have been getting to me too. For some reason I have been feeling under attack by them. Like their always watching me and waiting to comment on how I do things. Its annoying. When i am alone I dont have to deal with that shit. I dont have answer, prove, argue about anything when I am alone, or pretend to be happy when I am not I can simply be. I just dont feel I can connect deeply with anyone but mainly my friends as of late. And I feel like I have been depending on them too much as well, as my source of entertainment and fun, i feel too attached. I really dont like being too attached to anything. I also just adopted my moms dog on a trial period and I feel anxiety over that. I am hoping I can get used to having her, because I adore her especially when she was my moms dog but now shes mine and im feeling closed in a bit. I really hope its a phase.

i think it boils down to my confidence too. I have always been a social butterfly but on a surface level and only having a few close gf those are girls Im speaking of above. But when my confidence went down I stopped socializing as much and started seeking advice and counsel from others. There was time when I relied more on myself and didnt seek out advice too much from people and I actually Like that better.

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by VenusAquarius
I am a loner. But, I am not a hermit. I'm extremely extroverted - love crowds, love strangers, make friends easily, etc. I'm just not much for intimate one-on-one stuff. Things get kinda creepy. I like to keep it moving, "Hi, I love you, bye."

Being married to a Leo/Virgo Cusp with a Cancer Moon, I stay at home alot more than I would like to. I want to dance; he buys "Dance Party 4 - the Hip Hop version." I want to sing, he asks me if I want a karaoke machine.

But I am a loner. I do alot of stuff, meet alot of people... by myself.

Are you an Aries? I have read a few of your posts, and between your name and the other things you've said about your chart placements, you don't seem to have any Aries in you. What's your deal? And I mean that in the politest most non offensive way possible. Satisfy my curiosity please.

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Hi Threre )

well I was going to explain myself, however, can you please elaborate what you mean about me not seeming like an aries by my post. Be glad to explain..I do have to say I am a pisces aries cusp, mercury in pisces, virgo moon...these play a big part..very very watered down, and emotions are strong.....but please elaborate because I am curious. thanks...

I love parties...as far away as possible and without reality of knowing the people there in earnest. I'm a loner but sociable I suppose. I thought it was because I was the youngest and never allowed to be with the older kids.

I also feel awkward and weird with people who are not as upfront as me. I noticed how easily I can offend people and just stopped all effort of making close connections with more than the circle I have had forever. Old friends are gold, no? I still love and value new connections, just at a vicarious position 🙂