Aries and ignoring?

Basically I'l make it as short as I can - I'm a taurus been seeing a girl for 5 months or so recently (we are long distance and only met a few times) anyway she sent me a message wednesday explaining how special I am to her and that I am her favourite person along with 'liking me is a gross understatment' and then 4 days no contact. have I done something wrong? I know she has been online since then but point blank doesn't reply, what is going on? Its making me so upset and worried. Ive already sent her a couple of messages asking if everything is okay etc but yeah no reply :S

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Basically I'l make it as short as I can - I'm a taurus been seeing a girl for 5 months or so recently (we are long distance and only met a few times) anyway she sent me a message wednesday explaining how special I am to her and that I am her favourite person along with 'liking me is a gross understatment' and then 4 days no contact. have I done something wrong? I know she has been online since then but point blank doesn't reply, what is going on? Its making me so upset and worried. Ive already sent her a couple of messages asking if everything is okay etc but yeah no reply :S

That is really odd. Some possible Explanations though. I have very many Aries in my circle, including myself.

-She is making an uneccassry powerplay. Someimtes as an Aries we do things to make you "feel" just in order to feel more needed and often times this is by intentionally hurting people for a reaction.
-You didn't give a good enough response after she poured her heart to you. This generally makes an Aries go into defensive mode which is sometimes anger mode. We try to regain control by ignoring you for some time or doing something to make you feel how we felt when you dinged our ego.
-She is very busy with something else. Though Aries will generally keep contact with someone they like no matter what, there are rare cases that they become so overwhelmed/stressed that they could possibly lose contact
-Finally, now take this with a grain of salt BUT, us Aries are veeeery fickle. We can literally lose all interest over night. This will generally happen if something better comes along and you aren't doing your part. We are very much hedonistic and if we feel someone is holding back from us, we will quickly move on.

Keep in mind these are JUST possibilities following Aries in general, but with the information you have given, it just seems odd that she'd just go off of the grid. I've never really known Aries to do that unless they are completely and utterly done with someone which takes time to be completely done with someone though we would need a reason.

That's what I though aressupreme, It's not just me who finds it odd. she has no replied in the past before but not as long as 4 days usually/ max It would be 2 days then she apologizes with an excuses like "busy at work" or "laptop issues".

To me I dunno sounds I guess from my point of few the first one, she did admit she was quite a selfish person maybe she is demanding attention by ignoring me? I don't even know. The way she usually talks to me though doesn't indicate lack of interest or so I don't think so, when we do talk she speaks about excited she is to meet me at the train station in a few weeks and showing me round her uni etc It's just so frustrating.

Send her a message about it. We are not mind readers. Don't automatically jump to the fact that she's ignoring you. Something could be wrong. How do you know she's online? She might not get the messages right away and when she does she feels like its too late to respond. I get like that too and I have friends who do that. Maybe you have nothing interesting to say. Some people don't like superficial convos all the time. Don't send the typical "hi, how are you?" message. She says she cares, take we word for it. The thing about aries people is that we don't have to speak to our parter, friends or family all the time.

She freaked herself out by admitting she has a thing for you. Use a tad of your tarsus charm and patience and she will come around.

Oh, yeah, you need to express your interest in a very clear way. And yes, the Aries female does seem to appreciate being chased. All part of the fun, I am told.

What was your response to her divulging her feelings to you?

also i can literally go days without speaking to people and none of em think Im ignoring them...and if you havent reached out to her how do you know she is ignoring you?

I haven't checked this in a while 😱 sorry guys, umm UPDATE: she still hasn't replied and it's been 11 days now - and she has been online but she hasn't read any of my messages. so I dunno what is going on really :/
I did return her of how I felt - it went on the lines of how much I cared etc and I will be there for you to support you etc (dont want to bore you with the details)but still no reply, she has though been stalking my blog none stop for days (I have a tracker to see who stalks me) so yeah...but she still hasn't replied. she is starting uni (her freshers week) tomorrow, I don't even know if she is gonna ever reply tbh.

sorry! umm she eventually replied Friday night and explained she has been terrified of uni etc and explained how awfully sorry she was etc and told me everything and her feelings towards me which was nice 😛
she moved into uni today, since it's her freshers week I don't expect much talk this week haha but yeah glad she did reply 🙂

If you didn't give her the answer or reaction she wanted she may have backed off.. We don't like to feel stupid. Shower her with attention, she'd either be flattered if she isn't something is up. Never ignore an aries back. Only time I back off is when I'm dealing with negative emotions. I'm a more mature aries tho, if I'm not linking logic and emotion I may disappear when upset so I don't lash out. I would still respond tho, I'd just be short or distant. Or I explain that I'm having a 'rough time & just need some alone time'