Aries (f) dealing with a very manipulative Gem (m)

This topic was created in the Aries forum by depressedarian on Saturday, April 18, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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@depressedarian
11 Years

I keep leaving him, he comes running back and I let him back in (like an idiot). He's just so fun to be with and the sexual chemistry is so HIGH! How do I get him to stop coming back? He's just a big distraction. Besides, I don't have the energy to keep up with him.

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@depressedarian
11 Years

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by depressedarian
I keep leaving him, he comes running back and I let him back in (like an idiot). He's just so fun to be with and the sexual chemistry is so HIGH! How do I get him to stop coming back? He's just a big distraction. Besides, I don't have the energy to keep up with him.

Ignore him. Stop answering his calls, texts. He will probably try to maintain contact SPORADICALLY, but will get the message eventually and leave you alone.

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That's going to be hard for me but I'll do it. Thanks

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Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by depressedarian
I keep leaving him, he comes running back and I let him back in (like an idiot). He's just so fun to be with and the sexual chemistry is so HIGH! How do I get him to stop coming back? He's just a big distraction. Besides, I don't have the energy to keep up with him.

Ignore him. Stop answering his calls, texts. He will probably try to maintain contact SPORADICALLY, but will get the message eventually and leave you alone.

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+1. I appreciate gemini intellect and they can be good friends, but I cannot stand that hot and cold behaviour. They have this way of wigging out on you when they feel insecure, at the wrong time. I love my mother, but fck that flip flop stuff annoys me. Also, I notice they are never good with time. No gemini I've met, has ever been good with time. Ignore him, you deserve to be respected.

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@depressedarian
11 Years

Posted by biosynthesis

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by depressedarian
I keep leaving him, he comes running back and I let him back in (like an idiot). He's just so fun to be with and the sexual chemistry is so HIGH! How do I get him to stop coming back? He's just a big distraction. Besides, I don't have the energy to keep up with him.

Ignore him. Stop answering his calls, texts. He will probably try to maintain contact SPORADICALLY, but will get the message eventually and leave you alone.

+1. I appreciate gemini intellect and they can be good friends, but I cannot stand that hot and cold behaviour. They have this way of wigging out on you when they feel insecure, at the wrong time. I love my mother, but fck that flip flop stuff annoys me. Also, I notice they are never good with time. No gemini I've met, has ever been good with time. Ignore him, you deserve to be respected.

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Oh, tell me about it! lol. He showed me his cold side finally a few days ago and we've been on and off for a year! He bruise my ego with his words because he didn't like how I performed lol. He just won't accept that things aren't the same and that I'm burned out @ the moment. But noooo, he keeps coming back just to be disappointed over and over again. And the lying! Don't get me started on the lying.