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Aries friendships, relationships with others
Lol. My family only tolerates me because we are family. I am certainly not for the faint hearted. I have never felt jealous vibes from anyone. Also, I have never been jealous of anyone that I have known in real life for a long period of time.
I feel u me to arian I try and steer clear of negative people family included my light I let it shine bright u gottah realizenot everyone's gonna. Like u no matter what sign u are its best to focus on ur positive attributes and work on anyy negative ones u don't like about urself if its causing u or others harm/problems. Ingeneral us arians are passionate sweet fun and have strong personalities that some folk can't handle we don't mean any harm were just doin us. I have co workers who don't like meand family cuz I'm a straighforward no b.s. type of gal and I call it like I see it so it may rub people the wrong way that's there problem not mine stay tru to who. You are remember we all have haters they have a job to do so let them do it.
I'm not to bothered about it just found it interesting and curious to know if other Aries notice it in their lives.
I find the people that have the most issues with me are unattractive, slightly creepy or pervy, don't have very exciting lives, and possibly have psychological/emotional problems themselves. I just thought is there something about me that pisses them off or do i just attract or repel weirdos?
I find the people that have the most issues with me are unattractive, slightly creepy or pervy, don't have very exciting lives, and possibly have psychological/emotional problems themselves. I just thought is there something about me that pisses them off or do i just attract or repel weirdos?
I have managed to piss off and/or alienate people within seconds of meeting them my entire life. I have never really managed to pin down why that would be. I have come to the conclusion that there are probably many causes of this issue.
I have concluded that the most basic way of seeing it though seems to me is that I "don't play by the rules." I would also have to say that this problem is most pronounced when I run into people who have a sense of a great deal of personal importance. A fine example is that I bumped into a person who was a "Judge." OK, fine, but wherever he was from was something like 2000 miles from where I had met him. "Gee, that's nice that you are a judge, but you have no influence or power here" was my attitude. He didn't like that one bit. On the other hand, what could he do? Not a doggone thing other than to act like a jerk to me.
I have concluded that the most basic way of seeing it though seems to me is that I "don't play by the rules." I would also have to say that this problem is most pronounced when I run into people who have a sense of a great deal of personal importance. A fine example is that I bumped into a person who was a "Judge." OK, fine, but wherever he was from was something like 2000 miles from where I had met him. "Gee, that's nice that you are a judge, but you have no influence or power here" was my attitude. He didn't like that one bit. On the other hand, what could he do? Not a doggone thing other than to act like a jerk to me.
Posted by dofacc
I have concluded that the most basic way of seeing it though seems to me is that I "don't play by the rules."
Yeah I really agree that this is one reason. Especially with figures of authority. Also I find people hate me for being nice and positive. It's like misery loooves company. No matter how much more these people have than me they still are hating. Sometimes I feel like I should be nicer and more understanding with people but then that would leave the door open for me to be treated badly so i dont bother
Being nice to people doesn't have to "leave the door open for [you] to be treated badly." I was talking to a friend last week on this very subject... and I taught my children this as well. It's basically that...
...The GOOD is just as POWERFUL and STRONG as what is attributed to the EVIL. Watching TV will make you think that EVIL (or bad deeds) is so awesome and strong and interesting... just plain old seductive.
GOOD is too... superheroes. GOOD is even more powerful, strong, kick-ass and seductive.
Just think, to have the confidence, strength, and power to give foes "opportunities," and/or "chances" yet still defeat them. That strength, power, and confidence is called "righteousness."
It's a fine balance... probably, feels spiritually, something like doing yoga with weights and meditating at the same time.
...The GOOD is just as POWERFUL and STRONG as what is attributed to the EVIL. Watching TV will make you think that EVIL (or bad deeds) is so awesome and strong and interesting... just plain old seductive.
GOOD is too... superheroes. GOOD is even more powerful, strong, kick-ass and seductive.
Just think, to have the confidence, strength, and power to give foes "opportunities," and/or "chances" yet still defeat them. That strength, power, and confidence is called "righteousness."
It's a fine balance... probably, feels spiritually, something like doing yoga with weights and meditating at the same time.
I tell you .. I smell these people from a mile away , In most cases I can just look at them and see that we could never get along, but I wont be rude to them or ignore them , I just wont let them get near to me (Im the very shy type of aries) haha I think all family members just put up with us and never truly like us, they get the very raw side of aries. I dont think people can hate aries though its all just envy, aries just has a profound sense of self and not everybody has that.
Posted by Iz1me
I tell you .. I smell these people from a mile away , In most cases I can just look at them and see that we could never get along, but I wont be rude to them or ignore them , I just wont let them get near to me (Im the very shy type of aries) haha I think all family members just put up with us and never truly like us, they get the very raw side of aries. I dont think people can hate aries though its all just envy, aries just has a profound sense of self and not everybody has that.
Posted by Iz1me
I tell you .. I smell these people from a mile away , In most cases I can just look at them and see that we could never get along, but I wont be rude to them or ignore them , I just wont let them get near to me (Im the very shy type of aries) haha I think all family members just put up with us and never truly like us, they get the very raw side of aries. I dont think people can hate aries though its all just envy, aries just has a profound sense of self and not everybody has that.
I heartily agree!!
Posted by VenusAquarius
Being nice to people doesn't have to "leave the door open for [you] to be treated badly." I was talking to a friend last week on this very subject... and I taught my children this as well. It's basically that...
...The GOOD is just as POWERFUL and STRONG as what is attributed to the EVIL. Watching TV will make you think that EVIL (or bad deeds) is so awesome and strong and interesting... just plain old seductive.
GOOD is too... superheroes. GOOD is even more powerful, strong, kick-ass and seductive.
Just think, to have the confidence, strength, and power to give foes "opportunities," and/or "chances" yet still defeat them. That strength, power, and confidence is called "righteousness."
It's a fine balance... probably, feels spiritually, something like doing yoga with weights and meditating at the same time.
That's a cool way of looking at it!
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