My aries still with me or its really over? Help!

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Asiana on Sunday, February 2, 2014 and has 11 replies.

Signs Your Aries Still Has Feelings For You

An Aries may still hold feelings if they show signs of wanting to reconnect or communicate openly despite conflicts. They often value honesty and directness. However, their commitment level varies. Trust your intuition and observe their actions to determine if there's a genuine chance for reconciliation or if it's time to move on.

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@Asiana
12 Years

Im dating this aries for 6mos. Its an "affair". We had a little misunderstanding because of our communication. His always and my schedule are always flexible for him. I love everything about him, but he cant be dedicated his time much on me just like what i do fir him... One day i texted him that " how i wish i never met you"......he just replied " wow i could not even respond to that comment"..... I know im mean and sincerely apologizing him. We talkef and he just ssid apologized accepted but still hurtful.and he said everytjing is fine... I am so hurt myself. I just txted him that.... I have mo regrets being with u and thank u for evrything........ I dont think he will clne back but im still hoping .... Is there still a chance— Need advise please, anyone?

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@Asiana
12 Years

Yes im serious... Do u think he will still contact me? He didnt say its over, but he just said he needs to back off a little.... So i assume, its over.. Im hurt.

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@AriesIntrovert16
13 Years1,000+ Posts

If you want someone who can dedicate most of their time to you I would suggest getting a dog or at least not dating a married man. He is already in a realtionship, girl. You should move on.. focus on your marriage or get divorced if it is not working. Your dating life just might be a little easier. What is your sign?

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@aries415
14 Years

Asiana, your Aries is most likely having second thoughts because feelings are involved either solely on your end or both ends. It's best that you end this affair and either work on your marriage or end it so that you can be free and clear to receive the love that you desire.

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@pinklibra
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I think he needs to run.lol. You are both married, and honestly he was cool with just going with the flow, and now you've shown him that you actually have feelings. Red flag to a married man, it means you are no longer capable of being the woman on the side because you are slowly trying to be his —woman?? and he already has one. Leave it alone. And the other??s are right karma is a huge thorn and you don't want it, walk away. You're a leo so your ego is probably hurt that he's not falling all over you, get it over it. Not every man is at your disposal, especially not the married ones. Walk away.

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@LIb4Life
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Asiana
Im dating this aries for 6mos. Its an "affair". We had a little misunderstanding because of our communication. His always and my schedule are always flexible for him. I love everything about him, but he cant be dedicated his time much on me just like what i do fir him... One day i texted him that " how i wish i never met you"......he just replied " wow i could not even respond to that comment"..... I know im mean and sincerely apologizing him. We talkef and he just ssid apologized accepted but still hurtful.and he said everytjing is fine... I am so hurt myself. I just txted him that.... I have mo regrets being with u and thank u for evrything........ I dont think he will clne back but im still hoping .... Is there still a chance— Need advise please, anyone?

Asiana, your relationship is not working out because it's not SUPPOSED TOO! You're both married and it's supposed to be hard to connect with someone that's not your spouse. Take this as constructive criticism, this is just wrong on all levels. Everyone that has commented on your post is giving you positive advice, so listen to your intuition..not your heart and move forward. Either work on your marriage or leave it in the wind, but the lest you can do is extend common courtesy and respect to your husband if nothing else.