Worst Aries Personality Traits

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@lcrc
12 Years
This is mainly aimed at fellow Rams, what are some of your worst Arian character traits and how would you like to change?

A few of mine are tactlessness, and jealousy in romantic relationships.

Other signs input more than welcome but please be nice 😄
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@lcrc
12 Years
Funny that...I know a lot of Aries men that really enjoy saying or doing things to aggravate people. I wonder why?
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@Aries04
14 YearsAries
Temper, impatience, over-reacting (and then coming back as if nothing happened and expecting for people to forgive and understand asap), jealousy (and putting other women down because of it)..
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@CreoleGeisha
12 Years500+ Posts
I have several Aries friends and one serious former love interest. I'd say they all had poor anger management skills.

No offense to anyone, Aries have many fine qualities and can be great fun.
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@lcrc
12 Years
Posted by size zero superhero
Not an Aries but I'll bite anyway.

-Short-sighted. Acts/speaks without much consideration for what the aftermath might look like

-Dramatic; which isn't really an Aries trademark, so much as a classic fire sign quality

-Vengeful. Hell hath no fury like an Aries scorned.

When it comes to Aries, the term "selfish" gets thrown around quite a bit, however I strongly disagree with that fairly-common appraisal. As far as I can tell, Aries wouldn't even rank within the TOP FIVE most self-obsessed sun signs.

And before anyone tries to come in & get all bent out of shape over generalizations--OBVIOUSLY there are exceptions to the various observations directed at Aries, as well ANY sun sign, and nobody's sign has solely positive reviews across-the-board.



^drama! Lol! Yeah forgot that one!

No aries should get upset it's about self growth! Thank you! 😉
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@lcrc
12 Years
Posted by AriesGirl74
Temper. And jealousy, because I don't compete; it should be all about me - you get me? ME!!! 😄


You mean it's about me? Me me me! lol! I don't think aries can help it though, I find when I'm writing a email or describing a experience in words I have to try and not sound so self involved and use other words other than "I". Other wise it's i want this, I did this, I think, I me myself me me ect.! Hahahaha

It's true about a scorned Aries (or hurt). Never hurt a aries...the men will just shout and-or punch you in the face! A Aries lady will just ice you out and a wave of cold passive aggressive seething will consume you! Hahahaha 🙂 but we are very very forgiving I think
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@BlueAries23
12 Years
The thing I hate the most is how everything is black and white with me. If you're not my friend, you're my enemy. If I want a particular food and it's unavailable, I don't want anything. All or nothing, all the time!
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@CelestialAries
12 Years
My temper. When I get angry my mind turns on fire in a split second and there is no way to control it or stop myself before it's too late

The tactlessness. I know in relationships that if I kept more things to myself then I would be more intriguing to others. But ohwell.

Jealously is the worst one. Goes hand in hand with anger. I have yelled at ex partners for even walking near other women.

Anyway I also do the whole pissing people off for fun thing. I am also extremely rude for fun to push people and see what they will put up with. It's actually great because when people get used to it and know how to play along it can be very funny and people seem to like it. Some don't get it though so it can be bad.
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@chamaolegirl
12 Years
Impulsiveness. and Impatience. I waited a while for Libra guy to come around and when he did he got spooked again and wanted to retreat. He was kind enough to tell me he needed to get his "stuff" together and that he would let me know when hes back. Of course being an Aries I couldn't let well enough alone.....i pushed and pushed. I reacted to his choice and ruined things. Sitting here now shaking my heading wishing I just had let him get some "air" 😢
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@chamaolegirl
12 Years
Good or bad another one of our traits is getting what we want! So my only solace right now is that I will give him space and time but one DAY he will be mine!!! MUAH MUAH MUAH!!!! 😉
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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts
I'm going to get a pedicure and a manicure today. It's been years... I do it myself because I don't want to get angry. If someone fucks my shit up, I'm going to beat that bitch on the top of the head and then drown 'em in the foot bath.

*Deep sigh*

Now, I'll be able to control myself.
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@lcrc
12 Years
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm going to get a pedicure and a manicure today. It's been years... I do it myself because I don't want to get angry. If someone fucks my shit up, I'm going to beat that bitch on the top of the head and then drown 'em in the foot bath.

*Deep sigh*

Now, I'll be able to control myself.



That made my lol! Breathe gurl breathe 😉 I hope it looks nice.

What did you get French mani or just a color? I'm getting mine on Saturday! Can't wait!
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@bkbella86
14 Years5,000+ PostsAries
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm going to get a pedicure and a manicure today. It's been years... I do it myself because I don't want to get angry. If someone fucks my shit up, I'm going to beat that bitch on the top of the head and then drown 'em in the foot bath.

*Deep sigh*

Now, I'll be able to control myself.



lmfao

VA i cannot tell you how many funny stories I have from getting angry at customer service for not getting my shit right. Nail salons are the worst tho and whew i was a beast in my hay day.

I came all the way from upper manhattan to brooklyn to get my eye lashes done only to have to wait for an hour and half and then when the lady got to me, she upped the price 15 dollars from the advertised price citing it a service charge, we exchanged words on that for about 10min and then she said "you go home i no do yo eyes". I was like wah!!! she said "you talk too much" I was like wah!!!!! there was two other workers in there and I tried getting some clarification on the extra 15 dollars from them and they both ignored me acting like they couldnt speak english. so I unleashed the beast and trashed that bitch in true Aries spirit. Nail polish all over the floor anything I could get my hands on, on the floor. a lil spring cleaning lmao.

Of course all of a sudden the non english speakers were speaking perfect english, they tried surrounding me as i yelled "back the FUCK up"!!!!!!!!!I got out of there so fast before they could even dial 911.
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@AriesGirl74
12 Years500+ Posts
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm going to get a pedicure and a manicure today. It's been years... I do it myself because I don't want to get angry. If someone fucks my shit up, I'm going to beat that bitch on the top of the head and then drown 'em in the foot bath.

*Deep sigh*

Now, I'll be able to control myself.



lmfao

VA i cannot tell you how many funny stories I have from getting angry at customer service for not getting my shit right. Nail salons are the worst tho and whew i was a beast in my hay day.

I came all the way from upper manhattan to brooklyn to get my eye lashes done only to have to wait for an hour and half and then when the lady got to me, she upped the price 15 dollars from the advertised price citing it a service charge, we exchanged words on that for about 10min and then she said "you go home i no do yo eyes". I was like wah!!! she said "you talk too much" I was like wah!!!!! there was two other workers in there and I tried getting some clarification on the extra 15 dollars from them and they both ignored me acting like they couldnt speak english. so I unleashed the beast and trashed that bitch in true Aries spirit. Nail polish all over the floor anything I could get my hands on, on the floor. a lil spring cleaning lmao.

Of course all of a sudden the non english speakers were speaking perfect english, they tried surrounding me as i yelled "back the FUCK up"!!!!!!!!!I got out of there so fast before they could even dial 911.
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Hahahaha LMFAO!!!!
😄
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@araeis2014
12 Years
OMG!! my need for control.. it is so hard to give the reins to someone else!! Just for once would i LOVE TO SIT BACK AND ENJOY, NOT LEAD.. ITS EXHAUSTING!!
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@muwik
13 YearsLibra
they are hard to reach !
to communicate with them ...

I met an aries girl in a dating site.
sent a message. and she replied 6 weeks after! LOL...

it's ALWAYS like this ...

I don't know if they play ''hard to get'' or they are really busy.
hard to reach them..
Always!

they are also slow with the technology
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@muwik
13 YearsLibra
some of them are really : loud, annoying, big ego.
always want to be #1.
no class, no good manners
and stupid

:/

the other aries are amazing. charming, they are bright. smart and like a light.
sociable. with good manners

really fun. and makes you feel comfortable

they are
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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm going to get a pedicure and a manicure today. It's been years... I do it myself because I don't want to get angry. If someone fucks my shit up, I'm going to beat that bitch on the top of the head and then drown 'em in the foot bath.

*Deep sigh*

Now, I'll be able to control myself.



lmfao

VA i cannot tell you how many funny stories I have from getting angry at customer service for not getting my shit right. Nail salons are the worst tho and whew i was a beast in my hay day.

I came all the way from upper manhattan to brooklyn to get my eye lashes done only to have to wait for an hour and half and then when the lady got to me, she upped the price 15 dollars from the advertised price citing it a service charge, we exchanged words on that for about 10min and then she said "you go home i no do yo eyes". I was like wah!!! she said "you talk too much" I was like wah!!!!! there was two other workers in there and I tried getting some clarification on the extra 15 dollars from them and they both ignored me acting like they couldnt speak english. so I unleashed the beast and trashed that bitch in true Aries spirit. Nail polish all over the floor anything I could get my hands on, on the floor. a lil spring cleaning lmao.

Of course all of a sudden the non english speakers were speaking perfect english, they tried surrounding me as i yelled "back the FUCK up"!!!!!!!!!I got out of there so fast before they could even dial 911.
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GIRRRRL! Just reading this raised temperature up. Been there.
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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts
Posted by lcrc
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm going to get a pedicure and a manicure today. It's been years... I do it myself because I don't want to get angry. If someone fucks my shit up, I'm going to beat that bitch on the top of the head and then drown 'em in the foot bath.

*Deep sigh*

Now, I'll be able to control myself.



That made my lol! Breathe gurl breathe 😉 I hope it looks nice.

What did you get French mani or just a color? I'm getting mine on Saturday! Can't wait!
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Got a French mani and pedi for a party I attended. The people were ubber, super nice - best customer service I've had in a while. I researched them first. They may have a regular. Even though there was a small bubble in one, I left a nice tip because of their sweetness.
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@bkbella86
14 Years5,000+ PostsAries
Posted by arietteheart2
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm going to get a pedicure and a manicure today. It's been years... I do it myself because I don't want to get angry. If someone fucks my shit up, I'm going to beat that bitch on the top of the head and then drown 'em in the foot bath.

*Deep sigh*

Now, I'll be able to control myself.



lmfao

VA i cannot tell you how many funny stories I have from getting angry at customer service for not getting my shit right. Nail salons are the worst tho and whew i was a beast in my hay day.

I came all the way from upper manhattan to brooklyn to get my eye lashes done only to have to wait for an hour and half and then when the lady got to me, she upped the price 15 dollars from the advertised price citing it a service charge, we exchanged words on that for about 10min and then she said "you go home i no do yo eyes". I was like wah!!! she said "you talk too much" I was like wah!!!!! there was two other workers in there and I tried getting some clarification on the extra 15 dollars from them and they both ignored me acting like they couldnt speak english. so I unleashed the beast and trashed that bitch in true Aries spirit. Nail polish all over the floor anything I could get my hands on, on the floor. a lil spring cleaning lmao.

Of course all of a sudden the non english speakers were speaking perfect english, they tried surrounding me as i yelled "back the FUCK up"!!!!!!!!!I got out of there so fast before they could even dial 911.



lmfao. that is seriously the worst though. When you're trying to get clarification or an explanation and no one wants to give you an answer or ignore you.
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ikr lmao!! was nothing left to do besides the Aries turnup!!
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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts
Posted by Denver34
Posted by lcrc
This is mainly aimed at fellow Rams, what are some of your worst Arian character traits and how would you like to change?




I'd say the sheer violence...I have only Suna nd Merc in Aries, and virtually no fire or air, so I'm not jealous, I lack some tact though...but I hate that I'm a brute...I get angry, often, and people are scared of me. It's the army influence, of course, I was a grunt, basic infantry grunt...and I'm just psycho...I wish I was more calm....I wish I was a Taurus, or Virgo...
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I WISH I WAS A SOLDIER SO BAD!!!

I'm impressed with you!
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@AriesIntrovert16
13 Years1,000+ Posts
Posted by SunMoonStars
Haha, let me clarify, I was referring to an Aries male.

Now why would you think Leo moons are selfish... 🙂



I'm just messing with you. 😛

I've seen people around here complaining about how leo moons are arrogant and all about themselves I don't believe it. One of the sweetest girls I know is a virgo with a leo moon.. she would do anything for anyone.. she's awesome. I bet you're awesome as well. 🙂
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@biosynthesis
11 Years1,000+ PostsAries
Posted by starlover
A rrogant

R ude

I mmature

E gotistical

S elfish


(well the males anyway)


🙂

I need to come up with an acronym describing how retarded stalking ass scorp women can be...especially ones that constantly come on the aries threads because she had a bad experience with a ram 🙂
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@CoolAries
11 Years
Posted by BlueAries23
The thing I hate the most is how everything is black and white with me. If you're not my friend, you're my enemy. If I want a particular food and it's unavailable, I don't want anything. All or nothing, all the time!



This.
I said those words today on the phone! I don't do grey. With me it is black or white.

Impatient
Competitive
Dramatic
Blunt
Obsessive

...I better stop here.
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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
15 Years1,000+ Posts
Posted by BlueAries23
The thing I hate the most is how everything is black and white with me. If you're not my friend, you're my enemy.



I love this about me. The black or whiteness.
I don't arse anyone about. No one is left wondering.
Love me, hate me, whatever, just keep it real.

My least favourite characteristic would be the gullibleness.
Working hard to erradicate that from my portfolio🙂

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@JoMarch85
12 Years
Eeep. Totally agree with the other posters. I'm sometimes embarrassed by how quickly (and how far) my temper can escalate. Of course, once the emotion is out, I'll feel better and move on, but I leave my loved ones wondering what the heck just happened. ha.

And, I also need to work on the obsessiveness. :x I can get obsessed with people, places, things. Food. lol. Not good.
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@ariesvirgo123
11 Years
I can't keep how I feel inside in romantic relationships. I feel like I'm going to blow up if I don't tell you, especially when upset.

I also need a lot of alone time, I wish I was more social. I tend to isolate myself on occasion.

Obviously patience, which is actually getting a lot better (a virgo initially taught me followed by working with special needs kids)

Temper, when I'm mad it all comes out without a filter.. I'm slowly learning to keep my mouth shut, everything does not need to be fought.

Sometimes a lack of follow through on projects.

Sometimes an inability to see long term consequences of short term changes.



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@Flavia
17 Years500+ Posts
Being deeply connected then finding a mismatch and being just as disconnected

Forward and honest about things when people want to hide

Sociable but a loner, I usually do not want crowds of people close so when I make a friend and they love crowds I usually do not go out much with them

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@CherryForever
11 Years
Posted by CreoleGeisha
I have several Aries friends and one serious former love interest. I'd say they all had poor anger management skills.

YES that's me!!! I like to leave things up to the last minute all the time. Also loose interest too quickly on things once they get started. Can be too idealistic as well, and just like to start tings off for the thrill (business ideas, classes) and don't finish them. Am also a bit messy...takes me ages to tidy up and if I do I feel something's missing, or just don't feel as creative...
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@CherryForever
11 Years
Posted by CreoleGeisha
I have several Aries friends and one serious former love interest. I'd say they all had poor anger management skills.

YES that's me!!! I like to leave things up to the last minute all the time. Also loose interest too quickly on things once they get started. Can be too idealistic as well, and just like to start tings off for the thrill (business ideas, classes) and don't finish them. Am also a bit messy...takes me ages to tidy up and if I do I feel something's missing, or just don't feel as creative...
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@anna1
11 Years500+ PostsAries
Posted by lcrc
This is mainly aimed at fellow Rams, what are some of your worst Arian character traits and how would you like to change?

A few of mine are tactlessness, and jealousy in romantic relationships.

Other signs input more than welcome but please be nice 😄


My temper for sure
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