Aries Gay Man and Aquarius Gay Man

December 2018 an Aries Submissive 31 y/o messaged me through a hook up site. After a few weeks of chatting I had opportunity to meet him. He was in town temporary. We hit it off instantly and had a night of amazing sex. I went home and forgot all about him. He text me 3 weeks later and we started to talk dirty and get to know each other. He said to me that that was the best sexual experience he has ever had. He was attending medical school in another town. We would text a lot he would text me good morning he would send me pics of him self at work in his scrubs. We made a date to hook up again in February, I was living with my parents so I'd arrange a hotel room for 3 days he would drive up after working and spend time with me, he used to tell his co-workers he was excited to see me. So this continued for several months. He then asked me to be his Sir, we had a discussion about what that meant to us. We agreed and made rules. Then in March he had to go on 3 😈 week rotations in different places, Colorado, Argentina and Seattle. We had one last encounter 2 days before he left. When he was gone he would send me text and videos and pics. Mid May he was arriving in Seattle, I happened to be in Seattle the week he arrived. I was so excited to see him and he texted me when he landed. I asked if he wanted to come to me or should I go to him. He then said I only have today off and I need to get settled. I accepted that and left Seattle a few days later as scheduled. We stay in communication while he is in Seattle. finally he graduates and come back home, by this time the communication becomes less. Mind you I haven't seen him face to face since March. I would text him and ask how things were knowing he was busy with graduation and moving. I then asked him what we were doing for gay pride he said he had plans with friends from Sesttle and he couldnt make the trip home and back then go to work so he would spend pride in Sesttle. I then find out he is in town. I called him out on it and he said it was a spontaneous thing and he reqrets doing it. He didn't even text me to let me know he was in town. Weeks later I text him and find out he is in town and has an apartment and applied for a job at a local hospital. I told him I was excited he was in town. By this time I moved into my own apartment. Then asked to get together it's now July. He never text me I would reach out to him every few weeks and try to arrange a time to meet, he would give me excuses why he couldn't however, I see him spending time with friends once he was accross the street from my apartment building but didn't let me know. I just happened to find out. I call him out on his behavior and told him I'm starting to get annoyed with him. I reminded him I was his Sir and deserve some respect. His answer was Sorry Sir I'll try to communicate more. 2 weeks ago after being ignored for months I told him via text I was going to end our relationship because I felt he wasn't interested anymore. He didn't respond. Several days later I texted him and explained I regret ending it. I explained I understood he needs his space and when he's ready hit me up. Yesterday I sent him another text telling him he was in control I over reacted and I was sorry for how I treated him and invited him over just to talk and see each other. He read the text and ignored me. Today I told him I won't text him anymore I told him, I get it he lost interest and that it took a minute but I got the hint. I told him to take care and be safe.

Did I fuck this up? I know aries go cold and ignore you either as a test or because that's how they send the message. Our dynamic totally changed. It kills me he is just up the road and we have mutual friends. Do you think I'm dead to him? I did tell him through the series of breaking up and regret text that I liked him and thought we had a special connection. I know the best thing to do is ignore him and go on with my life. It curious though he hasn't blocked me from social media or hook up apps and actually he check one of my online profiles today. Advise please!

"2 weeks ago after being ignored for months I told him via text I was going to end our relationship because I felt he wasn't interested anymore. He didn't respond. Several days later I texted him and explained I regret ending it. I explained I understood he needs his space and when he's ready hit me up. Yesterday I sent him another text telling him he was in control I over reacted and I was sorry for how I treated him and invited him over just to talk and see each other. He read the text and ignored me. Today I told him I won't text him anymore I told him, I get it he lost interest and that it took a minute but I got the hint. I told him to take care and be safe."

After all this, I think it's best to move on. He's been ignoring you, there's no reason for it and you didn't do anything wrong. He's just lost interest for some reason. Cut your losses and all contact and go after someone else.

He will most likely come back when he's bored of whoever he is dating right now. Men don't ignore a person they are interested in, he's giving his attention and dick to someone else.

He lost interest. Don’t go after him. Just do your thing and move on

He has other options. So should you.

Re-download grinder and put the feelers out.

Mate, sorry to hear this and I’m sure the pain hurts like a knife. But it’s nothing you’ve done. You just need to go into breakup recovery mode now. There’s nothing you could have done or said to make it better, he just wasn’t interested in you, maybe you liked him a lot at one point and he liked you too, but now things have changed. It’s ok to spend a bit of time thinking about what you could have done better, but then you have to accept the fact he isn’t coming back, and you need to give up all hope on this particular relationship. You don’t have to waste time on him anymore, think about how bad it would have been like to waste anymore time on him. And trust me, it wasn’t your loss, it was his, you were the diamond. Not him. Just move on, you won’t find another person like him, but the chances are you will find someone much much better. Life is shit sometimes, but the quicker you move on, the better it is.

Why would anybody suspect that when another one ignoring you, partying close to you without you WANT you? I suspect first that they don’t...

What’s a Sir?

Seems like an aqua. Hot in the beginning. Cold in the end if they aren’t interested in you.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

In 90% of times, having sex on a first date is ending with being ignored. If you want just sex - don't let emotions take control. And if you want love - don't sleep with someone on a first day. Men are still men. Doesn't matter the sing or if he is interested in serious relationship. If you put yourself on a plate they will lost interest. Especially Aries.

The first time I did it, it lasted almost five years

Trust me 😆

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by pinkbird03

What’s a Sir?

Seems like an aqua. Hot in the beginning. Cold in the end if they aren’t interested in you.

The aries is ignoring the Aquarius. I think he made a mistake sleeping with him on a first date.

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Oh oops. Shouldn’t read things the second I wake up. I’ve never dated an Aries, but I’ve talked to a bunch from bumble and they’ve always seemed after only sex (which is why I never met them)