Aries guy.

So I have an Aries guy friend. We used to talk casually sometimes... at one point he was interested in a friend of mine. I asked him about her recently and he said she was rude (which she was to me as well).

I am not interested in him at all. I don't mind talking to him sometimes. And we were not talking as much. It even so happened we had a minor argument about something I said and we had stopped talking for a while.

Recently he called me up and we've started talking again. He told me about a girl and I was trying to help him out with her. I told him you should 'text' her and just be more friendly.

And suddenly he has started to text me a lot. For the past few days we've been talking everyday. He even tells me to call him. And if I don't he asks why I didn't.

I really am not interested in him. I'm okay with being friends. He's been through some things so I always try to be positive with him.

I don't know if I should continue talking to him. It feels a lot like a boyfriend calling me or texting me.. which makes me feel weird. Maybe I am assuming that he likes me.

What is your zodiac sign? not sure about this. but I'll tell something out of experience.

Aries people are really flirty and may subtly (note: subtely) flirt to many girls at the same time. but these people are ambitious and if they do pursue a certain someone constantly (in my experience, from the aries people i knew) they are serious about it. try to talk to him about this issue. who knows. I do think he's most probably interested in you. you should talk to him, either he's interested or just really sees you as a super mega bestfriend xD

Any Aries around?

Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal ! 😆

As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe

But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P

So, which one is it ?! 😆

Posted by IamTheRam
Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.

I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.

I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.

But no I don't like him.

Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems.

He likes you. He probably fears rejection so he puts you in bf/gf situation. That's what I do if like someone whose out of my league.

The best is to tell him off. Be honest with him. Aries people like honest and up frank people. I would advice you to distance yourself from him before it gets worse.

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Posted by IamTheRam
Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

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I see 🙂

You know, helping others is a good thing, it's actualy a great thing.

But what about you ?..What are you trying to hide ?.. 🙂

You woldn't create this thread if there wasn't something wrong with you also... ^^

So before helping him, and since he is not here anyway...what is it that is bothering you ? 🙂

Posted by PoseidonGodofWar
He likes you. He probably fears rejection so he puts you in bf/gf situation. That's what I do if like someone whose out of my league.



The best is to tell him off. Be honest with him. Aries people like honest and up frank people. I would advice you to distance yourself from him before it gets worse.

Well Iamram said he doesn't like me and you say he does. He just texted me... and I felt so conflicted. I will keep my distance.

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Posted by IamTheRam
Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

I see



You know, helping others is a good thing, it's actualy a great thing.



But what about you ?..What are you trying to hide ?..



You woldn't create this thread if there wasn't something wrong with you also... ^^



So before helping him, and since he is not here anyway...what is it that is bothering you ? click to expand

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Actually I had called him up to talk about what was bothering me but he seemed to have a lot on his mind... and I just lost track as we discussed his problems... and then I didn't feel like telling him.

I kind of am on the fence about a Virgo guy. And it was bugging me. It's okay now tho.

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Posted by PoseidonGodofWar
He likes you. He probably fears rejection so he puts you in bf/gf situation. That's what I do if like someone whose out of my league.



The best is to tell him off. Be honest with him. Aries people like honest and up frank people. I would advice you to distance yourself from him before it gets worse.

Well Iamram said he doesn't like me and you say he does. He just texted me... and I felt so conflicted. I will keep my distance. click to expand

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That's what Aries do. They deny love in the beginning but admit it after its too late because they have pride.

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Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

I see



You know, helping others is a good thing, it's actualy a great thing.



But what about you ?..What are you trying to hide ?..



You woldn't create this thread if there wasn't something wrong with you also... ^^



So before helping him, and since he is not here anyway...what is it that is bothering you ? click to expand

Actually I had called him up to talk about what was bothering me but he seemed to have a lot on his mind... and I just lost track as we discussed his problems... and then I didn't feel like telling him.



I kind of am on the fence about a Virgo guy. And it was bugging me. It's okay now tho. click to expand

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I actualy said he didn't like you to check you out ^^

That's what Aries do after all, hey ? ^^

So...you "maybe" have feelings for both i guess, maybe more with the Virgo guy, and probably the Virgo guy isn't (or isn't showing) much interest as the Aries guy...is that right ?

Neither of this is wrong tbh, we are all humans after all.

What you should ask yourself is...what is that you want ?...

Is this what's bothering you ?

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Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

I see



You know, helping others is a good thing, it's actualy a great thing.



But what about you ?..What are you trying to hide ?..



You woldn't create this thread if there wasn't something wrong with you also... ^^



So before helping him, and since he is not here anyway...what is it that is bothering you ? click to expand

Actually I had called him up to talk about what was bothering me but he seemed to have a lot on his mind... and I just lost track as we discussed his problems... and then I didn't feel like telling him.



I kind of am on the fence about a Virgo guy. And it was bugging me. It's okay now tho. click to expand

I actualy said he didn't like you to check you out ^^



That's what Aries do after all, hey ? ^^



So...you "maybe" have feelings for both i guess, maybe more with the Virgo guy, and probably the Virgo guy isn't (or isn't showing) much interest as the Aries guy...is that right ?



Neither of this is wrong tbh, we are all humans after all.



What you should ask yourself is...what is that you want ?...



Is this what's bothering you ? click to expand

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I don't really like the Aries friend.

Virgo wanted to marry me after 2 months of talking but he wanted to stay apart (due to our jobs) and continue a long distance marriage. Which just isn't what I want. So i ended it with the Virgo.

Virgo confused me with his random thoughts and he was pushy.

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Posted by IamTheRam
Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

I see



You know, helping others is a good thing, it's actualy a great thing.



But what about you ?..What are you trying to hide ?..



You woldn't create this thread if there wasn't something wrong with you also... ^^



So before helping him, and since he is not here anyway...what is it that is bothering you ? click to expand

Actually I had called him up to talk about what was bothering me but he seemed to have a lot on his mind... and I just lost track as we discussed his problems... and then I didn't feel like telling him.



I kind of am on the fence about a Virgo guy. And it was bugging me. It's okay now tho. click to expand

I actualy said he didn't like you to check you out ^^



That's what Aries do after all, hey ? ^^



So...you "maybe" have feelings for both i guess, maybe more with the Virgo guy, and probably the Virgo guy isn't (or isn't showing) much interest as the Aries guy...is that right ?



Neither of this is wrong tbh, we are all humans after all.



What you should ask yourself is...what is that you want ?...



Is this what's bothering you ? click to expand

I don't really like the Aries friend.



Virgo wanted to marry me after 2 months of talking but he wanted to stay apart (due to our jobs) and continue a long distance marriage. Which just isn't what I want. So i ended it with the Virgo.



Virgo confused me with his random thoughts and he was pushy.



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Well...I hope that you do find what you actualy like then.

That's the first step to getting out of *a mess*.

Good luck and Take Care !

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Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

I see



You know, helping others is a good thing, it's actualy a great thing.



But what about you ?..What are you trying to hide ?..



You woldn't create this thread if there wasn't something wrong with you also... ^^



So before helping him, and since he is not here anyway...what is it that is bothering you ? click to expand

Actually I had called him up to talk about what was bothering me but he seemed to have a lot on his mind... and I just lost track as we discussed his problems... and then I didn't feel like telling him.



I kind of am on the fence about a Virgo guy. And it was bugging me. It's okay now tho. click to expand

I actualy said he didn't like you to check you out ^^



That's what Aries do after all, hey ? ^^



So...you "maybe" have feelings for both i guess, maybe more with the Virgo guy, and probably the Virgo guy isn't (or isn't showing) much interest as the Aries guy...is that right ?



Neither of this is wrong tbh, we are all humans after all.



What you should ask yourself is...what is that you want ?...



Is this what's bothering you ? click to expand

I don't really like the Aries friend.



Virgo wanted to marry me after 2 months of talking but he wanted to stay apart (due to our jobs) and continue a long distance marriage. Which just isn't what I want. So i ended it with the Virgo.



Virgo confused me with his random thoughts and he was pushy.



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Well...I hope that you do find what you actualy like then.



That's the first step to getting out of *a mess*.



Good luck and Take Care ! click to expand

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Thank you

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Posted by IamTheRam
Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

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OP: "I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own"

OP: "No, I dont like him"

OP, you said you called the Aries to tell him what bothers you (WHAT exactly bothers you, I still dont understand) but he was busy. And you said the Virgo wanted to stay apart long distance and then you said he was pushy....

I dont know, but I have a feeling, that your problem is, that they dont take you seriously at all.... and you crave the feeling they want you.... or something?

the Aries likes to talk to you and discussing his problems, you like to talk to somebody and he makes you forget your problems.... it seems to me like win-win....so what is your problem with this Aries, again?

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Posted by Goodmorning

Posted by IamTheRam
Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

OP: "I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own"

OP: "No, I dont like him"

OP, you said you called the Aries to tell him what bothers you (WHAT exactly bothers you, I still dont understand) but he was busy. And you said the Virgo wanted to stay apart long distance and then you said he was pushy....



I dont know, but I have a feeling, that your problem is, that they dont take you seriously at all.... and you crave the feeling they want you.... or something?



the Aries likes to talk to you and discussing his problems, you like to talk to somebody and he makes you forget your problems.... it seems to me like win-win....so what is your problem with this Aries, again? click to expand

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Virgo guy was pushy because of what he did... i wasnt even discussing him. He was pushing his agenda.. as in he wanted me to make a decision of his liking... which I didn't.... He was going too fast. We just met and he was talking about marriage and a long distance one. I hope this clears up what was bothering me.

Aries guy is acting like a boyfriend... he calls me up each day.. wants to text and talk. I don't like him. I like him as a friend. And it's frustrating me. We used to talk on and off... we aren't very close.. we are just amicable. But this sudden increase in calling and texting after I told him to talk more to the girl he likes... is making me feel super weird.

I don't want to lead him on. I don't want to complicate things that is why I asked this question.

I hope this makes things clear.

As an example... I told Aries text her "Hi" and see how she responds.

Next day he texts me Hi... we don’t text. Infact he told me he wasn't on Whatsapp.

I wanted to run and throw up. I was into the Virgo Guy. But he wanted a marriage with two of us living apart. I can't imagine myself living that way. When I told him I can't do that he said we should move on. So that's the gist of it.

@Pandora101

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
If you want to check how he feels say you have a date or boyfriend or start talking about a hot guy you saw who is different to him.

I told him about Virgo guy. He was surprised to say the least. He asked me how he looked ... he even asked for his picture.. which I said no to. He asked me why I hadn't told him about it. And he said he wanted to congratulate the guy for managing to impress me via Facebook.

He said he thought I wasn't someone who would be impressed by someone I meet on Facebook.

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So he does like you. I would just keep mentioning other men. He’ll get the message eventually. click to expand

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Ok. Harsh. But yeah.. I guess that is the way.

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So he does like you. I would just keep mentioning other men. He’ll get the message eventually. click to expand

Ok. Harsh. But yeah.. I guess that is the way. click to expand

I don’t think it’s harsh. You still want to be friends. Call him friend too! If you wanted to be harsh you would say directly you don’t find him attractive and stop talking to him. click to expand

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Yeah that's true.

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Posted by IamTheRam
Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

OP: "I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own"

OP: "No, I dont like him"

OP, you said you called the Aries to tell him what bothers you (WHAT exactly bothers you, I still dont understand) but he was busy. And you said the Virgo wanted to stay apart long distance and then you said he was pushy....



I dont know, but I have a feeling, that your problem is, that they dont take you seriously at all.... and you crave the feeling they want you.... or something?



the Aries likes to talk to you and discussing his problems, you like to talk to somebody and he makes you forget your problems.... it seems to me like win-win....so what is your problem with this Aries, again? click to expand

Virgo guy was pushy because of what he did... i wasnt even discussing him. He was pushing his agenda.. as in he wanted me to make a decision of his liking... which I didn't.... He was going too fast. We just met and he was talking about marriage and a long distance one. I hope this clears up what was bothering me.



Aries guy is acting like a boyfriend... he calls me up each day.. wants to text and talk. I don't like him. I like him as a friend. And it's frustrating me. We used to talk on and off... we aren't very close.. we are just amicable. But this sudden increase in calling and texting after I told him to talk more to the girl he likes... is making me feel super weird.



I don't want to lead him on. I don't want to complicate things that is why I asked this question.



I hope this makes things clear. click to expand

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I don't get it. If you don't like the Aries guy as a bf just tell him you don't want anything with him and you also don't have time to respond to his texts all the time. Tell him you'll see him when you see him and to take care.

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Nha he doesn't like you like at all...so fear not ! It's completly normal !



As long as he doesn't create a thread on a astrology forum asking about you, you are completly safe with him hehe



But what about you ?! I am not sure if i am getting some Mother Theresa vibes from you on this one, or if you actualy feel something from him.. ;P



So, which one is it ?!

I'll be honest.



I'm a lil depressed.. I think. I just needed to talk to someone. And I do like to help people.



I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own. No I did not tell him I'm feeling down.



But no I don't like him.



Not by a long shot. I don't mind listening to his problems. click to expand

OP: "I could focus on something else other than my problems when he told me of his problems. I did mention it to him... that talking about his problems.. made me forget of my own"

OP: "No, I dont like him"

OP, you said you called the Aries to tell him what bothers you (WHAT exactly bothers you, I still dont understand) but he was busy. And you said the Virgo wanted to stay apart long distance and then you said he was pushy....



I dont know, but I have a feeling, that your problem is, that they dont take you seriously at all.... and you crave the feeling they want you.... or something?



the Aries likes to talk to you and discussing his problems, you like to talk to somebody and he makes you forget your problems.... it seems to me like win-win....so what is your problem with this Aries, again? click to expand

Virgo guy was pushy because of what he did... i wasnt even discussing him. He was pushing his agenda.. as in he wanted me to make a decision of his liking... which I didn't.... He was going too fast. We just met and he was talking about marriage and a long distance one. I hope this clears up what was bothering me.



Aries guy is acting like a boyfriend... he calls me up each day.. wants to text and talk. I don't like him. I like him as a friend. And it's frustrating me. We used to talk on and off... we aren't very close.. we are just amicable. But this sudden increase in calling and texting after I told him to talk more to the girl he likes... is making me feel super weird.



I don't want to lead him on. I don't want to complicate things that is why I asked this question.



I hope this makes things clear. click to expand

I don't get it. If you don't like the Aries guy as a bf just tell him you don't want anything with him and you also don't have time to respond to his texts all the time. Tell him you'll see him when you see him and to take care. click to expand

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He's a friend.

Posted by PoseidonGodofWar
He likes you. He probably fears rejection so he puts you in bf/gf situation. That's what I do if like someone whose out of my league.



The best is to tell him off. Be honest with him. Aries people like honest and up frank people. I would advice you to distance yourself from him before it gets worse.

I had an Aries guy do that to me as well.

I always thought it was wierd that he would always mention other girls and going on dates with them, while he was "out" with me.

It was a turn off but this makes sense.

Posted by tino
@Goodmorning

Hi, that IamTheRam guy's thoughts are so interesting to read, he's energetic even in his texts



Then again, if he's paying a lot of attention to you means he doesn't like you, then what it is when he does not pay any attention. You see, it doesn't make sense to see one's reaction that is so apparent and someone told you he didn't like you so he did all of those things haha.



Anyway, when I first met my bf Aries he was also like that. In my case I have feelings for him, so it's easier just to probably respond all the attention. But in your case, in order to deny someone with such ego/spirit of the chase/fire...you need to be the water to cool those off. The 'creating distance' tactic is great, but it is not thorough since you can get him understand incorrectly that you're being hard-to-get. Telling him would piss him off probably, or it may even breaks your friendship. But either way, in a friendship if someone changes it will be hard to keep intact the friendship you two had.



Keeping the friendship: Tell him + Distant yourself + Contact once in a while with nice and listening attitude

Don't care about the friendship cause probably it won't be there after this incident: Tell him + Cut the connection

Thank you. I've distanced him. Haven't texted or taken his call. He had called but I didnt pick up. I think I'll tell him I'm talking to someone and see.