@diamonddgemm
8 YearsGemini
Ex Aries Man Won’t Leave Me Alone
Understanding an Aries Man Who Won't Leave You Alone
An Aries man may pursue you out of attraction or a desire for control, especially if he is unsure about his feelings or seeking validation. His behavior can be driven by ego and impulsiveness. Setting clear boundaries and communicating your feelings can help manage his persistence and protect your peace.
No, I didn’t because I thought that after our last fight he was done texting me. He told me to leave him alone, so. And we blocked each other.I just don’t understand why he texted me again, he is damn immature. Thanks for the message though 🙂
Posted by bmoon8
Have you asked or told him to leave you alone?You also have the ability to block him if you don't wish to be contacted by him.
What's his venus?
Just shout at him
*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
Probably he thinks so I have no idea. I am not following him, he knew from september that I was applying to study there and that Uni was one of my options. I had no clue his gf went to school there too. Like I was so excited to move there and now I am even unsure which Uni to pick because I don’t want to see them everyday. He is the one looking at all my social media stories. And he was the one who called me when I didn’t reply to his messages. So I don’t understand his attitude, he has a gf, told me to leave him alone then texted me? I know I’m unforgettable but still 😂So no, I’m not following him, I’m actually sort of seeing another guy now
Posted by Smidge
Maybe he thinks you're following him.
y we’re both immature, but given his previous attitude towards me I feel he is being more than I am. Our story is long and complicated anyway. I do agree with you, if it were any other ex I would just ignore him, but with this guy is different and I’m pissed off at myself for caring in a way
Posted by diamonddgemm
No, I didn’t because I thought that after our last fight he was done texting me. He told me to leave him alone, so. And we blocked each other.I just don’t understand why he texted me again, he is damn immature. Thanks for the message though 🙂Posted by bmoon8
Have you asked or told him to leave you alone?You also have the ability to block him if you don't wish to be contacted by him.
He's immature for texting you?
I wouldn't let this sort of thing ruffle my feathers... An ex texting me. I would just keep it moving.
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He has Venus in Pisces, Moon in Libra and Mars in Leo. And his rising is in Cancer I think
Posted by DMV
What's his venus?
Haha this is funny, I should have answered his phone call and said that to him.
Well Yeah, last time he offended me because of pure insecurity or whatever and we blocked each other. I thought he was mad but out of nowhere he texted me. I’m not that type to keep people blocked for life, but God he has a gf, I get she is a scorpio and he needs attention, but still, don’t text your ex. To be honest I sort of enjoy his attention because I knew he would come back, since he always does it. But the fact that he has a gf and texts me makes me disgusted. Like leave me alone, text me when you break up.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
Sure...Like that works with Aries.
Makes them go harder
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
Sure...Like that works with Aries.
Makes them go harder
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It works fine
I ignore harder.....been there, done that a few times ......strong female steely will 🙂
Nobody can make you converse or engage with anyone
It's a choice
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Smidge
Maybe he thinks you're following him.LOL @ the add that appeared below your post
That's me.
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Lol I'm talking about the sheep
Posted by diamonddgemm
Haha this is funny, I should have answered his phone call and said that to him.Well Yeah, last time he offended me because of pure insecurity or whatever and we blocked each other. I thought he was mad but out of nowhere he texted me. I’m not that type to keep people blocked for life, but God he has a gf, I get she is a scorpio and he needs attention, but still, don’t text your ex. To be honest I sort of enjoy his attention because I knew he would come back, since he always does it. But the fact that he has a gf and texts me makes me disgusted. Like leave me alone, text me when you break up.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
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Let go of the game
He has a gf....a SCORPIO one......
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by Smidge
Maybe he thinks you're following him.LOL @ the add that appeared below your post
That's me.
Lol I'm talking about the sheep
So am I
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Lol😁😅😅
Are you a Gemini sun, OP?
im out on it last time we spoke, when he broke up with his girlfriend. He didn’t tell me they got back together and he started suggesting us having sex. So when I found out and called him out on his bs, he put the blame on me, saying I was the one insisting and to leave him alone when he contacted me in the first place. So calling him out on it doesn’t work, unless I want to be humiliated again. He is really insecure as a guy tbh.
Posted by diamonddgemm
Probably he thinks so I have no idea. I am not following him, he knew from september that I was applying to study there and that Uni was one of my options. I had no clue his gf went to school there too. Like I was so excited to move there and now I am even unsure which Uni to pick because I don’t want to see them everyday. He is the one looking at all my social media stories. And he was the one who called me when I didn’t reply to his messages. So I don’t understand his attitude, he has a gf, told me to leave him alone then texted me? I know I’m unforgettable but still 😂So no, I’m not following him, I’m actually sort of seeing another guy nowPosted by Smidge
Maybe he thinks you're following him.Call him out on it.
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a scorpio, but I’d beat her up anytime at attitude. She already cheated on him when they were in a long distance relationship and he took her back and moved to her country. He even enrolled to the Uni there for her. And she is way more controlling than he is and she is really jealous as well. He is the one coming back to me, it’s not my fault she cannot keep him on a leash. ( ok that sounded weird ) I mean since he loves her so much I don’t understand why is he texting me and I’m not the type to leave people on seen because I find it really rude. Just how I work. He just needs attention and comes to me for it.
Posted by diamonddgemm
Haha this is funny, I should have answered his phone call and said that to him.Well Yeah, last time he offended me because of pure insecurity or whatever and we blocked each other. I thought he was mad but out of nowhere he texted me. I’m not that type to keep people blocked for life, but God he has a gf, I get she is a scorpio and he needs attention, but still, don’t text your ex. To be honest I sort of enjoy his attention because I knew he would come back, since he always does it. But the fact that he has a gf and texts me makes me disgusted. Like leave me alone, text me when you break up.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
Let go of the game
He has a gf....a SCORPIO one......
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Yes, I’m a gemini sun, gemini moon, gemini mercury, taurus venus, virgo mars and sagittarius rising 😁
Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Gemini sun, OP?
Posted by diamonddgemm
She might be a scorpio, but I’d beat her up anytime at attitude. She already cheated on him when they were in a long distance relationship and he took her back and moved to her country. He even enrolled to the Uni there for her. And she is way more controlling than he is and she is really jealous as well. He is the one coming back to me, it’s not my fault she cannot keep him on a leash. ( ok that sounded weird ) I mean since he loves her so much I don’t understand why is he texting me and I’m not the type to leave people on seen because I find it really rude. Just how I work. He just needs attention and comes to me for it.Posted by diamonddgemm
Haha this is funny, I should have answered his phone call and said that to him.Well Yeah, last time he offended me because of pure insecurity or whatever and we blocked each other. I thought he was mad but out of nowhere he texted me. I’m not that type to keep people blocked for life, but God he has a gf, I get she is a scorpio and he needs attention, but still, don’t text your ex. To be honest I sort of enjoy his attention because I knew he would come back, since he always does it. But the fact that he has a gf and texts me makes me disgusted. Like leave me alone, text me when you break up.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
Let go of the game
He has a gf....a SCORPIO one......
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But he is an ex, so none of that is relevant now .....what happens between them, is their business
t I don’t think so. I mean we sort of dated for around 3 years. And his girlfriend doesn’t allow him. And he was always bragging about having a gf. So I don’t think he wants to be my friend or my boyfriend or anything related now. He just misses me because I gave him attention all the time and I put up with his bs which probably his girlfriend doesn’t do. But anyway, thank you for your opinion. I feel that I should talk to him about how long is he going to be there for, in order to decide where I’m going to Uni. What do you think?I just don’t want to choose another Uni just because he lives there and destroy my career, but I don’t want to see them together everyday either.
Posted by diamonddgemm
Well in a way we’re both immature, but given his previous attitude towards me I feel he is being more than I am. Our story is long and complicated anyway. I do agree with you, if it were any other ex I would just ignore him, but with this guy is different and I’m pissed off at myself for caring in a wayPosted by diamonddgemm
No, I didn’t because I thought that after our last fight he was done texting me. He told me to leave him alone, so. And we blocked each other.I just don’t understand why he texted me again, he is damn immature. Thanks for the message though 🙂Posted by bmoon8
Have you asked or told him to leave you alone?You also have the ability to block him if you don't wish to be contacted by him.
He's immature for texting you?
I wouldn't let this sort of thing ruffle my feathers... An ex texting me. I would just keep it moving.
Gotcha!
I think he may have been contacting you on "friendly" or "platonic" terms, but if it upsets you.. tell him to leave you alone and that you don't wish to be contacted by him.
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Posted by diamonddgemm
Yes, I’m a gemini sun, gemini moon, gemini mercury, taurus venus, virgo mars and sagittarius rising 😁Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Gemini sun, OP?click to expand
Congrats ! 😋
with what you are saying, I just have zero respect for girls who cheat on their boyfriends.And also for guys who get blinded by love 😇😂 Anyway, thank you
Posted by diamonddgemm
She might be a scorpio, but I’d beat her up anytime at attitude. She already cheated on him when they were in a long distance relationship and he took her back and moved to her country. He even enrolled to the Uni there for her. And she is way more controlling than he is and she is really jealous as well. He is the one coming back to me, it’s not my fault she cannot keep him on a leash. ( ok that sounded weird ) I mean since he loves her so much I don’t understand why is he texting me and I’m not the type to leave people on seen because I find it really rude. Just how I work. He just needs attention and comes to me for it.Posted by diamonddgemm
Haha this is funny, I should have answered his phone call and said that to him.Well Yeah, last time he offended me because of pure insecurity or whatever and we blocked each other. I thought he was mad but out of nowhere he texted me. I’m not that type to keep people blocked for life, but God he has a gf, I get she is a scorpio and he needs attention, but still, don’t text your ex. To be honest I sort of enjoy his attention because I knew he would come back, since he always does it. But the fact that he has a gf and texts me makes me disgusted. Like leave me alone, text me when you break up.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him*LEAVE ME ALONE*
Some signs, errrrmm I mean people are so thick skinned and never listen they need shouting at, blocked etc
Does a part of you enjoy this ?
Let go of the game
He has a gf....a SCORPIO one......
But he is an ex, so none of that is relevant now .....what happens between them, is their business
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hat does it mean ? Thanks I guess 😂🤪
Posted by diamonddgemm
Yes, I’m a gemini sun, gemini moon, gemini mercury, taurus venus, virgo mars and sagittarius rising 😁Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Gemini sun, OP?Congrats ! 😋
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Posted by diamonddgemm
Haha why ? What does it mean ? Thanks I guess 😂🤪Posted by diamonddgemm
Yes, I’m a gemini sun, gemini moon, gemini mercury, taurus venus, virgo mars and sagittarius rising 😁Posted by MyStarsShine
Are you a Gemini sun, OP?Congrats ! 😋
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You are welcome
😀
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He has to be everywhere I go! He just moved with his gf to the country and town where I might be going to Uni. He found out and out of nowhere texted me. Like last time he called me a hoe and got mad at me, and now he pretended to be friendly. Like whaaaat is up with this guy ?
I posted several times about my relationship with this ex aries man asking for advice and so on under the nickname of diamondgemini.
So yes, basically he moved with his girlfriend to another country in another city. Exactly where I got an offer to go to Uni. And that Uni is my 2nd choice if I don’t get into my 1st. I was almost over him and then bam. He finds out and he texts me and I take my time to text him back. I was debating whether I should or not, but I’m not that rude. And the convo goes like this:
Him: What?!?
Me: ?
Him: Are you moving to X for Uni?
Me: Maybe
Him: Shares location
30 minutes after
Him: That’s hilarious
Me: Why? Are u visiting ?
Him: I moved to X 2 weeks ago
Me: Cool why
And then he leaves me on seen. Like I swear I do not understand why he had to come back into my life and text me again. Like ok come back when you’re single not when you have a gf because you’re bored and not getting enough attention. I just don’t understand him at all. And having to live in the same town with him for 3 years is just unbearable. The town is small and we would be seeing each other everywhere. I don’t know whether this is faith or bad luck.
So, anyone can explain what is going on in his mind? Thanks
PS: sorry for the long message