@helenaqua
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Aries man texting every day but not asking me out...
Why an Aries Man Texts Often but Doesn't Ask You Out
An Aries man who texts regularly but delays asking you out may be interested but cautious. He might need more time to feel comfortable or is unsure about commitment. Consistent communication indicates interest, but his actions suggest he is still deciding. Patience and observing his behavior can help determine his true intentions.
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Ughhh I know, but I need to find out what course of action I'll be taking, I hate not having a plan >.
The process of getting into a relationship is the same as going on a trip... don’t just focus on the destination, enjoy the journey and you will get to where you are going 😉
I’m not sure on this. Could be an age thing? but I doubt you are one of many. You think he’s messaging other women the same amount as you?
He told you that he is interested but that he needs time to feel comfortable. He is a Taurus venus. He will take his time. Be patient and believe him.
Posted by pisceswoman123
He told you that he is interested but that he needs time to feel comfortable. He is a Taurus venus. He will take his time. Be patient and believe him.
At least op is not dealing with a Cancer Venus ... that’s for pros only 😂
Taurus venus is slowwwwwwww.
Pack a snack this could take a minute
But also yes, Taurus are known to have options or harems.
Go with your gut
Posted by pisceswoman123
He told you that he is interested but that he needs time to feel comfortable. He is a Taurus venus. He will take his time. Be patient and believe him.At least op is not dealing with a Cancer Venus ... that’s for pros only 😂 click to expand
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You see? She has it easy. 😄
I’ve just had the frigin opposite of this. Like she was Taurus. So when she was slowing down, I slowed down, but then I found it her Venus is in Aries, so I should have been pushing for sex more? And maybe she was getting bored. It’s just a nightmare to understand. At least you know his Venus sign now.
Posted by AriesJo
I’m not sure on this. Could be an age thing? but I doubt you are one of many. You think he’s messaging other women the same amount as you?
Our age difference is just one year, so I don't think it has anything to do with that... I have no reason to think that he is after other women too, it's just that he's sooooo busy all the time! How can you not have 2 free hours in 2 weeks...?
Posted by AriesJo
I’ve just had the frigin opposite of this. Like she was Taurus. So when she was slowing down, I slowed down, but then I found it her Venus is in Aries, so I should have been pushing for sex more? And maybe she was getting bored. It’s just a nightmare to understand. At least you know his Venus sign now.
Weird Venus placements are going to be the end of us :p It is irrational to expect someone to behave like that or to even understand it!
So I guess I have to let it go slooooow until his Aries Sun decides to do something about it...
I'm glad I found this! My Aries guy has Virgo moon, Scorpio rising and Taurus Venus...I just told him I loved him and he said it back, but he's changed! Like taken a step back kinda. But it's cool if we have a different approach, I'll just mirror from now on instead of starting any games.
Posted by Sola
I'm glad I found this! My Aries guy has Virgo moon, Scorpio rising and Taurus Venus...I just told him I loved him and he said it back, but he's changed! Like taken a step back kinda. But it's cool if we have a different approach, I'll just mirror from now on instead of starting any games.
How long have you guys been together?
2 months 🙂
Posted by Sola
2 months
That’s kinda quick to say the love word... maybe he just said it because you did? It takes me at least 4-5 months
There's no time frame that's the same for everyone.
Hey guys! I have some news.
We went out once more for a movie and a drink... It was nice but the fact that nothing more physical happened between us is so disappointing! Not even holding hands or something!
And now it's the first day since we started talking that he didn't text me... T_T
Posted by helenaqua
Hey guys! I have some news.We went out once more for a movie and a drink... It was nice but the fact that nothing more physical happened between us is so disappointing! Not even holding hands or something!
And now it's the first day since we started talking that he didn't text me... T_T
Did you try to make a move?
Posted by helenaqua
Hey guys! I have some news.We went out once more for a movie and a drink... It was nice but the fact that nothing more physical happened between us is so disappointing! Not even holding hands or something!
And now it's the first day since we started talking that he didn't text me... T_T
Did you try to make a move? click to expand
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No I didn't make a move... I feel like I shouldn't chase... He doesn't make me feel like he's interested enough 😢
I met him on the street today, he said we should go out, but he is only able to next Tuesday... We live in the same city, no student is that busy!
Posted by helenaqua
Hey guys! I have some news.We went out once more for a movie and a drink... It was nice but the fact that nothing more physical happened between us is so disappointing! Not even holding hands or something!
And now it's the first day since we started talking that he didn't text me... T_T
Did you try to make a move? click to expand
No I didn't make a move... I feel like I shouldn't chase... He doesn't make me feel like he's interested enough
I met him on the street today, he said we should go out, but he is only able to next Tuesday... We live in the same city, no student is that busy! click to expand
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Making a move to show him you are interested is not chasing... some guys respond better if you make the first move. You can kinda nudge him playfully, find a way to touch him and see how he responds.
Posted by helenaqua
Hey guys! I have some news.We went out once more for a movie and a drink... It was nice but the fact that nothing more physical happened between us is so disappointing! Not even holding hands or something!
And now it's the first day since we started talking that he didn't text me... T_T
Did you try to make a move? click to expand
No I didn't make a move... I feel like I shouldn't chase... He doesn't make me feel like he's interested enough
I met him on the street today, he said we should go out, but he is only able to next Tuesday... We live in the same city, no student is that busy! click to expand
Making a move to show him you are interested is not chasing... some guys respond better if you make the first move. You can kinda nudge him playfully, find a way to touch him and see how he responds. click to expand
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Thank you! I am going to try that!
I'll keep you posted!
Can I just add that my Aries (triple: sun, moon and merc) has a Taurus Venus and he is not that slow :-) But they do need to feel confident in the relationship and how they feel.
Go with your gut. Aries say it how it is so it's up to you to believe him or not.
Posted by helenaqua
Hey guys! I have some news.We went out once more for a movie and a drink... It was nice but the fact that nothing more physical happened between us is so disappointing! Not even holding hands or something!
And now it's the first day since we started talking that he didn't text me... T_T
Did you try to make a move? click to expand
No I didn't make a move... I feel like I shouldn't chase... He doesn't make me feel like he's interested enough
I met him on the street today, he said we should go out, but he is only able to next Tuesday... We live in the same city, no student is that busy! click to expand
Making a move to show him you are interested is not chasing... some guys respond better if you make the first move. You can kinda nudge him playfully, find a way to touch him and see how he responds. click to expand
Thank you! I am going to try that!
I'll keep you posted! click to expand
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I look forward to the update 👍
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Not sure if I commented here. It's all okies. We are perfectionists, so he waits until perfect time to make sure everything is perfect. I'm very slow and take my time in things like that. He will eventually, have some patience.
I hope it is as you say it... That would be quite romantic actually ^_^
You need to look at his Mars.....Venus is about what a man likes in a woman not particularly how quickly he moves, or not
Posted by MyStarsShine
You need to look at his Mars.....Venus is about what a man likes in a woman not particularly how quickly he moves, or not
His Mars is in Aries...
Posted by Sola
2 months
2 months? Your OP says you've been talking to him for 3 weeks?
What happened to the Virgo guy?
Posted by MyStarsShine
What happened to the Virgo guy?
He told me he doesn't want to get romantically involved and never messaged me again
Posted by MyStarsShine
What happened to the Virgo guy?He told me he doesn't want to get romantically involved and never messaged me again click to expand
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And how long have you been seeing the Aries?
Almost a month
His consistent interest makes me start to trust him somehow
Posted by helenaqua
Almost a monthHis consistent interest makes me start to trust him somehow
So who have you been seeing for two months?🤔
Posted by helenaqua
Almost a monthHis consistent interest makes me start to trust him somehow
So who have you been seeing for two months?🤔 click to expand
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That's what I had written in my post about the Virgo guy, but that was... a month ago 😛 I haven't spoken to Virgo guy since
Posted by helenaqua
Almost a monthHis consistent interest makes me start to trust him somehow
So who have you been seeing for two months?🤔 click to expand
That's what I had written in my post about the Virgo guy, but that was... a month ago I haven't spoken to Virgo guy since click to expand
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Okay thanks
I've had rships with both Virgo and Aries men
I am having the same issue. I was the one who suggested going out for a date and then he cancelled on me. My Aries works two jobs so I think that is the problem, but he NEVER texts me. We can go a couple days without texting. I have a sure feeling he is either using me as a lifeboat or just talking to many other girls and giving them more attention. Maybe play hard to get? But then again this is my first time dealing with an Aries so I really don't know. :/
Aries men are all over you like a rash if they want you
If they don't, they aint
Quite simple creatures
Posted by helenaqua
Hello everyone! I have been talking to this Aries guy for three weeks, I started talking to him but we have been talking every day, on some days he starts the conversation and on others I do. He always asks how I am. We have been on two dates, a week apart, and we were supposed to go out this weekend too (a week later after last date) but he cancelled, saying he had to study. However, he mentions sometimes when he is out with friends or at concerts and stuff, so he's not studying all day. He has told me he's interested in me and that he likes me, but that he needs time to feel comfortable, which is also a bit evident by his behavior. So, is he stringing me along? His music school is 10 min from my place and he knows it. Shouldn't he be trying to see me more? I fear I am just an option of the many. There is chemistry and intellectual connection and a bit of humor.He has Aries Sun, Leo Moon, Taurus Venus, I have Aqua Sun and Taurus Moon
I would appreciate any opinions, I don't know what to think!
Ask him what he wants. click to expand
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If I get to see him again 😛 we do need to have that talk though
Posted by tiziani
Text messages are the most boring thing ever. Switch it up.
Apart from dates and texts, what else is there...? Texts are growing a bit boring indeed
Posted by AriesJo
I’m not sure on this. Could be an age thing? but I doubt you are one of many. You think he’s messaging other women the same amount as you?Our age difference is just one year, so I don't think it has anything to do with that... I have no reason to think that he is after other women too, it's just that he's sooooo busy all the time! How can you not have 2 free hours in 2 weeks...? click to expand
Does he work full time and go to school? If so, both of those things take up a lot of his time. click to expand
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His school is demanding and he is very busy at this time, but he is otherwise active on social media, how can that be justified?
Posted by tiziani
Text messages are the most boring thing ever. Switch it up.Apart from dates and texts, what else is there...? Texts are growing a bit boring indeed click to expand
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Has he still not tried to hold your hand or kiss you yet Helen?
Posted by tiziani
Text messages are the most boring thing ever. Switch it up.Apart from dates and texts, what else is there...? Texts are growing a bit boring indeed click to expand
Has he still not tried to hold your hand or kiss you yet Helen? click to expand
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No, neither T_T just a hug or a formal kiss on the cheek when we meet and part
Posted by tiziani
Text messages are the most boring thing ever. Switch it up.Apart from dates and texts, what else is there...? Texts are growing a bit boring indeed click to expand
Has he still not tried to hold your hand or kiss you yet Helen? click to expand
No, neither T_T just a hug or a formal kiss on the cheek when we meet and part click to expand
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He sees you as just a friend I'd say?
Posted by tiziani
Text messages are the most boring thing ever. Switch it up.Apart from dates and texts, what else is there...? Texts are growing a bit boring indeed click to expand
Has he still not tried to hold your hand or kiss you yet Helen? click to expand
No, neither T_T just a hug or a formal kiss on the cheek when we meet and part click to expand
He sees you as just a friend I'd say? click to expand
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But he said from the second date that he likes me! Then again, he might have changed his mind over the 2 weeks since then
He also reads my messages and replies after half an hour or even hours... Is it just me who replies as soon as I read the message? Isn't that what's polite to do?
I think it’s friends. Like even if he doesn’t realise it. I’ve been out with women, kissed then and stuff, wanted more but the connection isn’t there and it doesn’t progress. I may like that person but to move it up a level would be really forced. So eventually you realise it is just friends. Perhaps not out of choice, but it’s just the way it is. I think it could come down to your body language or not all Aries move fast, if he’s young it sometimes takes an Aries a while to learn as they only really notice direct movements and flirting is more subtle, If you are being subtle he might not pick up on it.
I think cinema and stuff is a little boring. You guys go out where there’s alcohol involved? Get wasted on tequilas?
Hmmz that’s what I meant about the age thing btw. I didn’t mean age difference. I mean if he’s in school, his focus will be building a future for himself, Aries are selfish and rightly so. The nicest thing you can do is actually let him do that without you. My twenties were full of women holding me back. We’ve all heard so much about the “nice guy” but there is such a thing as the “nice girl”... what an Aries guy wants, whether he realises it or not, is the opposite of the “nice girl” ... of course I may “like” them, but the moment my brain is thinking whether they are worth the commitment, it’s always going to be a no. Maybe I’m just speaking from my own point of view, but probably not, you see many women wanting the nice guy? Unless you are not afraid, he will not want to be with you. So I know people are saying give it time (ps are these Aries saying this, or just randoms?) ...but I think something needs to change now or you will get friend-zoned like all the “nice guys” out there.
Posted by tiziani
Text messages are the most boring thing ever. Switch it up.Apart from dates and texts, what else is there...? Texts are growing a bit boring indeed click to expand
Has he still not tried to hold your hand or kiss you yet Helen? click to expand
No, neither T_T just a hug or a formal kiss on the cheek when we meet and part click to expand
He sees you as just a friend I'd say? click to expand
But he said from the second date that he likes me! Then again, he might have changed his mind over the 2 weeks since then
He also reads my messages and replies after half an hour or even hours... Is it just me who replies as soon as I read the message? Isn't that what's polite to do? click to expandclick to expand
So you don't think he's having sex with someone else?
Posted by AriesJo
Hmmz that’s what I meant about the age thing btw. I didn’t mean age difference. I mean if he’s in school, his focus will be building a future for himself, Aries are selfish and rightly so. The nicest thing you can do is actually let him do that without you. My twenties were full of women holding me back. We’ve all heard so much about the “nice guy” but there is such a thing as the “nice girl”... what an Aries guy wants, whether he realises it or not, is the opposite of the “nice girl” ... of course I may “like” them, but the moment my brain is thinking whether they are worth the commitment, it’s always going to be a no. Maybe I’m just speaking from my own point of view, but probably not, you see many women wanting the nice guy? Unless you are not afraid, he will not want to be with you. So I know people are saying give it time (ps are these Aries saying this, or just randoms?) ...but I think something needs to change now or you will get friend-zoned like all the “nice guys” out there.
That depressed me a little. Why keep talking to me over a month, if being with me is so boring and irrelevant with his life...? He's an Aries, he should have grown impatient and ghosted me or said it upfront.
I don't like playing with people's feelings. Even if that is required to keep him interested
Posted by tiziani
Text messages are the most boring thing ever. Switch it up.Apart from dates and texts, what else is there...? Texts are growing a bit boring indeed click to expand
Has he still not tried to hold your hand or kiss you yet Helen? click to expand
No, neither T_T just a hug or a formal kiss on the cheek when we meet and part click to expand
He sees you as just a friend I'd say? click to expand
But he said from the second date that he likes me! Then again, he might have changed his mind over the 2 weeks since then
He also reads my messages and replies after half an hour or even hours... Is it just me who replies as soon as I read the message? Isn't that what's polite to do? click to expandSo you don't think he's having sex with someone else? click to expand
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I haven't found out anything that could indicate that, besides him not remembering exactly what he has and hasn't mentioned to me over previous dates.
Aries aren’t rude, they will reply. If you have feelings, it’s up to you to manage those feelings, not him. So he isn’t playing with your feelings.
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Hello everyone! I have been talking to this Aries guy for three weeks, I started talking to him but we have been talking every day, on some days he starts the conversation and on others I do. He always asks how I am. We have been on two dates, a week apart, and we were supposed to go out this weekend too (a week later after last date) but he cancelled, saying he had to study. However, he mentions sometimes when he is out with friends or at concerts and stuff, so he's not studying all day. He has told me he's interested in me and that he likes me, but that he needs time to feel comfortable, which is also a bit evident by his behavior. So, is he stringing me along? His music school is 10 min from my place and he knows it. Shouldn't he be trying to see me more? I fear I am just an option of the many. There is chemistry and intellectual connection and a bit of humor.
He has Aries Sun, Leo Moon, Taurus Venus, I have Aqua Sun and Taurus Moon
I would appreciate any opinions, I don't know what to think!